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Vol. 85 No. 7 • July 2020

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Nashville’s Jewish Community Stands Strong After Defacement of Holocaust Memorial By BARBARA DAB

ashville’s Holocaust Memorial, which is on the grounds of the Gordon Jewish Community Center, was defaced by a banner strewn with antisemitic language in mid-June. The act stunned the local Jewish community and leaders responded immediately to both denounce the incident and to affirm the Gordon JCC’s commitment to the safety and security of the center’s grounds. A letter to the community by both Gordon JCC Executive Director Leslie Sax, and Board Chairman Raymond Jacobs, reads in part, “We condemn such bigotry and violence, which has no place in Nashville or anywhere in America. We are working with local authorities in their investigation, and the Jewish community security network was immediately informed of this incident. We are fortunate to have an excellent security team in place to protect us.” Sax adds that at this time, the inci-

dent is still under investigation. This latest incident came amidst the ongoing nationwide protests sparked by the murder of George Floyd by Minneapolis police. And it raises questions about whether some of the protesters involved are using this moment to lash out at the Jewish community, as well. David Hoffman, Associate Regional Director of the Anti-Defamation League Southeast, says it is a possibility. “While we are not sure, we are seeing white supremacists in the same sphere at the rallies. This type of thing often shows up during times of racial unrest,” he says. Hoffman also says acts such as this one are part of a trend. He reports that 2019 saw the highest number of reported incidents of antisemitism in the entire reporting history of the ADL. He cites some of the primary reasons as what he calls, “A hyper-politicized moment where people are spewing hate from school cafeterias to Continued on page 4

Rabbi Joshua Kullock leads members of West End Synagogue in evening Minyan after people hung antisemitic banner

Representative Harold Love Delivers Message of Hope at Juneteenth Gathering at The Temple By BARBARA DAB

elivering a message that was at times fiery and at other times deeply personal, State Rep. Harold Love, Jr. shared his family’s story in Tennessee that began with enslavement but developed into a legacy of leadership. Standing masked and socially distant, Love gave his remarks at The Temple to lay leadership and an inter-denominational group of local clergy. Rabbi Mark Schiftan of The Temple said it was one of four engagements the congregation had with the local black community last month to address what he said is systemic racism. Love’s speech marked Juneteenth, the day celebrating the freedom of all people who were enslaved in the United States. Although the Emancipation Proclamation outlawed slavery in 1863, it took two more years before enforcement of the law reached the state of Texas and on June 19, 1865, everyone enslaved there were freed. A Publication of the

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Love began by speaking about his own parents, both of whom dedicated themselves to public service. His father, Harold Love, Sr., was a city councilman for Nashville, followed by a long tenure in the state legislature. His mother, Mary Love, was an administrator at Tennessee State University for many years. And Love says that while the current political system is a good one, it is time to consider the racism that he says is woven into the country’s founding documents. “From the beginning, the Constitution contains policies that devalue black people,” he said. He cited the, “Three-Fifths Compromise,” which was proposed and agreed upon at the Constitutional Convention. Article One of the Constitution outlined the makeup of Congress as being determined by population, with blacks counting as three-fifths of a person compared to whites who each count as a whole person. The amendment was later superseded by Continued on page 4 Volunteers Deliver Meals and Smiles to Local First Responders, page 6

Rabbi Mark Schiftan of The Temple welcomes State Representative Harold Love on Juneteenth Naomi Limor Sedek to Take New Post in Virginia Beach, page 8

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Editor’s Note By BARBARA DAB

hese last weeks have been difficult ones for our country. The murder of George Floyd at the hands of the Minneapolis police sparked nationwide protests. Some have turned violent and some have been a peaceful, yet a passionate cry for sweeping police reforms that address continuing systemic racism. As a monthly publication, it is challenging

to cover these types of events and keep up with the 24 hour news cycle. But it is also impossible to ignore the pain experienced by our Black friends, neighbors, colleagues and loved ones. Some of Nashville’s clergy sent letters to their congregations offering words of spiritual guidance, comfort and learning. In this issue of The Observer, we are sharing some of those letters as a reflection of our community’s solidarity and support. •

Letters as a reflection Living and Dying While Black in America

he same Talmud that teaches us: “One who saves a single life, saves an entire world” is the same Jewish text that instructs us that “One who destroys a single life, destroys an entire world.” The inexcusable brutality and killing of another African American man in custody begs our nation to confront its injustices and racism. As Jews, as human beings, as members of the clergy, we mourn with the entire African-American community over the destruction, the slaughter and the torture of George Floyd at the hands of officers of the law in Minneapolis. The damning footage of officers, entrusted to protect communities, turning instead to unnecessary, excessive violence and cruelty, broadcasts the violation of that trust and denial of the humanity of yet another Person of Color in America. This sickening video, together with others documenting the infuriating and enraging disregard for life, will not allow our nation to avert its eyes to the bigotry, racism inequality and suffering of communities of color, at the hands of white perpetrators, be they citizens or police. As our nation mourns the near 100,000 victims of this pandemic, Covid19 too had further exposed these inequities in race and privilege. Although the virus does not discriminate, we know the underlying systemic racism and bias has created such inequities in healthcare, housing, opportunities and safety. As a result, the African American community had been hit exponentially more. This, together with hateful rhetoric and indifference, has led to this utter disregard of human life. We saw the brutality and last gasps for air. We heard the last words, begging for reprieve, for compassion, for breath. We cannot unsee what we have seen, nor unhear what we have heard. We should not need these videos to call us to action, and we cannot ignore them. We must hold all responsible and demand justice, reform and healing, and we must discern how we each play a part in perpetuating the systems that allow for such inhumanity to take hold. In this week in which we memorialize to loss of 100,000 lives to a deadly virus, let us also make room to reflect on the needless taking of a single life, of yet another black person in America— denied the fullness of this nation’s guarantees of “ life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness”— and with that, it’s impact

on an entire world, his entire world, and on ours, as Jews, as well. Rabbi Mark Schiftan Rabbi Shana Mackler Rabbi Michael Shulman Cantor Tracy Fishbein

The Temple’s Response to Violent Protest…

ll of us were shaken by the disturbing images we witnessed this past Saturday night of angry mobs let loose on the streets of downtown Nashville. To see our City Hall attacked and ablaze was troubling and traumatic. As members of a historically oppressed minority, we Jews know the acts of injustice that can come upon us by others, even at previous times by agents and agencies of the law. We sympathize and empathize with all others who face the pain and cruelty of being treated as less than full human beings, especially by law enforcement officers who take an oath to defend the same Constitution that extends its rights, liberties and civil protections to all of us, regardless of background or belief. But... When the response turns violent, when civil disobedience gives way to civic unrest, it crosses a line that is no longer welcome nor acceptable. It ceases to fulfill its initial purpose and its primary pursuit. It becomes a chaotic attack on innocent victims. It undermines the goals it originally intended to achieve. It threatens American institutions and ideals. Acts of looting, arson and violence towards others accomplish nothing that leads to the ennoblement of society. These acts tear at the very fabric of American life. So, let us pray for a better day ahead, for our nation and all of its citizens. And in the meantime, let us affirm that the primary role of our nation’s leaders, those called upon to guide us and serve us— all of us, each of our families and communities— is to protect us, all of us, from harm. Amen

Dear Micah family,

e enter Shabbat looking for peace and calm amidst the murders of George Floyd, Ahmaud Arbery, Breonna Taylor, and so many others who have come before. This is a devastating moment in our country, the history of which is so stained by racial injustice. This injustice has been on dramatic, pub-

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lic display—from the disproportionate rate of COVID-19 deaths to the pervasive racism in many areas of public life. We believe that every person and institution must assume responsibility to create a more equitable and just society. Jewish tradition forbids us to remain silent in the face of racial injustice. “Do not stand idly by while your neighbor’s blood is shed.” (Leviticus 19:16). We know that these three recent murders, and so many others, have caused acute pain in the Black community, in the Black Jewish community, and among many in our broader American society. We must acknowledge this pain and respond in every way we can. So what can we do? Many of you are asking, and we love that you are: We cannot legislate our way through this. The Civil Rights Act was passed nearly 60 years ago, and this is still where we are. We believe that the only way through this will be by relationship. And those relationships start here, at Congregation Micah, with us coming together, even virtually, and talking about the ways in which, either actively or passively, contribute to or support racist policies and structures in our society. Through our book read of Dr. Ibram Kendi’s How to Be An Anti-racist beginning in July, to our town hall next Thursday June 11th on Race in America, we welcome you to the safe space that is Micah to share, to learn, and together, to move the needle. We call on each member of the Micah community to respond to this moment of crisis by taking action to build a more just world. Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel reminds us pointedly that “morally speaking, there is no limit to the concern one must feel for the suffering of human beings, that indifference to evil is worse than evil itself, that in a free society, some are guilty, but all are responsible.” We begin on this Shabbat, to bring more shalom--more peace-- to our world. The work will be difficult, and we may, at times, be exhausted by it. Lo alecha ha-malacha ligmor, v’lo ata ben chorin l’hibatel me-menah… we are not required to finish the work, but neither are we free to desist from it. On this Shabbat, we seek the peace that comes from agency and scorns indifference. Your Rabbis, Laurie and Flip Rice

Do I know what it feels like to be a black man in America?

