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Seniors are the largest grow ing population in Mecklenburg County, and JFS is committed to responding to the growing num bers of seniors living longer and experiencing a need for higher levels of support. Thanks to in creases in grants from both the Carolina Foundation for Jewish Seniors and Mecklenburg Coun ty, JFS is increasing staffing for senior case management ser vices in both the Jewish commu nity and the greater community throughout Mecklenburg Coun ty. This will allow us not only to continue providing existing vital support to seniors and their fam ilies, but also to address addi tional needs in new ways, such as through the unique wellness workshops we now offer. After being extremely pleased with the work JFS accomplished through a grant to work with Ho locaust survivors, Jewish Feder ation of North America recent ly awarded JFS with a grant to support these workshops. These “Person-Centered Trauma-In formed” programs, offered at the Levine Jewish Community Center and at the Eastway Rec reation Center, reach a diverse group of seniors. Using alterna tive therapeutic techniques such as mindful breathing, creative arts, and music and movement, our trained facilitators have been able to address grief, loss, and trauma while encouraging the development of various skills to cope with stress. The additional staffing will also ensure JFS can continue to provide the broad support for se

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and Expansion of JFS Senior Engagement Services (Continued on page 8) Evan Wisotsky and U16 Boys’ Junior Basketball win gold at Maccabiah Games (Continued on page 3) Look inside for special insert, Celebrating High Holidays in Charlotte , including Community Calendar and From the Bimah: High Holiday Messages From Charlotte’s Senior Rabbis.

Sheryl Gerrard, JFS Senior En gagement Manager Rosh Hashanah is a time for looking forward — for re imagining ourselves and seek ing ways to build upon what we have and who we are for the future. At Jewish Family Services (JFS), not only do we support our clients in making positive changes, but also we are always looking for ways to improve how we can support our community. In the Senior Engagement Department, this commitment to improvement is reflected by the recent growth in both the type and number of senior services available and an increase in staff to support those services.

Evan Wisotsky, a rising sopho more at Providence High School, went with the hopes of winning a gold medal. He got that and more. “The greatest part of the experience was creating a broth erhood with my teammates and coaches,” he said, noting that it happened more quickly than he expected. “Even though we were only there for three weeks, we got close quickly, and I would con sider my teammates as close as family,” said Sophie Levine, a rising 11th grader at Providence Day School, who won gold on the U18 Women’s Basketball team. “The greatest aspect of my participation was how incredible it was to meet other Jewish peo ple from all over the world and that knowing everyone on the court was Jewish.” Arthur Lavitt, who received his gold medal from former Pres ident and Prime Minister Shimon Peres at the Maccabiah nearly 30 years ago when he competed in golf, traveled to Israel to watch his son, Brandon, compete in 3x3 basketball in July. Brandon, a rising freshman, who will be playing basketball at Susque hanna University in Pennsyl vania, echoed the sentiments of Wisotsky and Levine. “The greatest aspect about my partici pation was the number of friends for life I made. I now have at least 20 friends around the coun try I will keep in touch with,” he said. Arthur, his dad, still keeps in touch with the friends he made decades ago. The camaraderie and good will extended beyond the com petitions. “Not only were my teammates fun guys whom I will keep in touch with for the rest of my life, but the people of Israel were welcoming to all the partic ipants of the games, regardless of where they were from,” said Seth Rabinowitz, a recent graduate of the University of South Carolina who won a bronze in the men’s 4x400 relay. “Now I want to go back again. I liked how I felt when I was there. I felt a sense of Thebelonging.”firstMaccabiah in 1932 had 390 Jewish athletes from 18 countries competing in 16 dis ciplines. The United States had the smallest delegation, with only 10 participants. This year, more than 10,000 Jewish athletes from 62 countries competed in 38 disciplines in the 21st Mac cabiah Games. The United States had the largest visiting delegation with athletes ranging in age from 14 to 84. Of the 2,299 medals awarded, more than half — 1,468 — went to Israelis. Americans won the second most medals with 274 — 87 gold, 109 silver, and 78 bronze. “Even though I won a gold medal, it still wasn’t the top thing that happened,” said Jordan Schilit, 31, who won the Open 10K road race, which was run at night through the streets of Jeru salem. “I thought it was the most amazing thing to be able to pro pose to someone who is passion

By Carrie Rabinowitz Enduring and deep friend ships, great stories, a fiancée, and lots of medals were just a few of the things nine Charlotte-area competitors brought home from their three-week trip to Israel in July. They were part of the dele gation of 1,300 athletes from the United States that competed in the 21st Maccabiah Games.

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It’s no wonder that the most we can muster on January 1 is a review of the year’s top 40 hits, a list of resolutions, a dropping ball at midnight, and, if we’re lucky, a kiss. Elul, one of the four new years of Judaism, takes a dif ferent approach. It is an oppor tunity to search our hearts. “As we think about the promise of a new year, Elul is a time to take stock of the last year and our lives in general: Who am I? Where am I in my life? What were my greatest successes and failures during the last year? Am I pleased with the direction of my life? What are my regrets, and what do I wish to change? Am I facing difficult life chal lenges, and how am I coping with them? What have been meaningful experiences this past year, and what has brought me joy? What are my failings, and how do I wish to grow as a human being in the coming year? This process of self-ex ploration and soul-searching is called Heshbon HaNefesh “an accounting of the soul.” (Rabbi Aaron M. Lever) To make this accounting, I incorporate rituals. Some have been prescribed for me from the Jewish tradition, others I’ve created for myself. One of the most important is the time I set aside in the mornings for prayer, meditation, and journaling. I sometimes look through my Elul journal from the prior year hoping, I suppose, to discover how “far I’ve come” in the past year. More often, I am struck by how much seems to have re mained the same! On the surface it seems I’m complaining about the same things, still afraid of the same things, and still trying to overcome the same failings. Of course it isn’t so. That’s the linear perspective I reject. The beauty of Elul is that it encourages me to look deeper. With each prayer and each blast of the shofar, I see more clearly how I am changed from the year before. I see the path before me and I prepare myself for another season of “awe.” I invite you to make the most out of this special time in the month of Elul. Though Rosh Hashanah doesn’t begin until the last week of September, we decided that the September issue of The Charlotte Jewish News would be our special High Hol iday edition. This is an issue not only to support you in cele brating the holidays, but also in preparation. The High Holiday insert provides information on the many ways in which you can engage with community during these holidays, and senior rab bis share their High Holiday messages with the “From the Bimah.” We hope you will pull it out and save it when you are done, and use it to find ways to create meaningful and joyful holidays for you and your loved ones. L’Shanah Tovah U’Metukah — A sweet and happy new year! Shira

I tend to see these moments of transition as an unfolding more than a moving forward — not a march with time, but a waltz with awakening. It is not surprising, then, that I favor the spiritual depth offered by Rosh Hashanah over the frequently, though not always, superficial focus on the secular new year. I prefer the sound of a shofar blast that breaks open my heart to the clink of champagne glasses at midnight. Rosh Hashanah has some thing else that the secular new year doesn’t have. It has Elul, the month preceding the High Holidays. This year, Elul begins on August 28. We often crash into January 1 after being hurled in that di rection through a hectic month of busyness. Even if we’re not directly taking part in the major ity culture’s holiday, it seems we can’t avoid the frenzy. Crowds, music, lights, company parties, and vacations are everywhere. And if we’re in a family of mixed faiths, we may be making gingerbread houses and latkes at the same time. Not necessarily the recipe for a month of taking personal inventory.

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I am big on rituals, especial ly those rituals that support the transition from one state of be ing to the next. Judaism is filled with these rituals, which is a large part of what drew me to the religion. I love those practices that take my knee-jerk thoughts of past regrets and future fears and invite them to slow down and proceed with greater mind fulness.IfI’m honest, as frequently as I live in those dueling states of regret and fear, each competing for my attention, I need rituals on a regular basis, rituals that will meet me where I am, invite me to the present, and escort me into a kinder future. Fortunately, the calendar offers no shortage of opportunities for these rituals. We begin, of course, with the day of our birth, and we celebrate (or dread) every year thereafter with a variety of rit uals, from blowing out candles to gift giving. We have oppor tunities with the new moons, when the sun and moon come into alignment — a time asso ciated with positive change. We have Shabbat rituals and Havdalah rituals. And we have opportunities daily — morning rituals to transition into the day, and evening rituals to return us back to a time of rest. One of the most obvious op portunities to reflect and set in tentions as part of a transition is at the beginning of a new year. We have, of course, our secular new year on January 1, and then we have the Jewish new year — Rosh Hashanah. (Actually, The Mishnah speaks of four different new years throughout the year, but most modern Jews know Rosh Hashanah as, literally, the “head of the year.”) It might at first appear as if these moments of “out with the old, in with the new” are linear. After all, the calendar flips and a number is increased by one — the year, our age. From that lin ear perspective, we tend to only look in two directions — behind us and ahead of us. Too often in these moments we focus our attention on rejecting what was and romanticizing what will be.

Maccabiah Games (Continued from page 1) Sophie Levine and her Women’s U18 Youth Basketball team bring home a gold medal. Participants from Charlotte included: Evan Wisotsky, U16 Boy’s Juniors Basketball Jaclyn Feit, Women Open Basketball Cooper Fensterstock, Men’s Open Ice Hockey Seth Rabinowitz, Men’s Open Track and Field Jordan Schilit, Men’s Open Track and Field Harris Helberg, Men’s Open Track and Field Brandon Lavitt, U18 Men’s 3x3 Basketball Sophie Levine, U18 Women’s Youth Basketball Maya Gendzel, Women’s Open Swimming (competed for Brazil) Seth Rabinowitz wins a bronze medal in the 4x400 men's relay. Evan, Sophie, Howard, and Julie Levine LET’S FINISH THIS! 2022 Annual Campaign to Date Total Annual Giving $ 4 , 953 , 438 Total Donors 1521 Percent of Goal 99% jewishcharlotte.orgVisitText "PLEDGE" 704-327-0354to 704-944-6757Call 3 Ways to Give *as of 8/16/2022

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ate about Judaism,” he said of his on-stage proposal five minutes before his event. His now fian cée, Ericka Rahman, said yes. The marriage of Jewish life and sports was central to the development of Marshall Ein horn, CEO of Maccabi USA. A self-described soccer player from birth, Einhorn knows first hand the tough choices athletes have to make to accomplish their goals. “I think the beauty of the Maccabiah, in addition to the competition and the con nection, is that it merges those identities,” he said. “They don’t have to choose between being a proud Jew and being a proud ath homeland, the context of sports and global Jewish people, it’s an amazing recipe for connection.”

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How about children’s books for Yom Kippur? “The Hardest Word” by Jaqueline Jules tells the story of a mythical, gigantic bird called the Ziz that is sent by G-d to discover the most challenging word in the world, which, as you might guess cor rectly, is “sorry.” Recommended for ages 3 to 7. Another recommendation for Yom Kippur is one of my newer favorites, called “Talia and the Very Yum Kippur” by Linda Elo vitz Marshall. With soft acrylic illustrations by Francesca Assire lli, this book tells the story of a young girl and her many misun derstandings about Yom Kippur. Talia thinks that Yom Kippur is all about a yummy breakfast. She does not understand that the ku gel she makes with her grandma is for the breaking of the fast. Finally, Talia learns that Yom Kippur is the perfect time to ask for forgiveness. Yom Kippur is often a tricky holiday to explain to children, and this book does a very good job. Recommended for ages 3 to Honorable7.mention goes to Charlotte’s own Rochel Groner Vorst. Her book “Time to Start a Brand New Year” features rhym ing text and laminated pages and provides a great way to learn about the High Holidays. Rec ommended for ages 2 – 6. Debby’s best-loved books and many more books for adults and children on the Jewish High Holidays may be found at the Levine-Sklut Judaic Library. Visit us today or call to reserve a copy (704) 944-6783. You may also visit our catalog at jewish charlotte.org.

By Sue Littauer

I’ve read several books this summer by Jewish authors, in cluding “The Summer Place” by Jennifer Weiner, “Crazy to Leave You” and two others by Marilyn Simon Rothstein, and “Weather Girl” by Rachel Lynn Solomon. I recommend each of them, but the most outstanding book I’ve read this summer is “The Latecomer” by Jean Hanff Korelitz. “The Latecomer,” the story of a very dysfunctional family, rais es a myriad of issues to contem plate and discuss and would be the perfect selection for a book club. What binds a family to gether? What tears it apart? How does a tragic event influence the entire life of an individual? How does one define the value of an education? What are the effects of religious exploration vs. tradi tion? What are the ramifications of scientific breakthroughs? How is art perceived differently by viewers and collectors? What are the psychological effects of the stalwart beliefs of the untruths of others? How do money and privilege influence the lives of individuals and families? Harrison, Lewyn, and Sally are “test tube” triplets born in the early days of IVF. Their father, Salo Oppenheimer, is removed in mind and body from their house hold, while their mother Johan na wants nothing more than a happy home where siblings will form a lifelong bond to support each other in adulthood. The only shared desire of the three siblings is to get as far away as possible from each other and their parents. While in college at Cornell, Salo Oppenheimer, the heir to a wealthy Jewish family, is the driver of a car involved in an ac cident that killed two of his pas sengers. This tragic event stays with him throughout his lifetime. He psychologically removes himself from his family and lat er becomes obsessed with art. He is incredibly gifted at recog nizing art that will later become astronomically valuable, and he spends an obsessive amount of time away from his family deriv ing pleasure from his paintings, which are stored in a warehouse. Johanna Oppenheimer thought bringing children into their household would bring happiness into their beautiful, re modeled Brooklyn home, which overlooks New York City. How ever, the triplets spend as much time hiding out in their rooms as possible, acquiescing only to a yearly family photo and birthday celebration in Martha’s Vine yard. When the triplets go off to college, she is left alone and decides to unfreeze a fourth em bryo from the earlier IVF process and hires a surrogate to carry her child, hence, “the latecomer.” At the triplets’ 19th birthday celebration, a tragic set of cir cumstances sets in motion the basis for the remainder of the book. Eventually, mysteries are uncovered, truths are revealed, and family dynamics change. Many reviewers describe “The Latecomer” as satirical, witty, and profound. It is a multilay ered, compulsively readable gift to unwrap.

