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20 / MAKING THE MARK

72 / CREAM OF THE CROP

54 / PLUM PROSECCO SPLASH

82 / JOIE DE VIVRE

This year, BayouLife Magazine asked the community of talented makers to submit their hand-crafted goods for our inaugural Making the Mark competition.

This delicious craft cocktail combines seasonal fruit with a bright, bubbly Prosecco. Whether you are hosting a party or just need a weekend wind-down, this drink is at the top of our list.

60 / EAR CANDY

Earrings are a fun accessory that can make an outfit pop. These ear baubles are fun for fall and beyond. Find them at area boutiques.

62 / DENIM DREAMIN’

Denim is one key staple everyone should have in their closet, and these boutiques have it all.

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One of this season’s biggest trends is crop tops and jackets. Pair a cropped jacket with a high-waisted jean, or layer looks to achieve a seasonal flair.

130 / RAISING THE OYSTER BAR

Luke Parrish, a West Monroe native, moved back home after living in East Texas to open Monroe’s newest eateries, Clawdaddy’s Crawfish and Oyster Bar.

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Her unique personal style is reflected in her personal appearance, her beautifully appointed home, and most of all in her attitude toward life. For these reasons, Joy Loomis is our Bayou Icon for September.

98 / CELEBRATING LITTLE THEATRE

The Strauss Little Theatre is set to celebrate its 90th season this Fall. Strauss boasts the longest continuous source of live entertainment in the area.

114 / WILD HORSES

From prairie dresses to sequins, these outfits combine seasonal must-haves with fashion-forward staples.

daughter duo Sara Brewer and Lindsay Jones show us fashionable finds from area boutiques.

154 / TREASURE HUNTER

It’s not uncommon to find Jackie Murphy scouring the displays at estate sales and perusing antique and thrift store aisles in search of timeless pieces that catch her eye.

162 / TOP 20 UNDER 40

This year’s group of young professionals is helping to shape the future of Northeast Louisiana.

his month is our annual fashion and style issue and we look at some trends for fall from some of our amazing local boutiques. Whether you are hanging out with friends and family in the backyard or hitting up a local restaurant for date night, you can always find something stylish thanks to our wonderful boutique owners in North Louisiana. We are proud to partner with the Monroe Chamber of Commerce to recognize our area’s Top 20 under 40 Young Professionals. We hope you read through their bios and how they are helping to shape the future of Northeast Louisiana by some of the incredible things they are doing. See all top 20 young professionals starting on page 162. This month we are featuring our inaugural winners of the Making the Mark contest. We asked for local makers to submit their handmade crafts. Honestly, all of the people that brought items are winners in our book, but we’ve recognized seven in individual categories. There is so much talent in our community and we are thankful to be able to highlight some of the amazing craftspeople that live here. See them on page 20. I love our two fashion shoots this month. The first features Lalaini Wood, a fellow Rayvillian who I recently saw on a friend’s Facebook page and knew she had to model for us. Special thanks to the Dean family for use of their beautiful horses! The setting was the perfect backdrop for this fall shoot. See if on page 114. I have always thought that Sara Brewer was absolutely beautiful, and with her daughter Lindsay, the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. This mother/daughter duo graciously donned autumn arrivals for a shoot fit for any age. Special thanks to the Gordon family for use of their gorgeous home. See this shoot on page 137. Sometimes a name just fits. That is certainly the case with Joy Russo

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Loomis. Those who know her recognize Joy’s joyful spirit, something her mother couldn’t have known when she named her infant daughter. Her mother would, however, recognize the joy in her daughter as she grew. Today Joy freely admits that she considers her joyfulness to be a blessing. Something else that is “joyful” is Joy’s unique sense of style. Her unique personal style is reflected in her personal appearance, her beautifully appointed home, and most of all in her attitude toward life. For these reasons, Joy Loomis is our BayouIcon for September. See her article on page 82. I’ve not been looking forward to writing this part of my publisher’s note, but it has to be done. This month ends an era. For the last seven years, I’ve been lucky enough to have Ashley Hubenthal as part of my team. From getting married, to having a baby, being the last two burning the midnight oil, to sharing laughs and tears, she’s not only been my right hand gal, but my friend. I know she will be missed by many, but I’m proud to support her in her new career at John Rea Realty. Thank you, Ashley, for all you’ve done. It’s been real. It’s been fun. It’s been real fun. With Ashley leaving, we’ve welcomed a new member to our team, Courtney Thomas. We look forward to our clients and readers getting to know Courtney in the upcoming months. I hope you all enjoy reading this month’s issue of BayouLife. Stay safe and shop local! Lots of love, Cassie

GENERAL MANAGER Ashley Hubenthal ashley@bayoulifemag.com COPY EDITOR Cindy Foust GRAPHIC DESIGNER Meagan Russell meagan@bayoulifemag.com ADVERTISING SALES EXECUTIVES Katelyn McAllister katelyn@bayoulifemag.com Kirstie Martin kirstie@bayoulifemag.com Courtney Thomas courtney@bayoulifemag.com ART DIRECTOR Taylor Bennett LEAD PHOTOGRAPHER Kelly Moore Clark CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Laura Cason Dan Chason Kenny Covington Jan Daniels Lou Davenport Dr. David Finley Cindy Gist Foust Lori French Starla Gatson Kerry Heafner B. Jones

Paul Lipe Erin Love Kirstie Martin Meredith McKinnie Dr. Timothy Mickel Guy Miller Georgiann Potts Cathi French-Roberts Delia Simpson Beatrice A. Tatem Vanelis Rivera

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Look Good, Feel Good The Psychological Power of Fashion BY BEATRICE TATEM, PH.D., LPC-S, NCC, ACS

FTER A YEAR AND A HALF OF SOCIAL DISTANCING, shut-downs, virtual school and work from home society has poised itself for a return to normalcy. During the pandemic one of the first things people seemed to let go was their desire to dress as they took on the need to quarantine. A year and a half later many have joined those in the fashion world who are looking forward to a bright, healthier and emotionally happier existence. Whereas, I am a psychologist who has always liked fashion I am quick to admit I am not an expert in fashion psychology. I however firmly believe that the clothes we wear and how we wear them says a lot about how we feel and what we think. Clothing reflects our outlook, mood, attitude, self-esteem, perspectives, personality and our style. Our style whether it is bohemian or conservative, traditional or retro, classic or sporty, sends a message. Fashion represents our versatility, creativity, power and culture. In my opinion what we wear can be an outer experience of our inner thoughts and feelings. Clothing is wearable art that allows the wearer to express themselves. Like most therapists I have been trained to observe the client and note their appearance. Each time a client walks in for a session I look to see what they have on. I have found over the years that there is often a correlation between how a client looks and how they feel. When a client looks good they generally feel good. “When you look good you feel good,” was the statement made by a client. Having battled depression over the years and particularly over the last year and a half, the young woman made the decision that her choice of clothing would reflect her new mindset. With a new release on life and a renewed energy this client made it her goal to revamp her wardrobe and start dressing in fun, comfortable and colorful clothes. The client indicated that when she gets dressed in the morning, she intentionally dresses in clothes that are cheerful and bright, even if she is not. “I have learned to encourage clients to dress as if they feel good. That impacts on their self-esteem and helps to up lift them as they shift from a negative to a positive perspective.” Studies show our mood can be affected depending on what we wear. Every morning when we wake up and begin our day, part of the routine will be to choose what we wear. Likewise, how we feel upon waking can affect our choice of outfit and subsequent effect on our behaviors, attitude, mood towards ourselves and to others. In work and academic settings where there is freedom to choose our fashion, the clothes we wear will often speak volumes about our emotions. Putting on different clothes creates different thoughts and 8 SEPTEMBER 2021 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

mental processes. Making the choice to wear outfits that we feel good and confident in and that accentuate our appearance has been proven to have a positive impact on our mood. Often it is not the actual clothes we wear that determine our feelings and attitudes but the associations we have with them. The connection between the way we dress and how we feel is integral to our identity and the way we behave. What we wear also affects how others relate to us and shapes the image we wish to project on them. Our appearance reveals a lot about our mental state. For example, “happy clothes” tend to be those that are flattering, welltailored and made from strong bright colors and beautiful fabrics. In addition, clothing is also used to control or mask emotions. It is believed our clothing not only influences others, but alters and reflects our mood. This points to the psychological power of clothing and how the right choices can positively influence a person’s mental state. In essence, we are not only what we wear, but we become what we wear. Fashion experts suggests along with the shape and style of our clothing, color is one of the most significant ways we can express ourselves through what we wear. We attach significant emotions to our clothes and color is one of the most powerful ways that we can express these emotions. In a study on color, fashion and psychology it suggests wearing a variation of yellow when you are ready to bring out your bright and energetic side. Yellow for example, is often associated with happiness, hope, freshness, positivity, intelligence, honor, loyalty and joy. It is said to stimulate deep thinking, creativity and an “easy-going” aura. Yellow, symbolically the color of sunshine can be an “explosive,” in your face color without intending to be. Interestingly, yellow is at the top of the most trending colors list for the year 2021. As we approach the fall season and the start of a new school year society is once again facing uncertainty and experiencing an array of emotions due to the resurgence of COVID-19, threats of tenacious variants, conflicting debates about mask wearing, vaccines and COVID-19 boosters. It is my hope that this resurgence does not dampen the spirit of humanity. Instead, may we all dress to re-enter the world with a sense of yellow and experience symbolically a future as bright as the sunshine. After all when you look good you feel good. For more information on counseling and outreach services contact Dr. Beatrice Tatem at Wellness Initiatives, LLC, 2485 Tower Drive, Suite 10 Monroe, La 71201, 318-410-1555 or at btatem.bt@gmail.com.

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R E M E M B E R I N V ES T I N G I N M Y F U T U R E

so preparation for it is of the I REMEMBER how, shortly greatest importance. If our focus is after beginning my preaching completely on this earthly existence, ministry and getting married, an we shall not be prepared for that acquaintance recommended that which follows. No planning is bad I let him get me started on an IRA planning. which could prepare me for the The place where this life after time when my retirement came. death will be lived is pictured as He suggested that if I began with “paradise.” Thoughts of joy, peace, a minimum deposit of money, it fulfillment, and the absence of could grow rapidly into a significant anything that is “bad” are associated amount. So we began an IRA and with this place. Nothing in this watched our cash balance as it present life can begin to compare grew VERY slowly. After several with the wonders of heaven. It is years of minimum growth in our my conviction that entrance into investment, a friend suggested that this blissful place is gained only we roll the IRA over into an account IF OUR FOCUS IS COMPLETELY through faith in Jesus. He is the in which he had some investments. ON THIS EARTHLY EXISTENCE, WE Way to heaven and He welcomes I followed his advice, and then the those who trust in Him – those who bottom dropped out! The value of SHALL NOT BE PREPARED FOR evidence that trust by following His my account dropped precipitously THAT WHICH FOLLOWS. precepts for their lives. and I thought I had made a major For those who refuse to accept the mistake. However, my friend told me to stay the course and things would get better. Thankfully, he was offer of this eternal life, there are consequences. Suffice it to say that this correct, and now that I have retired, my annual receipt from the IRA is is not good news. So it behooves us to make preparation that will gain about twice as large as my original investment! Planning for the future us entry into this paradise. In addition to this, preparing for the “life beyond” has benefits has paid off. The person who is wise realizes that the present is not all the time for the living of this current life. The one who seriously attempts to that there is. There is a future, and it behooves us to prepare for it. This pattern his life after the teachings of Jesus Christ will be more respected and appreciated by his associates than if he ignored those teaching. not only applies to our present lives but also to eternity. We need to take care of the present. Our financial, material and He will be better liked by others, and he will even like himself more! health needs will not take care of themselves, and if we are depending Furthermore, he will have a positive influence and impact on those with on someone else, including the government, to provide for us, our whom he has close contact, especially his children. His example will both hopes could be dashed. Therefore, we need to get a good education to benefit and motivate those who observe his life. Let us all be preparing! Contemplating our “retirement” home in heaven gives me great prepare ourselves to make some positive contribution to our society, to live healthy lives, and to exercise care in the use of our resources. Such comfort, for a few months ago, I lost my wife who gave her life in her battle with cancer. By her life of faith and her service in the work of a formula is likely to result in meeting our needs in this present life. But let us not forget that this life is not all that there is. If the Christ, she was prepared for the place which Jesus had prepared for her. Bible is right, and many of us believe that it is, there is life after this This makes heaven even more important to me, and my hope of seeing earthly existence ends. This “other” life goes on throughout eternity, her again lies in the same trust that she had in her Savior.

ar t i c le b y PAUL L I PE o p in io n e x p re s s e d is t h a t o f t h e w r it e r

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GAZING TO AUTUMN

Looking, searching, wishing...

for a bit of fall weather to energize us! In the meantime, keeping our minds and eyes open to new things. We came across just a few ideas that are keeping us inspired with anticipation of beautiful things to come.