ear friend, Sharing a message for the Nashville community is a great opportunity to connect and share Torah ideas for modern day living. But there are times when I struggle with what message to share with you my dear friends. To ignore the legitimate pain that millions of Americans are feeling right now would be wrong. Any human being with a conscience grieves when watching the video of George Floyd being murdered. To see someone so oblivious to the suffering of another human being, that he doesn’t realize that a life is being extinguished directly under his knee, is truly horrific. But the officers involved have thankfully now been charged. To make the necessary disclaimers that as an American I strongly support the right to protest and speak up for equality; while just as strongly condemning any form of rioting, looting or

violence -and the anti-Semites using the mayhem as an excuse to vandalize Synagogues- is important to state, but hopefully already obvious to all of you. So instead of regurgitating the worn platitudes and overused clichés about living together in peace, just to prove my relevance as a sermonizing Rabbi, I will do something brutally honest (and perhaps dangerous). I will step outside of myself and objectively ask myself the hard questions that would be easier to ignore. Do I know what it feels like to be a black man in America? Can I imagine what it’s like to jog around the neighborhood or drive around town late at night only to get suspicious looks or be stopped by the police? Yes, as Jews we have all suffered some form of antisemitism and prejudice in our lives. Yes, many innocent Jews have died, just for the crime of being Jewish. We know very well what it’s like to be the victims of senseless murders and terror attacks by people who despise us. But being honest, does that give me the perspective of a black man? Do our millennia of suffering naturally make us more sensitive to the discrimination of others who don’t look, or behave, like us? No, it doesn’t. Naturally we prefer to see the world through our own lens. Naturally we gravitate towards familiarity; we connect with people who look like us, think like us and behave like us. Some sadly become uncomfortable when encountering someone different than them. But an essential message of our Torah is that we must learn to transcend our natural tendencies, to overcome our inherent shortcomings, and to view the world as G-d sees it. This is true for every part of our world view. It is true for seeing the potential of holiness in the food we eat, or the potential of kindness in the money we use for charity. It is true for how we study the inner dimensions of Torah, and for every Mitzvah we do with a physical object. And it is also true for the Mitzvot between one human and another where we need to look with a Divine perspective and expand our vision to see the inner quality and truest core of all humanity. We are all the same, all of us “created in the image of G-d”. But more than just being molded in the same cast, we actually all come from the same Father in Heaven. Yes, George is my brother, just from a different mother. And so is Trevon and Jamal and Jose and Juan. We all have different mothers, different upbringings and different cultures. Our DNA is not the same. Yes, we grew up in very different homes with different role models and different worldviews. But one of the most fundamental truths of life, as taught to us by the Creator of the Universe in His Torah, is to not get distracted by the shell and packaging of this earth. We understand that every created being has a soul within, an inner core that is its true definition and reality. This is not a statement on the complex issue of racism and prejudice in our country. This is not a signal of support for any group or political agenda, of any kind. This is simply a question that we, as Jews trying to live a transformative life of truth and meaning, need to honestly ask ourselves regularly. Am I being materialistic or spiritual? Am I distracted by petty, insignificant externalities or am I living a deeper existence with a focus on the true value of life? Am I only able to see what I can buy with the money I have or am I am able to see the greater good that my money can achieve? Am I able to see the soul of my brother? Rabbi Yitzchok Tiechtel

Letter to the editor With Appreciation

o much has been written about decisions; glasses half full; forks in the road. Saturday afternoon, June 13th and really the hours that followed, brought the harsh reality of hatred into our lives. Our Holocaust Memorial was desecrated by vandals. It was terrible. But, our community leadership quickly assessed the situation and responded. I am grateful to them for their quick action. The authorities were contacted, the Jewish Security team was notified, and the ADL came on as resource. Given the challenges that Nashville has faced this year, the credo, â&#x20AC;&#x153;Nashville Strongâ&#x20AC;? was exemplified on the grounds of the GJCC. As Chair of the Holocaust Memorial committee, I watched with awe as Leslie Sax of the Gordon Jewish Community Center and Eric Stillman and Deborah Oleshansky of the Jewish Federation developed a plan of response and protec-

tion. The ensuing days brought words of concern and support from many segments of the Nashville community. In these days of genuine and collective concern about the dignity and safety of every human being, our Memorial serves as a moral center to achieving that goal. We pray that someday soon we will live in an inclusive, stronger world. The memory of the hate displayed at the Memorial will linger on. But we live in a community which takes its responsibility of Tikkun Olam to heart. We might have decided to let fear and anger determine our reactions to this vile act. But our Jewish Community has chosen another path, to see the Holocaust Memorial as a catalyst that challenges taking our own tragic history and using it to power the fight we wage on behalf of achieving respect for all of us. Felicia Anchor, Chair Nashville Holocaust Memorial

NJSJR urges Jews to participate in the equal justice initiatives T he Nashville Jewish Social Justice Roundtable (NJSJR) has taken a pro-active stance in supporting African Americans in calling for justice, accountability and change. The progressive Jewish grass roots organization has listed on its website a number of steps Jewish community members can take, individually and collectively to address institutional racism locally. Most of all, the group urges the community to listen to the stories being told by African Americans detailing their c

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Action Steps to Address Racism By DEBORAH OLESHANSKY

“Few are guilty, but all are responsible”

his quote from Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel is as relevant now as ever. The protest movement we are witnessing demands a new, effective, and urgent response to systemic racism. While we may not be personally guilty for what led us here, we are all responsible for learning and engaging in efforts to address this deep injustice in our society. Showing up at protests can be a valuable way to lend support, but for many not able to participate in person, here are options to be engaged with social solidarity and physical distance: • How to be an Antiracist Book Group discussion: Some groups have already launched, and we continue to form new groups via zoom as there is interest. Groups are available through the Community Relations Committee as well as Congregations.

Harold Love Continued from page 1 the 14th Amendment, but Love says the damage to black people was already done. He said, “My worth was devalued as a matter of policy.” In modern times, Love said public policy continued the devaluation of black people. He cited several key areas where systemic racism discounted blacks’ basic needs. Before The Fair Housing Act was passed in 1968, blacks faced significant discrimination in housing opportunities. Prior to Brown vs. The Board of Education, black students were bused to schools far from their neighborhoods, and, even today, he said black students often receive a less than equal education than white students. When it comes

Holocaust Memorial Continued from page 1 the halls of Congress.” Hoffman also says during times of economic anxiety and concerns about safety Jews are often the first to be scapegoated, additionally the pervasiveness of social media serves to normalize hate. He says, “During times like this it is critical to speak out, share facts and show strength. We are not sweeping this under the rug.” As the investigation continues, the Jewish community is sending the message that while the banner itself was shocking and painful to see, it will not change how Jews in Nashville conduct their daily lives. Felicia Anchor is Chair of the Board of the Nashville Holocaust Memorial and was instrumental in its creation. She says, “Jews live with antisemi-

• Nashville Organized for Action and Hope: www.noah.org: Community organization to address issues of community concern including education, economic and racial equity. CRC is a supporting member along with some of our local Jewish congregations. During COVID-19, NOAH meetings are being conducted via zoom and are open to all interested members. • Follow the lead of Black organizers. Just as our Jewish community get to determine how we understand antisemitism and how we want our partners to respond, so to those who are most impacted by these policies much have our support in defining the response. Partner with efforts led by communities of Color taking action on issues of justice: NAACP: #Wearedonedyingcampaign This campaign includes a petition calling for justice for George Floyd, as well as action steps related to criminal justice, economic issues, health issues,

and voting rights/access. Poor Peoples Campaign www.poorpeoplescampaign.org Led by Rev. William J. Barber II, this campaign is an effort to confront systemic racism, shift the moral narrative, impact policies and elections, and build lasting power to address the crisis of systemic racism, poverty and ecological devastation. VOTE: GoVoteTN.com Pursuant to the June 4, 2020 Order of the Davidson County Chancery Court, if you are a registered voter and do not wish to vote in-person due to the COVID-19 situation, you are eligible to request and absentee ballot by mail. You also have the option to vote in-person during the early voting or on Election Day. DEADLINE TO APPLY FOR ABSENTEE BALLOT: JULY 30, 2020 for August election. Jewish Council for Public Affairs: jewishpublicaffairs.org Our local Community Relations Committee is part of this national orga-

nization providing information and resources. They provide webinars on issues of concern for the Jewish community, including a recent webinar with Eric Ward, Western States Center, on how antisemitism is deeply embedded in the white nationalist movements. Recordings of these webinars are available on the JCPA website. National Legislative Efforts: Both the U.S. House and Senate are actively working on legislation to address concerns related to policing and criminal justice reform. House Judiciary Committee: judiciary.house.gov Congressman Steve Cohen, Memphis, TN, serves on this committee Senate Judiciary Committee: judiciary.sente.gov Senator Marsha Blackburn serves on this committee. For additional information and resources to learn more please contact Deborah Oleshansky, deborah@jewishnashville.org •

to healthcare, Love described The Tuskegee Experiment which allowed black men to be injected with syphilis for 40 years before Congress finally outlawed human experimentation without consent. All these things, said Love, are examples of racism that affects everyone. “Historically, racism doesn’t just affect the oppressed, it also affects the oppressor. It’s like we are all part of a current in a flowing stream.” He said the police officer who killed George Floyd was also a victim, acting on what he was taught about black neighborhoods and black people. Love believes a way to effect change is to provide opportunity for people to tell their story. He said, “It’s important to spend time listening to people tell what happened so we can learn how to

be intentional in our sensitivity and in taking corrective action.” He also said it is important to push back against the fear that is at the core of racism. “It’s not thinking that in order for me to win, someone else has to lose,” he said. “And change is possible, but it will take time and the willingness to be vulnerable in telling our stories.” Rabbi Schiftan said it was important to create opportunities like this one, and, even within the Jewish community, there are people of color who face discrimination. He said, “There has been a lot of listening. We’ve had some strong reactions from our own congregants on this issue. Many have directly faced racism and negative experiences with law enforcement.” He says some people are challenged to express their anger at the

situation. “They are mindful about not presenting themselves with justifiable rage so as to make people stop listening.” And Rabbi Shana Mackler said she found responses varied within the black community. “The responses are based on individual experience and the hope some feel, but also the realization by others that things may not change.” She said others are overwhelmed by the outpouring of global support. And within The Temple community, congregants are realizing there is a lot of work to be done. Other clergy in attendance appeared supportive and enthusiastic in their response to Love. Rev. Neelley Hicks of Glencliff Methodist Church, said, “If we can have our voices amplified throughout the world, we can change things. Our voices matter.” •

tism every moment of every day, but we always pull together to face it and address it.” The Memorial was dedicated in 2006 and includes the names of members of local families who perished during the Holocaust. Anchor herself is the daughter of Holocaust survivors and was one of 2,000 children born in the Bergen-Belsen concentration camp following the liberation. At the center of the memorial is a large steel sculpture of a book, the work of local artisan Alex Limor. Limor is also the son of Holocaust survivors. He says he is grateful no one was injured and that no permanent damage was done to the memorial itself. But he also denounces those who hung the banner, and its message, and says the key to fighting hate is tolerance and education. “The Holocaust shows us that humankind is capable of evil, but we have to fight it.