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For years I have been reading “The World’s Birthday: A Rosh Hashanah Story,” by Barbara Diamond Goldin, to classes! In this best-loved tale, young Dan iel wants to throw a party for the world’s birthday. The best part is when the “world” blows out the candles on its birthday cake. Recommended for ages 3 to 7.

CJE Book Club Join us for our September Book Club meeting when Char lotte author Judy Goldman will discuss her best-selling book “Child: A Memoir.” It is a fas cinating read about the love between a child and her Black nanny during the Jim Crow era and growing up Jewish in Rock Hill, South Carolina during this time. All are welcome to join us for this event – Wednesday, September 14, 10:30 a.m. in the boardroom at Shalom Park.

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By Debby Block In Jewish tradition, Rosh Ha shanah is considered the birthday of the world! Two of my favor ite Rosh Hashanah picture books illustrate this concept perfectly.

A recent discovery, I have ab solutely fallen in the love with the picture book “Today is the Birthday of the World” by Linda Heller. Beautifully illustrated by Alison Jay, this book encourages each animal and child to be the best that they can be, because there is no better birthday pres ent to the world than to make it the best place that it can be. We all need that positive message, especially at the beginning of a Jewish new year! Recommended for ages 1 to 5. Saralee Siegel has a secret weapon - her amazing sense of smell, which she calls her super nose. I absolutely love the wit and humor of the illustrated, chapter book, “Once Upon an Apple Cake” by Elana Ruben stein. Saralee has to discover the secret ingredient in her Za die’s famous apple cake in time for Rosh Hashanah. Can Saralee save the day even when a rival restaurant threatens to steal the apple cake recipe? Of course, the book includes a recipe for apple cake to try this Rosh Hashanah. Recommended for ages 7 to 9 and for parents to read out loud to children ages 4 to 6.

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For babies and toddlers, I recommend “Rosh Hashanah is Coming” by Tracy Newman. Each page explains a different High Holiday tradition, from the round challah to the sound of the shofar. The rhyming text is simple and joyful, while the repetition on each page of “Rosh Hashanah is coming” makes this book a winner. A new find, “Rosh Hashanah with Uncle Max” by Varda Livney, is a de lightful board book that helps parents and kids learn High Holiday terminology in a fun, family-friendly format. Recom mended for ages 1-4.

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The Melton Charlotte courses will kick off on October 26 with the in-person course “Pray it For ward: God, Gratitude, and Gath ering Together.” Led by Temple Beth El Cantor Mary Thomas, this six-week course will ex plore the evolution of prayer, the meaning behind prayers, and the power of meditation. The virtu al course option, “Press Pause: Rest, Assured,” begins October 27. Rabbi Helene Kornsgold, di rector of congregational educa tion at Temple Israel, will guide participants through the study of the Jewish approach to mindful ness and self-care, tracing back to the roots of creation and the Jewish observance of Shabbat as the day of rest. “We are thrilled to offer Melton as a part of Temple Beth El’s welcoming, accessible, and meaningful lifelong Jew ish learning opportunities,” said Rabbi Asher Knight, senior rab bi at Temple Beth El. “We look forward to the ways Melton will help our community increase our Jewish literacy to provide us with intellectual challenge, moral guidance, spiritual en richment, and the opportunity to form deep and sustaining rela tionships across our community.” Melton Charlotte classes re sume in 2023 with the in-per son course “Soul’s Cycles: A Ride Through the Chapters of Life,” on January 18. During this course, Temple Israel’s se nior rabbi, Rabbi Michael Wolk, will guide participants through the Jewish perspective on some of life’s important milestones, including birth, b’nei mitzvah, marriage, divorce, mikvah, and conversion. Learners will gain an understanding of the depth and complexity of Jewish val ues, concerns, expectations, and hopes, preparing them for these moments. The virtual course, “Between the Lines: From Text to Life,” will kick off on January 19. Led by Temple Beth El associate rabbi, Rabbi Alexis Erdheim, this course will explore how we connect to ancient Jewish texts today and how they inspire ac tion.“Melton gives adults the chance to study some of Juda ism’s most important classical texts and modern ones in an open and pluralistic environ ment that encourages them to consider how these texts might apply to them,” said Rabbi Wolk. “I’ve taught Melton classes for seven years, and it is a pleasure to sit together with people of all denominations or no affiliation and to hear about their Jewish experiences.”Tolearnmore about the cours es offered, please visit melton school.org/charlotte. Charlotte Greater Charlotte’s Temple Israel, Temple Beth El. www.meltonschool.org/charlotteto

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By Tair Giudice, JFGC Chief Impact Officer Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte’s Center for Jewish Education, in partnership with Temple Beth El and Temple Is rael, is thrilled to bring back the Melton School of Adult Jewish Learning beginning this October with four six-week courses (two virtual and two in-person).

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Melton is the largest plu ralistic adult Jewish education network in the world, engaging adult learners in a life-enhancing study of Jewish texts and ideas that nurture and deepen the Jew ish community worldwide. “ Center for Jewish Education is excited to offer this unique opportunity for continued Jew ish learning to our community through the Melton School of Adult Jewish Learning,” said Tair Giudice, chief impact offi cer at the Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte. “As our Char lotte Jewish community contin ues to evolve and grow, we want to serve as a resource for those looking to better understand their Jewish identity and what it means to be Jewish in today’s society.”

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“We’re extremely excited to welcome Abby to FCJC,” said Phil Warshauer, FCJC’s executive director. “Abby is very personable and brings a passion for nonprofit work and Judaism. She is a great addition to the FCJC team.”

A native of Greensboro, North Carolina, Abby attended UNC-Wilmington and received her Master of Public Adminis tration, Nonprofit Management from the University of North Carolina at Charlotte. She is an active member of the Asso ciation of Fundraising Profes sionals (AFP). “I am looking forward to meeting the individuals and nonprofit leaders who are affil iated with FCJC,” said Kleber. “This opportunity combines my nonprofit experiences with the significant role that Judaism has played in my life. These are exciting times at FCJC, and I am eager to contribute.” Abby Kleber can be reached at foundation.orgakleber@charlottejewishor(704)9734554.

Foundation for the Charlotte Jewish Community Welcomes Abby Kleber, Assistant VP of Stewardships and Legacy Giving

By Phil Warshauer, FCJC Ex ecutive Director

The Foundation for the Charlotte Jewish Community (FCJC) is pleased to announce that Abby Kleber has joined the team as assistant vice president of stewardship and legacy giv ing. Abby will play a critical role in leading the next phase of our Create Your Jewish Legacy initiative (CJL), assisting with stewarding existing clients and helping to cultivate new fund relationships. Abby has recent ly served as development man ager at Hospitality House of Charlotte and as annual giving manager at Loaves & Fishes.

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Abby Kleber joins FCJC as new assistant vice president of stewardship and legacy giving.

Celebrating our Community’s Legacy Donors

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This list is not all inclusive. We know there are individuals and families who have created Jewish legacies but have not chosen to make their plans public. We thank them as well. Irv and Deedee Gould Cygler Gene and Deedee Daumit Andrea and Jeremy Davids Arlene and Gary (OBM) Davis Jill and Michael Dinerman Dana and Jeffrey Ditesheim Ellen (OBM) and Dan (OBM) Dubin Marcy and Fred Dumas Paul and Lynn Edelstein Steven and Ellen Block Englehardt David and Aleen Epstein Barry and Mary Ellen Ezarsky Rabbi Murray and Barbara Ezring Henry (OBM) and Margaret (OBM) AlecFederlinand Nancy Felder Roni and Glenn Fishkin Dorlisa and Peter Flur Robert and Beverly Friedman Adam MelvinFoodmanW.andCaren N. Frank Jacob M. and Hunter K. Fuerstman Albert and Phyllis Garten Loren Leah Gelber Goodlyn StephanieY’honatanGelperE.GimbelandDavid Gitlin Nancy Glass Rhoda (OBM) and Aaron (OBM) AlanGleiberman(OBM) and Ruth Goldberg Ken and Tammy Golder Sandra Goldman Mark and Linda Goldsmith Margi L. Goldstein Meg D. Goldstein and Matthew Luftglass Milton and Arlene Goldstein Shelton and Ellen Goldstein Joy and Neal Golub Jennifer Cohen Golynsky and Leon BarbaraGolynskyand David (OBM) Goodman Brett H. ScottMichelleGoodmanGoodmanandRebecca Goodman Allen Gordon (OBM) Bill and Patty (OBM) Gorelick Jeff and Bari Gorelick Marcelle Gorelick Shelton (OBM) and Carol (OBM) Gorelick Todd and Stacy Miller Gorelick Alan and Merle Gottheim Fay (OBM) and Dan (OBM) Green Karen Greenblatt Keith E. Greenspon Stan Greenspon Jodi and Josh Greenwald Bill and Gloria Grifenhagen Yossi and Mariashi Groner Deidre and Clay Grubb Elizabeth Ren and Michael Grunwald Anna RichardStephanieBonnieGunsherHartHaynes(OBM)and

Laura Milgrim Risa and David Miller Staci and Darren Mond Jennifer Monroe Yosef and Helen Moshfegh Elsa and Martin Multer Margaret Musa Paula Sigal Musler Bruce and Candace Naliboff Leah M. ElizabethNaliboffandJeremy Naman Edwin and Jill Newman Larry and Carole Nicholson Michael and Judith Norman Eva GwenNoveand Paul Orland Andrew T. Osborne Gale VictorRichardOsborneJ.Osborne(OBM)andEvelyn (OBM) Osborne Nadine and Arthur Oudmayer Marcelle and Allan Oxman Wendy and Lee Pake Brenda and Floyd Patten Cyndee Patterson Harriet and Mark Perlin Diggie and Lee Pesakoff Wendy and Adam Petricoff Stephen and Laura Philipson Rachel and Darren Pierce Debora and Ed Pizer Milton and Gene Ruth Poler Larry and Dale Polsky William and Debra Porter Baila and John (OBM) Pransky Michael and Cheryl Rabinowitz Dena and Michael Raffler Karen and David Ransenberg Steven and Melissa Raphael Alan and Jan Raznick Rick Glaser and Ellen Reich Tonda and Mitchell Rifkin Julie and Scott Rizzo Albert WendyRogatandSandy

David Jacobson Jake RobertJacobsonandLeola (OBM) Jacobson Florence Kaufman Jaffa Sol (OBM) and Janet (OBM) Jaffa Brian and Raizel Kahn Alyson Kalik Ronald and Mary-Margaret Kantor Morton and Mary Kaplan Dana and Andrew Kapustin Andrew and Susan Karp Barbara and Alan Katz Kenneth and Kimberly Katz Family Nancy and Robert Kipnis Joan PaulaKirschnerandRichard Klein Robert P. and Moira Quinn Klein Lorrie and Barry Klemons and Family Barry Bobrow and Karen Knoble Elise and Jaime Kosofsky Lee and Sheila (OBM) Kritzer Sara and Jonathan Kulbersh David A. Lash Jack (OBM) and Carole Lash Gladys Lavitan (OBM) Judy and Eric Laxer Dale JanetLedererandDavid Lefkowitz Alison and Mark Lerner Eric and Susan Lerner Gary and Donna Lerner Harry and Gloria Lerner Barbara and Jerry Levin Binyamin and Ilana Levin David and Brenda Levin and Family Donna (OBM) and Norman Levin and RossFamilyC. Levin Alvin (OBM) and Helene Levine Elissa and Joshua Levine Howard and Julie Lerner Levine Leon and Sandra Levine Louis Sinkoe and H. Kevin Levine Miles and Debra Levine Sol Levine (OBM) Ellis Levinson (OBM) Eric GaryLevinsonandJanie Levinson Holly and Hal Levinson Jack and Alison Levinson Lisa Strause Levinson Sam and Linda Levy Laura and Marc Lewin Robert (OBM) and Inta Lidz Andrew and Gwendolyn Lindner Marshall (OBM) and Faylinda Lindner Jill and Marc Lipson Don and Ellice Liss Ron and Frances Liss Sue and Mike Littauer Joshua and Adina Loewensteiner Annie and Harrison Lord Isaac (OBM) and Sonia (OBM) Luski Rose (OBM) and Abe (OBM) Luski Audrey Madans (OBM) Karen and Gary Maniloff Michael and Leslie Marsicano Larry Farber and Sherri McGirt Linda MichaelPeggyMcLendonMcManusMeiselman (OBM) The Meiselman Family Elise Menaker Polly and Steve Menaker Scott and Pamela Menaker

The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2022 - Page 7 Foundation for the Charlotte Jewish Community thanks the individuals and families who have created 943 unique Jewish legacies to ensure the future of our Jewish community. These generous donors have collectively committed to more than $38.6 million through bequests, individual retirement and life insurance plans, without affecting current disposable income or lifestyles. Already, local Jewish organizations have received over $2.5 million in realized legacy gifts. If you are interested in learning how to create your own Jewish legacy, please contact your favorite Jewish agency, Phil Warshauer or Abby Kleber.

Barbara Herd Ted and M.E. Hessberg Steven and Sharon Hockfield Vicki Hopkins Joel ChristyHorwichandAndy Horwitz Jake and Betsy House Jonathan M. Howard Jodie and Michael Iagnocco Famly Robert (OBM) and Linda Isser Donald L. and Susan Sachs Jacobs

If you see someone exhibit ing these warning signs, don’t be afraid to reach out. You can #BeThe1To: possibly save some one’s life. If you or someone you know may be thinking about sui cide call 988. For more informa tion about mental health resourc es contact JFS at 704-364-6594 or go to www.jfscharlotte.org.

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JFS volunteers provide out reach visits and phone calls to senior adults who are feeling isolated. Our trained volun teers are paired with senior adults who could benefit from additional social interaction.

JFS offers the aforemen tioned wellness workshops, helping seniors address grief, loss, and trauma while devel oping skills to cope with stress.