Back to the weather, do you know how to convert Fahrenheit to Celsius and vice versa? Sometimes a smaller number helps the feelings when it comes to looking at the temperatures in the south! Fahrenheit to Celsius: Subtract 32, multiply by 5, then divide by 9. Celsius to Fahrenheit: Multiply by 9, divide by 5, then add 32.

Imagine that you only had one car for the rest of your life to get around in… no walking, no Uber, no subways – just the one car. It makes us think how well we would care for that particular vehicle. At some point we would have to stop running the roads and rest and refuel. Treat yourself to a break – it is the only way to keep going.

Small intimate gatherings are a treat and we are reminded to mingle, arrive with a thoughtful hostess gift, praise the food and offer to help with clean-up. Any time spent with family and friends is such a treasure. Sweet moments can be magical.

It seems there is more and more research about exercising our minds just as much as our bodies. We have several friends who do not miss a day without finishing their crossword puzzle, do not miss a session of their bridge group gathering and are even learning the strategic game of Mahjong.

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Smile Confidently

NELA Dental in Monroe & Farmerville Offers Cosmetic Dentistry

them. The dentists at NELA Dental can create a 3D image of your teeth in just minutes using an iTero Scanner. Before your eyes, see your smile transform with the Invisalign Outcome Simulator.

SMILE BRIGHTER WITH TEETH WHITENING Let your smile shine bright with teeth whitening from NELA Dental. We are proud to offer Zoom Whitening, affordable treatments to whiten your smile in one visit. The treatment also includes take-home whitening trays to ensure the best results. By combining in-house LED technology and at home treatment, patients will see their whitest smile in a week’s time.

TEETH IN A DAY Now with Teeth in a Day, you can get your dental implants completed in just one day! NELA Dental is your home for this One-andDone, dental implant services. In fact, it is one of the few dental practices offering this procedure in the state of Louisiana. NELA Dental always strives to utilize the best in advancing technologies. Through the use of CAD (Computer Aided Design) and 3D printing, dental implants can be placed, and long-term temporary teeth can be printed and placed in one day. This process allows for more chewing ability and much less pain while healing. It also allows you to test drive your teeth so you get the teeth you want.

MILE BIGGER THAN EVER WITH COSMETIC SERVICES at NELA Dental! Our team can whiten, straighten, and make your smile stand out in the crowd. NELA Dental offers fast and affordable teeth whitening, veneers and resin bonding, multiple options for orthodontics, and more.

RESIN BONDING & VENEERS Resin bonding is another type of cosmetic solution for chipped, gapped, and stained teeth and fillings. The material is shaped and molded to your teeth to give the appearance of a straighter, whiter smile. Resin bonding can be completed in a single appointment. Veneers are a wonderful option to improve your smile and it’s great for those with slight imperfections such as teeth that are stained, chipped or have gaps. Veneers are custom-made thin shells that are attached to the front surface of your teeth to change their color, shape, size, or length. IT’S NEVER TOO LATE FOR BRACES Modern treatments like Six Month Smiles Braces and Invisalign® are available at NELA Dental. These types of teeth alignment methods are an efficient and safe solution for transforming your smile and boosting your self-confidence. Treatment with Six Month Smiles braces is similar to that of conventional adult orthodontics, but they have one major difference. This treatment focuses only on the teeth that show when you smile. The clear brackets and tooth colored wires will gently reposition your teeth without affecting appearance. Six Month Smiles braces are generally more affordable than traditional braces or veneers. Desired results are usually achieved in about four to nine months, with an average treatment time of six months. If traditional braces are not for you, consider Invisalign®. These custom-made clear aligner trays will straighten your teeth while allowing you to continue to enjoy your favorite foods and activities. They are virtually invisible so most people will not even be aware you are wearing 14 SEPTEMBER 2021 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

BE A MEMBER AND SAVE NELA Dental offers membership plans that will make your smile a priority by providing affordable prices. NELA Dental not only wants their patients to have healthy smiles but also, laugh and smile with confidence. Their “Adult Plan” is designed for patients ages 12 years or older. The membership includes comprehensive exams, emergency exams, regular cleanings, annual exams, oral cancer screens, bitewing x-rays, 20% off minor and major treatment, 20% off orthodontics(excluding Invisalign®), and $99 teeth whitening. The cost is $315 per year. Their “Child Plan” is designed for patients ages zero to eleven. This membership option includes comprehensive exams, emergency exams, regular cleanings, annual exams, oral cancer screenings, bitewing x-rays, and 20% off minor and major treatments. The cost is $215 per year. START SMILING TODAY In addition to our membership options NELA Dental also provides personalized care and with stress-free financing options, as well as membership plans. They also accept most major insurance plans. NELA Dental offers patients a wide variety of services. Their highlytrained dentists and staff provide top-notch patient care in Famerville and Monroe. Their reputation for patient care and devotion exceeds industry standards, and is unmatched in the area. From routine cleanings and root canals, to dental implants to the latest in cosmetic dentistry, NELA Dental is your premiere practice for all of your dental needs. Start Smiling Today!

THE TOP PERFORMERS UNDER 40 Historical Impressions

b y G u y M i l l e r, V i c e C h a i r E m e r i t u s , C h e n n a u l t Av i a t i o n a n d M i l i t a r y M u s e u m

n September the Top 20 Under 40 in Northeast Louisiana are being recognized. This recognition made me think of the men and women of the American Volunteer Group (AVG) during World War II and how they would top any list of people under 40 who made the most significant impact of their time. Many years ago I was browsing though the library at the Chennault Aviation and Military Museum and I found a book which gave brief biographies of the AVG pilots who had lost their lives in Burma and China during 1941-1942. One thing that struck me as I skimmed through the entries was the average age of these pilots appeared to be about 25 years old. To put any assessment of the AVG pilots and support staff into a starting perspective image yourself at age 25. You leave the United States and everything you know to travel halfway across the world to an area where nothing is familiar to you. Some of you readers who are military veterans are probably thinking “well, I did that too” in Vietnam, Afghanistan, Iraq or some other distant land. God bless you for your service to our nation and what you sacrificed and endured but things were a bit more extreme for the AVG members. The world in 1941 was much “bigger” than it is today and few Americans had any real knowledge of how people lived in other countries. People had little knowledge of even what things were really like elsewhere in their own nation. With no knowledge to set expectations, less than 300 young men (and three women) left the U.S. not knowing what they would find at the end of their journey. Unlike those who served later in the war, or in subsequent conflicts involving the U.S. military, they weren’t traveling on American ships or planes.

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There were no American bases existing, under construction or even planned where they were going. There would be no American food or rations; no real supply chain of familiar items needed and used by Americans. The AVG members had to live under local conditions, eat local food and effectively no one outside of their little group understood their language. They truly were strangers in a strange land in the most extreme sense. So at age 25 you find your group all alone fighting an unimaginably different enemy for a strange people you don’t know in an uncomfortable place you don’t understand. And your initial group of 300 has already dwindled by a couple of dozen before you even begin combat operations. But when all is said and done you make the most incredible impact on history. If you hadn’t been where you were and done what you did, the course of World War II would have been very different in terms of length, total military causalities and negative impacts on the homefront and in the post-war aftermath. Most if not all of Asia might be speaking Japanese today. A vastly greater number of civilians would have died and the post-war map of the world might have very different borders. I started this article by mentioning AVG pilots who lost their lives in the war. How did they die? After accidents and resignations, the AVG only had 80 pilots by the time it started combat operations. 21 of the 80 pilots died or went missing during the AVG’s seven-month combat tour. 10 pilots were killed in air combat. 4 pilots were captured by the Japanese after being shot down. 2 pilots were killed on the ground by attacking Japanese aircraft. 5 pilots were killed in accidents while flying during combat missions. In addition to the combat pilots, one flight instructor died in a

crash and one ground crewman was killed in an air raid. What is the quantifiable impact made by these 80 young pilots? In nearly seven months of constant combat between December 18, 1941 and July 4, 1942, the AVG destroyed 296 confirmed enemy planes and 300 more probables. Japan lost 1500 pilots, bombardiers, navigators and gunners in air combat with the AVG. The AVG also destroyed 573 bridges, 1300 riverboats and innumerable road vehicles and killed thousands of Imperial Japanese army soldiers. These numbers are even more incredible because the AVG flew planes that were already obsolete when the war began and were outnumbered in almost all of their fights. More important than raw numbers, in the critical first few months of the war, the AVG fought the Japanese air forces to a bloody standstill, helped stop at least one strategic Japanese campaign, and tied up enemy resources far in excess of U.S. and Chinese lives lost and military cost incurred. Protecting ground transport along the Burma Road and cargo flights across the Himalayas, AVG pilots ensured the critical supply efforts from Alliedheld bases and ports in India were able to get through to maintain ground combat operations in China. For a time, the Flying Tigers of the AVG were the only source of positive news for the Allies during the spectacular initial successes of the Japanese military in late l94l and early 1942 and the morale impact strengthened the Allied and homefront resolve to persevere through the blackest days of the war. If you want to learn more about the famous young Flying Tigers of the AVG, the Chennault Aviation and Military Museum has a World-Class exhibit that tells their story.