We can disagree but we need to tolerate each other.” And he says it is during this time of unrest that Jews can be an example to others. “Jews have gone through antisemitism through the ages and are very sensitive to what is happening to the Black community, too.” There has also been some healing in the wake of the incident. Just days after it happened, amid the sounds of birds and nature, Rabbi Joshua Kullock of West End Synagogue led an evening Minyan service at the Holocaust Memorial. The service marked the first time the congregation has joined together physically since the COVID-19 pandemic forced the closure of places of worship. At the conclusion of the service, just before the reciting of the Kaddish, memorial prayer, Rabbi Kullock said, “White supremacists are trying to rewrite our history, but the best thing to do is to keep telling the stories and learning from those who survived the horrors of the Shoah.” The service was the idea of West End Synagogue member Mary Cornelius. She said she felt disgusted upon learning about the banner and felt the need for what she calls, “a cleansing of the memorial.” She consulted with Rabbi Kullock who created the plan to allow the community to come together safely. The minyan was attended by just 12 people, wearing masks and standing socially distant, but was livestreamed on

Facebook and via Zoom. Cornelius says, “I am a native Nashvillian. I grew up at the J, spent my childhood here, this was the least we could do. This gives me a lot of strength.” In the days following the memorial’s defacement, support has poured into the Jewish community from throughout the city and the country. Through letters, phone calls, emails and texts, others have expressed their shock, sorrow and the commitment to helping send the message that antisemitism and hate has no place in the world. Felicia Anchor sent a message to the community immediately following the incident. In it she expressed both outrage and resolve. “Their vulgar insults and deliberate credos to white supremacy were splayed on the Memorial Walls where loved ones murdered in the Holocaust are honored. For many, this is the only place to recognize family members because their bodies were consumed in crematorium and they have no graves. Those recognized on the walls were killed for only one reason, because they were Jewish. With this vile act, their memory was devalued and dishonored, leaving us feeling threatened and afraid. Jews have been forced to live with the pain and fear of discrimination and stereotyping for centuries. The tension has never left our collective psyche. Yet, even as a discriminated minority, we understand that such hatred is not isolated.” •

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Volunteers Deliver Meals and Smiles to Local First Responders By BARBARA DAB

olunteers from Nashville’s Jewish community delivered over 600 meals to front line workers and first responders at several local hospitals, police, and fire/ EMS stations. The project was provided

through a generous donation compliments of the Maria & Bernard A. Pargh Family Foundation, through the Jewish Federation and Jewish Foundation of Nashville and Middle Tennessee. Meals were cooked by SOVA Catering and Goldie Shepard. •

Mark and Sylvia Shepard get meal packages ready for delivery.

Firefighter at Firehouse 34 receives meal delivery

Evelyn Koch with front line staff at Tristar Hospital. “It was nice to get out of the house--all the way to Hermitage--and do a mitzvah at the same time! Please call on us again!” Evelyn Koch

Officers at MNPD’s West Precinct, Intelligence Unit and Belle Meade PD receive meal packages

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Volunteers Ellen Rosen and Mara Sommers deliver meals to Firehouse 17.

A Labor of Love By GOLDIE SHEPARD

y parents taught me from a very early age that when a few lemons come your way, make lemonade. And actually, I drink a lot of lemonade, because I like it! COVID-19 came upon us and everyone, I’m sure, had their own thoughts, worries and concerns. In early March, Shabbat dinner at Vanderbilt Hillel, which had become a huge part of my week during the academic year, was canceled. Shabbat dinners have taken on a whole new meaning for me over the last 15 years, and the thought of Passover not happening, and the realization that I had no control over any of it, was very difficult for me. Was I going to miss cooking briskets for 400, clean Kosher chickens, order one more Kosher for Passover item on Amazon or ask Sylvia to roll 1,000 matzo balls (She and Manischewitz should share the

patent)? No, my sadness was not about the food or the planning of the event. It was about missing the Seder services which the students so proudly created; the collection of kids having fun; their creativity; the crowd coming together to make memories. For me, it was simple: I was sad for the kids and for what was lost after 15 years. As the B’nai Mitzvahs were cancelled, I was again heartbroken! It was not about business, but about those young boys and girls learning and making a commitment to their own Judaism. The parents made new arrangements, explained it all to the kids, but how much drive-by can we do? I loved doing the drive-bys, but I will never forget the memory of the clergy’s hands on my daughters’ heads as they committed themselves to God. This all took a toll on me, but I felt so fortunate to remain healthy and warm. I had done so much advance shopping for the canceled events, that I

began giving food to anyone who could use it, but there are limits to tuna! I missed the Friday night Oneg at Temple, people gathering for services and breaking bread together. All the clergy at The Temple are welcoming and warm. The concluding prayers and music always give me hope for a peaceful week ahead. During the Oneg one can feel a connection to Judaism and a sense of belonging. Another loss and love for me is the Learn and Lunch program at West End Synagogue. Watching people come together for learning and sharing a hot meal together is a wonderful experience. All are welcome and no one is turned away. One of my angels in Nashville, Barbara Schwarcz, called to ask me to participate in preparing box lunches for first responders for a program provided compliments of The Jewish Federation and Jewish Foundation of Nashville and Middle Tennessee and Maria and Bernie

Pargh. Wow, what an experience this was for me and the village who put on their gloves and masks and pitched in! So many people volunteered with a smile and I hope I don’t leave anyone out: American Paper and Twine, Vanderbilt Hillel; Sylvia Shepard; Mark Shepard; Nancy Flexer, who pushes me to reach beyond; the volunteers who came by right on schedule to pick up and deliver. Some of the newcomers who volunteered know the city much better than I do! I was overwhelmed when the delivery team thanked me for allowing them to help. Huge thanks to Mara Sommers, Amy Weinstein, Barbara Levy Zander, Evelyn and Moshe Koch, Karen Berson, Steve and Leslye Lapidus who provided beauty to the boxes. Those who received this simple gesture were so appreciative and gave me something I was unaware I was looking for. I realized that still small voice was looking for nourishment for me. •

Jewish Family Service Recognized for Helping Same Sex Couples Build Families By BARBARA DAB

ewish Family Service of Nashville and Middle Tennessee is being recognized by the Human Rights Campaign in its 2020 All Children All Families Report for its work in the field of same sex parent adoptions. The report is in its second year and recognizes organizations that implemented LGBTQ-inclusive policies and practices, including non-discrimination, staff training and creating a welcoming environment. JFS, which achieved the, “Building Foundation for Inclusion,” tier, is the only agency in Tennessee to receive the designation. Alison Depercio, Director of All Children All Families of the Human Rights Campaign, says agencies like JFS not only provide service, but they go beyond by educating others about the need for support for same sex families. She says, “It is a huge message to the community at large that it is in the best interest of children to remove obstacles in creating permanent families.” Four years ago, Brandon and Ozzie Di Paolo Harrison began their process to expand their family. Both are professors at Austin Peay State University and learned about JFS from a colleague. They were referred to Toni Jacobsen, Clinical Director at JFS, who they say made them feel comfortable and welcome. “Working with Toni was so positive. She was kind, thorough and left nothing to chance.” says

Brandon. The adoption process can take anywhere from one year to 18 months and includes a home study, post-placement visits and assistance with paperwork. Families must find another agency to help with placement of the child. Toni says, “As Jews, people know we have faced discrimination and antisemitism and understand what that is like. They know we will serve them with integrity.” Toni helped the couple navigate some sticky bureaucratic processes to facilitate the adoption of their daughter, Isabella. In fact, it took six months for the birth mother to relinquish parental rights, something that usually takes days. Ozzie says it was a stressful time, but JFS was there to support them through it all, “It was so important to have Toni. It felt like she was our partner through the whole endeavor. She was always open and honest.” JFS began facilitating same sex adoptions in 2002, mostly to non-Jewish couples. Since then, the agency has been involved with over 150 same sex adoptions. Former JFS social worker Teri Sogol assisted with the very first adoption. She says, “JFS’s history as a welcoming and inclusive social service agency is well known in the LGBTQ community and beyond. This recognition of the agency’s achievement in meeting important benchmarks is well deserved.” Earlier this year, Governor Lee signed into law a measure that allows agencies to deny adoption services to same-sex

couples if doing so violates their religious policies or beliefs. The American Civil Liberties Union urged the Governor not to sign the legislation and advocacy groups like HRC say it targets members of the LGBTQ community. But for JFS, helping all families is business as usual. Pam Kelner, Executive Director, says, “We

have always opened our doors to all couples seeking adoption, and we will continue to provide these services as long as they are necessary.” And Brandon Di Paolo Harrison says that by just doing the work, it sends what he calls, “a poignant message that a religious organization in Tennessee will support same-sex families.” •

Di Paolo Harrison Family, left to right Brandon with Isabella, Madelyn and Ozzie.