Death by Suicide: A Preventable Health Crisis

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Suicide Prevention Lifeline transitions to easy to remember three digit number: 988

Howard Olshansky, JFS Execu tive Director - 45,979 Americans died by suicide, making it the 12th lead ing cause of death.

JFS works closely with our community’s Holocaust survi vors to ensure their needs are met and to recognize their con tributions to our heritage and community. JFS support can include accessing German gov ernment funding for services such as in-home support, as sisting in participation in com munity programs like the annual Yom HaShoah commemoration, and providing opportunities to connect to each other. In anticipation of Rosh Ha shanah, JFS staff and volun teers are preparing more than 125 “Taste of the Holiday” gift bags. This is just one of five celebratory bags delivered by volunteers throughout the year, including for Rosh Hashanah, Purim, Hanukkah, Passover, and monthly birthday celebra tions. What began as a way to engage with isolated seniors in assisted living communities has more than doubled in num bers as JFS provides outreach to senior adults throughout our community. If you or someone you know is in need of senior services, is interested in participating in a program, including Wellness Workships, or would like to volunteer, contact JFS at (704) 364-6594.

- It is the third leading cause of death for ages 10 to 19. - It is the second leading cause of death for ages 20 to 34. - It is the fourth leading cause of death for ages 35 to 44. - More than one-third of peo ple who died by suicide were 55 or older. With statistics like these, it is no wonder leading health experts have identified suicide as a world health crisis, one that is preventable. September is National Suicide Prevention Month. Throughout the month, mental health advocates will be promoting strategies to reduce the number of deaths by suicide. This year, one of the most important priorities will be promoting and educating about the new 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. Implemented in July of this year, the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline (formerly known as the National Suicide Preven tion Lifeline) provides free and confidential emotional support to people in suicidal crisis or emotional distress 24 hours a day, seven days a week, across the United States. The Lifeline is composed of a national network of more than 200 local crisis centers, combining custom local care and resources with national standards and best practices. This year’s Suicide Preven tion Month campaign is #BeThe 1To. The slogan represents the research that shows people who are having thoughts of suicide feel relief when someone asks them in a caring way. The cam paign promotes #BeThe1To: - Ask. It’s OK to ask whether someone is hurting or thinking about suicide. - Be There. Individuals are more likely to feel less depressed, less suicidal, less overwhelmed, and more hopeful after speaking to someone who listens. - Keep Them Safe. A number of studies have indicated that when lethal means are made less available or less deadly, suicide rates by that method decline, and frequently suicide rates overall decline.-Help Them Stay Connected. Helping someone at risk create a network of resources and in dividuals for support and safety can help them take positive ac tion and reduce feelings of hope lessness. - Follow Up. Brief, low-cost intervention and supportive on going contact may be an import ant part of suicide prevention. - Learn More. Visit websites and participate in events that pro mote suicide prevention activi ties and diffuse the stigma of ac cessing mental health treatment. It is important to understand that the act of taking one’s own life may not be an impulsive one. The reason suicide is a preventable death is that most people who die by suicide have had previous suicidal thoughts, demonstrated emotional chal lenges, and presented warning signs. The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention identifies the following: Warning signs Something to look out for when concerned that a person may be suicidal is a change in behavior or the presence of en tirely new behaviors. This is of sharpest concern if the new or changed behavior is related to a painful event, loss, or change. Most people who take their lives exhibit one or more warning signs, either through what they say or what they do. Talk If a person talks about: - Killing themselves - Feeling hopeless - Having no reason to live - Being a burden to others - Feeling trapped - Unbearable pain Behavior Behaviors that may signal risk, especially if related to a painful event, loss or change: - Increased use of alcohol or drugs - Looking for a way to end their lives, such as searching online for methods - Withdrawing from activities - Isolating from family and friends - Sleeping too much or too little - Visiting or calling people to say -goodbyeGivingaway prized possessions - Aggression - Fatigue Mood People who are considering sui cide often display one or more of the following moods: - Depression - Anxiety - Loss of interest - Irritability - Humiliation/Shame - Agitation/Anger - Relief/Sudden Improvement

This year’s theme for National Suicide Prevention Month: #BeThe1To niors and their families through existing services that are at the heart of senior case manage ment. In addition to connect ing seniors to resources related to primary care issues such as housing, transportation, medi cal care, and nutrition, JFS case managers assist with socializa tion, long-term care planning, relocation support, life transi tions, and other issues related to aging. Each day our staff as sists family members who want to relocate their aging parents to Charlotte. However, JFS also recogniz es that, beyond basic needs, it is critical that our seniors’ so cial and emotional needs are being met and that seniors have opportunities to stay engaged with the community and each other. Studies show that social isolation significantly increases health-related issues, dementia, and premature death. To address this serious need, JFS offers a variety of programs, activities, and what we call “touches” to ensure our senior community stays connected.

Often these relationships grow into true friendships that last for years and provide much comfort to both the senior adult and the volunteer.

JFS provides many oppor tunities for seniors to celebrate holidays. Whether these events are larger community celebra tions, like the annual Hanuk kah and Purim celebrations, or smaller holiday programs at in dividual senior living communi ties, these activities ensure that seniors can commemorate their culture and heritage.

- Volunteers: Marcia Arnholt, Mike Arnholt, Amy Baden, Andrew Bernstein, Suzy Catennazo, Dan Coblenz, Jonathan Collman, Andrea Cronson, Julie Dermack, Joni Deutsch, Terri Fishman, Delia Friderwitzer, Rachel Friedman, Meredith Gartner, Marty Goldfarb, Richard Goldsmith, Jennifer Golynsky, Gail Halverson, Rebecca Hock field ,Oren Hubara, Dawn Hubbs, Bob Jacobson, Jodie Joseph, Alyson Kalik, Michael Kaplan, Jennifer Koss, Rikki Kinitsky, Etti Krause, Elliot and Stephanie Krietman, Marcia Lampert, Adina Loewensteiner, Matt Luftglass, Gene Marx, Frada Mozenter, Wendy Petricoff, Barbara Rein, Steven Rogelberg, Nina Rose, Marilyn Schuster, Lynne Sheffer, Janice Shubin, Cindy Siesel, Louis Sinkoe, Mattye Silverman, Lorin Stiefel, Steve Teich, David and Beth Thrope, Nancy Wielunski, Amanda Zaidman

- Food Pantry Donations: Thank you to our generous community for continuing to donate to the food pantry. We continue to collect donations every other Wednesday at the portico entrance to the Blumenthal Center for Jewish Education Building on Shalom Park.

- Hadassah Meal Preppies: Sharon Cavanaugh, Sara Friedman, Talia Goldman, June Hirschmann, Karen Futtersak, Yvette Jacobson Judy Kaufmann, Penny Krieger, Andrea McCleary, Helene Schillian, Joyce Stoll, Amy Strasser, Elissa Vining

- Shalom Green: Thank you to your volunteers for harvesting fresh produce for the JFS pantry.

Jewish Family

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Shirley Frank In Memory of Robert Speizman Leonard and Judi Strause In Memory of Jill Newman’s sister, Ruthie Paul and Lynn Edelstein Jack and Vera Mendel Leonard and Judi Strause In Memory of Silvia Kelman

The Binnick and Weinstein Families Sam and Rose Bromberg, Jean Bromberg, Robin and Len Gross

Jewish Family Services July 2022 Volunteers & Donors Services July 2022 Tributes

The Heyder Family Gitta, Bella Newmark, and Family Leonard Rogoff Molouk Saleh In Memory of Steve Kaufmann Paul and Lynn Edelstein Shirley Frank Mazel Tov to Scott and Dana Gorelick Paul and Lynn Edelstein

For a speedy recovery of Barbara Karro Paul and Lynn Edelstein In appreciation of Keith Greenspon Stanley Greenspon In appreciation of Rabbi Judith Schindler Stanley Greenspon In appreciation of Rabbi Richard Rocklin Stanley Greenspon In appreciation of Rabbi Yossi Refson Stanley Greenspon In appreciation of Rachel Green Rabbi Dusty Klass In appreciation of Roz Greenspon Stanley Greenspon In appreciation of Susan Shallo Stanley Greenspon In Honor of Kevin Levine and Louis Sinkoe Dan and Nancy Coblenz Kim and Sue Worrel In Honor of Madeline Aron Teri Seidman Happy Birthday to Diggie Pesakoff Joe and Pam Ballato Steven and Marsha Zaidman Happy Birthday to Jim White Abraham and Amalia Warshenbrot Happy Birthday to Judy Marco Paul and Lynn Edelstein Happy Birthday to Leon & Sandra Levine Helene Levine Happy Birthday to Marvin Shapiro Paul and Lynn Edelstein Happy Birthday to Nancy Novell Abraham and Amalia Warshenbrot In Memory of Alan Goldberg Cheryl Alley Paul and Lynn Edelstein Flo Lefkof and Amy Lefkof Eric and Susan Lerner Gale EdwinOsborneandLeslie Rusgo Abraham, Amalia, Ruthie, and Ory Warshenbrot Howard Wollner In Memory of Alan Swimmer Stuart and Carolyn Hennes In Memory of Denise Cooper Abraham and Amalia Warshenbrot In Memory of Ellen Kelso Barry Bobrow and Karen Knoble In Memory of Janet Chaitman Michael and Cheryl Kahn Ron and Nancy Kingsley Harriet Tzinberg

In Memory of Norman Steinberger

The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2022 - Page 10 To our friends, thank you so much for your warm and comforting condolences. All the support, cards, calls, and the memories you continue to share, as well as the generous donations in Steve’s memory, highlight what a special person he was. Your thought fulness holds a special place in our hearts.

PJ Library: We Got the Beat

Judy Kaufmann & Family In Memory of Steve Kaufman

Let’s make a joyous noise! On a beautiful Sunday in August, PJ Library families got together to enjoy a Jewish jam session in the park. After making drums, parents and chil dren sang, danced and moved to the beat with rhythm sticks and drums.

The words above are on the note that will be attached to 100 totes that members of the Jewish Community Refugee Initiative (JCRI) will fill with fresh produce, dry goods, and cleaning supplies for refugees here in Charlotte. This is the third consecutive year that JCRI will partner with Refugee Sup port Services (RSS) to provide a Drive-Through Sukkah for Refugees. The idea originated at the beginning of the COVID pandemic, and given the most recent surge of both COVID and grocery food prices, there is a need once again for members of the Jewish community to cel ebrate the holiday of Sukkot in this very special way. Volunteers are needed to box food and kitchen items on Sha lom Park under the Poliakoff Pa vilion on Tuesday Oct. 11 from 1 to 2:45 p.m. It will be outside in assembly-line fashion, and we will be spaced apart. Delivery of the totes will be early the following morning, Wednesday, October 12 at RSS’s new location on the grounds of Aldersgate, 3925 Willard Farrow Drive. RSS executive director, Lind say LaPlante, explains that the goals of the program “are not only increased access to food and information for program participants but also increased community connection through partnerships and initiatives like this one with JCRI.” If you are interested in work ing the assembly line, serving as a food buyer, or helping with de livery of the filled totes to RSS, please contact Amy Lefkof at the$700lefkofamy@gmail.com.JCRIneedstoraisebetweenand$1,000topurchasefoodandkitchensupplies.If you are interested in making a monetary donation, please send a check payable to Temple Beth El (TBE) with JCRI in the memo line. Although JCRI is a Shalom Park-wide social justice initia tive, TBE is JCRI’s fiduciary agent.

JCRI volunteers during Sukkot 2020 form an assembly line to help fill food bags for refugees. Rabbi Wolk, a recent arrival to Char lotte back in 2020, explained how delivering Covid relief totes helps us fulfill the commandment to welcome the stranger and protect the refugee.

Preparations Underway for JCRI’s Third Annual Drive-Through Sukkah for Refugees

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By Amy Lefkof “Sukkot is a Jewish holiday that commemorates both the fragile ‘booths’ set up during biblical harvests and the tem porary shelters used during the Jewish people’s 40-year migra tion in the desert following their exodus from Egypt. “During our celebration of Sukkot, October 9–October 16, the Jewish Community Refugee Initiative recognizes the plight of today’s refugees and asylum seekers who often occupy tem porary, precarious housing on their journey to a safe new des tination. “Because Sukkot is a harvest holiday during which we normal ly sit together in a Sukkah and eat vegetables and fruits that are harvested during this season, we are glad to fill these COVID relief totes with vegetables and fruits and other staples for our refugee neighbors. “Our faith commands us to welcome the stranger and protect theMayrefugee.”weshare the bounty of the harvest together.”

The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2022 - Page 12 FOOD CULTURE MUSIC DANCING ENTERTAINMENT ACTIVITIES CONTESTS VENDORS and MORE! ORDER ONLINE delifest.org

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Bridgewood Property Company is carrying on its tradition of building award-winning communities and offering luxury retirement living, now available for discerning Charlotteans.

The Village on Morehead, currently under construction, will offer an exceptional experience for those seeking epicurean inspired cuisine, engaging programs, rejuvenating health and wellness services in a sophisticated community where you will Live Life Well®.

We can’t wait to see you and the entire mishpachah on Sunday, September 18, 2022, from 12 to 4 pm at The Village Green. 119 S. Main Street in Davidson.

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Join us on Sunday, September 18, 2022 from 12 to 4 p.m. for an incredible celebration of Jewish culture, including entertainment such as a traditional Jewish dance master, balloon artist, Bubble Man and more. We’ll also be selling an assortment of delicious Jewish deli food, such as corned beef, pastrami, hot dogs, knishes, falafel plates, matzo ball soup, and more! Pre-order your food on the Deli Festival website, delifest.org to ensure you secure your delicious sandwich.

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Lake Norman’s Jewish Deli Festival is back with a new name and an improved schedule! In honor of the passing of our beloved chairperson, Mona Lieberman, we are lovingly renaming the festival Mona’s Jewish Deli Festival, and we’re back to feed all our hungry friends!

Last year’s festival was a huge success with a massive amount of attendees, so this year we’re ensuring we are prepared with improved technology, organization and sponsorship opportunities available. If you would like more information on any of this, please visit delifest. org, where you can learn more about what to expect at this year’s festival.