Take it Easy

Washington Wines & Spirits is Your Local Spirits Guide

HE SUMMER IS ALMOST OVER AND WE WANTED TO help you make the most of it. We’re going to focus on delicious ready to drink cocktails that will help you get quickly back to having fun. These are products that are in convenient packaging making them easy to take to the beach, lake, cabin, pool, or just the back porch. We’re going to start off with some rosé. French Pool Tote rosé comes in a 1.5 liter bag. We know what you’re thinking about. A bag? Yes. This bag is unbreakable, compact, resealable, and holds 2 bottles of wine. The easy to open leak proof spout will hold the wine for up to 60 days after opening. This is a bright rosé that is packed with berries, refreshing citrus, and touches of tropical fruit. Perfect for anywhere you want to go and for entertaining you’ll love its ease, lifespan, and flavor. If you like your cocktail to have a little zing to it you should try the Copper Can Moscow mule. This is a classic mule with lime, citrus, ginger beer, and 6x distilled made in house vodka. The cans are shiny copper that evoke the famous mugs traditionally used for this drink. They use fresh squeezed lime and made in house ginger beer that really shines through to give this canned cocktail that refreshing zing. These next four drinks are absolutely amazing! All are from a new company called Livewire Drinks. Founder Aaron Polsky wanted to create a platform for bartenders to share their tasty creations with the world. We’ll start with the two drinks created by the founder, Heartbreaker and Golden God. Heartbreaker is a cross between a Paloma and a Moscow Mule. Heartbreaker is a crisp and juicy blend of vodka, Oroblanco grapefruit, kumquat, jasmine, and ginger, with notes of honey and a bubbly finish. Golden God is a sparkling and easy drinking blend of rye whiskey and brandy with apricot, green tea, and elderflower. Next we have bartender Joey Bernardo’s Honeydew Collins. It’s a fun and layered mix of gin, honeydew, coconut, lime leaf, and elderflower. Finally we have the Rocket Queen by Erin Hayes. This is a modern and sophisticated take on a tropical drink with a seamless combination of Magdalena rum, red pomelo, cinnamon, pandan, and absinthe. The quality of ingredients in these drinks is unbelievable. Rock album style packaging with wonderful and fascinating flavor combinations, these drinks just put you in the right mood to throw on an album and relax. 18 SEPTEMBER 2021 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

If you are a coffee lover you must try the River Basin Distillery & French Truck Coffee Cordial. A New Orleans partnership where French Truck Coffee’s classic cold-brew is blended with River Basin Distillery’s rye whiskey they then blend it with oat milk and just a touch of cocoa. The result is creamy, smooth, and chocolaty with hints of spice from the rye. A fantastic way to get a little pep in your step. This article wouldn’t be complete without us talking about some of our newest barrel picks, one of which is a tequila. Our Maestro Dobel Diamante tequila barrel was aged in American Oak barrels. Salted lime opens the nose with black pepper and subtle Fuji apple. The first sip is clean and smooth. The next sip reveals sweet candied citrus with salty vanilla and white pepper. The finish has a gentle note of green peppercorn and more sweet citrus. We also have our two barrels from Wilderness Trail that were picked while in Kentucky back in April. The yellow label is a mashbill of 64% corn, 24% wheat, and 12% malted barley. This bourbon comes to the nose with toasted almonds, Queen Anne’s chocolate covered cherries, and a pleasant subtle woodiness. A voluptuous, creamy mouthfeel leads to rich notes of salted and fried almonds, sticky caramel, and buttery flaky croissant. The finish is long and smooth for 118 proof with toasted vanilla almond toffee. The black label is a mashbill of 64% corn, 24% rye, and 12% malted barley. This bourbon has one of the best smelling bourbons we have ever come across. It explodes out of the glass with rich milk chocolate, cedar box, a touch of sage, caramel covered peanuts, black berries, and sweet aromatic pipe tobacco. The palate is full of honey, clove, blood orange, blackberry, cinnamon, and vanilla. The rye spice comes in on the clean, drying finish with huge notes of cinnamon and all-spice caramel. We can’t truly describe everything happening in the glass with this whiskey. Be sure to keep an eye out for our more barrel picks coming soon such as Jefferson’s, Pinhook, Penelope, and Cathead. Don’t forget that we have the Doe’s Eat Place steaks to take home for your own grill, and as always, thank you for letting us be your Spirits Guides here at Washington Wine & Spirits.

Making the Mark

This year, BayouLife Magazine asked the community of talented makers to submit their hand-crafted goods for our inaugural Making the Mark competition. In the following pages, you will meet this year’s winners in each category: Craft, Apothecary, Outdoor, Home, Fashion, Food and Drink. Thank you for all the wonderful submissions. Profiles by Meredith McKinnie Photography by Kelly Moore Clark

Meet the Maker: Chris McElroy C R A F T C AT E G O R Y

aised in Start, Louisiana, Chris McElroy is drawn to historical crafts such as silversmithing, blacksmithing, and leatherworking. The desire to preserve older crafts and work with his hands comes from within. Chris describes leatherworking as a “combination of art and function. The work is often created with a focus on function, but through creative avenues, the product becomes a work of art.” He began working with leather nine years ago and has fashioned western-style holsters, knife sheaths, spur straps, pistol holsters, belts, and rifle slings - primarily as gifts. For those interested in leatherworking, Chris encourages newcomers to trust the process. “Don’t let your mistakes discourage you.” The personal touches that distinguish leather products are often achieved through trial and error. The practice of leatherworking is becoming more popular as online communities grow and local communities take interest. As a college student, Chris needed a bag for his laptop and books. Bags can be expensive and are often not well made. The larger bag he created is more structured and formal in style, but practical for school. Combining his passion with his immediate need is the impulse of a maker. Chris is a graduate of LA Tech in Animal Science and is currently pursuing a second degree in Cyber Engineering. He and his wife Sarah have two children, Lilly and Luke.

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MAKING THE MARK

Meet the Maker: Mike Benton

O U T D O O R C AT E G O R Y

ike Benton grew up in a family full of duck hunters. He’s well versed in the flyaway duck zones and an expert on the cutdown duck call, a regional phenomenon in north Louisiana and south Arkansas. The cutdown style is popular for hunting in river backwater, lakes, bayous, and brakes- particularly for its loudness. In 1997, Mike started Challenger Cutdown Calls with a few business partners. Now the sole owner, Mike created the logo for the calls, that features three different birds. The specklebelly goose adorns the top of the design; the pintail, with its penguin-like coloring, nestles up under the goose; and the mallard, the prize duck, sits under the pintail. The stairstepped fowl design is popular among avid hunters. Duck hunting appeals to sportsmen for different reasons. Some love the thrill of the kill, others like to retrieve the ducks after the kill, but Mike adores calling the birds. Summoning the ducks to the water is the pinnacle of hunting wildfowl. Turning his passion into a career seemed like an obvious choice. Now the market calls for prettier designs, and Mike is branching out with materials. His 3-inch barrels are now made of acrylic or cocobolo wood instead of the original plastic. Mike sells duck calls on Facebook and Instagram. The elaborate creations can also be found at Dave’s Bayou Lodge in Richland Parish and Max Porter Provisions in West Monroe (upon opening).

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Meet the Maker: Rachel Madden

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s a mother of four children, Rachel Madden uses her artistic flair as means of escape and relaxation. Raised in West Monroe, Rachel married her husband Zach Madden 8 years ago. She teaches Pre-K 3 at First Methodist Church in Monroe. When Covid quarantine began and the family was all home full-time, Rachel knew she needed something to do outside of domestic responsibilities. She settled on earrings. Rachel saw a clay pair on Pinterest and thought, “I can make those.” What started as a passion evolved into a side hustle that brings her joy and supplements income. Rachel was always drawn to creative projects. She paints, knits, crochets, needlepoints, and has even built her own tables. She grew up watching her mother bake and decorate cakes, and now as a mother herself, she knows the value of having a creative outlet. Ironically, Rachel had never attempted making jewelry before and admits she doesn’t even wear earrings often. Now with the earrings’ lighter clay material, Rachel has a practical, easy-to-wear alternative. This unforeseen hobby is the escape Rachel so desperately needed. With Everett, Hollis, Crawford, and Lenora under the age of six, Rachel has been pregnant, breastfeeding, or both for the last five years. Motherhood can be consuming, and Rachel didn’t want to lose herself in the process. She finds time to paint with the kids, and during those quiet moments, she slips away to create her jewelry. Rachel realizes she won’t ever be alone for quite some time, but finding time for herself is essential.

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Meet the Maker: Margaret Evans

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resident of Winnsboro, Margaret Evans works as an accountant at the local Delta campus. While her career involves structure, Margaret finds her escape in creative expression. Using her artistic talent gives her pleasure, as the practice is not beholden to deadlines. Creativity blooms in free spaces. The handmade basket idea emerged while perusing online. Margaret frequently finds inspiration from unique, fresh designs. Margaret’s basket creation is a natural, modern style featuring a leather accent and grommets. Margaret plans to keep toying with the design, hopefully creating more decorative pieces in the future. Margaret’s mother taught her to sew when she was a child. Inspired by the allure of creating, Margaret taught herself to knit, crochet, and quilt. She enjoys the challenge of making something from scratch, putting her own twist on existing styles. If she needs a new comforter, clothes, or curtains, she takes on the challenge. Now a mother and grandmother, Margaret seeks out her favorite hobbies for relaxation and connection. Her grandchildren have taken an interest in expressing themselves through crafts, as well. Margaret worked with the girls on a lap quilt, a sundress, and even the beloved basket. She appreciates sharing her love of artistic expression with her family.

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Meet the Maker: Hailei Beckwith

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junior at Neville High School, Hailei Beckwith is one wellrounded 16-year-old young lady. The honor roll student adores math. She appreciates structure and definitive solutions to problems. Hailei serves as historian for the Cinderella Guidance Clinic and is a member of Top Teens of America. At Neville, she is a member of The Clean Team, The Renaissance, and Student Council. Hailei’s father and grandfather own and operate funeral homes in Louisiana and Texas, and her mother is a registered nurse that enjoys event planning. Hailei wanted her own creative outlet and a way to impact the world. She found a passion for making candles at 13, and along with her team of volunteer family members, LoveLit Candles was born. Hailei is allergic to beeswax, so her candle creations are made with soy and coconut wax. She believes in the alternative ingredients because it is better for the environment. The #1 scent is Georgia On My Mind, which features hints of peach. The pineapple scent, A Graceful Host is a nod to the soldiers who would put a pineapple on the porch after returning from combat. The symbol meant the soldiers were open to talking about their experience, so the candle is meant to be a sign of welcome. Hailei’s mother Shonya Gipson-Paige is proud of her daughter and her giving soul. Hailei donates portions of her candle proceeds to local organizations such as the NELA Food Bank, the Breast Cancer Foundation, and families in need during the holidays. Giving back and making a difference are most important for Hailei Beckwith.

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Meet the Maker: Kay Walker

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ooking and entertaining bring joy to Kay Walker’s life. Raised here in north Louisiana, Kay’s childhood memories were made in the kitchen, and she has strived to create those same memories with her children and grandchildren. Through entertaining, she found her recipes brought joy to other people. After a divorce at 60, Kay decided to use her God-given talent in a business venture. Kaybaby’s Smokin’ Fine Foods evolved in Kay’s own little kitchen. It took grit, determination, and a lot of faith to get the business off the ground. Through the diligence of friends and family, the market evolved as well. The company’s featured products are Bloody Mary Mix, smoked oyster crackers, and smoked rice. The Bloody Mary Mix is always a favorite at parties. The flavor is spicy, but lighter with a smoky twist. Kay takes pride in making a product that her local friends love and shares it with a wider audience. As a north Louisiana native, Kay takes pride in her hometown and wants to see the area get more recognition. As a result, Kaybaby’s products are bottled and distributed right here. As the current First Lady of Ruston, Kay and her husband Mayor Ronny Walker are committed to the growth of this region. Kay focuses her efforts on helping female-owned small businesses gain recognition. Kay sees God’s hand in all the changes and blessings in her life. She knows mindset and commitment lead to fruition, and if she can make people smile with her products, then she is combining her two loves in life.