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Akiva’s Daniella Pressner Receives Rabbinic Ordination By BARBARA DAB

hose who know Daniella Pressner, know her to be passionate about combining formal learning with real life experience to, in her words, “make Judaism come alive.” And now, in addition to her title as Head of School at Akiva School, she has a new designation, that of, “Rabba.” After spending the last three years in the Kollel program of Yeshivat Maharat in New York City, Daniella became Tennessee’s first, and only, woman to receive a Modern Orthodox ordination. The live-streamed ceremony took place in early June and Daniella was joined by eight other women from diverse professions and educational backgrounds. In total, there are now 43 graduates of Yeshivat Maharat. Her path to this achievement may not have been direct, but Daniella says it is consistent with how she has lived her life, up to this point. “The ability to merge text with bringing meaning to people’s lives is something that I’m really drawn to in general,” she says, “It wasn’t surprising to me that when it finally became available to me in a way that I could do it, that I took it on.” In fact, when Daniella first arrived in Nashville, the Yeshiva was in its beginning and was not able to accommodate her need for long distance learning. But her patience paid off and she eventually received a call from them inviting her to apply. After a rigorous process, which included a written exam, an interview and teaching text, she was accepted into the accelerated, three-year executive program.

Daniella Pressner

The program was conducted through virtual and in-person classes and study with a partner. In Daniella’s case, her partner was based in Australia which allowed her the flexibility to work at night. In fact, many evenings she studied long past midnight while in Australia it was the middle of the day. Daniella hopes her achievement will inspire other women to work toward higher levels of learning. “When you’re not acknowledged for those high levels, people don’t necessarily know that about you. I really want to open up spaces where women can be called upon for matters of law or jurisdiction and questions about spirituality.” In today’s world, she says people

are facing some big challenges, “What constitutes a minyan, can you have a minyan over Zoom. Should a woman need to go to the Mikvah if her health is at stake, and when should she go to the Mikvah. I really want to be part of that conversation.” She also cites showing her own children, four of them ages five through 11, that deep learning can be pursued at every stage of life, as another outcome. There are differences in the way the rabbinate is applied by Orthodox women, although Daniella sees many ways in which both female and male rabbis’ role look similar. “When people talk about the rabbis as mentors and spiritual leaders and people who can have open conversations about matters of halacha, that to me is very meaningful,” she says. And while the realm of prayer in the synagogue is the most public part of the job, she says it is not the most time consuming. Daniella says she has been invited to speak from the bimah at Sherith Israel and acknowledges the congregation’s inclusivity of women. What moves Daniella is the opportunity to express herself as a learned woman within the tradition in which she was raised. After spending her early years at a Solomon Shechter day school, she attended an Orthodox high school. “For my parents it was really important that we knew what living a traditional Jewish life was all about, but it was a very open home.” She says her experience growing up was diverse, and she was empowered to find ways on her own to feel connected to Judaism. For

Daniella, that naturally meant seeking out educational challenges. “For me it was all about questioning and digging deeply into the learning and becoming an accomplished learner and not being afraid to achieve those same levels of rigor that were given to the boys.” As for how her new role will be integrated into her work and community, folks at Akiva School are proud of her achievement and are looking forward to her bringing even greater depth in her role. Board member Moshe Werthan says, “It is such a pleasure to work with Daniella. Her creativity, intelligence and zest for perfection is unsurpassed. With an already enormous load, she has undertaken to broaden her knowledge and reach by becoming an Orthodox Rabba. Too few of us look at Judaism as an intellectual pursuit. Now Daniella is bringing it home to Nashville.” Still, Daniella says it can be difficult for some to accept the changing role of women. She says in some communities there can be pushback on everything from what name to take on to how public to be about the new title. Human beings, she says, are not generally comfortable with changes that shake their foundational expectations. And she is sensitive to those who struggle with it as well as those who are anxious to see change happen. “I think for me what it really means to lead in this journey is to be able to hold each of those sensibilities with honor. To be able to pull people together in a way that people on both sides can feel heard and nurtured and find connection and meaning.” •

Naomi Limor Sedek to Take New Post in Virginia Beach By BARBARA DAB

aomi Limor Sedek is a true product of the Nashville Jewish community. Starting as a teen donor and volunteer for the Jewish Federation and Jewish Foundation of Nashville and Middle Tennessee, and continuing after college as a young Jewish professional, Naomi’s

passion for serving the community is known to just about everyone. In her current position as Assistant Executive Director, she was instrumental in growing the Federation’s endowment, expanding the local team’s ability to provide resources to the community and orchestrating and leading the largest mission to Israel in the Nashville Federation’s histo-

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ry, among other things. And world that carried Naomi beginning in mid-July, she on mission trips to Israel, will build on her experiencArgentina, Russia, Cuba and es by taking on a new role, throughout Eastern Europe. that of CEO and President And it is this same desire that of the Tidewater Jewish will carry her to a new comFoundation in Virginia munity in Virginia where Beach, Virginia. It is a role she will, once again, engage she says, is a logical next step and inspire the community in her professional journey. to support Jewish continuity “This is a new opportunity to around the world. “There is help secure the future of the such beauty and joy in our Jewish community in a new traditions and history. We Naomi Limor Sedek city,” she says, “It helps me may be separated geographfulfill my passion for connecting people ically, but we share the same traditions. to their Judaism.” Federation is the place to celebrate our Naomi’s passion for Jewish life is well diversity and our unity,” she says. documented in Nashville. She began her Naomi is supported in this move by career with the Jewish Federation followher many colleagues in Nashville who ing graduation from Brandeis University wish her well. Eric Stillman says, “With and through the years she continued great respect for Naomi as a person and her upward trajectory, encouraging and professional, I will miss her and know inspiring those around her. Naomi draws that the Tidewater Jewish Foundation inspiration from her grandparents, all has an incredible CEO and President four of whom were Holocaust survivors. on her way to Virginia.” And, she has “I know the suffering that befalls our enjoyed the poignant experience of rempeople when the Jewish world is not iniscing as friends and community memunited,” she says, “I never want to live bers reach out to wish her well. This in a world where we don’t take care of change comes at a time of uncertainty each other.” And on a personal level, as the world grapples with the continuNaomi has been a one-woman welcome ing COVID-19 pandemic. But in true wagon to many newcomers, including fashion, Naomi pushes ahead planning The Federation’s CEO, Eric Stillman. the move, helping her children navigate “Before I even arrived in Nashville two college and beyond and supporting her years ago, Naomi welcomed me, reaching husband’s career. It is precisely these out as my trusted colleague, and helped challenges that energize her. And as me to learn what makes this community for the future, she is looking forward to so special and unique. I am grateful to working with a new team who she says Naomi, as well, for her warm welcome of is encouraging of women in leadership my new bride, helping to ease her transipositions and who she believes will help tion into Nashville,” he says. her grow even further. She says, “I am It is this desire to care for and most successful when I’m authentic with unify the Jewish community around the myself.” •

Celebrating Love During a Pandemic By BARBARA DAB

here is a famous Yiddush saying, “Man plans, and God laughs,” and in this time of COVID-19, this seems to ring true. When it comes to creating a new life with your b’shert (Divinely intended soulmate), love can find a way to transcend challenges. And such was the case for Eric Stillman, CEO of the Jewish Federation and Foundation of Nashville and Middle Tennessee, and his new bride, Rabbi Jessica Shimberg, who came together under the chuppah after the final moments of Shavuot slipped away. Jessica says, “We had planned to be married in a ceremony surrounded by family and very close friends from our lives with one of my beloved colleagues officiating; however, COVID-19 dramatically altered all our lives and, of course, our plans for how to be married.” In true pandemic style, the intimate ceremony was officiated by Rabbi Saul Strosberg in the Sherith Israel sanctuary and witnessed via both zoom and Facebook Live by over 250 family and friends from all over North America and Israel. Eric and Jessica’s whirlwind romance began just less than one year ago, with the two finding each other through JDate. After speaking initially over the phone, their first date was meeting for lunch in Louisville, Kentucky because it was halfway between Eric’s home in Nashville and Jessica’s home in Columbus, Ohio. True to form, Eric had researched this location as a potential meeting point, so he was ready with the suggestion when they considered where to meet for the first time. As Jessica shared during the

wedding ceremony, “We have discussed, on many occasions, that it is no coincidence nor a small miracle that we met last July. I was being held in the protective embrace of Shloshim as I grieved the loss of my Mom, who so wanted me to find my b’shert.” Jessica who grew up in Columbus had returned there in 1988 to attend The Ohio State University College of Law. She had raised her family there and founded a Jewish Renewal and Reconstructionist congregation in 2006. Her passions for Judaism and justice led to her eventual Rabbinic ordination. Despite her deep roots and connections in Columbus, it was her love for Eric, sense of adventure, and trust in the Divine which motivated her to pack her car and drive to Nashville in mid-March to ride out the pandemic with Eric. And, she has been here ever since. The public health risks of COVID19 made their original plans for an intimate wedding on the beach in Florida in early May out of the question. And, in fact, the Mayor’s Safer at Home order temporarily made obtaining a marriage license in Nashville a serious challenge. During the Counting of the Omer, when the Davidson County Clerk’s office finally reopened, they could finalize their wedding plans. Jessica says, “The sanctity of the seven weeks of counting the Omer together, marking time, became a strong theme of our wedding, and we decided that getting married at the culmination of this experience felt very right to us. So, we asked Rabbi Saul Strosberg if he would be willing to marry us as soon as Shavuot concluded with the end of Shabbat. He graciously agreed.”