The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2022 - Page 14 FOR ADDITIONAL INFORMATION ABOUT FUTURE EVENTS, VISIT OUR “UPCOMING PROGRAMS” PAGE AT TEMPLEISRAELNC.ORG Our House. Your Home. templeisraelnc.org EREV ROSH HASHANAH SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 25 Erev Rosh Hashanah Service, 6 p.m. ROSH HASHANAH DAY 1 MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 26* Morning Service, 9 a.m. Family Service, 9:30 a.m. Evening Service, 7 p.m. ROSH HASHANAH DAY 2 TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 27 Morning Service, 9 a.m. Torah Tots Program, 9 a.m. Evening Service, 7 p.m. KOL NIDRE TUESDAY, OCTOBER 4* Kol Nidre Service, 6:30 p.m. Please be seated by 6:15 p.m. YOM WEDNESDAY,KIPPUROCTOBER 5* Torah Tots Program, 8:45 a.m. Morning Service, 9 a.m. Family Service, 9:30 a.m. Yizkor Service, 1 p.m. (approximately) Mincha Service, 5 p.m. Ne’ilah & Shofar Blast, 6 p.m. Break Fast, 7:50 p.m. HIGH HOLIDAY SERVICE SCHEDULE 2022/5783 For ticket information, please contact Kelly Wilson at 980-960-2380. *Parking Pass required on Shalom Park HAVDALAH & SELICHOT CONCERT featuring NEFESH MOUNTAIN Saturday, September 17, 8 p.m. Register on the Upcoming Programs page at templeisraelnc.org

Temple Israel and Temple Beth El together to bring Nefesh Mountain to Charlotte for Selichot.

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Nefesh Mountain, a critical ly acclaimed progressive string band, “ingeniously blends bluegrass/roots music with in fluences from their own Jewish culture. Nefesh Mountain is the place where American bluegrass and old-time music meet with Jewish heritage and tradition. Band leaders, genre-pioneers, and husband and wife Doni Zasloff and Eric Lindberg are the heart of this eclectic offering, and share their love for Ameri can music, their Jewish heritage, and each other with audiences throughout the world. The result of this unexpected and beauti ful mix is staggering, and while complete with the kind of adept string virtuosity and thorough ly composed arrangements one would hope for from a newgrass band with influences from blue grass, old-time, Celtic, and jazz, they also play and sing songs of the heart creating music with a sense of diversity, oneness, and purpose for our world today.”

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By Cantor Shira Lissek Fall is almost here, and it’s time to start the Jewish New Year. We are quickly approach ing Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, the Days of Awe, in He brew called the Yamim Noraim. The days leading up to Rosh Ha shanah in the month of Elul are a time of soul-searching, chesh bon hanefesh, accounting of the soul, and reflection to prepare oneself for the magnitude of the Days of Awe. On the Saturday evening before Rosh Hashanah, we sing prayers and recite medi tations, as we are encouraged to reflect on our past year and the changes we wish to make in the upcoming one. In the words of one of the poetic texts recited at this service, “At the conclusion of the day of rest, Shabbat, we come first to meet You. Incline Your ear from above, You who dwells amongst praise, To hear the song and the prayer.”

The Selichot service can be quite moving as we gather to gether late on Saturday night singing and praying together. We sense the extraordinary nature of the sacred prayers and melodies and turn introspectively within ourselves. We hope and pray that our voices are heard. “O Lord, hear our voice in the morning; in the morning we set them before You with hopeful expectation. Hear our voice …” This year the clergy of Tem ple Beth El and Temple Israel are excited to join forces and begin the High Holiday season together. On Selichot evening, Saturday September 17, all are welcome for a musically and spiritually uplifting Havdalah service, Selichot concert fea turing Nefesh Mountain, and Selichot service. Cantor Mary Thomas and I have wanted to bring the soulful music of Nefesh Mountain to Shalom Park for a few years now, and we couldn’t be more excited to have them with us to set the tone for the new year.

Join us at 8 p.m. at Temple Israel on September 17 as we begin our year together in com munity. We are looking forward to this extraordinary opportunity to prepare our soul, our nefesh, featuring the inspirational and uplifting sounds of Nefesh Mountain. Our Souls For the New Year With Nefesh Mountain: Temple Israel and Temple Beth Join Together for Special Selichot Service

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This passage serves as a kind of ancient mission statement for modern Jewish institutions. Just as God reassured the Israelites that “this mitzvah” is within their reach, our organizations strive to help people to create meaningful relationships with Judaism, God, and the Jewish people. We want Judaism to be accessible. In my mind, however, it is the last line of this excerpt from Deuteronomy that specifically speaks to the goal of Jewish ed ucation. As a Jewish educator, I that Judaism is “in your heart” — that Judaism is a part of their core identity and that they feel deeply connected to the Jewish community. I also want people to have Judaism “in your mouth” — to feel comfortable and con fident expressing their Judaism, and to feel they have a right to wrestle and engage with their tradition.Partof what draws me to these words is their sense of im mediacy — the idea that Judaism is relevant right now. Sometimes I worry that we, the Jewish com munity, can be overly focused on the past or the future and for get the importance of the pres ent. For example, some people make the argument that we need to provide a strong Jewish edu cation as a way of honoring and remembering the difficulties our ancestors endured. At the same time, other people argue that we need to provide a strong Jewish education to ensure that that we will have a Jewish community in the future. Both arguments, though, are missing the “why.” Our ancestors were willing to experience hardship and perse cution because they believed that and meaning to their lives. Sim ilarly, isn’t the very reason we desire a Jewish community in the future is because we believe that Judaism will enrich the lives of our descendants and help make the world a better place? If we apply this same think ing to our present time, it can energize and refocus our Jewish learning. We are not teaching our children so that they can be Jew ish as adults. They are already Jewish! We should be teaching our children that Judaism can enrich their lives right now, that Judaism can bring them joy and comfort, community and belong ing. When our children experience their Jewish community as a safe place to be themselves in the present, we will also accomplish the goals addressing our past and our future. We will be honoring the past because we will see its lessons woven into our children’s beliefs and actions, and we will be building toward the future by helping children experience their Judaism as an integral part of who they are as they develop into adults.

By Rabbi Beth Nichols At the end of this month, just before Rosh Hashanah, we will read one of my favorite passages in the Torah from Parashat Nit zavim: Surely, this mitzvah which I enjoin upon you this day is not too baffling for you, nor is it be yond reach. It is not in the heav ens, that you should say, “Who among us can go up to the heav ens and get it for us and impart it to us, that we may observe it?” Neither is it beyond the sea… No, the thing is very close to you, in your mouth and in your heart, to observe it. – Deuteronomy 30:11-14

Havurat Tikvah Plans Lay-Led High Holiday Services

HIGH HOLY DAYS 5783

Havurat Tikvah, which has been limiting attendance to mem bers only during the COVID-19 and variants epidemic, hopes to open its in-person High Holiday services to the Charlotte commu nity beginning with Rosh Hasha nah, Monday, Sept. 26, at 10 a.m. A brief kiddish will follow, with challah, apples and honey. Because of the uncertainty of a viral surge this fall, how ever, the congregation won’t be announcing its final plans until the first week in September. All options for observing the holi days, including in-person, virtu al (Zoom), and hybrid, are being considered. For the latest information on the havurah’s High Holidays schedule, please email admin@ havurattikvah.org after Sept. 8. Discover what protocols and accommodations apply should you attend Havurat Tikvah for in-person services. All services, except tashlich, will be held in the MacLean Fellowship Hall on the campus of Avondale Presby terian Church on Park Rd. Ser vices for the second day of Rosh Hashanah are also under consid eration. (Continued on page 18)

By Leah Levin After a three-year break be cause of the pandemic, we are thrilled to announce the Mega Challah Bake is back. Join more than 200 Jewish women and bake challah together just in time for RoshTheHashanah.halachic definition of challah is a reference to a pos itive mitzvah. It entails sepa rating a section of dough from your kneading and giving it to a Kohen. This piece of dough is called “challah.” Any dough that is made of wheat, barley, spelt, oat, or rye is obligated in this mitzvah.When the challah is separated, a blessing is recited. This is a spe cial time to ask G-d for anything that you need, blessings for your family, friends, and community. Imagine what we can accomplish by joining together with more than 200 Jewish women to make challah and say the blessing.

By Rabbi Yossi Groner Rosh Hashanah literally trans lates as the head of the year. This is by design, as a head is more than just a beginning. A head encapsulates and leads the en tire body. Similarly, the days of Rosh Hashanah incorporate and lead all the following days of the year. This is why this holy day is so significant to Jewish peo ple, no matter the background or religious affiliation. This is also why we pray and ask for a good year — that the entire year should be healthy, happy, and prosperous. At Chabad of Charlotte, we aim to lift Rosh Hashanah to be the best experience in a meaningful, introspective, and dynamic way. At Chabad, the energy of Rosh Hashanah is a fusion of joy and awe, which is expressed in the narrative as well as in the melodies of this special holiday. We are fortunate at Chabad to have a team of dedicated staff that enthusiastically engages the community in a special way. The melodious voice of Rabbi Weiss, the insightful pieces by the rabbis, and the sense of companionship and friendship that envelopes the congregation combine to create an uplifting and heartfelt experience. A festive community dinner will be held on the first night of Rosh Hashanah at Chabad of Charlotte, which will help set the tone of community camaraderie and a spirit of togetherness. The dinner will feature gourmet hol iday foods like brisket, tzimmes, and many holiday delicacies prepared by Kosher Charlotte. Rosh Hashanah services at Chabad/Ohr HaTorah will be open to the entire Charlotte Jewish community. Evening ser vices will be held on September 25 at 7 p.m., and morning ser vices will be held on September 26 at 9 a.m. Shofar service will be held at 11 a.m. In addition, Chabad will have a team of volunteers that will contact individuals in the neighborhood who are confined to their homes to perform the shofar service and bring with them the joy and spirit of the HolyPre-RoshDays.

Sunday, September 18 Doors open at 6 p.m. Program begins at 6:30 p.m. Chabad of Charlotte 6619 Sardis Rd. $36 per person Visit www.cltmegachallah.com for more info.

The Mega Challah Bake is a joint project of Chabad of Char lotte and the Ballantyne Jewish Center. High Holidays in Ballantyne Once again, the Ballantyne Jewish Center will be hosting Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur services in the Ballantyne area. Join us this year and feel right at home. Whether your background in Jewish prayer and practices is extensive or limited, attending services at the Ballantyne Jew ish Center — where the warmth and authenticity of the tradition al are blended with the comfort and practicality of the contem porary — will leave you feeling enriched, connected, uplifted, and inspired. Everyone is welcome free of charge, and reservations are not required. Rosh Hashanah Services will be held at the South Charlotte Ban quet Center, 9009 Bryant Farms Road: Monday, September 26 Morn ing Service at 9:30 a.m., Rabbi’s Sermon and Shofar Blowing at 11 a.m. Services followed by a Kiddush lunch at 1:30 p.m. Tuesday, September 27 Morn ing Service at 9:30 a.m., Rabbi’s Sermon and Shofar Blowing at 11 a.m. Services followed by a Kiddush lunch at 1:30 p.m. Yom Kippur Services will be held at Courtyard Marriott Waverly 6319 Providence Farm Lane: Tuesday, October 4 Kol Nidre at 6:30 Wednesday,p.m. October 5 Morning Services at 10 a.m. Neilah at 6:15 p.m. Our Fantastic Children’s Program At the Ballantyne Jewish Cen ter, we are committed to making the High Holidays a meaningful and enjoyable experience for the entire family. Therefore, we are very excited that once again we will have a fantastic, exciting, and interactive children’s pro gram during services for all ages. Parents can enjoy services while their children have a blast. Pro gram highlights include games, songs, activities, food crafts, stories, refreshments, and priz es. Kids love this program and learn so much in the process. The children are divided into age-ap propriate groups to ensure that everyone will enjoy. For more information, please contact Rabbi Yisrael and Leah Levin at (704) 408-1116 Leah@ JewishBallantyne.com or visit our website www.JewishBallan tyne.com 9th and largest summer at CGI Ballantyne CGI Ballantyne completed four weeks of fabulous camp fun with our largest group yet! From ages 5 to 13, from field trips to art, from sports to games, from camper to counselor, each and every moment was fun-filled and meaningful. Looking forward to celebrating 10 years of CGI with Summer 2023. Life

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Hashanah classes will be held at Chabad on Tues days in September 13. Please contact our office at (704) 366-3984 or rabbicohen@ chabadnc.org or visit our web site at chabadnc.org.

Mega Challah Bake is Back

Starting with Rosh Hashanah services, we’ll be @ Grace Presbyterian Church our new partner! 2955 W. Hwy 160, Fort Mill, SC 29708 (near Tega Cay) We gather to embrace Judaism through supportive, participatory, and spiritual worship, learning, and social action. Please join our committees/havurim. For more information, email info@templesolelSC.org or call (803) 610-1707 (leave a message), or visit www.templesolelsc.org.

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High Holidays at Chabad

Erev Rosh Hashanah: Sept 25, 7 9 PM Rosh Hashanah: Sept 26, 10 AM Noon Kol Nidre: Oct 4, 7 9 PM Yom Kippur: Oct 5, 10 AM thru our Break Fast Participation doesn’t stop there! We also meet 2nd & 4th Fridays, 7 PM. We have Eliminated Membership Dues, but Contributions are Welcome. We are a warm and inclusive Reform congregation of individuals, couples and families. Check Us Out !

Connect at Temple Solel’s New Location

Penny Pells makes her dough at the 2019 Challah Bake.

Kol Nidre services will be held on Oct. 4. On Oct. 5, Yom Kippur services will continue at 10 a.m. Congregants will re convene after an afternoon break for the remainder of the services, followed by a break-the-fast snack.Ifin-person services are held, members and guests are encour aged to bring tallit and kippah if available. There is a limited quantity of both on hand. Attend ees can bring their own shofar to participate in the shofar services on Rosh Hashanah and the con cluding service on Yom Kippur. All in-person participants are required to make a reservation, as seating will be spaced apart for each family unit to comply with social distancing protocols. Also, proof of vaccination sta tus may also be requested at the door. Everyone will be required to wear a mask in the Fellowship Hall, in accordance with Avon daleVisitregulations.havurattikvah.org in ear ly September for more details as they are firmed up, including costs, protocols, and other im portant information.