Meet the Maker: Melinda Adams

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fter working in the medical field for the last 32 years, Melinda Adams has taken a well-timed step back. She’s now free to focus on creating in the kitchen, her artistic space. Coming from a family of artists, Melinda admits she can’t draw, but she can blend flavors. Raised by her grandmother, Melinda wanted to emulate her culinary talents. When her own kids were younger, Melinda focused on baking cakes and cupcakes for birthday parties and special occasions. She got back in the habit when her grandchildren were born, and then concocted her famous peach pepper jelly. The current batch features royal red peaches from Mitcham Farms. In 2013, Melinda’s friend produced a bumper crop of peppers and offered Melinda a five gallon bucket full. She had an idea to add fruit into the pepper jelly. She started with pineapple and it was a hit at an open house party. The cranberry flavor had the same positive reception. Melinda now offers 5 more flavors: peach, strawberry, blackberry, raspberry, and blueberry. And don’t assume the pepper jelly is just suitable as an addition to cream cheese. Melinda suggests adding the raspberry jelly to ham, the cranberry jelly to chicken, the peach jelly on pork roast, or even making a peanut butter and pepper jelly sandwich. Melinda enjoys thinking outside the box with food and encourages her customers to do the same. Find Melinda’s jellies through her company, Meme’s Kitchen.

Bayou Pages

“A Bookshop In Berlin” by Francoise Frenkel REVIEW BY MEREDITH MCKINNIE “I recalled all the suffering I had endured, almost more than any human could bear, but at the same time, I remained profoundly conscious of France’s own terrible misfortunes and her complete subjugation. Suddenly, I became aware of a growing feeling within - a heartrending longing for this country I was leaving behind.” A lover of literature, and a Jewish woman who delighted in sharing the experience of reading with her peers, Francoise Frenkel opened La Maison du Livre, a French bookstore, in Berlin in 1921. Far from her native Poland, but still in the relative familiarity of Europe, Francoise was comfortable in elite circles, entertaining diplomats, celebrities, and the established clientele that frequented her shop. Shortly into her time in Berlin, Nazi sentiments begin to creep into the metropolis, and while Francoise can stay above the fray due to her popularity, the eventual occupation of Germany seals her fate as one of the others. Her yearslong escape carries Francoise across Europe, primarily in France, seeking refuge in the unlikeliest of places with surprising characters. The book also details the slow, yet swift, advancement of Nazi sentiments and government regulations across Europe. It details the horror of those appalled by the developments and the acquiescence of too many. The depiction of homegrown hatred and resentment that hardens over time is clearly illustrated. The true story of Frenkel’s escape from Nazi capture was only uncovered in the last decade. The English version is a translation of the original document written in French. The first fews chapters take some adjusting on the reader’s part, as some phrases seem awkward in our native tongue and often disconnect the narrative from the language. The compelling story captures the imagination of the reader, as Francoise routinely goes into hiding to avoid detection and deportation. Frenkel relies on the kindness of acquaintances and strangers, people willing to risk their own lives to resist inhumane laws and practices. Though wellconnected and granted a temporary visa for Switzerland, the journey to the border and crossing into unoccupied territory is punishable by death, and Frenkel is forced to rely on her wits and instinct in times of isolation. While there are some harsh realities explained and endured by Frenkel, the narrative is comfortably readable. Often people avoid subjects of the Holocaust because the reality is too gruesome and frightening to ponder. This is not one of those books. The atrocities of the war are not ignored, but the details are not so explicit that they’re overwhelming. The beauty in the story is found in the woman’s endurance during seemingly unbearable hardship. While all Holocaust stories are tragic and unique in circumstances, the universality of a group of people being hunted resonates in each person’s account. This woman’s story speaks to resilience of the human spirit, the strength one can summon within herself, and the willingness of the unhunted to stand up for those persecuted. 32 SEPTEMBER 2021 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

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Alumni Spotlight ULM Alumna: Angela Leach

S A FIRST-GENERATION COLLEGE STUDENT, ANGELA never considered going away to pursue higher education. Her life was here, and she wanted to further her studies while remaining home close to family and friends. A graduate of West Monroe High School, Angela excelled in her studies; book knowledge always made sense to her. She attended ULM with TOPS funding and other academic scholarships and wanted to make the most of her time at the institution. Like so many freshmen, her career plan wasn’t definite. She wasn’t sure who or what she wanted to become. She initially declared elementary education, then math education, considered architecture, flirted with marketing, before finally just taking classes that interested her. As a junior, Angela enrolled in a drawing course. The instructor’s teaching style was unique and challenging, and Angela was unsure of herself in the course - but she loved the practice. She found a passion for the arts and knew art education was where she belonged. While taking classes at ULM full time, Angela worked as a secretary for a local contractor. She was a member of Kappa Pi Arts Society and led the preschool children’s ministry at Christian Life Church. Professors like Joni Noble provided the inspiration and encouragement Angela needed. Dr. Noble brought realness to the classroom, had a warm approach to teaching, and gave her students the tools to recognize the artistic needs in community classrooms. Mr. Cliff Tresner also pushed the arts in the community and encouraged his students to do the same. Under the tutelage of ULM’s art department, Angela found the method for combining her love of art with her passion for people, especially young adults. She knew building relationships was a personal strength, and the classroom was the environment where she could make those genuine connections. Angela is currently certified in K-12 education. Upon graduating summa cum laude from ULM in 2004, she took a job with Good Hope Middle School, then West Monroe High School in 2011, and Drew Elementary in 2012. In 2016, Angela was offered a position at West Ridge Middle School, with the age group she was most fond of and a learning environment close to home. Angela adores middle schoolers, particularly their sense of humor. They are at the age where they still seek out guidance and value their teachers. Angela is able to see her impact on their life choices - she feels she can make the most difference. Her pedagogy involves centering student agency, letting the kids decide which art projects to pursue. She prefers a relaxed creative 34 SEPTEMBER 2021 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

environment, often playing music or encouraging conversation while the groups work. Angela pulls up a canvas or paper alongside her students and creates along with them, feeding off their creative energy and excitement for the task at hand. Since art class is an elective, most of her students have chosen her class, and many of them stay with her for three years. Angela is able to foster that creative talent long term and is still around to see that budding confidence manifest. Most importantly, Angela gets to know her students personally. In a relaxed environment, students are more willing to share, and Angela gets to know their moods and can sense when the dynamic shifts. She can tell when they’re not okay. Often students need to vent, and Angela encourages self expression. She gets to provide that outside perspective that students so often crave from a trusted adult they know cares about them. Angela is foremost an advocate of student well being. She believes attention to social and emotional health is integral to effective learning. Angela was named Teacher of the Year for West Ridge Middle School in 2021, then again won Teacher of the Year for Ouachita Parish. She placed in the top 3 for the same honor for the state of Louisiana. Angela is married her high school sweetheart Peyton Leach in 2005, shortly after he too graduated from ULM with a bachelor’s in Computer Information Systems. He currently works for Graphic Packaging International. The couple have four children: Jillian, Griffin, Gunnar, and Everlee - who plan to be future ULM Warhawks like their parents. Angela is proud of the progress at ULM, specifically the updated facilities and the passionate work that continually enriches our community. Her former professor Dr. Noble frequently sends elementary and art education majors to observe Angela’s class at West Ridge, bringing Angela’s educational history and career full circle. The ULM Alumni Association reaches, connects and celebrates alumni and friends to build lifelong relationships, and commit to the university’s missions of academic freedom, scholarship, diversity, excellence, integrity and service. We represent alumni who honor the traditions of our university and who share a sense of achievement and pride. We create a network of professionals, establish scholarships and advocate for our University through community engagement. Members of the Alumni Association support countless initiatives, and annual memberships are just $35. To learn more or to become a member, please visit our new alumni network at ulm.edu/alumni.

The Power of Breathing

Bon Temps Pilates Studio Shares How Breath Can Affect Your Overall Health

REATHING IN AND OUT. IT IS SOMETHING THAT WE do every day, all day long, often times without a thought. It is something that comes naturally to us - approximately 17,000 times a day. Even though it is not something we often think about, breathing can affect your overall health. Over the past year, lung function has become a popular topic, given the way COVID-19 impacts your body. We know that Pilates can help build your core, add muscle and increase strength. But did you know it can improve your lung health as well? Before you can understand proper breathing techniques, it is important to know a little about how your body breathes. When you breathe in, or inhale, the muscle on the bottom of your ribcage, called your diaphragm, contracts and moves downward. This allows the lungs to have ample room to expand. The muscles between your ribs, called the intercostal muscles, contract to pull your ribcage upward and outward. As your lungs expand, air is sucked in through your nose and mouth and travels down your trachea to your lungs. After passing through your bronchial tubes, the air finally reaches the air sacs where oxygen is passed into the blood stream. At the same time, carbon dioxide travels into the air sacs from the blood stream and is expelled from the body as you exhale. Joseph Pilates taught that there is a right way to breathe and the mere act of breathing is one of the six Guiding Principles of Pilates. Breathing properly involves every part of your lungs, filling them completely with air in an inhale, and expelling every ounce of air as you exhale. When you inhale in a Pilates class, you are looking to maximally expand your lungs and rib cage in all directions. Then upon the exhale, you are looking to maximally contract your lungs and rib cage, which benefits your overall health greatly. USING YOUR LUNGS Your lungs and heart are the two most important organs that we use during exercise. The lungs bring oxygen to the heart and the heart pumps it into the muscles. They need to be exercised and challenged in order to stay in optimal condition. RIB CAGE BREATHING When a person exercises, they should be able to breathe deeply through their ribcage. This is a method of breathing that needs to be practiced. It is not something that comes naturally to most people. Upon a deep inhale, a few dozen muscles of the rib cage can contract. These muscles can include the serrates anterior, pectorals major and Levatores costarum. Upon a deep exhale, all of the abdominal muscles get involved along with the pelvic floor muscles. IN AND OUT A key aspect of breathing is being conscious of where and how the air is being breathed in and out. The focus is on inhaling through the nose and exhaling through the nose. This way of breathing

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can help activate the parasympathetic, which controls our rest state and deactivates the sympathetic nervous system, which regulates our flight or fight response. Breathing through your nose allows you to take deeper breaths, engaging the lower lungs. When the lower lungs become active, they pump out more oxygen to the rest of your body. More oxygen means more support for your cells and maintains healthy tissue and organ function. Breathing through your nose has lots of benefits, like helping filter out dust and allergens and boost your oxygen, which improves circulation. No discussion of the benefits of conscious deep breathing would be complete without addressing the body/mind integrative aspect. This is particularly true in Pilates where the “complete coordination of body, mind, and spirit” is the ideal that literally inspired the development of the practice. Breathing fully, with attention and intention, centers us. It clarifies and calms the mind, reduces stress and paves the way for a greater, holistic experience. Working with breath also brings a natural rhythm to a movement that greatly enhances the efficacy and experience of a workout. In Pilates, the breath leads the movement and gives it power. All of Joseph Pilates’ classical mat exercise instructions are coordinated with the breath and most equipment exercises are taught with breath patterns as well. Generally, we exhale on the part of the exercise that requires the most exertion, taking advantage of the natural contraction of the abdominal muscles on the exhale. In Pilates exercises, the breath is a major component to helping the body lengthen and decompress the spine. The contraction of an exhale can be thought of as a gentle, lengthening squeeze of the trunk around the spine. Then, on the inhale, with the support of the extensor muscles, there is an overall expansion in length and width. Pilates and breathing correctly will help improve your flexibility, increase your muscle tone and strength. Proper breathing will also strengthen your lung capacity and help the flow of your circulation. Breathing is an intricate part of helping to focus on balance and control of your body. Joseph Pilates method focused so many of his exercises on breathing. One of his quotes sums up the importance of breathing: “Before any real benefit can be derived from physical exercise one must first learn to breah properly. Our very life depends on it.” Whether you are looking to improve flexibility, increase muscle strength and tone, improve coordination and balance or even focus on your breathing, Pilates can help with it all. Bon Temps Pilates is the only classical Pilates studio in North Louisiana and offers private, semi-private, group and mat pilates classes, allowing you to develop your skills and invigorate your body, mind and spirit.