Eric Stillman and Rabbi Jessica Shimberg are married under the chuppah at Sherith Israel

In attendance as witnesses and supportive friends were Leslie Kirby, Jacob Kupin, Haley Levy, and Rabba Daniella Pressner, with everyone wearing face masks and maintaining social distance. As the wedding day approached, the nation was swept by protests following the murder of George Floyd by Minneapolis police. Once again, world events changed the course of this wedding. Mayor Cooper imposed a curfew just as Eric and Jessica’s ceremony was about to begin, leaving about an hour between the end of Shabbat and the start of the curfew. Indeed, “time,” appears to

be a theme for this couple, who place the marking of Jewish time and living their Jewish values at the center of their lives. Jessica recounted during their ceremony the many ways that they mark the passing of time together. She spoke to Eric that night, saying, “Each week, even before we met in person, we have made Havdalah together. You listened so intently to my first Havdalah blessings that I wasn’t sure if I had lost the cell phone connection. It was only afterward that you told me that your silence reflected your awe. I swooned.” As did everyone on zoom and Facebook Live. •

To Our Dear

Naomi Sedek On behalf of Linda and Jay We thank you for all the magnificent years you afforded us. We wish you tremendous success in the years going forward. May the almighty watch over you and your family.

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Camp Davis’s 90th Summer Kicked off on June 8th By RACHEL CLARK

fter postponing the opening of Summer 2020 by a week, Camp Davis kicked off its 90th year on June 8th with an animal-filled good time! The theme was Midah Ohev et Habriyot: Loving All God’s Creatures. Campers sang, danced, played, and laughed as they explored the amazing world of the animal kingdom. Learning about everything from the tiniest of insects to the tallest of giraffes, campers tapped into their own wild sides. Our camp directors have built a structure that follows CDC and American Camp Association guidelines, takes COVID-19 precautions, and implements mitigation efforts, adding as much Camp Davis as possible to the mix. The result is an incredible program with “Household” groups of 10 campers, socially distant tents, household dining rooms, additional handwashing stations, and as much outdoor time as humanly possible. “Camp is, at its core, about kids being able to have fun, get dirty, be wild, and ultimately be themselves, and even with all of our mitigation efforts in place, we have been able to be that place, where kids can just be kids,” says Camp Director Marisa Byard. New Music Specialist Emily Groff led campers in Camp Davis classics such as, “Weave Me the Sunshine,” and, “Not by Might.” She also taught new songs such as, “Bob the Tree,” and, “Aba Abraham,” which have already become camper favorites. During morning and afternoon Ruach sessions, new cheers are learned and a song specially for Camp Davis written by

Emily got everyone pumped to wash their hands and keep camp clean. Campers created hand motions to go along with the song and taught the rest of camp. Preston Dean, Shevet Aleph Unit Head said it best: “The first week at Camp Davis was amazing. Our youngest campers have had a rocking week learning to swim, making new friends and learning new games.” The camp theme each week is based on a Jewish value. Weeks three through five were B’Tzelem Elohim: in the image of G-d, Gimilut Chasadim: acts of love,

and Lahavat Haeretz: love your country. Campers spent lots of time in their Households playing games surrounding the themes such as animal tag, as well as various other challenges including scavenger hunts and, of course, a camp favorite Gaga. Camp themes continue through August and culminate with everyone’s favorite Maccabiah (color war). Other activities throughout the week included dodgeball, kickball, and parachute and catching games. Campers

dressed in international costumes and also celebrated our own country. At Art Camp and Clay Camp, campers created all sorts of creatures, real and imagined, and designed their own flags. We moved our cooking camp outside and now our aspirational chefs are extremely well versed in luxury outdoor cooking. In the words of Shevet Bet Unit Head, Sami Weinberg, “It’s is already looking like this is going to be the best summer EVER!” •

Artists from across the continents gather to create NASHir Together

Notes from Noam

By Noam Harari, Community Shlicha

ASHir Together ‫נשיר ביחד‬ NASHir (sing) Together is presented by The Jewish Federation and Jewish Foundation of Nashville and Middle TN. The project was conceived and created by Noam Harari, Nashville Community Israeli Shlicha (Emissary). Ten singer/songwriters who live in Nashville and 10 singer/songwriters who live in Israel were paired to co-write and

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perform songs together despite the physical distance of over 6000 miles. I keep watching the videos again and again. For me, each video tells a different story and represents the incredible collaboration created here. Despite the distance and the differences, the music has brought everyone together to create this project. We wanted to bring a smile at a difficult time, no matter where we are in the world. So many people trusted me with this project and I don’t take it for granted. •

Zooming Thru Summer @ Beit Miriam By SHARON PAZ

Beit Miriam Drive By Ice Cream Sundae Party Saluting our graduating High School Seniors

5th graders and Kindergarteners who sold the most Kosher for Pesach Candy this year enjoy a drive-by ice cream Sundae Party. Pictured: Upper Left, Blair, Andrew Stefanescu, Reuben and Daniela; Bottom Left, Sophie & Gabeb Newman; Upper Right, iara Kullock & Ruby Orley in car; Bottom Right, Holden and Lincoln Ehresman and parents Chris and Beth

For our 5th graders and Kindergarteners who sold the most Kosher for Pesach Candy this year! “Beit Miriam has done a great job keeping our kids connected and engaged even during the shutdown from COVID.

The ice cream sundae reward was extremely creative and was a top notch sundae! It is clear that Beit Miriam wants our kids to have fun and stay connected to their Jewish learning. Thank you Beit Miriam!” Simon Newman Rabbi Joshua Kullock and Sharon Paz, Director of Lifelong Learning at West End Synagogue deliver blessings and kits to this year’s graduating seniors. Pictured are: Aden Barton-Harvard, Max Yazdian-Tulane, Ellie Hornick-Indiana University, Adena Rosenbloom- Oglethorpe University

Beit Miriam 2020 Graduation

“Rabbi and Sharon truly went above and beyond. They came to our house with an entire “blessing kit” as we said a blessing for Aden’s upcoming departure for college. It reminded us of the importance of celebrating major transitions in life with our community and that this can be done with such joy, even in the midst of a pandemic. The ceremony was one of the many acts of kindness and “silver blessings” during this time of confinement. We were very moved by the ceremony as we stopped to bless and celebrate Aden.“ Nancy Lipsitz

“It was wonderful to have Rabbi Kullock and Sharon come by to visit with us and bless Adena before she (hopefully!) goes off to college in the fall. We know that Adena is ready to be a strong Jewish voice on the Oglethorpe campus, which does not have a lot of Jewish students.” Ellie Weiss Rosenbloom Laura Yazdian, “I really enjoyed Rabbi Joshua and Sharon’s visit to our house. It was very meaningful to be able to bless Max on Graduating HS. It was such a nice treat to be able to do this during this time.”

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West End Synagogue’s Beit Miriam Zooms through graduation.

We appreciated the Zoom Beit Miriam graduation ceremony. It was a great way to wrap up Adena’s time at Beit Miriam in this most unusual of years. Also, Adena’s grandparents in Louisville had the opportunity to “attend,” which probably wouldn’t have happened had the ceremony been in person. Ellie Weiss Rosenbloom, Adena’s mom) Gabrielle Anna Bengelsdorf Daughter of Sarah and Dr. Steven Bengelsdorf

Maia Aleezah Herman Daughter of Lauren and Michael Herman

Summer Fun Gift Bags for Beit Miriam Families and an Opportunity to Drop off Registration Forms. Pictured are: Prichard Family, Ellis and Harrison with mom, Deena in car; Etai Bauer in car; Henry, Zac, Elian, and Arya Sterling with mother Julie; Vivi and Edwin Gordetsky with Dad, Daniel

Erin Michaela Keenan Daughter of Tricia and Michael Keenan Max Benjamin Potash Son of Gwen and Jacob Potash Adena Rachel Rosenbloom Daughter of Ellie & Dr. Rosenbloom

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RECOGNIZING OUR JEWISH 721, -$&2%6(1 COMMUNITY HEROES

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Toni always goes above and beyond for the community, but in times of crisis is when she shines bright. Â She is always thinking outside the box for new ways to address the ever changing needs of the community. Â One project that she spearheaded was making care packages for older adults in the community. Â A team of volunteers sewed masks and packages of toilet paper, gloves and masks were hand delivered along with a card listing all of the services offered by JFS to over 75 seniors.Â The feedback from the seniors was overwhelming with all of them feeling the support and love of the community. Â Toni worked non-stop (and many extra hours!) on this project to show her care and concern for all of her â&#x20AC;&#x153;grandparentsâ&#x20AC;? in the Nashville Jewish community. -Pam Kelner

out of each day to communicate to parAkivaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s enrollment is up and growing has stood side by side those facing :$6 Â Akiva and the families that ents and students)520 7+( individually to6(1,256 make everyday. cancer in our community during one7+( )(('%$&. sure that EVERY child is still learning create our community 7+( are blessed to of the most vulnerable time in their29(5:+(/0,1* :,7+ $// 2) 7+(0 )((/,1* and progressing despite the challenges have Julie as one lives - listening, supporting, building6833257 $1' /29( 2) 7+( &20081,7< 721, of our heroes. 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At Our Congregations… @ Chabad Happening at Chabad Zoom in June 2020 HAVE A HEALTHY ZOOMER

As we have all been quarantined now for over two months, many are seeking purpose and meaning in life, and are thirsting for something more. People want to connect and are craving the human connection. Chabad of Nashville has stepped up to the plate and has been offering dozens of programs and events to satiate that craving. At Chabad of Nashville, Zoom has become part of our daily ritual as we pray, learn, teach and socialize with our friends in Nashville and beyond, via Zoom and Facebook Live. Chabad is presenting a month of June, filled with nourishment for the Mind, Body and Soul. The links for all of these events can be found at chabadnashville.com, or go to chabadnashville.com/zoom

NOURISH THE MIND

Mystical Torah Studies: Seeking some intellectual stimulation? Want to sharpen your thinking skills? Join Rabbi Chaim Weitman for Torah Studies on Monday evenings, at 7:00 PM on Zoom or Facebook. Rabbi Weitman will take you on a journey, deep into the Mystical teachings of the Weekly Torah portion, where you will walk away uplifted and inspired. Biblical Tales of Kings Warriors and Prophets: Are you a Jewish History buff? Want to know the story of the rise of our people during the era of King David? Join Rabbi Yitzchok Tiechtel on Tuesday evenings at 7:30 PM via Zoom for Biblical Tales of Kings, Warriors and Prophets. Rabbi Tiechtel will take you on journey thru the Book of Samuel, which records the ups and downs of a turbulent and eventful period of Jewish history. Participants will travel in time through the some of the glory days of our past, as well as learn about the Reign of King Saul and the life of King David.