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By Mara S. Cobe In 5783, Temple Solel will begin its 11th year as a Reform congregation serving the Fort Mill Jewish community. Solel (pathfinder in Hebrew) reminds us to blaze our own path forward. We enter this next decade at a new location. We’ll gather closer to the center of Fort Mill, Tega Cay, Lake Wylie, and Southwest Charlotte. Starting with our Rosh Hashanah services in September, our home will be at Grace Pres byterian Church. Grace Pres byterian is located at 2955 W. Hwy 160, Fort Mill, SC 29708 just north of Gold Hill Rd/460. Please participate with our con gregation at our new home.

Temple Solel: New Year, New Home

Havurat Tikvah is a warm, supportive and nurturing Jewish Reconstructionist congregation with Shabbat services and a full spectrum of holiday observances as well as religious educational options for both families and single adults. We are a diverse group of families, singles, and Jewish and interfaith couples who participate in projects that promote social justice. We value and depend upon member participation and lead ership for our religious services, spiritual growth, and gover nance.Havurat Tikvah is an affiliate of Reconstructing Judaism. For more information on upcoming services, programs, membership or other queries, call (980) 225-5330, write to Ha vurat Tikvah, P.O. Box 12684, Charlotte, NC 28220, email membership@havurattikvah. org or visit havurattikvah.org. Havurat Tikvah is also on Face book at facebook.com/groups/ havurattikvah.

Cantorial soloist, Sara Sherman, joins TKA for High Holidays (Continued from page 16)

Havurat Tikvah Rabbi Bruce Aft returns to lead High Holiday services at Temple Kol Ami

Join Temple Kol Ami for High Holidays

By Shari Baum Temple Kol Ami (TKA) of Fort Mill, South Carolina, invites you to join us for the High Hol idays. We are thankful to be re turning to in-person services and are thrilled to be led by Rabbi Bruce Aft (after having led for two years on Zoom) and cantorial soloist Sara Sherman. Rabbi Aft is a wonderfully engaging cler gy person who has spent many Shabbats with Temple Kol Ami. He retired from Congregation Adat Reyim of Springfield, Vir ginia, after 29 years of service.

Our Rosh Hashanah services will be: - Rosh Hashanah evening on Sunday 9/25 at 7 p.m. - Rosh Hashanah morning on Monday 9/26 at 10 a.m. - Shabbat Shuvah services will be on Friday, 9/30 at 7 p.m. Our Yom Kippur services will be: - Kol Nidre on Tuesday 10/4 at 7 p.m. - Yom Kippur morning on Wednesday 10/5 at 10 a.m. - Yizkor Service on Wednes day 10/5 at 3 p.m. - Neilah and concluding ser vices will be on Wednesday 10/5 at 4 p.m. We will conclude with a com munity break-the-fast immedi ately following the concluding services on Wednesday, 10/5. We hope that you will join us for High Holy Days, Friday night services, or other events in our new home. Temple Solel holds regular Shabbat services at 7 p.m. on the second and fourth Fridays of each month. To learn more about Temple Solel, please visit https://templesolelsc.org/, write to us at info@templesolelSC.org or call (803) 610-1707.

Rabbi Aft is currently a visiting scholar at George Mason Uni versity in the Jimmy and Rosa lynn Carter School for Peace and Conflict Resolution. He is also the president of the community board for Operation Understand ing DC. He’s a huge baseball fan (and former college player), and he and his wife, Sue, volunteer for the Washington Nationals Youth Baseball Academy. Sara is a professional musician from New York City who has lent her beautiful voice to our High Hol idays for many years. Her ren dition of Kol Nidre is especially lovely. We are looking forward to very meaningful and spiritu ally uplifting High Holidays un der the leadership of Rabbi Aft and Cantor Sara Sherman as we welcome 5783 together. Please contact us at yorksynagogue@ gmail.com or (803) 701-0149 for more information, or check our website www.templekolamisc. org. The schedule for High Holi day services is as follows: Erev Rosh Hashanah, September 25, 7 p.m.; Rosh Hashanah, Sept 26, 10 a.m.; Kol Nidre, October 4, 7 p.m.; Yom Kippur, October 5, 10 a.m.; Neilah, October 5, 4 p.m.. Further information about junior congregation services, tashlich, yizkor, and break the fast can be found on our web site. Tickets are included in TKA membership, but non-members are welcome to purchase tickets and join us as well. Military and college students are invited to worship with us for free. All ser vices take place at Philadelphia United Methodist Church, 1691 SC-160, Fort Mill. It is not too late to enroll your child at Temple Kol Ami Reli gious School, which starts Sep tember 11. The TKA Religious School teachers and administra tors have been hard at work all summer getting ready to provide a meaningful Jewish education. For more information, please contact us at chool@gmail.com.tka.religioussIfyouliveinYorkCountyor the Ballantyne area, Temple Kol Ami might be the place for you! We are a warm and inclusive Re form congregation composed of Jews from diverse backgrounds. We wish you and your loved ones Shanah Tovah U’Metukah, a sweet, healthy, and prosperous New Year!

The Charlotte Jewish News - September 2022 - Page 19 Sweeten your new year. We have the High Holiday essentials you need and the recipes you’ll love. Find them at publix.com/highholidays.

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Donna Tarney (Stan Greenspon Center), Andrew Burton (English teacher, friend of the North Car olina Council on the Holocaust), and Cherie Page (ELA teacher, Piedmont Middle School) facil itated the trip. For more information re garding programs and services of the North Carolina Council on the Holocaust, contact Mike Abramson at mabramson919@ gmail.com. To donate in sup port of the Council, contact Mitch Rifkin at rif121@caroli na.rr.com. Correction: In the print ver sion, this article, titled “The Greenspon Center Provides Transformative Education: On the Road and In Charlotte,” was incorrectly titled and should have stated that: “The trip was made possible by generous fund ing from the North Carolina Holocaust Foundation with fi nancial support from the Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte, a valued partner. Donna Tarney, the Greenspon Center Education and Outreach Specialist support ed the NC Council on the Holo caust as lead educator.”

Albertia Burgess, On slow Virtual Secondary School “When teaching the Holo caust, ‘fighting back’ has been the perspective I’ve used to teach this historical tragedy for more than a decade. This past week, during our trip to Washington, D.C., my perspective shifted … Though I have always relied on my own ability to retaliate in some capacity, the fourth floor of the USHMM [focused on the Nazi use of terror] refused me the opportunity. I could not fight; I could not stand up for me. All at once, I was nobody; I was voice less . . . This created a newfound awareness, level of compassion, and interest in activism for me. I will forever be grateful for this experience that I am certain has made me more empathetic and sincere in my efforts to under stand how the histories of others, ultimately, impact me and the students I teach.”

Visiting the USHMM takes a toll on the body and soul. To bring balance to the journey, par ticipants enjoyed an evening tour of the Washington, D.C., mon uments. Our tour guide had a sense of humor, a love of history, and an endless wealth of knowl edge. The group’s favorite stops were the Martin Luther King, Jr. and Lincoln Memorials. Here are reflections from two educators:“Because of this experience, I am now better equipped to help my students understand that such inhumane injustice has happened and can happen again, but that it hasn’t and won’t announce it self as such. I want them to know that when it does happen, they will have a similar obligation to recognize and resist it. That de cision will likely carry risk, but to paraphrase Hannah Senesh, whose heroism I learned about at the museum, we must all be will ing to gamble on what matters most.”

The big questions that guid ed this year’s trip focused on memory and memorialization. Participants sought answers to the questions, “Why do we re member the events of the Ho locaust?” and “How does the United States Holocaust Memo rial Museum (USHMM) tell the story?” They investigated the art and architecture of the muse um, evaluated the exhibits, and searched for stories and artifacts that had an effect on them as ed ucators and individuals. Some times they found answers. Many more times, they discovered new

The Holocaust Foundation of North Carolina has sponsored 4 teacher trips to the USHMM in Washington, DC.

Transformative

Drew Daniels, Hickory High School Generous funding from the North Carolina Holocaust Foun dation, with support from the Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte, made this trip possi ble. It was the Foundation’s first trip outside of North Carolina since COVID-19 came to town.

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In mid-July, a group of North Carolina educators spent time together in Washington, D.C., inquiring, sharing, learning, and building community. When they arrived, though tired, they were ready to dive into the subject that united them: bringing meaning ful Holocaust education to their students.

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Rabbi Asher Knight, senior rabbi of Temple Beth El, at tended the gathering. He com mented, “The Charlotte Jewish community should be proud of our Hebrew Cemetery and the extraordinary community of clergy, staff, and lay leaders who fulfill the sacred act of car ing for all Jews. The training was another example of something that makes Charlotte unique: a shared commitment, across lines of Jewish practice, to work to gether to care for families in the most difficult times and to main taining a beautiful cemetery as a place that recognizes that every life is worth living and every life is worth remembering.” Rabbi Chaim Meir Greenberg, rabbi of Chabad of Lake Norman added, “I’m so thankful to the Hebrew Cemetery for putting to gether a truly wonderful event. The Torah tells us that giving a Jew a proper Jewish burial with respect and dignity is so import ant that even when one is occu pied with the greatest mitzvah of learning Torah, they must stop and get involved in the burial.” Brandon Cook, funeral direc tor at McEwen Funeral Service Pineville Chapel, was honored to be included in the event: “It is a great concept to bring all the pieces of the puzzle togeth er to foster an understanding of the Hebrew Cemetery. As a funeral director who represents an integral part of the process when a death occurs, I found it most informative. It was great to meet most of the people in volved - from the rabbis to the members of the different com mittees involved when a death occurs and to learn of their in dividual desires. I left feeling much more confident about how to handle things for each temple and would like to commend all those involved, especially San dra Goldman and Kevin Levine, for their excellent work and their professionalism when a death occurs.”AndCantor Shira Lissek from Temple Israel explained noted that the gathering exemplifies why our cemetery is dear to so many in our community, as it is intertwined in so many ways, and we all are able to accommodate the diversity of our Jewish com munity. She went on to say that these sacred grounds are not just convenient but also a beautiful and very well maintained space. These are reasons a gathering like this is so important.

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Last month, the Hebrew Cem etery Association once again held a forum on the topic of “Death and Dying in the Jewish Com munity.” The first gathering of this kind took place three years ago, and the board of directors thought that with the arrival of new stakeholders in the commu nity, it was time for a repeat of such an important event. Nearly 40 professionals from the Greater Charlotte area came together at Temple Israel to learn from each other and to build stronger bonds between the in stitutions in our region that par ticipate in each stage of the death and dying process. In attendance were clergy and chevra kaddisha of our various temples, funeral home directors, leadership of Jewish Family Services, Eldercare, the LJCC Oasis and others. After an overview about the cemetery’s operations, a lively discussion was held about the process that will occur when a death is im minent or has not yet occurred. Each of the participating or ganizations sought to be more knowledgeable of each other’s role and determine how each can complement and support each other. It is these kinds of open conversations that strengthen our collective efforts by diminishing redundancies and helping us be come more efficient.

Hebrew Cemetery Holds Its Second Death and Dying Stakeholder Meeting

By Sandra Goldman, Executive Director

Kevin Levine, board member of He brew Cemetery Association, and San dra Goldberg, executive director The Hebrew Cemetery joins with the community in remembering the names of those who have been buried at the Hebrew Cemetery in the month of July.

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Though “fast fashion” de scribes clothing that is cheaply made and intended for shortterm use, “sustainable” (or “eth ical”) fashion is the opposite and is sometimes even referred to as “slow fashion.” It considers the full lifecycle of the product — from the design, sourcing, and production processes — and looks at everyone and every thing being affected by it, from the environment to the work ers and communities where it’s produced to the consumers who purchase it.

Tashchit and Beyond Making a Case for Slow Fashion

There are many ways you can be a more sustainable clothing consumer. When shopping for clothes and accessories, it’s easy to reduce the environmental im pact of your wardrobe by buying from second-hand, consignment, or rental stores and websites. There are many options to find gently used or never worn items at a fraction of the price of buy ing new, while treading more lightly on the planet. Online shoppers will love thredUP along with resale sites for Patagonia (Worn Wear), Allbirds (ReRun), and Levi’s (Secondhand).

Alternatively, if you’re looking to rent or borrow rather than buy, you should try Rent the Runway, StyleLend, TheRealReal, and Le Tote.Thrifting saves money, re freshes your wardrobe, and reroutes used clothing from landfills. Did you know that the average American throws away up to 81 pounds of clothing per year? In addition to making en vironmentally responsible pur chasing choices, it’s important to donate (not just sell or consign) your clothes at the end of their useful lives to nonprofit organi zations working to support un derserved communities. How About Buying New? Buying second-hand or renting clothes may not be for everyone, so another way to reduce your closet’s environmental footprint is to look for sustainable prod ucts made by apparel companies such as Levi’s. From growing the cotton to dyeing and finishing, it takes more than 2,000 gallons of water just to make one pair of jeans. Levi’s focuses on the finishing processes to remove water wherever possible with its WellThread collection. This assortment features pieces that took less water to produce and use more recycled materials. One local company that is a pioneer in sustainable cloth ing manufacturing is Recover Brands (https://recoverbrands. com/), based here in Charlotte. The company is focused on be ing environmentally friendly and socially responsible as possible in all aspects of its businessfrom design to manufacturing to fulfillment. Each Recover T-shirt is made from eight plas tic bottles that are shredded into flake and knitted into a shirt. The products are stylish and incred ibly comfortable, so we highly recommend purchasing from this outstanding company. When trying to reduce your environmental footprint, keep these strategies in mind: - Wear the clothes you already have (this is the most sustainable choice!).-Buy or rent second-hand clothes from online or physical stores. - When buying new, select those products that were man ufactured using less water and less energy and that use recycled materials.