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MR TAYLORMADE AND THE TAYLORMADE BAND The list of Louisiana music artists who played or sang in church before topping the charts is quite substantial. But the house of prayer that Mark Taylor Jr. frequented as a child in Rayville, Louisiana did not allow music. If it wasn’t for his granddad, Delta blues legend Henry Dorsey, best known by his stage name Po’ Henry, Mark would probably have never picked up an instrument. “He had a big influence on me,” he stresses. Although he never attended any of his grandfather’s shows, which took the form of a traditional oldstyle Delta blues duo known as Po’ Henry and Tookie, whenever his grandfather visited, which sometimes was all through the week, Mark remembers music. When the jam sessions would happen, Mark recalls rushing for his “little” keyboard so they could play the boogie together. “I actually have some videos.” Even when Henry had to be placed in eldercare, Mark would stop over to play tunes on his piano while his grandfather danced. He has footage of that too. “Kind of tears me up every time I watch it,” he admits, adding, “I just love seeing him dance.”

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wasn’t until his family moved to Oak Ridge that Mark found himself in a family church that was down with musical praise. His cousin played keys, and her keen two-finger playing wholly intrigued him. “I kind of picked up what she was doing,” he says, following with, “Yeah, that was my first inspiration.” There, he began developing his skills on the keyboard, and thanks to his attentive parents, he received his first professional instrument, a Yamaha MO6 Keyboard Synthesizer. With his skills ramping up, he started to get noticed by the right kind of people. One night, at a church concert in Bastrop, probably because he was playing bass and keys at the same time, he caught the eye of The Hawkins Family band. “They were kind of amazed by that so they

ended up hitting me up after the concert.” He began to play with the Hawkins family, commuting between Oak Ridge and Bastrop. During the same time, Mark teamed up with Earl Duke Jr., son of legend Earl Duke, and intuitively began soaking up a lot of his style. “He kind of taught me how to blend in a band. Just play my part. And, you know, be dynamic and come on when I need to come up, stay under the singers, you know. They helped cultivate me as a musician,” he explains. After that, Mark’s notoriety increased. He started to get noticed and asked to play with other bands. He also picked up the guitar after Chris Hawkins played the Emaj7 chord, which prompted him to take that guitar home to start playing. Currently, Mark can play anything with a keyboard, laughing that he can probably play the accordion. He also plays talk box, drums, bass guitar, and vocals. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2021 39

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arly in his music career, he hadn’t dabbled in secular music, considering it “the Devil’s music.” But as a freethinker, Mark began diving into what was being played on the radio and started forming his own ideas about all the good music that had been missing from his life. During this drastic shift in music taste, Mark accepted a touring gig with a local musician who suddenly and unexpectedly ended up firing him and his band. “And that kind of just lit a fire within me,” he recalls. A month later he released his first single. Currently, the members of his band are people he has been playing with for his whole life: bass player Kendrick Smith, drummer Sirnayland Hawkins, keyboardist Quantavious Hawkins, and the vocal ladies Ruth God, Lakenya Addison, Lanila Madison, and De’Antwonique Jackson. Emboldened by the originality of his sound, Mark decided to do a riff on his own name and christened the group Mr Taylormade and The Taylormade Band. “I believe it’s personal. You know, you feel like our sound is tailor-made, like a tailor-made suit.” Still in the process of discovering music that he missed, Mark has continued to find artists that have allowed him to substantially extend his own sound. “Prince, man. I’m a huge fan of Prince,” he says, revealing that some people compare him to His Royal Badness because they both are known for playing multiple instruments. His dedication to The Purple One has taken the form of deep immersion into his discography. Though some of his favorites include mainstream hits like “Purple Rain,” Taylor finds that to really know an artist means finding the songs that never hit the charts. For him, two of those songs are “Crazy You,” which he enthuses that he is “crazy” about, and “The Most Beautiful Girl In The World.” Another band on his late discovery list was Earth, Wind & Fire. “They just took my breath away,” he says, considering their sound way ahead of their time. Jazz also became an immense phase of his stylistic development. Appreciating the jazz greats of old while simultaneously navigating the current musical landscape, however, has often made him feel like he was born in the wrong era. He remembers when he first found the music of Art Tatum and Oscar Peterson: “About a year straight, it really influenced my style. I’m just in love with the sound. I missed out on so much. When I heard it, I understood. It’s like a language,” he says. The genre of improvisation became deeply embedded in his psyche. “It became a part of my vocabulary,” he adds, commenting on the freedom that jazz

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allows, which resonates with his personality. “I don’t like to be bound...When it comes to music, I’m especially openminded.” He understands that when he plays, it’s all about the destination, and when it comes to jazz, there are so many routes you can go. “That’s what I love about it. It makes it so much more fun because you don’t have to just go from point A to Point B.” With a more seasoned ear, the songs forming in his imagination now are varied. As a “real positive person,” he has been drawn to writing mostly love songs, a form of rebuttal to mainstream songs aimed to sexualize and demean women. “All In Ya Love,” his first single, is one of those songs: “A woman like you is hard to find / I’m so glad that you’re all mine / You give me sunshine in the midst of all the rain / You give me joy, in the midst of all of my pain.” Some of his newer originals have roots in recent experiences, particularly “Don’t Stop The Music,” which is his version of a battle cry and expresses where his thoughts turned during the pandemic: “You can take whatever you want, just don’t take my music.” Ultimately, Taylor strives to experiment with his sound dabbling in funk, jazz, and R&B, and encourages his fellow musicians to do the same, emphasizing the journey of the music versus the orchestration of it. “We’ve been playing so long, we fill each other out,” he says about the composition of his songs alongside his bandmates. Though already filling his repertoire with impressive accolades such as performing for the Louisiana Grammy Association as representative of North Louisiana, Taylor does not consider himself having nearly reached his prime. “I guess I’m just focusing on trying to find a way to express myself where people really feel the fullness of me as a musician.” A tour of his music videos on YouTube quickly reveals his verisimilitude. In an attempt to widen his reach, he created TaylorMade Thursday, a platform where music artists can have a space to get an on-stage experience with a full band. “I’m trying to build a music scene around here,” he says, explaining the deficiency in venues that cater to soul and R&B music and musicians. “Music is not just a hobby.” He asserts, “I know this is my lifeline. I take it more serious than I can even express in words.” That’s why he is so adamant about live performances and the importance of attending music concerts. “Music is meant to be felt by all your senses,” he says, adding, “You need to see it, you need to feel it, you need to hear it.” Taylor’s heart for music is really an extension of his heart for other people and he plans to utilize his artistry to uplift. In the process, he hopes to get all that he can get from his talent and desire to take his music to higher levels. “I’m coming forward. I’m not holding back anymore. I believe in myself.” His music is specially fitted with a care and style that, undeniably, is TaylorMade. Follow Mr TaylorMade And The TaylorMade Band on Facebook, and check out their YouTube page Mr TaylorMade for an enjoyable listen to some of their tunes.

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Ouachita Council on Aging Lynda McGehee Retiring After Over 30 Years of Service

HE OUACHITA COUNCIL ON AGING HAS BEEN A PART of this community since 1967. And for many of those years, Lynda MeGehee has been a driving force behind the organization. She started as an intern over three decades ago and now serves as the Executive Director. The Ouachita Voluntary Council on Aging was established by charter on June 28, 1967 and is a private non-profit agency with 501(c)(3) status. In 1980, the Ouachita Council on Aging was also designated as the Area Agency on Aging for Ouachita Parish Planning and Service Area (PSA) and, as such, it conducts needs assessments, studies these needs, sets priorities for services, writes a plan for services (Area Plan), and conducts public hearings to receive the public input for its plan. The Ouachita Council on Aging/Area Agency on Aging receives federal and state funding under the Older Americans Act to administer some twenty-two programs for elderly persons (age 60+) parish wide. Other sources of funding are United Way of Northeast Louisiana, contributions from program participants, and donations from concerned individuals and groups in our community. OCA is an advocate for senior citizens and operates Carolyn Rose Strauss Senior Center and 12 other satellite/dining sites in this parish, as well as contracting for services with West Ouachita Senior Center in West Monroe, and SCORE (Senior Citizens OutReach Entity), which is located in Richwood. Their mission statement is to carry out a wide range of functions relative to advocacy, planning, coordination, inter-agency linkage, information sharing, brokering, monitoring, and evaluation designed to lead to the development or enhancement of a comprehensive and coordinated community based system to serve seniors in all areas in Ouachita Parish. Further, this system is designed to assist older persons in leading independent, meaningful, and dignified lives in their own homes and community as long as possible. And that is the mission statement that Lynda has strived for every day during her work at the Council. Her story is not an ordinary one. Lynda was a stay at home mom and while she had obtained her sociology degree from ULM, she had never worked outside the home. At 48 years old, she decided to return to her alma mater to participate in some classes. “I just wanted to take the class because I was interested in participating, it wasn’t even for credit,” recalled Lynda. Once she realized she enjoyed taking classes she figured she may as well get credit for it so she went to visit Chris Johnson with the Gerontology Program. “The program interested me because I was raised on the southside of Monroe with my entire family,” said Lynda. 46 SEPTEMBER 2021 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

“I loved older people and had always been around them. Since I was a child, I think I had an understanding of the significance of learning from an older generation.” Lynda took the GRE, registered for graduate school and pursued a degree in Gerontological Studies. Part of the program required her to complete an intern, so she turned to the Ouachita Council on Aging. And she’s been there ever since. For 12 years, Lynda worked under Joseph Nastasi, the director at the time. Her job included the activity coordinator and senior center coordinator. When Joe retired, people suggested Lynda apply for the position. She did so and she was selected as the director in 2000. At the time, Joseph had already put the plan in place to build a new building for the council. And Lynda saw that to fruition. They sold the building they were in on Tower Drive, got the Louisiana Legislature to match funding and sought donations from the community until they obtained their goal. Lynda oversaw the entire building process - working with the contractor, meeting with architects, adjusting the budget to make the project possible. Another goal of Lynda’s was to create a retirement plan for the staff of OCA. There are currently 32 employees and at the time, there was no retirement plan in place. Lynda created one so that the employees could have financial stability when they were ready to retire. “Often times people say I am the face of the Council, but I truly couldn’t do this job without all of the employees,” said Lynda. “So that was important for me to provide for them. They give so much and I wanted to make sure they were taken care of.” Lynda also wanted to create a fundraiser to benefit the OCA and the Shindig was born in 2009. The event has become one of the premier events in Northeast Louisiana, held at the MBH Barn, complete with live music, a packed dance floor, dinner and drinks. Just like many organizations, the Ouachita Council on Aging has had a tough year with the pandemic. Not only have they not been able to hold their annual fundraising event but some of their programs have had to be adjusted and their participants have not been able to interact for months. However, they are starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel. And while Lynda won’t be officially at the Council, she still plans on making appearances for activities and socializing. She looks forward to the Council to continuing to grow and serve even more people, and plans to work with the new director to ensure a smooth transition. If you are interested in volunteering or donating to the Ouachita Council on Aging, reach out to them by calling (318) 387-0535. You can find more information online at OuachitaCOA.com

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Loyal Blue Weekends in Louisiana’s College Town

HERE ARE FEW THINGS MORE EXCITING THAN LA Tech football season here in Ruston! It’s a special time of year when students, alumni, locals, and fans from all over the country come together to cheer on the Bulldogs. Loyal Blue Weekends celebrate LA Tech football throughout the community and offer a home-game experience that should not be missed! Loyal Blue Weekends take place every home game weekend and feature family-friendly activities, spirit groups, pep rallies, outdoor music, tailgating, and much more football fun.

activities and the game, running continuously each hour, completely free of charge! Get there early for tailgating in Bulldog Village, an experience you must not miss during game days in Ruston. No tickets? No problem! There are plenty of places in the area to kick back and watch the game. The following local restaurants will be screening home games for fans: Beau Vines, Champs, Daq’s Wings & Grill, Dawg House Sports Grill, Log Cabin, Ponchatoulas, and Portico. Eat, drink, and enjoy the game from the comfort of your favorite Ruston restaurant/bar, all while supporting local businesses.