NOURISH THE BODY

A Taste of Shabbat in the Kitchen Ever wanted to learn how to give your Shabbat table that exquisite look, or been yearning to make some unique Shabbat delicacies for your Shabbat dinner? Here is your chance. Join Bassie Weitman in the kitchen on Thursday evenings at 6:00 PM on Zoom or Facebook, as she demonstrates the Art of Making Shabbat in your own home. Each week new dishes will be presented by guest chefs, and participants will learn the art of creating delicious dishes for your Shabbat Table.

NOURISH THE SOUL

Plug Into Prayer Feeling lonely? Need an Uplift? Plug Into Prayer with Rabbi Yitzchok Tiechtel on Tuesday and Thursday’s at 1:30 PM on Zoom or Facebook for 30 minutes of Prayer and Inspiration. Jewish prayer is G d’s way of saying to us: “speak to Me and I will listen.” We pray to G-d to thank Him, to praise him, and beseech Him for a life filled with meaning and purpose. Plug Into Prayer will surly nourish your soul to fulfillment.

@ Micah Still reading a newspaper? Pandemic or not, it’s time to jump on the digital bandwagon. As agile as ever, Judaism at Micah continues to evolve with courage, compassion and creativity. Stay updated at www.congregationmicah.org, as well as in our social media and e-blasts by liking us on Facebook and Instagram @MicahNashville, learn with us on YouTube, chat with us on zoom, pray with us on livestream – join us in our virtual tent, there is room for everyone! Access Micah’s Livestream for free from the front page of our website and/or like us on Facebook!

Weekly Programs:

Ancient Secrets: Practical Wisdom from the Past for the Present Pandemic Mondays at 8:00 PM on YouTube & Facebook

Rabbi Flip interviews theological giants of the past, revealing their contributions to spirituality and what wisdom they offer us during the pandemic. Characters played by local heroes who serve our community. Learn who they are and what they do.

Schmooze & Views Thursdays on Zoom Chat

A lay-led lunch discussion about politics conducted in a civil way. Open to all. Led by Dr. Bob Smith.

Shabbat Service Friday nights on Facebook Live & Micah Livestream

Experience how the power of music, song, and the inspiration of sacred words can help you feel more connected and less anxious.

Torah Study Saturday Mornings on YouTube

The sages and commentators - past and present - come alive as the Rabbis Rice share wisdom from the weekly Torah portion.

A Musical Morning Saturdays on Facebook Live

Music Director Lisa Silver shares songs and insights on Shabbat that will educate, warm your heart, and make you want to tap your toes all morning long.

Havdalah Saturday evenings on Facebook Live

Close the Sabbath with a few moments of song, spices, separation and spiritual nourishment.

“How to Be An Anti-Racist” by Ibram X. Kendi Book Read & Zoom Discussion Monday, July 20 and August 10

Purchase your book now from your preferred bookseller. Also available on Kindle and Audible. Please RSVP to Julie Greenberg at jgreenberg@congregationmicah.org

How Happiness Thinks Seeking Happiness, searching for the antidote to feeling better about yourself in this Covid-19 era? Join Mrs. Esther Tiechtel together with Rebekah Near on Wednesday evenings, at 7:00 PM, as they host a Zoom session on “Finding Personal Joy in the Midst of Turbulent Times.”

Nashville’s congregations

An Authentic Shabbat Experience Welcome the Shabbat from your Living Room Couch or your back patio. Experience the joy of Shabbat and feel connected to your community as Rabbi Yitzchok Tiechtel takes you on a journey of an authentic Shabbat experience, and your spirits will be uplifted with song, prayer and a pre Shabbat sermon. Join your friends from across the Nashville community on Friday afternoons at 6:00 PM, on Zoom or Facebook for a Pre Shabbat Celebration with Chabad of Nashville.

Congregation Beit Tefilah Chabad, www.chabadnashville.com

As we are living in unprecedented times, kindly check the Chabad of Nashville website, chabadnashville.com for an up to date listing of all of the upcoming events and programs during the month of June 2020, which will take place via Zoom and Facebook Live.

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Here are the websites for all five Nashville Jewish congregations, with information on services, upcoming events and more: Congregation Micah, www.congregationmicah.org Congregation Sherith Israel, www.sherithisrael.com The Temple – Congregation Ohabai Sholom, www.templenashville.org West End Synagogue, www.westendsyn.org

Learn more about the Jewish Federation of Nashville and Middle Tennessee at www.jewishnashville.org

At Our Congregations… NEW! 6 Week Hebrew Reading Boot Camp

@ Sherith Israel Elmington Park Shabbat for Families, Saturdays at 10am (weather permitting)

A socially distant shabbat program for families, with tefillah, story, and a snack at Elmington Park. 10 am. For more details, look for Sherith Israel emails or contact rabbisaul@sherithisrael.com.

Friday Flow Yoga with Natasha, 10am Every Friday

Join Natasha for Friday Flow: Judaism-Inspired Yoga and Mindfulness each Friday at 10am over Zoom. Natasha brings us together in community and then leads us on a yoga journey through the Hebrew letters of the weekly Parsha. This guided Hebrew Yoga and meditation session draws our awareness to our bodies, our souls, and our community. Her intention with Hebrew Yoga is to bring us closer together, for learning through movement in a state of ease, culminating in what Natasha calls a final restful “Shabbatana.” For the Zoom link, please reference Sherith Israel emails or contact Natasha directly at fridayflowyoga@gmail.com.

Tisha B’Av Services

Join Sherith Israel and the Chabad Center for outdoor, socially-distant Tisha B’Av services (July 29th-30th). Please check Sherith Israel emails and the website for details.

@ The Temple Virtual Learning Experiences Summer 2020

Jewish learning and community don’t stop when we are stuck at home! Over the next months, we have planned a wide range of virtual learning opportunities for all ages. See what we have to offer and plan to join us to deepen your Jewish knowledge and understanding while strengthening your connections to our congregation and each other. If you have questions about any of these learning experiences or need help connecting to our virtual platforms, please don’t hesitate to contact Rabbi Michael Shulman at rabbishulman@templenashville.org

All programming can be accessed via thetemplehub.org NEW! Ongoing Jewish Learning with the Clergy

Every Tuesday - 12:00-1:00 PM Join The Temple clergy, special guests, musicians and others for online Jewish learning every week! Topics will include: medical ethics, Jewish music around the world, midrash, Jews & photography, famous Jews, prayer, history and more! Zoom Room: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/88589922632 Meeting ID: 885 899 22632 Dial in - Audio Only: 1 312 626 6799

NEW! Pirkei Avot: Jewish Wisdom for Today’s World

Every Friday from 5:00-5:40 PM Get ready for Shabbat with a little text study! Each week we will study a piece of wisdom from Pirkei Avot, The Ethics of our Ancestors, an ancient Jewish text still relevant in our own times. Zoom Room: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/81973096738 Meeting ID: 819 730 96738 Dial in - Audio Only: 1 312 626 6799

Lunch with the Rabbi

Every Thursday from 12:00-1:00 PM July 18th and 30th Bring your lunch and engage with Rabbi Schiftan and guests in a discussion of currents and important issues from a Jewish perspective. Zoom Room: https://zoom.us/j/572111637 Meeting ID: 572111637 Dial in - Audio Only: 1 312 626 6799

Women’s Torah Study

Every Thursday from 12:00-1:00 PM Ongoing weekly women’s Torah study led by Patty Marks. Zoom Room: https://zoom.us/j/392595616 Meeting ID: 392 595 616 Dial in- Audio Only: 1 312 626-6799

Every Tuesday at 11:00 AM starting June 2 Join Rabbi Shulman for a 6 week virtual ‘bootcamp’ and learn how to read Hebrew! Sign up for the class with rabbishulman@templenashville.org

NEW! Jewish Learning on Your Own Schedule

Coming soon: Look for podcasts and videos prepared by musicians, scholars and clergy especially for our Temple Community! 13 Attributes of God, Jewish Cooking Demos, Clergy Chats, Inside Israel and Jewish Music Sessions. Sessions will be posted on thetemplehub.org

Red, White & Blue Jean Shabbat

Friday, July 3rd at 6:00pm Zoom Room: https://zoom.us/j/320094033 Meeting ID: 320 094 033 • Dial in (Audio Only): 1-312-626-6799

Temple Songwriter’s Shabbat

Friday, July 24th at 6:00pm For the fourth year in a row, The Temple is excited for Songwriter’s Shabbat on Friday, July 24 - a fun Shabbat service featuring music written by our own Temple members! This service has become a beloved tradition in our Temple community and we look forward to a night of beautiful music. Zoom Room: https://zoom.us/j/320094033 Meeting ID: 320 094 033 • Dial in (Audio Only): 1-312-626-6799