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We hear a great deal about how we can make more sus tainable choices when selecting energy sources, vehicles, and foods. However, we likely don’t often think about the environ mental and social impacts of the clothing we buy. The fashion in dustry represents an important part of our economy, with a val ue of more than $2.5 trillion and employing more than 75 million people worldwide. The sector has seen spectacular growth in recent times, as clothing produc tion doubled between 2000 and 2014. However, although peo ple bought 60% more garments in 2014 than in 2000, they only kept the clothes for half as long (McKinsey & Company, 2016). In recent years, consumers have been buying more cloth ing, using clothes fewer times, and throwing them out rather than seeking to prolong their use through reuse, resale, or recy cling. These behaviors have fu eled the growth of “fast fashion” houses, whose business models are based on producing high volumes of clothes as cheaply as possible and selling as many as 52 mini-collections per year. According to Rabbi Lawrence Troster, the Torah prohibits the wasteful consumption of any thing. When we waste resources, we are violating the command ment of Bal Tashchit (“Do not destroy”). The underlying idea of this mitzvah is the recognition that everything we own belongs to God. When we consume in a wasteful manner, we violate our mandate to use Creation only for our legitimate benefit; therefore, Jews are obligated to carefully consider our real needs whenev er we purchase anything. Here are some surprising sta tistics related to the environmen tal footprint of fast fashion: - Fashion production makes up 10% of humanity’s carbon emissions, more than all interna tional flights and maritime ship ping combined (UNECE, 2018). - 85% of all textiles go to the landfill each year, and the equiv alent of one garbage truck full of clothes is burned or dumped in a landfill every second (UNEP, 2018) and (UNECE, 2018). - 60% of all materials used by the fashion industry are made from plastic (UNEP, 2019). - 500,000 tons of microfibers are released into the ocean each year from washing clothes — the equivalent of 50 billion plastic bottles (Ellen MacArthur Foun dation, 2017) - 93 billion cubic meters of water — enough to meet the needs of five million people — is used by the fashion industry an nually, contributing significantly to water scarcity in some regions (UNCTAD, 2020).

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On October 12 at 7:30 pm, join us at Sara’s Sukkah for a mini-Sukkah building contest and for Soup in Sara’s sukkah. We will repurpose leftover corks from our spring event as well as other construction items to see who can build the loveliest lit tle sukkah. I’m certain Sara’s delicious soup will give us all strength and creativity to win. New for this year: Sara will host a monthly series called Sip & Schmooz beginning on No vember 14 at 12:30 pm. These gatherings will have no agenda and no planning; just bring your desire to get together and so cialize as Jewish women. We’ll rotate between evening and af ternoon Schmoozes and meet at various locations around town. Remember to check our website (see below) for locations and dates. Did someone ask about the W.O.W. Book Club — yes! It’s back for 5783 with a wonderful line up. Meetings will be held ev ery other month beginning with November on the third Tuesday of the month. First up on Novem ber 15 at 7 p.m. will be “Chasing Freedom” by Ella Miriam, who will be joining our discussion.

By Andrea Erdheim Gamlin

A New Year With Women of Wisdom

This year, Rosh Hashanah, the start of the Days of Awe, begins at sundown the evening of Sep tember 25. What do these days signify to you? For many, they serve as a time during which we reflect on the past year, ask for forgiveness from those around us whom we may have inadvertent ly hurt, and pray for good things in the New Year. It may be a time when we visit with friends and family at synagogue, and wish that they are inscribed and sealed for a good year. We hear the call of the shofar, reminding us to ask for forgiveness. Final ly, on Rosh Hashanah, there are many traditions relating to food: eating round challah with raisins, dipping apple in honey, and eat ing sweet foods. For me, it’s my favorite time of the Jewish cal endar, namely, gathering with family and friends, eating sweet foods, and being able to reflect and plan for ways to make the coming year better always make meOnehappy.of the things we do at W.O.W. this time of year is an nounce our plans for ways to make the coming year better for Charlotte-area Jewish wom en. We have a variety of events planned for 5783 that are sure to bring education, friendship and fun for participants. Our Kick off Event is our Mind, Body and Soul Spa Evening on Tuesday, September 6 at 7:30 p.m. We will learn how to take better care of our whole selves: our emotional, physical, and spiritual selves. Our 15th annual challah sale has already begun, but we have wonderful additions this year! Last year, we received many re quests for chocolate chip challah, and this year, it’s on the menu. But wait, there’s more: we also had requests for mini challah and that, too, is on the menu! Sara’s challah is known around the world, literally, and you can get it locally! Pricing includes the usu al “buy 2 get the 3rd free” deal. The order deadline is September 9 at noon. Would you prefer to make it and bake challah yourself? We have you covered! Our Annual Women’s Challah Bake is back on September 13 at 7 p.m. and will be led by baker Fran Dordick. Like last year, we are holding the Bake in person and through live streaming. We recognize that some women are happier baking surrounded by friends, whereas others are more comfortable join ing in the fun from the comfort of their own kitchens – either way, we bake, chat, and have challah to show for our efforts!

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This book offers a riveting ac count of the author’s escape from the Soviet Union, and having Ms. Miriam join us is sure to kick our discussion up a notch. The next Book Club meeting will be on January 17 with “What Would You Do if You Weren’t Afraid” by Michal Oshman. The author shares her wisdom on personal growth, which she bases on Jew ish teachings. She offers practical advice for common personal and business concerns. Join us on the journey of self-discovery and im provement! Let’s go back to December. It can be such a stressful month. Are you often at a loss for Chanukah gifts? We’ve got you covered! In December, W.O.W. is having a sale on Chanukah gift boxes filled with fun Chanukah items. These Chanukah-filled gift boxes will be easy to ship to family and friends in and out of town. Once we’ve helped you through the stress, it’s party time! Dreidels Drinks and Donuts, W.O.W.’s Chanukah Party and Gift Ex change, will be on December 20 at 7 p.m. We’ll light a Chanuki ah (the Chanukah menorah), eat, drink, play games, and exchange small gifts – no stress, all fun. One of W.O.W.’s main purpos es is to heavily subsidize wonder ful, meaningful trips to Israel for moms. On January 10, we will have an evening event to learn more about the trip and W.O.W. I went on the trip three years ago and still keep in touch with my travel sisters, who all recall our trip as one of the best and most significant times in our lives. Sara has been leading the Char lotte tripees on the MOMentum trip for many years and always has her door open, figuratively and literally, to any and all ques tions Jewishly. If you know of a woman who would benefit from seeing Israel through Jewish eyes – or if you are such a woman –please join us to get more infor mation on January 10, 2023. Finally, another way that W.O.W. has you covered in 5783 is through our Purim Shalach Manot Gift Box sale. The boxes will be filled with hamantaschen and Purim surprises. No more dealing with “what do I give for Purim this year?” because we’ll have the boxes already made and ready to gift! Speaking of Ha mantaschen, do you bake your own? Would you like to get some ideas for fillings? Join W.O.W. at our Purim Poetry Slam and Ha mantaschen Tasting. You will sample Sara’s gourmet sweet and savory hamantaschen and come away with recipes to create your own at home. You’ll also take part in a Purim Poetry slam –we’ll provide pencil and paper; you provide your creativity! This is just a taste; there’s much more planned for 5783. For more information about W.O.W. or to sign up for events or sales listed above, please see our website at enOfWisdom.comwww.CharlotteWomandfollow W.O.W. Inspiring, Empowering and Connecting Jewish Women on Facebook. We are a nonde nominational group for Jewish women to engage, learn, and connect. No synagogue affilia tion is necessary, just an interest to learn more about our beautiful heritage!

Women’s News W.O.W.sa! Check out these events! September 6 at 7:30 p.m. Mind, Body and Soul Spa Evening September 9th at noon Challah order deadline September 13 at 7 p.m. Women’s Challah Bake (online and in person) October 12 at 7:30 p.m. Sukkah contest/Soup in Sara’s Sukkah Event November 14 at 12:30pm Sip & Schmooz with W.O.W November 15 at 7:00pm Book Club with the author: “Chasing Freedom” by Ella Miriam December Chanukah gift box sale December 20 at 7 p.m. Dreidels Drinks and Donuts Chanukah Party and Gift Ex change January 10 at 7 p.m. Israel Trip Information Evening January 17 at 7 p.m. Book Club: “What Would You Do if You Weren’t Afraid” by Michal Oshman

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The High Holidays make me feel nostalgic. They also make me feel hopeful. Sweet nostalgia of the past - loving hope about the future. Nostalgic about the past as I remember my great-grand mother cooking brisket in my bubbe’s (grandmother’s) kitch en, and when, decades later, I learned to make round challah with honey and raisins at in the synagogue kitchen in Cincinna ti. Hopeful for the future when my oldest son asked for “my” recipes for brisket and challah for his Rosh Hashanah dinner in Boston. Nostalgic as I remember my zayde’s (grandfather’s) beau tiful baritone voice singing the blessings, and hopeful when I see my middle son and his friends saying the blessings on a Friday night at a music festival. Nostal gic when I think about holiday dinners with my grandparents, aunts, uncles, and lots of cousins. Hopeful about the future when my youngest joins my extend ed family in Philadelphia and creates new memories with his aunts, uncles, and cousins. Past meets future, and life happens in between.Onbehalf of the Hadassah Charlotte Metro chapter, I wish everyone a happy, sweet, and healthy New Year 5783! L’sha nah tovah tikateivu v’tichateimu. May you have a good year, and may you be inscribed and sealed for blessing in the Book of Life. Get Ready for Rosh Hashanah Don’t miss your chance to wish friends and family a sweet New Year. Send them honey for Rosh Hashanah. Each 8 oz. jar of kosher honey is $14 plus shipping. Order by September 1 for guaranteed delivery by Rosh Hashanah. The person alized card tells recipients that a donation was made in their honor to the Hadassah Charlotte Metro Chapter. Order at www. orthoney.com/HCM.SendyourRosh Hashanah card to the correct address. Make sure your friends are list ed in the Hadassah Charlotte Metro Jewish Community On line Directory. It’s free! Go to the Hadassah website, Hadas sah Directory tab, and follow the instructions in one of the green boxes to either sign up or update your listing in the online directory. This year, make a resolution to take care of your health. The Mammovan (aka Novant Health Breast Center mobile unit) will be onsite at the JCC on Nov. 30, 2022. Call Novant to make an appointment. (704) 384-7226 Social Time Join us on September 6, at 7 p.m. for Wine & Schmooze at Vintner Wine Market in the Arboretum Shopping Center. Whether you are a longtime, new, or potential member, stop by for a casual evening. No Oc tober meet-up (conflict with Kol Nidre), but we’ll resume our first Tuesday of the month event on NovemberPost-High1. Holiday blues? Come play! What’s your game – Mahjongg? Canasta? Rum mikub? Dominoes? Get your friends together and come to Ha dassah’s Game Day on Sunday, October 23. Fun, lunch, and door prize ticket can be yours for $36. Check our website for venue and time.Stay tuned for a Jewish Her itage Tour in November. Check our website for details/sign-ups. Book Time Hadassah BookTalk is off for the High Holidays in September. See you on October 25 at 7 p.m. for our fall kickoff. Beverly’s Book Nook will meet on Friday, September 16 at 1:30 p.m. via Zoom. The September book selection is “We Stand Di vided” by Daniel Gordis. The book examines the history of the troubled relationship between American Jews and Israel. We will discuss “The Matzah Ball” by Jean Meltzer on Octo ber 14 and “Saving the Music” by Vincent B. “Chip” LoCoco on November 18. Special for short story lovers! Author Sharon Hart-Green will be the guest speaker (via Zoom) at the S hort Story Discussion Group on Friday, September 16 at 11:45 a.m. Dr. Hart-Green holds a PhD in Jewish Studies from Brandeis University, where her dissertation was a study on the Israeli Nobel prize winner S. Y. BeginningAgnon. October 21, month ly discussions will be about sto ries from Israeli author Amos Oz’s collection “Scenes from a Village Life.” The Short Story Discussion Group meets month ly on the third Friday at 11:45 a.m.

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By Charlotte Rouchouze As we wrap up 5782 and look toward the new year, we natural ly think back about what this past year has brought, both good and bad. One of the most defining events of this year has been Pu tin’s war on Ukraine, which has now been dragging on for half a year. As Jews, some of us have looked on with a set of feelings that we may not have expected. This might be both because Jews are familiar with oppression and because many of us can actually trace our lineage to the Ukraine, parts of which were included in the “Pale of Settlement” that de fined where in the Russian Em pire Jews were allowed to live. When I saw the bombing of the airport at Vinnytsia, I saw images of the very city my grandmother left when she fled as a child in 1928. All my life, however, my grandmother Gita Rabin re ferred to herself as Russian, not Ukrainian, and this speaks to an important distinction when con sidering how Jews remember their Ukrainian past. Jews origi nally had their own language and culture (Yiddish/Ashkenazi) and only learned Russian as a way of making their way through business and education in the Russian empire and later in the USSR. Thus while ethnic Ukrai nians always spoke Ukrainian and retained a Ukrainian identity, this was generally less true for the Jews. In addition, many Jews who stayed in Russia through the later Soviet years often moved out of the Pale once residence there was no longer required, thus bringing them culturally closer to Russia. But Ukraine remains an im portant site of Jewish history. Many Chassidic communities originated in Ukrainian towns, the most well-known of which is probably the town of Uman, where tens of thousands of Chas sidim arrive every year on Rosh Hashanah to visit the burial site of the Breslov Rabbi Nachman. How are Jewish families of Ukrainian heritage digesting Russia’s war on Ukraine? Do we feel personally connect ed to Ukraine? Early in the war, I personally participated in a beautiful initiative called Hamenstaschen for Ukraine, in which Jewish bakers across the country raised money by selling hamantaschen. I raised almost $500 over a few days and was so happy to share this act of tzedakah with my non-Jewish neighbors, who generously pur chased many dozens of cookies. At the same time, I’ve heard of some Jews of Ukrainian heritage who feel more conflicted about their Ukrainian past. Given the turbulent times in which many Jews left, this is understandable as Forwell.the two people I’ve in vited to our table today, there is no doubt that we should be con necting more and doing all we can to support Ukraine. Marina Alexandra, a native of Ukraine, has watched in horror as the peo ple and places of her past have been crushed under the Russian army, and she has gone to great lengths to spread awareness of the Ukraine war here in Char lotte. Robert Adler, whose plans you may have read about in the June issue, is a local chef who spent time in Poland cooking for refugees through chef José An drés’ organization, World Central Kitchen. I heard from both about their experiences in the last few months. Marina Alexandra Let’s begin with Marina Al exandra. When I asked Marina about her connection to Ukraine, she told me that she was born to a Jewish mother and a non-Jewish Russian father in Astrahan city in the USSR, where her mother had gotten a job after graduat ing with an engineering degree. When Marina was three, her mother decided to move back to Ukraine. She recalls that her hometown of Kharkiv had gor geous streets and that the down town had an old European-style architecture. At the age of 14, Marina was accepted to the mu sic state college. The buildings where she studied were very old, and she remembers a kind of magic about them. “I felt the presence of a creative spirit and muse every time I was inside. I remember we never had enough practice rooms, and most of the students would practice in the hallways. When you entered the music college or conservatory, the music noise was in your face right away. These were careless, beautiful times.” When Marina and her family immigrated to the United States as Jewish refugees, she assumed her Ukrainian life wasWhenover. I asked Marina how it felt to watch the events in Ukraine, she had one word: painful. She says, “Just imagine going back to your childhood memories for a second … re member your first kindergarten … remember the school back yard where you used to play with your friends. Now imagine to morrow you turn on the TV and the news tells you that all that is destroyed!” She told me that events became very real when her childhood friend lost his wife two weeks after the war started. She was killed while donating blood to the Ukrainian Army in the neighborhood hospital. She was only 35 and the mother of a 7-year-old boy. “On February 24, I felt Ukrainian, more Ukrainian than ever before.”