FRIDAY Loyal Blue Weekend kicks off on Friday night in Downtown Ruston. Each Friday features a different, themed downtown event from 6:00-7:30pm. Locals and visitors alike will enjoy evening festivities that include pep rallies, live music, interactive games, kids’ activities, a movie screening, and more fun! See below for a list of dates and events. Sept. 10: Louisiana Friday Night (Railroad Park, Downtown Ruston) Sept. 17: Get in the Game (Railroad Park, Downtown Ruston) Sept. 24: Art in the Park (Railroad Park, Downtown Ruston) Oct. 22: Homecoming Celebration (Railroad Park, Downtown Ruston) Nov. 12: Family Football Movie Night (Dixie Theatre, Downtown Ruston)

SUNDAY End your weekend the right way on Sunday with brunch! Select local restaurants will be hosting Bulldog Brunch and offering your favorite breakfast items, traditional brunch dishes and cocktails, and more. Beau Vines and Trio’s are two of our favorite Sunday brunch spots in Ruston, both offering an impressive and delicious brunch menu with their own signature flair. As you can see, game-day weekends in Ruston are serious business, and we hope you’ll join us for all the fun! Check out the full list of Loyal Blue Weekends dates and start planning your game day experience now at experienceruston.com.

SATURDAY The festivities continue on Saturday as fans are encouraged to shop and eat in downtown before the game. If you need a last-minute game day outfit, be sure to swing by FanBase for all your official Louisiana Tech merchandise. You can also find plenty of blue & red and bulldog items at several other boutiques and shops throughout downtown. For lunch, head to any of downtown’s local restaurants. The Heard Freighthouse Food Truck Park is a great option for a group, where you can choose from several local food trucks serving up burgers, sandwiches, barbecue, and other specialty items. Avoid game-day traffic and stadium lots by staying parked downtown and taking advantage of the Tech Trolley. This shuttle service will take you to and from Joe Aillet Stadium for tailgating 48 SEPTEMBER 2021 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

LOYAL BLUE WEEKEND DATES: • September 10-12 • September 17-19 • September 24-26 • October 22-24 (Homecoming) • November 12-14 Still need tickets to this season’s games? Call (318) 257-3631 or visit latechsports.com. How ‘bout them dawgs!

Fall Into Smooth Skin Upcoming Events and News

ALL IN LOVE WITH YOUR SKIN THIS UPCOMING SEASON! We are excited to celebrate all things fall at The Medical Spa by helping you achieve smooth glowing skin. Geneo facials will be 25% off for the entire day on September 23rd. The OxyGeneo facial offers instant gratification, providing an instant glow and hydration for your skin! We offer four options with Geneo – Hydrate, Revive, Illuminate, and Charcoal, making this facial easily customizable based on your skincare needs. Geneo Facials are a terrific addition to any routine and can be done every 4 weeks. There is no downtime, and it can easily be done on your lunch break or before an event. What can you do in between facials? We suggest grabbing an athome facial kit from The Medical Spa this month. We have a SkinCeuticals or Obagi bundle to choose from. The first option includes a Biocellulose masque, microexfoliating scrub, and Phyto Corrective Masque all by SkinCeuticals for $99. • Microexfoliating scrub – soothing gel that exfoliates while hydrating and cleansing your pores. • Biocellulose masque – restorative masque that cools and soothes your skin. • Phyto Corrective masque – botanical masque, containing hyaluronic acid, cucumber, thyme, and olive extracts to calm and soothe. The second option available from Obagi for $160 will include, a cleanser, microdermabrasion polish + masque, and hydrate luxe. • Cleanser - choose from a gentle cleanser or foaming cleanser by Obagi. • Professional-C Microdermabrasion Polish + Masque - polish masque exfoliates and infuses your skin with 30% L-ascorbic acid (vitamin C). • Hydrate Luxe - luxurious moisturizer containing shea butter, mango butter, avocado, and glycerin for the ultimate hydration and rejuvenation. TREATMENT SPOTLIGHT Have you been considering laser hair removal? Well, wait no longer! We are excited to help you ditch the razor and experience that ease and convenience of laser hair removal. During the month of September, purchase three sessions of laser hair removal and receive one FREE! How does laser hair removal work? Laser hair removal works by using laser light energy. The melanin in the hair follicle absorbs the light energy, converting it to heat. This heat destroys the hair follicle, to prevent

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or stop future growth. The laser is more effective when the hair is in the early growing phase, so multiple sessions are required to achieve desired results. The Medical Spa offers laser hair removal with the Splendor X by Lumenis, a global leader in laser and energy-based technology! This laser offers customizable laser hair removal treatments for all skin tones. Splendor X offers BLEND technology by utilizing two wavelengths, Alexandrite 755 and ND-Yag 1064. The proportion of wavelengths used depends on skin type, hair color and texture, allowing for a safer and more effective treatment! By utilizing the dual wavelengths simultaneously and a dual cooling system, the Splendor X offers quick, effective, and comfortable treatments for hair removal! We recommend scheduling a consultation to discuss expectations and desired results from hair removal treatment. NOW AVAILABLE Have you always wanted luscious, thick, natural eyelashes? We can help with that! Obagi is now offering an eyelash enhancing serum, NuCil. This eyelash serum is designed to support overall lash improvement by targeting the growth phase of your lash cycle. Some individuals see results in as little as 8 weeks (about 2 months)! Nu-Cil is physicianapproved, ophthalmologist-tested, and no prescription is necessary. In addition to this new product, The Medical Spa is extremely excited to be part of the Alle Loyalty Program. Alle rewards you with points when you receive treatments with Allergan brands such as Botox, Juvederm, and Kybella. Points can also be earned when you receive other medical spa treatments like laser hair removal, micro-needling, and more! You can even accrue points when you purchase skin care products from the Medical Spa. The Alle Loyalty Program offers a chance to earn points towards future Allergan brand treatments (Botox, Juvederm, and Kybella) and eligibility towards exclusive discounts and promotions. Contact The Medical Spa to find out more information. Be sure to come by The Medical Spa this month to take advantage of our specials, events, and to find out more about the medical grade skincare products we offer. We are in the James R. Wolff Building (also known as the P&S Building) in downtown Monroe. Our address is 312 Grammont Street Suite 406, across from St. Francis Medical Center. This location offers complimentary valet parking, privacy, and easy access for clients. Also, be sure to follow us on St. Francis Medical Center Facebook page and Instagram so you can be up to date on all the new and exciting things happening here at The Medical Spa!

Meredith’s Musings

arrying a baby to term, delivering and caring for the baby and breastfeeding for a year is an adventure, one I underestimated, yet completed. I learned pregnancy in my midthirties is harder on the body. My girlfriends who were pregnant decades apart noticed a significant difference in ailments, fatigue, hormonal imbalances, etc. My pregnancy experience was painful, a time I don’t remember fondly. I can feel blessed I got pregnant and honest about its physical difficulties and emotional toll at the same time. We’ve heard about postpartum depression. I didn’t experience it. I was anxious when I was first alone with her and questioned my instincts. I cried more easily and exacerbated emotional issues in my mind. With nothing to do but nurse and heal, my mind stayed in motion. I had low points, but they were brief, and I could see my way out. I never felt lost or hopeless or that the feeling was permanent. I know many women do. What I did experience a year post-birth is a suppression of self, which lasted quite a few weeks. I woke up in the middle of the night, and sometimes stayed up for hours. It was lonely. I wasn’t excited about anything, easily irritated, what I would imagine depression might

article by M E R E DI T H MC K I NNI E feel like, but I was a year removed from the birth. I wondered, Am I “too-post” to be postpartum? Two weeks after I stopped nursing, I started to decline mentally. I expected enthusiasm. The pump was safely stored on a shelf deep in my closet. I didn’t have to answer the swell in my bosom by finding privacy and refrigeration. I had my body back. But my mind remained elsewhere, not catching up to its newfound freedom, or not sure where to go. It’s called post-weaning depression. I’m an avid reader of mommy blogs and research developmental changes to educate myself as a caregiver. I hadn’t come across post-weaning depression until a co-worker said she felt the same way after she stopped nursing. I spent hours reading about it. I had the symptoms. I was already following most of the suggestions for getting through it. I exercise, try to eat well, and allot enough hours for sleep. But what helped the most was knowing it was real, finding a name for the condition. I immediately felt better - heard, understood, and hopeful. When our bodies act differently, we want an answer, a source, a path to remedy or a story to relate to. New illnesses are frequently followed by hours on blogs, getting buried 100 comments deep, reading other stories, fearing the worst, unable to look away.

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When I bled 18 weeks into my pregnancy, I freaked. I remember being in the stall, seeing the stain, feeling alone, running back to my office, googling what color blood is of concern. Apparently, it’s bright red. Do they mean tomato red or eggplant purple, and what about brown? When you find yourself 100 images deep in blood stains, that’s desperation. When my nurse returned my call, she said it was fine, common, and not to worry. Instantly, I felt relief. She didn’t know for sure, but she was confident, and I so wanted to be. It was 11:00 a.m. on a Friday, and I went into the weekend with less worry. I relied on her experience, and I wanted her to be right. She was, and months later I delivered a healthy baby girl. Now, I use the term, “postweaning depression” casually in conversation. The first week of school, when they asked how I was doing, I shocked everyone with, “School is good, but post-weaning depression is hard. I’m finding my way through it.” I want people to hear the term, say it back to me, question what it is, and then commit the knowledge to memory. Perhaps one day when someone else is searching for an answer, that knowledge will save that “toopost” mother from feeling alone in her sadness. Calling it by its name is a start.

B A Y O U C O C K TA I L

PLUM PROSECCO SMASH This delicious craft cocktail combines seasonal fruit with a bright, bubbly Prosecco. Whether you are hosting a party or just need a weekend wind down, this drink is at the top of our list. Styled by TAYLOR BENNETT Photo by KELLY MOORE CLARK

W H AT Y O U N E E D : 2 Plums 6 Thyme sprigs Juice from one lemon 4 Tbsp Thyme syrup (1/2 cup of sugar, 1/2 cup of water, boil, remove from heat and add thyme sprigs, stir and let cool) 1 Bottle of Prosecco

DIRECTIONS: Peel and chop 2 plums. Muddle plums with thyme simple syrup and lemon juice until plum juice has been released. Shake with ice in a cocktail shaker. Pour over crushed ice evenly in two glasses. Top with Prosecco and garnish with extra plum slices and thyme sprigs. Enjoy!