Graduate Recognition Shabbat

Friday, July 31st at 6:00pm The Temple is so proud of the class of 2020! Join us as we gather together to celebrate the accomplishments of our graduates and honor them with a special blessing on Friday, July 31 at 6pm. Zoom Room: https://zoom.us/j/320094033 Meeting ID: 320 094 033 • Dial in (Audio Only): 1-312-626-6799

Social Justice Group Read:

“How to be an Anti-Racist” by Ibrahim Kendi Wednesdays at 3:30 pm on July 8 and July 22 Zoom Room: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/81683419033

While being sequestered, join the Social Justice Committee in a group read and discussion of a recent book by Ibrahim Kendi, “How to be An Anti-Racist.” Dr. Kendi is an award-winning author whose previous book, “Stamped from the Beginning,” chronicled the history of racist thought in America. Through a shared book reading experience, Dr. Kendi will enlighten us with his concept of anti-racism which can re-energize and re-shape our conversation about racial justice in America. The concept of anti-racism can point us towards liberating new ways of thinking about ourselves and each other. Dr. Kendi challenges us to think about what an anti-racist society might look like and how we can play an active role in building it. There will also be an opportunity to share our experience with Dr. Kendi when he comes to Nashville in June 2021 for the 2021 Christian Scholars Conference at Lipscomb University. If you are interested, contact Irwin Venick at irwin.venick@gmail.com. The Temple is excited to offer two opportunities for our congregants to learn from Rabbi Rami Shapiro: The Thirteen Attributes of Godliness: An On-Demand Podcast In times such as these – times when fear grips our hearts and anger all too often tightens our fists – we need tools for transformation. “The Thirteen Attributes of Godliness,” an ancient, Torah-based Jewish technology for opening body, heart, mind, and soul are such tools. In this eight-day audio program produced by Rabbi Mark Schiftan and featuring Rabbi Rami Shapiro and Cantor Tracy Fishbein, you will learn the meaning and promise of each attribute as well as a gentle way to cultivate each attribute in your life. We offer this program at no charge. This is what it is to be part of a beloved community. Stay well. Available under Learning Opportunities for All on thetemplehub.org. A Taste of Judaism with Rabbi Rami Shapiro Rabbi Rami Shapiro is back again this summer – virtually – to teach you everything you always wanted to learn about Judaism in 3 easy lessons! Tuesdays, July 14, 21 & 28 • 7:00-9:00 pm Please register online at The Temple Hub (www.thetemplehub.org) Zoom Room: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/89099884429 Meeting ID: 890 998 84429 • Dial in (Audio Only): 1-312-626-6799

More Opportunities Coming Soon!

Check thetemplehub.org and our weekly email for updates and new classes in the coming weeks...

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At Our Congregationsâ&#x20AC;Ś @ West End Open Mic Night â&#x20AC;&#x201C; July 19

Bringing Open Mic Night to your homes on July 19th at 6:15! Students are invited to perform and show off their skills to the community. Musical instruments, singing, dancing, poetry, any form of performance is welcome. Repertoire must be written or composed by a Jew or on a Jewish theme. If you need help finding the right piece, Cantor Sarah is happy to help you peruse her library virtually. If your child would like to perform, please let Cantor Sarah (cantorlevine@westendsyn.org) know by July 12th so she can save a space for you! Congregation Micah uses large screens during services to enhance the prayer experience both in person and virtually

Shacharit

Join us Mondays & Thursdays for Shacharit service at 8:30 a.m. on Zoom. Zoom info: Meeting ID: 847 4426 3911 Password (case sensitive): 5A63j6 Those having issues can message Rabbi or Cantor through Facebook and they will reply back asap.

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Kabbalat Shabbat

The congregation is invited to join us for Kabbalat Shabbat on Zoom at 6:00 p.m. Zoom info: Meeting ID: 831 8625 7601 Password: (case sensitive) 9ix4BK

Talmud Class

Talmud on Tuesdays has changed to 8 a.m. â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 9 a.m. Zoom info: (No password required) Meeting ID: 777 716 003

Weekly Parasha class with Rav Eitan Bar-Or Every Thursday morning on Zoom at 7:30 a.m. Zoom info: Meeting ID: 899 2621 2508

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Join five Latin American rabbis talking with a bit of an accent (!) about the weekly Torah portion. The class will be every Thursday at 4:00 pm. On our Facebook Page.

ver four years ago, Rabbis Flip and Laurie Rice approached their lay leadership with an innovative idea to install large screens in Congregation Micahâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s sanctuary for the purpose of visual tefillah, taking the prayer book out of peopleâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s hands and putting the words and images and so much more onto the screens above. The result: an entire world of learning, connecting, and praying opened up to the congregation. Visual tefillah is about utilizing words and images to affect emotion, ignite the intellect, and add a whole new dimension to the service experience. The Rabbis Rice noticed almost immediately that members were looking up at the bima and at one another, rather than down at their books, and they were actually signing and praying aloud much more. These were positive, immediate results.

Welcome Jill Ellen, Site Director of the ECLC at West End Synagogue Education.â&#x20AC;? Says Sharon Golden, director of the Gordon JCC ECLC. he Gordon JCC is proud to welcome Jill holds a masterâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s degree in early Jill Ellen as the new site director of childhood education and an MSW. She the ECLC at West End Synagogue. regularly attends and presents at conJill grew up on the East Coast and was ferences and is a leader of Inspired!, a highly involved in her Jewish reflective, supportive learncommunity, including spending community for Early ing a summer in Israel workChildhood educators. Jill ing on a Kibbutz, and brings prides herself on her intera wealth of Early Childhood personal relationships and knowledge and experience to her communication skills, this position. which we all feel will be She has over 20 years of helpful as we navigate these experience as a head teacher unprecedented times. in Jewish Early Childhood â&#x20AC;&#x153;I am excited for this programs, most recent- ill Ellen, new site direc- new chapter in my professionly at The Temple here in tor at the ECLC at West al journey as the Director of Nashville, and has aided in End Synagogue West End Early Childhood the expansion of the Jewish Learning Center and being curriculum both in the classrooms and a part of the Gordon Jewish Community schools as a whole. Jill has also taught Center. As an avid learner, I look forward Hebrew and Israel studies for many years to getting to know more about the chilin Religious School. She is a member dren, families, school and JCC community. of several Jewish organizations and has As an educator, I bring my experience and participated in many wonderful, spiritual my Jewish background to this position. It is events. my hope and dream to blend the two.â&#x20AC;? â&#x20AC;&#x153;We are all impressed by not only We are looking forward to seeing her knowledge, but also her warmth, crethe wonderful things Jill will bring to our ativity, and passion for Early Childhood program. â&#x20AC;˘

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In the last four years, Micah has experimented and continued to refine the many ways in which the screens and visual learning can be utilized during services, both on Shabbat and holy days. Bâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;nai mitzvah families love the personalization of seeing their studentâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s face on the screen as they read from the Torah. Members appreciate the large print Hebrew with accompanying transliteration and translation for prayers up on the bima where they can also watch their clergy at the same time. And during this time of pandemic and virtual everything, the screens have enabled Micah to offer a truly unique prayer experience for those who participate via livestream and Facebook live each Shabbat. Thanks to the generous support of The Jewish Federation and Jewish Foundation of Nashville and Middle Tennessee, Micah has expanded its virtual tent not just nationally, but globally as well, reaching as far as Spain and Rio de Janeiro, Brazil. â&#x20AC;˘

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The Gordon JCC July JGalleries Art Exhibit By CARRIE MILLS

or the month of July, the Gordon Jewish Community Center JGalleries will feature the work of Nadine Shillingford Wondem, Terri Tyler, The History of the Jewish Press, and A Call for Artists in Response to Racism in this Historic Time. The Janet Levine March Gallery will feature the work of Nadine Shillingford Wondem. Nadine brings her ideas to life using charcoal on toned gray paper. Her art captures people in everyday situations and brings them to life by studying their facial expressions. Her whimsical approach to art also gives life to her work. Nadine does not have a formal art background, and most of her methods are self-taught. She has established an international following on social media by completing and posting a daily #quicksketch drawing on her Instagram and Facebook pages. Each #quicksketch drawing is completed in 1-3 hours. Nadine is the author of the book, “Hello Beautiful!” which is a portrayal of her relationship with her father, Mr. Wilmurt Shillingford. Nadine is also a computer security consultant and holds a doctoral degree in Computer Science from the University of Notre Dame. She was born on the island of Dominica in the Caribbean but currently resides in

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Nashville, TN with her husband and daughter. The JLMG2 Gallery will feature the art of Terri Tyler. Terri is a 1997 graduate of O’More College of Design in Franklin, Tennessee, where she majored in Fashion Design and Merchandising. Her pieces are often in vibrant contemporary shades and lean toward bold cheery brightness bordering on impressionistic and at times

abstract. The Sig Held Gallery will feature the exhibit, “The History of the Jewish Press in America.” Living in a time with such hostility to the free press, the rise of anti-Semitism and racism, the goal of this show is to create a response that is affirmative, thought provoking and bold while incorporating actual Jewish newspapers and publications from across

America. A call to local artists, asking for participation, was posted on social media. The only requirement was for the artists to express in a positive light, the importance of the press in daily life, and or history, using the actual papers incorporated into the artwork whether it be a 2D or 3D piece. For this particular exhibit it is our goal at the Gordon Jewish Community Center Galleries to engage and create a space to bring to light, through the lens of the artist, the presence and importance of the press in our democracy and the world, particularly the Jewish Press. The House gallery will feature art from artists participating in Call Out to Artists in response to this historic time in history in response to racism. A call was made to artists on social media in response to the death of George Floyd and the outpouring of societal response calling for justice and reform. The Exhibition Dates are July 1st July 31st. The exhibitions are free and open to the public. Any attendees will need to wear masks, sign in and have their temperature scanned at the front desk. For more information, visit our website, nashvillejcc.org, or contact Curator Carrie Mills at 615.354.1699, carrie@ nashvillejcc.org. •

Art on the West Side 2020 Postponed; Moved to April 24-25, 2021

fter much deliberation, ART on the West Side is canceled for 2020 due to COVID-19 concerns. It is set to resume in 2021. The yearly juried art show has over 40 artists signed on to participate, all of whom will be invited back to participate next year. Initially set to take place April 25-26, the decision was made in March to postpone amid the COVID-19 pandemic. The event will now take place the weekend of April 24-25, 2021.