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Next, I asked Marina wheth er she had found that Ashkenazi Jews from Ukraine were con necting to their heritage during this war. While she is still rela tively new to Charlotte, she ad mitted she had been somewhat disappointed by the general lack of support among American Ash kenazi Jews. In her view, Jews as a nation have always stood for justice and liberation; we need only think of the Passover seder, the annual reminder of the importance of personal and national liberation. “It seems to me that showing your support for Ukraine should be a given. We all have to support Ukraine in its fight for independence and liberation from the Russian Army. Every Jew knows all too well the meaning of the word genocide. We all remember how our grandparents were forced to forget who they were; they were not allowed to speak their lan guage or preserve their culture. The last people who spoke the Yiddish language in my family were my great-grandparents on my mother’s side.” Marina compared the Rus sian attack on Yiddish culture and identity to the current one on Ukraine. She explained that when the Russian army occu pies the Ukrainian territories, the first thing it does is establish a Russian language-only policy everywhere; the army distrib utes Russian passports, forces Russian citizenship on Ukraini ans, and brings in schoolteachers from Russia to force a Russian propaganda-filled curriculum on Ukrainian children. There is also rampant rape and kidnap ping occurring across the newly Russian-occupied areas. In response, Marina and sev eral others founded the non profit organization Charlotte for Ukraine that currently has eight active committee members and dozens of volunteers. Marina says that Charlotte for Ukraine was formed to create awareness about the war in Ukraine and has been focused on planning rallies in uptown Charlotte. They work hard on educating people about the war and create displays at the rallies explaining Ukrainian his tory and the bloody war happen ing now. More than a thousand people showed up to the first ral ly. “We felt united; we felt sup ported by our American friends. People from the Latino commu nity, the Indian community, and other communities showed up to be with us, to cry with us, to protest the war with us.” Thanks to the continuing generosity and compassion of the Indian com munity (and its project Rise to Raise), refugees have free access to kindergarten, summer camps, food assistance, and a few med ical specialists. But she says that the war is becoming “old” for so many and that they are losing the support they desperately need, especially now. Charlotte for Ukraine orga nization has also expanded its original mission into two main directions:1)helping Ukrainians in crisis in Ukraine by working directly with volunteers in Ukraine and sponsoring the purchase of food and medications, and

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Next, we will catch up with Robert Adler, who went to Po land in June and spent time on the Poland/Ukraine border cook ing and serving refugees arriv ing by train from their war-torn homes. Before he had even left, he had a lesson on how the hu manitarian response was struc tured (which is to say not very) when a volunteer in Charlotte asked him to deliver a suitcase to volunteers in Poland. When he opened the suitcase to verify the contents, he found tourni quets, ibuprofen, and summer uniforms, all necessary supplies for the Ukrainian military. He was struck by the informality and small scale of the efforts, which he said was typical of the response he saw. “This was just people helping people the best theyHecould.”firstarrived in Warsaw and then made his way to Przemsyl where the home base of World Central Kitchen is lo cated. As an experienced chef, he arrived ready to help prepare food for the thousands of people moving through the area. The population they served consist ed mostly of women, children, and elderly people, all trying their best to keep it together af ter leaving their husbands and fa thers behind (men are required to stay in the country). Every morn ing, he and the 30 or so other vol unteers would make 5,000 pani ni, a convenient, portable meal for those who need something to carry with them. In addition, they made giant vats of stewed meats along with vegetables, kasha, potatoes, rice, and sheet cakes for dessert. After preparing the food, they took a break and then in the evening headed to the train station to serve. It was there he met, face-to-face, the fraying and frazzled people leaving Ukraine. The work was exhausting but re warding, as he had the chance to really feel the gratitude of those he was helping. When I asked Robert how be ing Jewish affected this experi ence, he admitted that some Jews gave him a side glance when he said he was going to Ukraine to help. “When my grandpar ents left, the Ukrainians did not treat them well,” they would tell him. To that he said, “If we only went to countries that had never treated their Jews poorly, we would not travel very far!” His focus, and that of his fellow volunteers, was to do something

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2) creating programs and re sources that are highly effective and sophisticated time-wise for newly arriving Ukrainian refu gees. When I asked Marina which dish most reminded her of Ukraine, she told me that it would have to be borscht. She says, “I grew up very poor, but as long as we didn’t add meat chunks into the borsht (which some people did) we were OK. We could always afford this rec ipe.” Marina did not give precise quantities because this is the kind of dish in which you improvise based on what you have. Basically, to make her version of borscht, you chop some cab bage and boil in plenty of wa ter or broth along with a couple of bay leaves and peppercorns. Meanwhile, peel and chop some beets and potatoes and add those to the pot. Next, sauté some on ion and carrots in a bit of olive oil (in a separate pan) until trans lucent and then add it to the pot along with tomato paste. Marina says this infuses onion flavor in the soup, making entire borscht recipe more delicious. Season the borscht with vinegar, garlic, sugar, and pepper. Stir, turn off heat, and let borscht soup stand for 10 minutes covered to allow flavors to “marry” each other. Last, add chopped dill, which will give it a distinctly East ern European flavor, and your borscht recipe is ready to serve. If people would like to help Ukrainians in crisis overseas and here in Charlotte, they can do nate at our website http://www. CharlotteForUkraine.org.

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positive to help the people in this land, which is, after all, that of his ancestors. And it is clear that for Robert Adler, his identity as a Jew fit perfectly with his service to these struggling refugees. Although the Jewish com munity is now virtually extinct in Eastern Europe, Adler found Jewish traces all around, start ing with the center of Warsaw where he came across a stone monument with small pebbles placed on top. It turned out to be the last remains of a wall of the Warsaw Ghetto, on which vis itors placed stones in keeping with the Jewish tradition upon visiting a grave. Adler also vis ited Auschwitz, just in time for the 82nd anniversary, and took a Jewish Heritage tour of Kra kow. He was heartened to see the many groups of schoolchildren from across Europe that were there for the anniversary event. I also asked Robert wheth er he had managed to taste the local Polish cuisine while there, and he enthusiastically affirmed that he had. He told me about delightful, fluffy pierogis he had tried, stuffed with everything from potatoes to fruit. His most memorable meal, he said, was a unique Polish soup called Zurek.

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Zurek is considered to be “white borscht” that is made from fer mented rye, broth, vegetables, and various meats and topped with a boiled egg. He and his wife are eager to try to recreate that dish at home. When he thinks back on the experience as a whole, Robert tells me that this experience has helped him put into perspective some of the petty political fights that occupy us here in the United States. While in Poland, he saw people in the midst of personal catastrophes that are hard for us to imagine and in fact would have been hard for them to imag ine just a few short months ago. He also saw people from vari ous parts of the world who had left their lives voluntarily to join in Ukraine’s struggle. Amid the chaos, he was inspired by these people who were willing to put themselves at risk to help a cause larger than themselves. I’d like to leave you with a Ukrainian apple cake that is per fect for your Rosh Hashanah ta ble. This is a kind of light sponge cake with a delicate crumb, and it’s called a Sharlotka. The ingre dients couldn’t be simpler.

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By Devorah Gorkin I always warn parents when they volunteer for a project that if they do a great job, I will remember and ask them to do it again when the op portunity arises. A new school year brings excitement, fresh energy, and new parents filling important roles in our school community. This year’s board president and PTO presidents are parents who have always been willing to help by serving on the PTO, as room parent, or volunteering as needed. Their contributions are appreciated by all of us at Jewish Preschool on Sardis (JPS), and it is my honor to work alongside them this year. It is my pleasure to introduce Morgan Martyn as our new ad visory board president! Mor gan has been a parent at JPS since 2018 and has watched the school grow in many ways. She served as PTO president last year and brought many new events and initiatives to our school family. She is passion ate about what JPS provides to the Charlotte Jewish com munity, contributes valuable insight to every conversation, and devotes her time and en ergy to make sure her vision is brought to reality. Her transi tion will be seamless thanks to Sara Kulbersh, previous board president. We would like to take this opportunity to thank Sara for her invaluable support and leadership these past four years — thank you for all you do to strengthen Charlotte’s Jewish community. Our new PTO presidents, Amy Schapiro and Erin Schackman, have been busy this summer planning social events and organizing volun teer opportunities for families. With a strong focus on building community for parents, they have come up with many ideas and programs to meet the needs of both full-time and part-time families. It is sure to be a fab ulous year ahead with our JPS families! on Sardis Welcomes New Advisory Board President and PTO Presidents

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By Mariashi Groner As we look for our motto for the upcoming school year, it does not take long to identify the goals we would like to set for our stu dents. Our children are a reflec tion of who we are, how we be have, and the “loudest” messages from society. Regretfully, we, as a society, have not found a way out of a sense of entitlement, the determination to have all that is available, and the inability to be satisfied with what we’ve been blessed. The more headway we make with our children, the sooner the changes will take place in our communities. Therefore, we have taken an excerpt from our sacred text of Ethics of our Fa thers. “Eizehu Ashir Hasameach Bechelko, Who is rich? One who is happy with his lot.” While it is true that the Torah has very high expectations of us, we believe that if our sages have taught this lesson, we must be able to fulfill this expectation. To make this lesson accessible to our students, our message is “Count your blessings, not your problems!”

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blessings could be as simple as appreciating the treat that has been given out for their birthday, instead of wishing it were something else, or being able to manage disappointment when finding out that the class above them is going on a coveted field trip. We don’t have to look far for the opportunity to count blessings when we consider what we have all experienced over the last two years. No matter how difficult these years have been, most of the time we had much for which to be grateful. Even so, we are all human, and choos ing to see blessings rather than problems is a constant battle for children and adults. Yet we know that if we achieve this approach and attitude, the peace we will find in our lives is unimaginable. Unfortunately, the world is giving us many opportunities to practice being aware of how for tunate we are and, no matter how difficult the challenges may be, to be grateful. We would like to help our kids tap into that ability because if they do, their future will be brighter. We are excited to start the new year, rejuvenated and invigorated to help raise the next generation.

You will see it on our banners and in our social media; you will hear it in our songs and, hopefully, you will see it in the actions and reac tions of our students. Each year, we set very high goals for our students. When we start the year, we are not always sure how easily these can be taught, practiced, and achieved. After all, they are children. If adults have difficulty with this perspective, what can we expect from the kids? However, once we incorporate these lessons and messages throughout the year using song, art, drama, games, and stories, it is amazing to see our students internalize them. We are reminded that we should not underestimate the capacity our kids have to understand and grasp the goodness and tranquility that they can achieve by reaching for improvement step by step, little by Countinglittle.

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Our Junior Teen Friend pro gram is designed for preteens entering adulthood. The pur pose is to provide the teens with a meaningful way to empower themselves as they give to oth ers. Boys and girls ages 12 to 13 will meet once a week for a three-week series. Each session will build on the previous les sons, helping the students reach a point of confidence in spending time with a special friend. Week 1: Monday, October 24, 6:30-7:30 p.m. “Intro. to Special Needs; Understanding the Chal lenges” Week 2: Monday, October 31, 6:30-7:30 p.m. “Engaging Peo ple With Special Needs and Making Friends” Week 3: Monday, November 7, 6:30-7:30 p.m. “Bridging the Gap — What We Can Do About It” Graduation: Monday, Novem ber 14 at Friendship6:30 Circle’s “Junior Teen Friend” program quali fies for three hours of commu nity service. After completing the semester, participants may schedule a meeting to register as a Friendship Circle Teen Friend. For more information or to RSVP, please contact Shevy at (704) 366-5983 or shevy@ friendshipcirclenc.org.

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First Trimester Jewish Soul Has a Voice Join your voice with Cantor Shira Lissek to sing your favor ite Jewish songs and learn new ones. Each week we’ll explore and connect with meaningful texts that inspire us to live our best lives and grow spiritually. The songs may be your favorites from camp, youth group, or syn agogue, or they may be new to you. No previous musical expe rience is necessary. The musical settings we choose will be fun and accessible. Beyond Koufax: Jews in Sports Sports have an innate ability to connect people from across the world around a single team, game, or athlete. For many, being a part of a sports fan base is al most like belonging to a religion. What happens when Judaism in teracts with the world of athlet ics? Why is it that Jews have his torically been seen as unathletic?