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Ouachita Valley Credit Union Introduces New CEO/President Gary Funderburk

HEN GARY FUNDERBURK JOINED OUACHITA Valley Federal Credit Union as a member almost three decades ago, he had no idea he would one day be President and CEO. But what better person to lead the credit union than someone who had worked his way up the ranks, learning everything about the organization. Gary came from the banking world and after becoming a member of OVFCU, he saw the way they had a personal connection with their members, he jumped at the opportunity to become more than a member…he became an employee. “I saw how decisions were made on a local level and it wasn’t a disconnected corporate environment and that really appealed to me,” said Gary. He began his career with the credit union as a loan officer and his responsibilities grew to include special projects like Y2K coordinator, as well as implementing the ATM and debit cards. “Since it was a smaller organization, I wore many hats and that was really benefited me today because I have seen how many of the departments work,” said Gary. He eventually worked his way up to Vice President of Lending then Senior Vice President of the Credit Union to Executive Vice President. When the outgoing President, Katie Pilcher, retired, Gary was named President. Katie has been at Ouachita Valley for 33 years and actually hired Gary. They have worked together hand in hand over the years and have the same mentality and mindset - whatever they did was for the betterment of the members and employees of Ouachita Valley. “We truly believe it is our members first, then policies and procedures,” said Gary. As Gary leads Ouachita Valley, he is excited about their vision and plans for the future. “We are excited to introduce new technology, making our members able to access their accounts with ease,” said Gary. “However, we still want our members to come in and visit with us if that is what they prefer. We want to offer whatever is most convenient for our members.” He is also looking forward to expanding the area that the credit union currently serves. “We currently serve seven parishes and we are looking to serve more,” said Gary. “We want to continue to grow and offer more control to our members on how they do their banking, whether that is on their mobile device, computer or in person. I believe we can compete with larger financial institutions and I am excited to share that with our community.” Originally from Alexandria, Gary found his way to Monroe is 1986 when he came to ULM and has been here ever since. He is married to his wife, Trish, who works as a librarian for Ouachita Parish. They

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have two children, Andrew, 21 and Macy, 17 who is a junior at West Monroe High School. Over the years, Gary has coached soccer, softball and baseball, as well as been involved in a variety of community service projects. “I am looking forward to continue to serve the community with this new position,” said Gary. “I do want our members and our community to know that while we do have goals and things we want to accomplish, you won’t see big changes. Our vision and focus remains the same - our members and our community - and we will continue in that direction!” ABOUT OUACHITA VALLEY CREDIT UNION Ouachita Valley Federal Credit Union is a full service financial institution dedicated to serving its members and the community. The credit union offers a wide variety of financial services, most any type of loan from small personal loans to mortgage loans, plus so much more. In May of 1955, Ouachita Valley Federal Credit Union began as Ouachita Parish Teachers Credit Union. Over 64 years of service, Ouachita Parish Teachers Credit Union continued to grow adding additional school systems, sponsor companies and mergers. For this reason, in the mid-80’s, the name was changed to Ouachita Valley Federal Credit Union to better represent the credit union membership. They recently opened their fifth location in the Twin Cities at 2400 Louisville Avenue. Other convenient locations include Natchitoches Street in West Monroe, Well Road in West Monroe, Sterlington Road in Monroe and Martin Luther King Drive in Monroe. Ouachita Valley Federal Credit Union is proud to serve their community. For the past 16 years, Ouachita Valley has partnered with Sunny 98.3 to host the Sunny School Supply Drive. This supply drive helps children who need assistance with supplies to return to school each August. Throughout the years, over 10,000 students have benefited from the supply drive with the help of the community. Each year during the month of July, they host several events to raise awareness and accept donations on behalf of the supply drive. Ouachita Valley currently serves over 32,000 members in the parishes they serve which are: Caldwell, Franklin, Jackson, Lincoln, Morehouse, Ouachita and Richland. For more information log onto www.ouachitavalleyfcu.org or call 318.387.4592 and begin taking advantage of the credit union difference today.

Celebrating 45 Years

The Red River Revel Arts Festival Returns to Shreveport’s Festival Plaza

S THE LARGEST OUTDOOR FESTIVAL IN NORTH Louisiana, the multi-award-winning Red River Revel Arts Festival, often referred to as “The Revel,” attracts thousands of locals and visitors to “Celebrate the Arts” together. The nine-day event offers an extensive assortment of exciting and unique experiences for all ages. This year’s festival includes more than 75 juried visual artists from across the country; over 40 musical, theatrical, and performing arts entertainment on two stages, over 20 vendors serving delicious food, and an area dedicated to introducing children to the arts. Each day will offer new experiences and memories, so get ready to Revel! Here’s your guide to the 45th Annual Red River Revel Arts Festival: ARTISTS from across the country make the Revel their home the first week in October. Whether you are an avid art collector or a novice, you can enjoy and celebrate the arts of the Revel. Over 75 juried artists will have one-of-a-kind works of art, including multimedia paintings, jewelry pieces, photography, pottery and more. Artwork pricing varies, allowing for shoppers to purchase art within any budget. Plan to stroll down Art Alley to view the varied artworks of established artists, visit the Emerging Artist Tent to see up and coming artists showcasing their work, and support local artisans in the Market Area. Some artists rotate throughout the week, so festival-goers are encouraged to return to see who is new in these areas. Plan your shopping before heading to the Revel by previewing the artists’ portfolios at redriverrevel.com/rrr/artists/. MUSIC The Red River Revel Arts Festival is known for bringing in chart-topping names in music from across the country, along with local and regional favorites. With over 40 performances on two stages, music will fill Festival Plaza every day of the 2021 Revel! Headliners for the 45th Annual Red River Revel Arts Festival include: · Marc Broussard. Southern Rock/Bayou Soul singer-songwriter, 8:30 pm – 10:00 pm on Saturday, October 2nd · Kings Kaleidoscope. Alternative Rock band, 7:45 pm – 9:00 pm on Wednesday, October 6th · Samantha Fish. Blues/Rock singer-songwriter and guitarist, 8:30 pm – 10:00 pm on Thursday, October 7th · Inaugural Step Competition with Special Guests. 6:00 p.m. – 10:00 p.m. on Friday, October 8th · Laine Hardy. Country/Southern Rock. 8:30 p.m. – 10:00 p.m. on Saturday, October 9th In addition to local, regional, and national musicians, cheer and dance group performances are scheduled, along with martial arts and

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gymnastic demonstrations, theatrical performances, and more! View the full entertainment schedule at redriverrevel.com/rrr/ music-lineup. FOOD Bring your appetite to the Revel! The Red River Revel Arts Festival is a place where one will find mouthwatering menu items such as boudin balls, brisket grilled cheese, chicken and waffles, funnel cakes, and more! Local nonprofit organizations, booster clubs, schools, other community groups, and for-profit vendors operate food stations. Craft the perfect menu by visiting redriverrevel.com/rrr/food before you go. KIDS’ ACTIVITIES The Red River Revel Arts Festival is dedicated to providing children an opportunity to experience first-hand performing and visual arts. Children can channel their inner artist at the sand art station, build art structures at the Bricks4Kidz tent, and show their creativity at the Junior League of Shreveport-Bossier’s Artist for a Day tent! The fun doesn’t stop there! Children can become an archaeologist in the mock geological dig; use their imagination in Shreve Memorial Library Land; shop for the perfect ingredients at the Brookshire’s Mini Grocery Store and put their physical health to the test in the Ochsner LSU Health Shreveport obstacle course. And don’t forget about face painting! Plus, stilt walkers, magicians, and balloon animal artists will be bringing joy to everyone throughout the festival! Many of the kids’ activities are free with admission, while others may be ticketed or have a nominal fee. Check out all the kids’ activities at redriverrevel.com/rrr/kids-activities. ADMISSION The Red River Revel Arts Festival officially opens Saturday, October 2nd and runs through Sunday, October 10, 2021. The festival hours will be as follows: Monday-Wednesday 11:00 am -9:00 pm, Thursday- Saturday 11 am -10 pm and Sunday 11:00 am - 7:00 pm. Admission is $5.00 5:30 p.m. to close Tuesday through Friday, and all-day Saturday and Sunday. Admission is free Monday, October 4th, as well as from 11:00 am to 5:30 p.m. Tuesday through Friday. $10.00 Reveler Passes are available to allow guests access to the festival any day and time. Military and First Responders with a valid ID are free. Children ages 12 and under are free (an adult must accompany children). Location: Festival Plaza, 101 Crockett Street, Shreveport, Louisiana. Come join us for Art, Music, Food, and FUN at the 45th Annual Red River Revel! A huge thanks to our sponsors: Chase Bank, Pepsi Beverages Company, City of Shreveport, Junior League of Shreveport-Bossier, and The Alta & John Franks Foundation.

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EAR C A N DY

Earrings are a fun accessory that can make an outfit pop. These ear baubles are fun for fall and beyond. Find them at area boutiques. Photo by Kelly Moore Clark

FROM TOP CLOCKWISE:

Gold beaded earrings from Herringstone’s; Gold bar earrings with stone accents from Hemline Monroe; Neutral and gold rainbow geometric earrings from Southern Glam Boutique; Silver teardrops with crosses from Dusty & Company; Gold hoop with pavé stones from Palette House + Plume; Gold monstera earrings from Heritage & Grace; Gold butterfly earrings from The Nude Nomad

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DENIM DREAMIN’

HEMLINE MONROE

Denim is one key staple everyone should have in their closet, and these boutiques have it all. From button-fly to distressed jeans, the perfect flares to skinny jeans – these looks are must-haves for your wardrobe throughout the transitional season and into autumn. Find them all at area boutiques. Photography by Kelly Moore Clark Model: Kennedy Allen

XTND BOUTIQUE

HERRINGSTONE’S

THE NUDE NOMAD SOUTHERN GLAM BOUTIQUE DUSTY & COMPANY

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GET THE BOOT Shoe lovers unite, these boots are fall’s most fashionable finds. Whether you’re looking to make a statement or want a more casual look, these boots from area boutiques will put pep in your step. Photography by Kelly Moore Clark

HERITAGE & GRACE HEMLINE MONROE

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HERRINGSTONE’S

THE NUDE NOMAD

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ometimes, life is stranger than fiction! On June 25, 1991, Molly Louise Bozeman was born in Monroe, Louisiana. On that same date, Taylor Alexander Goodwin was born in Columbia, South Carolina. Fast forward to May 29, 2021, Molly and Taylor, who will never forget the other’s birthday, became husband and wife. After completing her undergraduate and graduate degrees from Baylor and LSU, Molly in 2016 moved to Greenville, South Carolina to work as a speech pathologist. Shortly after moving to Greenville, Molly met Taylor and they quickly fell in love. Taylor, who is a proud graduate of the University of South Carolina, and who also earned an MBA from Clemson University, said about first meeting Molly “I knew my life had changed when I first met that sweet blonde from Louisiana.” Their courtship took place while Molly’s mother, Mary Grace Bozeman, waged a courageous battle against Stage IV ovarian cancer. Taylor, along with other family, was at Mary Grace’s bedside supporting Molly when Mary Grace ascended into God’s arms on January 6, 2020. Following that season of hardship, in the midst of the beauty of Biedenharn Gardens in Monroe on May 23, 2020, Taylor proposed to Molly and she accepted! The weekend of May 29, 2021 was truly a celebration. Taylor and his groomsmen enjoyed the hospitality of Bayou Long Beard owned by Clay and Joy Caissie. The setting gave the guys a true Louisiana bayou experience for the weekend. Carolyn Myrick, who was a dear friend of Mary Grace, hosted at her beautiful home on Country Club Road a lovely bridal luncheon in Molly’s honor. As a surprise for her bridesmaids and flower girls following the luncheon, Molly