Event chairs Sara Melamed and Iris Rotker led a selection committee in reviewing more than 200 artists. They also selected Kristin Llamas as Featured Artist. The year 2020 marks the 100th anniversary of the passage of the 19th amendment, giving women the right to vote. It was fitting to honor a female artist, and for Llamas, it has been ten years after her first local art show, which took place at the Gordon JCC. “While we are disappointed to postpone

the event,” said chair Iris Rotker, “it allows us the time to plan for an even bigger and better event for next year.” ART on the West Side 2021 will begin on the evening of Saturday, April 24, 2021, at the Gordon Jewish Community Center with a cocktail reception from 6 to 9pm. On Sunday, April 25, the event opens at 10am and runs through 4pm. This event is free and open to the public. A percentage of all

sales from ART on the West Side benefit art programming at the Gordon JCC. Find a full list of artists at www. artonthewestside.org, and for more information regarding the show, contact event chairs Sara Melamed and Iris Rotker at artonthewestside@nashvillejcc. org. Follow on Facebook (www.facebook. com/artonthewestside) and Instagram (@ artonthewestside) and visit www.artonthewestside.org. •

Yitzchok Tiechtel concluded the final reading of the Ten Commandment, we sat attentively. It was so spiritual and surreal, the sun was shining, all was so serene and beautiful, it felt like the presence of G-d was right there with us, under that great big marquee. As we sat taking in everything that was happening, we couldn’t help but imagine what it must have felt like to be at the foot of Mount Sinai. We were moved and sat that there for a few moments digesting this spiritual experience amongst my family. We knew we weren’t alone in this spiritual experience. We looked around and others were just as moved. This miraculous rain on cue. The

sun was suddenly shining anew, the birth of a new nation. Then smiles and community, as we delved into a few scoops of dairy, delicious ice cream. Under sunny skies and the fragrance of fresh rain. It was wonderful to see both old friends and the new ones we had made on Zoom. As we walked away from the tent, we did not feel alone, We felt completely enveloped by the spirit of what it is to be a Jew. This was a Shavuot we will never forget, one that we will live with us for the rest of our lives, as we felt embraced with warmth and love by the Almighty G-d, and were finally reunited with our Chabad family. •

Of Marquee’s and Mountains By MICHELLE MORELLE AND TAMMY SHRIVALLE

or seventy seven days the doors of the ark in the sanctuary remained closed, within it sitting the Torahs all alone, waiting for our community to hold it so gently, and parade her in our warm and loving sanctuary. With the coronavirus pandemic, our homes became our sanctuary, we prayed, we learned, and we read the Torah on Zoom, and prayed and studied from our living rooms. After a period of eleven weeks, the city of Nashville started returning to some routine, yet many still remained in quarantine. However, with the holiday of Shavuot on the horizon, friends reached out and hoped we will once again meet in person. During Shavuot as we commemorate the marriage of the Children of Israel, and the G-d who rescued us from Egypt, emotions of unity, becoming a nation, humility, community, and what we felt then, is very much alive today. Chabad of Nashville, with the support of many friends in our community, convened to commemorate this momentous occasion. While respectfully acknowledging social distancing, we sat under a beautiful white Marquee. It was like a family reunion, as we felt like a family reunited after a long period of separation. Tears of joy were flowing gently

down the cheeks of the rabbi and many friends, as the blessing of Shehechiyanu was recited with emotion. The highlight was when the ark was opened, and the Torah was carried into the Congregation. The reading of the Ten Commandments was about to commence. Soon after everyone was seated, the clouds began to gather, the sky became dark. We read from the Book of Exodus, Chapter 19, “And all the people replied together and said, “All that the Lord has spoken we shall do.” Thunder was rumbling but we continued to read. At a moment’s notice the skies opened and a torrent of rain was beating the tent. It was loud, windy, and we could barely hear, but we could feel. We huddled a little closer, protecting each other from the wind and rain. The rain and the thunder were relentless. The children clustered around their parents. We were undeterred. We prevailed, knowing, in our hearts that we were fully protected. It felt as we were standing at Mt. Sinai. Just at as the Ten Commandments were about to be read, the rain stopped, the skies cleared, all was silent, you could’ve heard a pin drop. One can hear the birds chirping, just like at Mt. Sinai, and the rabbi read in a loud voice the Ten Commandments, “I am the Lord, your God, who took you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage.” After Rabbi

Nashville Jewish Film Festival Announces “Virtual, “Festival”

020 is a year of challenges and how to hold a Jewish Film Festival in the midst of turmoil has been on the minds of the NJFF co-directors for a few weeks. We came to the conclusion that none of us wants to be in a crowded movie theater and adjustments have to be made to our schedule. So we are proud to let you know that the 2020 festival (our 20th year) will be a virtual festival with films that you will

be able to watch in the safety of your own homes. Keep watching The Observer for more news and definite plans along with information on some of the outstanding films that you will have available in your home. •

The Observer • July 2020

Mitzvahs and Lifecycles national championship tournament, the Tournament of Champions. Aden also recently received the William Martin Award for Best Boy at MBA, the highest honor given to a student of the school. Aden will will attend Harvard University in the fall.

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Aden Barton will graduate from Montgomery Bell Academy. He is the son of Drs. Nancy Lipsitz and Kirk Barton, brother of Ben and Talia and grandson of Jackie and Marty Lipsitz and Dr. David and Lynn Barton. At MBA, Aden was Captain of the Debate Team, Co-Captain of the Mock Trial Team, managing editor of the school newspaper and he was inducted into Totomoi and cum laude. Aden and his debate partner have earned their place as the top policy debate team in the nation for the past two years. In May, they won the yearâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s most prestigious

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Obituaries Harry Fox

Baruch Dayan HaEmet/Blessed is the Judge of All Truth. It is with great sadness that we inform you of the death of Harry Fox, brother of WES member Alvin (Lauren) Fox. We send our condolences to Harryâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s brother Alvin (Lauren) Fox and Harryâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s niece, Lisa Fox Freedman (Steve), of Atlanta, GA, and Michael Fox, of Stratford, CT. Harry lived in Baltimore, Maryland with his wife, Mary Ellen. Harry is also survived by sisters, Rena Silverberg (Bud), of Dallas, TX, Rochelle Levin, of Baltimore, MD, and brother, Howard Fox (Michelle), of Tel Aviv, Israel. He is also survived by stepchildren and grandchildren and numerous nieces and nephews. Due to current circumstances there will be no funeral at this time and shiva will remain within family. Hamakom Yinachem Etchem - May God comfort Harryâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s entire family, among all the mourners of Zion, Jerusalem and the entire world, Amen.

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Baruch Dayan HaEmet/Blessed is the one True Judge. It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Jeff Leamon (lifelong resident of Chattanooga), brother of WES member Doni Porteous. We offer our condolences to Jeffâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s parents; his brother; and sister, Doni Porteous. Hamakom Yinachem Etchem - May God comfort Jeffâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s entire family, among all the mourners of Zion, Jerusalem and the entire world, Amen. West End Synagogue, 3810 West End Ave, Nashville, TN 37205, United States

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Bernice Rothstein

Bernice Rothstein, 91, formerly of Nashville, TN, passed away peacefully on Thursday June 11th at Life Care Center of Nashoba in Littleton, MA. She was the beloved wife of the late Aaron Rothstein. Born May 1st, 1929 in Brooklyn, NY she was the daughter of the late Alto and Dorothy (Bacher) Rothwein. She was a devoted wife, mother and grandmother. One of Berniceâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s proudest childhood memories was being recognized for her salesmanship by Eleanor Roosevelt in a WWII war bond drive. Bernice married her childhood sweetheart, and shortly after moved to Nashville, TN where she became part of a close-knit and vibrant Jewish community. Bernice was active in the local synagogue, where she put her magnetic personality to good use on the membership committee and as a member of the temple Sisterhood. In her younger years, Bernice was involved in community theater. She was a lover of music and was known to compose her own poems and songs for special occasions. Bernice cherished her friendships, and, always the social butterfly, was a stranger to no one. She will be remembered for her silly humor, tenacity, and zest for life. She took her role of grandmother to a professional level, coining the term â&#x20AC;&#x153;let your conscience be your guide.â&#x20AC;? Bernice is survived by her daughter, Amy Lynne Rothstein of Pepperell, MA (husband Jay Newlon), granddaughter Alexandra Bendacha Newlon of Dubai, UAE (husband Asri Bendacha Newlon) and grandson Max Newlon of Boston, MA (fiancĂŠe Olivia Andert). Bernice was also the mother of the late Steven Rothstein and Lisa Rothstein. Services were private. Donations in her memory may be made to: Special Olympics of Tennessee, http://www.specialolympicstn.org/ways-to-give, or The West End Synagogue https://westendsyn.org/donate

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The Jewish Federation and Jewish Foundation of Nashville and Middle Tennessee Legacy Society Members:

We thank you. The Jewish Federation and Jewish Foundation of Nashville and Middle Tennessee thanks it Legacy Society members. Your legacy ensures that future generations will benefit from a strong Jewish community. Thank you for helping to create a meaningful Jewish future.

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