By Megan Harkavay Hebrew High registration has been open for a month, and there is still time to register. Do you know any 8 to 12th graders looking to spend time with their friends in an exciting, safe, and educational environment? He brew High is the place to be. We are offically kicking off our calendar year on Wednesday, September 14 with an evening of games and fun to welcome those who are new to our community and welcome back those who have attended Hebrew High in the past. Our second week, we are partnering with B’nai B’rith Youth Organization, United Syn agogue Youth, North American Federation for Temple Youth, and Jewish Family Services to screen “The Upstanders,” a film that breaks down all aspects of cyber-bullying and builds em pathy and resilience to stand up to it. Finally, on October 12 we will start our first trimester class. Below are a couple of classes of fered each trimester.

Third Trimester So You Want To Be a Rabbi? We all know rabbis, but have you ever thought you might want to be a rabbi one day? Learn with Rabbi Wolk about how you become a rabbi and, most importantly, what a rabbi does. This incredible profession has been around for 2,000 years and constantly changes to meet the needs of Jews wherever we have lived. This class is open to all, regardless of synagogue affiliation. The denominations among clergy may be different, but the job description remains the same! Modern Israel: Ideas and Val ues of our Spiritual Homeland Ever wonder about what ex actly Zionism is, where modern Hebrew came from, or how ex actly Jews from all over the Dias pora can live in Israel? Join us as we explore these ideas and more to understand what the modern state of Israel is to us as Jews through videos, discussions, and interactive activities.

What can sports teach us about Jewish values and priorities? In this class, we will study how Jewish perspectives on sports have transformed over time and examine how sports can help us strengthen our understanding of and relationship to Jewish val ues, history, and tradition.

Second Trimester Doc Samson to Doja Cat: Jewish Representation in Pop Culture From The Chanukah Song to Mrs. Maisel, Judaism has a heavy presence in contemporary TV, music, and movies. Jewish performers and characters pop up on our screens and in our ears ev ery day, sometimes, without our even knowing it. Who are these people and personalities? How are they represented? In this class, we will talk about some of our favorite Jewish celebrities, music, and on-screen moments and explore what Jewish repre sentation in media means to us. Jews at the Zoo Do Jews believe in unicorns? Did animals really talk in the To rah? Are we responsible for the welfare of animals? Is my dog Jewish? In this class, we will explore what Judaism has to say about animals. Our sources will range from ancient to modern and from legends to laws. Our discussions will range from the mythical Leviathan to modern Jewish views on animal rights and ethical eating.

Antisemitism: Historical Ori gins and Impacts Today Although Judaism brings so much joy and light into our lives, sometimes it is not easy to be Jewish. Sadly, antisemitism is a reality of the world we live in today. In this course, we will examine the history of antisem itism, how it has presented itself over the past few centuries, how it presents today, and what we can do to respond to it. Hebrew High is a joint ven ture between Temple Beth El and Temple Israel and powered by the Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte. It is open to all Jew ish teens in grades 8-12 in the greater Charlotte area. To learn more or to register, please visit www.hebrewhigh.org or contact Megan Harkavy at mharkavy@ hebrewhigh.org.

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One of our cornerstone mind sets at Moishe House is to val ue people. This article by our Ukraine-based, Russian-speak ing Jewish (RSJ) community manager, Michael Rozhkov, highlights the personal impact of the war in Ukraine on a member of our team. This column orig inally appeared in the Forward on March 29, 2022 By Michael Rozhkov My mother has been brain washed by Russian propaganda. Aside from a brief phone call during the first week of the war, I haven’t been communicating with her. It’s too painful to ex pend energy on reasoning with her while my people are getting killed at the front lines. I choose to spend that time and energy caring for people who need it, like the three elderly families in my building. I am at peace with my decision, but losing my mother to Russian propaganda breaks my heart. I’m a Ukrainian Jew who was born and raised in Kyiv, and at 30 years old, I’m just slightly younger than the free nation of Ukraine. I have lived abroad in China, Germany, and Israel, and have worked in the corporate world and in Jewish education. I have had opportunities to de velop myself and see what the world has to offer. My mother, in contrast, grew up in the So viet Union. She was able to be brainwashed into thinking that the Ukrainian military is exter minating its own citizens. I was born in freedom, and I am able to see the truth. I am always critical of ev erything I see and experience. I understand that when I watch television, for example, I am being invited to share in a reali ty that was created by someone else. But my mom, who grew up in the Soviet Union, was forced to experience the reality that the Soviet Union created. I regularly commiserate with my older siblings, but it’s very hard for us to grapple with the truth that my mother is lost to Russian disinformation. This war and the Russian propagan da is dividing countless families just like ours. My mother liked the Soviet Union, and the utopian ideals it convinced her were a reality. It was a world in which everything was straightforward, and there was no room for any criticism. She worked at a shoe factory, where she earned a pretty high salary, and her life was pretty good. She had nothing to com plain about. When the Soviet Union fell, everybody was forced to think for themselves for the first time, and my mother was not ready. She was not equipped with the proper skills to survive in this new world Ukraine was creat ing. She was lost, and I under stand how she became an easy target for Russian propaganda extolling Soviet values, Soviet culture, the myth of how it was cool and great during the Soviet times. But even if Russia recreates the Soviet Union, the “Russian World” that Putin talks about, it won’t be the same. The Soviet Union is a thing of the past. Yet my mother still believes in that fiction, that fairy-tale.

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There is a saying in Russian: “It’s not difficult to trick me be cause I want to be tricked.” We all want to believe in mir acles. A sort of magic was prom ised to my mom by the Soviet Union, and for her and other people her age, no matter the facts, no matter the arguments I have, it is so hard for her to question anything. No matter what I say, it only makes her beliefIncredibly,stronger.my mother’s faith in Russian propaganda does not waver even when her life is threatened. She lives close to a plant that produces electro-en ergy that was being bombed by the Russians. During our only phone call during the war, I said to her explicitly, “Russia was bomb ing this plant right next to your apartment, shells are falling 10 km from your home, and you still don’t believe that it’s Russia attacking us?” “No, that is Ukrainians bomb ing their own citizens, their own power plants.” “Mom, why would they do something like that?” “Because they’re trying to make a genocide against Ukrai nians.”Itried a different tactic. “Mom, the rockets that they’re firing are really expen sive new technology, and the Ukrainian military doesn’t have them. How can Ukraine be firing them if they’re too poor to have them?”“They stole those rockets from Russia and then they fired them.” I spent 20 minutes on the phone trying to convince her, but all our conversation did was convince me of how deeply the propaganda is rooted in her head. There is no liberal tradition within Russia. Nobody who isn’t dreaming of a Soviet Union re stored to its “glory days” wants to be associated with this totally isolated country that is going to experience economic collapse.

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By Meredith Keltz Growing up, Rosh Hashanah always meant a trip to grandma’s house. Ten kids running around, 8 adults, games, music, naps on the living room floor after temple and of course a whole lot of food. Grandma always had a spread. Matzah ball soup, brisket, chick en, kasha, roasted vegetables, sal ads, potatoes. Every year grand ma out did herself. Her meals evolved and as the ten of us got older, there seemed to be more and more food (and no leftovers the following day). As we all got older, got mar ried, moved, had lots of kids, joined different temples, our traditions changed. Grandma now comes to our houses. For a change, we finally get to feed her and she gets to sit back and enjoy as we did when we were children. Figuring out how grandma made her brisket was always a challenge. If you have ever seen the show “Everyone Loves Ray mond” you kind of get the idea of where this is going. She might have given you the recipe but it never tastes the same. I tried for years. Maybe it was the love she put into it, maybe she left out an ingredient, I will never know, but now it was up to me to figure it out.One of my favorite things about cooking now for the holi days is I get to take all these tra ditional foods that grandma once made and put a nice modern twist on it. Her chicken liver that made all the kids cringe, now we make it vegetarian and it’s gone within seconds, the potatoes that were smothered in mushrooms and on ions, now are plain and simple. The brisket that she made, you know the one that sat in the oven all day, now is made in a crock pot. I still cook with the love, but with a modern twist, easy, sim ple, throw together in the morn ing and come home from temple and serve.

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5. Carefully pour vegetables and sauce over brisket, cook high 4-6 hours or on low 8-10 hours.

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6. When done, take out meat, let cool for 5 minutes or until easy to handle, cut, plate and spoon some vegetables over with a touch of gravy. I like to serve the brisket on a large plate with a little gravy and all the vegetables surrounding the cut up brisket. I put the rest of the gravy in a serving bowl or serving container so my guests can enjoy some extra gravy on the side. Note on brisket: this dish can also be frozen if you wanted to prepare ahead. I would recom mend using one of those throw away tins (which makes for easy clean up). Place meat into tin, pour over sauce and when cool freeze. The morning of your din ner, take out to thaw and heat up in the oven till warm. Reprinted with permission Nosher.MyJewishLearning.com/Thefrom

3. Meanwhile in measuring cup add wine, stock, brown sugar, ketchup and vinegar. Whisk and set aside. 4. When vegetables are done add cranberries and cook for another minute. Pour in the wine mixture and add herbs, bring to a boil.

Ingredients: 3 pounds of brisket 2 large onions 6 carrots cut into matchsticks 5 stalks of celery chopped (plus leaves if you have some) 6 cloves garlic chopped 1/4 cup of dried cranberries

6 Tbsp of cider vinegar 1/4 cup brown sugar 1/2 cup ketchup 3/4 cup stock (I used chicken)

A handful of fresh cut herbs (I used parsley and tarragon)

Directions: 1. Heat up a large skillet and add 1 tablespoon of oil. Sprinkle all sides of your brisket with a cou ple pinches of salt and pepper. Add brisket to the sauté pan and brown on both sides (about 5 minutes per side). When brisket is browned, add to crock pot.

2. In same skillet, add a touch more oil and sauté onions, celery, carrots and garlic for about 5-10 minutes, cooking the vegetables just a touch.

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Would our ancestors from Eastern Europe believe it? After the mass immigration to America, after the Shoah, Jewish community thrives in Southern American in Char lotte, North Carolina. The dream of Shalom Park reaches a new level of achievement this fall with the opening of both new synagogue buildings. The entire community is in vited to the dedication of Tem ple Israel’s new edifice sched uled for September 13 at 2:30 p.m. It is an event that Temple Israel’s congregation has been looking toward with great ex citement.Temple Israel has long been part of Jewish life in Charlotte. It officially began when the Hebrew Benevolent Society was chartered by the General Assembly of North Carolina, on December 24, 1870. In Sep tember, 1895, it was formed as Congregation Agudath Achim, Hebrew United Brotherhood. The decades since have brought many changes to the Jewish community and the larger Charlotte-Mecklenburg area. The Temple was first on Seventh Street and then on Dil worth Road. Moving the schul to Shalom Park has already in fused Temple Israel with new vitality.Weinvite you to share our excitement, both at the dedica tion and in the years to come. Temple Israel has many pro grams to meeet many needs. Whether you are young or old, new to Charlotte or a longtime resident, now is the time to discover (or rediscover) what Temple Israel has to offer. We welcome you to join us. About the building Lee Nichols Associates were the architects for the new build ing, and the D.C. Turner Con struction Company built the building. Featured are stained glass windows in the main sanctuary which depict Bib lical themes and events from Creation to the Ten Command ments. Using motifs such as a dove, Jacob’s coat, a pyriamid, and other graphic depictions, the windows provide a splen did spiritual link between the building, Jewish heritage, and history. The new building is large and very functional in its use of space and design. It will be totally accessible to people with disabilities, including a wheelchair ramp up to the bi mah. There is ample seating capacity in the main sanctuary as well as a beautiful chapel. Religious service areas are well designed as are the areas for meal preparation and staff offices. The new Temple Israel is in deed a blessing the the commu nity and a superb materialiation of the congregation’s collective dream. As Sol Jaffa wrote, “Five years of dreaming, plan ning and working have finally come to fruition. The results have exceeded our most opti mistic expectations.”

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What is Temple Beth El? It is a synagogue, a meeting place for Jewish worship, re ligious study and social inter action based in the Charlotte community but extending its interest nationally and world wide.In reality, it is a magnifi cent new structure atop a hill in Shalom Park. The building was inspired by historical syn agogues evoking ancient and traditional Judaic elements and was designed by Kehert, Shatken, Sharon Architects of Princeton, New Jersey. It is also much more than that! It is a group of approx imately five hundred families of all ages, sizes, with diverse interests and various objec tives for belonging to this almost fifty year old Reform congregation.Itisalsomuch more than that! The varying interests and foresight are what brought about the new Temple Beth El, and going further back in history, Shalom Park. It will be these varying interests of vibrant creative people which What is Temple Beth El?

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CHARLOTTE | RALEIGH | GREENSBORO will continue the momentum of what was begun more than 20 years ago when 24 acres were purchased on what is now the site of the new Tem ple Beth El as we see it today. Shalom Park evolved from this original purchase. It is also much more than that! It is a place where in our sanctuary congegants welcome the Sabbath facing an antique marble ark from a Passaic, New Jersey temple now disbanded. It is a sanctu ary filled with prayers, songs and magnificent organ music, filled with B’nai mitzvah, be trothal prayers, baby namings, Tot Shabbats, conversations and sermons. It is a sanctuary that seats 380 with expansion to 1,093. A nursery featuring Jewish activities is provided for children of those attending services.

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Temple Beth El is still more than that! It is a Chapel/ Library with the focus being the Ark and Ner Tamid (Eter nal Light) from our previous Temple, so familiar to our con gregants whose history dates from 1949. This area will be sued for more intimate ser vices.Itis also much more than that! Our Fellowship Hall with its barrel vaulted ceiling and large mullioned window over looking a soon to be in place garden and permanent Sukkah will seat 325 for dinner. It is still more! It’s our youth and adult choirs, soloist and organ accompanist which highlight the services. It is a gift shop filled with Judaica. Templ eBeth El is a place of education for children and adults.Temple Beth El is more than the splendid cut stone and stucco edifice on the hill. It is its congregants, praying, sharing life cycles, enriching themselves, the community and the world, valuing the traditions of Judaism. Temple Beth El is a fellowship. Tem ple Beth El is passing all this down through the generations.

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