gave each an embroidered dress from Mi Golondrina of Dallas, Texas. Mi Golondrina dresses are hand stitched by skilled artisans in small villages of Mexico. On the evening prior to the wedding at Parkview Baptist Church in Monroe, the groom’s parents Darryl and Stephanie Goodwin of Columbia, South Carolina, hosted the rehearsal dinner at the venerable Lotus Club in the Vantage Tower. Parkview Baptist is very special to Molly. It was her church home for many years and the church where she accepted Christ and was baptized. Her parents, Bob and Mary Grace Bozeman, were married there as were her aunt and uncle, Connie and Benny Chelette of West Monroe. Also, Molly’s sister and matron of honor, Heather Bozeman Lensing, married her husband John at Parkview. For the rehearsal, Molly wore a crystal floral beaded overlay and Heather wore a black velvet flocked dot overlay. Both dresses came from Nardos Design of Dallas, Texas. Early on the wedding day, a friendly game of basketball took place between Molly and her father, Bob, at the Monroe Athletic Club. Following their game, Molly gave her dad a first edition of the 1949 novel “Father of the Bride” by Edward Streeter to commemorate the special day. Reverend Terry Hughes, formerly of Monroe, who is Senior Pastor at Central Baptist Church in Springhill, Louisiana officiated the service. Reverend Hughes, his wife Christy and their daughter Grace Hughes Hanna are close friends of the Bozeman family. Christy and Mary Grace were best friends! The ceremony music was provided by The Four Seasons String Quartet of Shreveport, Ms. Valerie Barley, and Mrs. Lori Crotwell. Molly’s wedding dress was a custom couture bridal gown by Nardos Design. It was crafted from a luxurious silk Mikado fabric from Italy; her column gown featured a dramatic detachable train overskirt and a bateau neck cap sleeve with an Alencon lace jacket using lace from her mother’s wedding gown. Her cathedral length veil was adorned with matching lace also taken from her mother’s dress. Heather wore a Nardos’ designed couture ivory silk Mikado mermaid gown with an organza shoulder wrap and a satin faced organza sculpted bow belt. Along with designing the beautiful dresses, Nardos Iman, the proprietor of Nardos Design, created priceless ink sketches of Molly’s wedding dress, Heather’s matron of honor dress, and Mary Grace’s wedding dress from 1981, which she made herself. In addition to Heather, attending the bride were: Hannah Armistead of Columbia, South Carolina, Morgan Chelette Bristo (Molly and Heather’s cousin) of Lafayette, Louisiana, Kelsey Dearman Beatrous of Jackson, Mississippi, Emily Goodwin of Columbia, South Carolina, Dr. Molly Kudela of Houston, Texas, Dr. Lauren McCalmont of Shreveport, Louisiana, Kelsey Patterson of Shreveport, Louisiana, Elisabeth Robertson of Lafayette, Louisiana, Cara Sims of Greenville, South Carolina, Madison Schrimsher of Houston, Texas and Tyson Williams of Greenville, South Carolina. The bridesmaids wore an ivory Alfred Sung off the shoulder sateen gown from Bella Bridesmaids. Flower girls were Mary Katherine Sims, Ivy Sims, Elizabeth Sims, all of Greenville, South Carolina, and Allie Grace Bozard and Kamryn Bozard of Orangeburg, South Carolina. The ring bearer was Hill Sims of Greenville, South Carolina. The flower girls were in matching white lace heirloom dresses. As a nod to South Carolina, each wore an engraved silver bracelet from Croghan’s Jewelry of Charleston, South Carolina. The bracelets were courtesy of the bride and groom. Darryl Goodwin, Taylor’s father, was his best man. Jared Addison of Columbia, South Carolina, Cameron Armistead of Columbia, South Carolina, Kurt Dieringer of Richmond, Virginia, Bob Diserafino of Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, Pete Eckstrom of Columbia, South Carolina, Shane Green of Charleston, South Carolina, John Lensing of Baton Rouge, Louisiana, Daniel Schwartz of Charleston, South Carolina, Taylor Sims of Charlotte, North Carolina, Steven Slocum of Loudoun, Virginia, and Collin Thurston of Ridgewood, New Jersey all served as groomsmen. The program attendant for the evening was cousin of the bride Vivien Phillips of Plano, Texas. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2021 67

ollowing the wedding, the bride and groom were honored at a reception at the home of the bride’s father on Bayou DeSiard. Guests were greeted at the wedding reception by a beautiful door display created by Gregory Hudgins of Monroe. Mr. Hudgins was also responsible for floral displays throughout the home. Special touches for the special day included the use of Mary Grace’s antique punch bowl and fine china inherited from her maternal grandmother, Mary Elizabeth McKoin Dillon, of Jones, Louisiana. A surprise awaited the groom at the reception as the groom’s cake was a replica of Williams-Brice football stadium at the University of South Carolina. It was created by Michelle Munsell of Lafayette, Louisiana. The “stadium cake” was a delicious red velvet and it came with actual stadium lights and a miniature jumbotron with a picture of Molly and Taylor! The reception was catered by Thurman’s Food Factory of Monroe. Thurman’s Food Factory provided an amazing tiered wedding cake and traditional Louisiana

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cuisine which included fried catfish, jambalaya, duck wraps, and Bananas Foster. Wyatt Waters of Jackson, Mississippi was the live event artist, and he painted a watercolor of the couple’s first dance overlooking Bayou DeSiard which will be a keepsake for generations to come. The band Compozition of Jackson, Mississippi provided the music for the evening. To complete the day, each guest received as a wedding favor a copy of one of Mary Grace’s favorite cake recipes, written by her, and a mini cake to enjoy. The wedding favors were courtesy of Mary Grace’s sister, Connie Chelette, and their cousin, Melanie Dillon Long, of Baton Rouge. Special thanks to Leslie Campbell Events of Baton Rouge for coordinating the wedding celebration, Ashford-Halley Photography of Baton Rouge, Clayton Harris of Monroe for videography expertise, and Tyler Smith, Sarah Katherine Ewing, Kathleen Rasco, Danielle Fowler, and Wanda Clemons for making the wedding an unforgettable experience. Molly and Taylor honeymooned in Rosemary Beach, Florida. Molly and Taylor reside in Greenville, SC, where Molly is employed by HCA Healthcare as a speech pathologist and Taylor is employed by ScanSource, a worldwide technology distributor, as a financial services manager.

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Marsala Beverage

Bud Light Partners with Football Teams Across the State

OOTBALL IS BACK! THE NATION’S largest beer brand is gearing up for another action-packed football season. Whether it is a fantasy football draft, Saturday College Gamedays, NFL Sundays or Monday Night Football, make sure Bud Light is a part of your gameday tradition. BUD LIGHT In 1982, Anheuser-Busch introduced Bud Light nationally. Bud Light, the most popular beer in the country, is a light-bodied lager with a fresh, clean and subtle hop aroma. Its delicate malt sweetness and crisp finish provide the ultimate refreshment. Bud Light is brewed using a blend of premium aroma hop varieties, both American-grown and imported, and a combination of barley malts and rice. Its superior drinkability and refreshing flavor make it the world’s favorite light beer. Bud Light contains 4.2 percent alcohol by volume (ABV). NATIONAL FOOTBALL LEAGUE This football season, Bud Light will once again be the official beer of the NFL. As a matter of fact, Bud Light has been the official beer of the NFL since 2011 and has renewed its sponsorship through the 2022 Super Bowl. As the partnership with the NFL continues, Bud Light is also committed to partnering with 28 of the 32 NFL teams. Lucky for us, Bud Light and the New Orleans Saints have had an excellent partnership. This season, be on the lookout for Saints branded Bud Light packaging on Bud Light Suitcases and Bud Light Aluminum Bottles.

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Although Bud Light is a massive global brand, with partners like the NFL, a focus of Marsala Beverage is to make sure that Bud Light continues to stay entrenched in the community of Northeast Louisiana. One important reason the Bud Light brand is so successful in this market is the local sports partnerships that we have. Bud Light takes a great amount of pride in being the only malt beverage brand to have partnerships with ULM, Louisiana Tech and LSU. “These universities are the backbone of our communities and it is important to Marsala Beverage that Bud Light supports them,” says VP of Marketing Tyler Flemister. UNIVERSITY OF LOUISIANA MONROE ULM and Bud Light have had an excellent partnership for over 50 years. This partnership goes as far back as when Marsala Beverage was Budco Distributing. This partnership is something that has a tremendous value to the Bud Light brand in Northeast Louisiana. Over the past eight years Bud Light has been the exclusive beer sponsor of the ULM Warhawks. As the ULM athletic department rebrands themselves this year, Bud Light has many new assets in the market. Please be on the lookout for them this fall. So, grab some Bud Lights and come on out to the grove to help the Warhawks #DEFENDTHENEST! LOUISIANA TECH UNIVERSITY Bud Light has been a strong partner of Louisiana Tech’s for over 20 years. The Louisiana Tech partnership is not only valuable for Bud Light in the Ruston market

but all over Northeast Louisiana. Join us in raising a cold Bud Light and wishing the best of luck to the Bulldogs this football season. LOUISIANA STATE UNIVERSITY Bud Light has been the exclusive beer partner of the LSU Tigers for over 10 years. This year something very exciting is happening. The LSU logo will be placed on the Bud Light Aluminum bottle for the first time ever! In fact, LSU will be the only school in the country that will have their logo on a Bud Light aluminum bottle this football season. Geaux Tigers! Locally, Marsala Beverage employs about 100 full-time employees. Marsala Beverage, LP is the largest malt beverage, wine/spirits and non-alcoholic distributor in Northeast Louisiana. Their success is based on the fact that they never lose sight of delivering what is really important – quality products, timely service and a genuine concern for our customers’ needs. Annually, they deliver over 2.4 million cases of beverages to over 700 retail accounts. Please find us at www.marsalabeverage. com or follow us on social media: Facebook: Marsala Beverage Twitter: @marsalabeverage1 Instagram: @marsalabeverage

ULM Pursuit

On Tuesday, August 10th, Warhawk fans gathered as the ULM and ULM Alumni Association hosted its annual event, The Pursuit, on the campus of ULM at the Bayou Pointe Event Center. The Pursuit, sponsored by BancorpSouth, is the University’s premier kickoff event for the upcoming 2021 football season. During the VIP Reception, attendees had the opportunity to meet the first-year 2021 ULM Head Football Coach Terry Bowden and his entire coaching staff. Dinner was served and the program highlighted comments from Dr. Berry, Athletics Director Scott McDonald and Coach Bowden. The Warhawks take the field for their first home game on Saturday, September 18th against Jackson State at Malone Stadium.

On the BayouScene

1 Nick Olinger and Meghan Olinger 2 David Bush, Lesley Bush, Nita Woods and Kevin Woods 3 Ron Berry, Kevin Koh, Terry Bowden, Scott McDonald and Chris Windham 4 Amber and Nick White 5 Janet Durden, Terry Bowden and Bob Durden 6 Jo McDonald and Charles McDonald 7 Valerie Fields and Terry Bowden 8 Jamie and Chrissie Autin 9 Usef Simmons and Valerie Fields 10 Ron Berry, Ace and Terry Bowden 11 Caycee Shaw, Cindy Shaw, Connie Andrews, Victoria Pederson, Greg Andrews, Kim Burtram and Brad Burtram 12 VCOM staff 13 Mallory Sprehe, Sydni Littleton, Kaylee Nolan, and Mackenzie Miller

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PALETTE HOUSE + PLUME

CREAM OF THE CROP One of this season’s biggest trends is crop tops and jackets. Pair a cropped jacket with a high-waisted jean, or layer looks to achieve a seasonal flair. These styles from area boutiques are definitely the cream of the crop. Photography by Kelly Moore Clark Model: Kennedy Allen SOUTHERN GLAM BOUTIQUE

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HERITAGE & GRACE

Terrapin Beer Company From Daydream to “Beereality”

BY DELIA SIMPSON, CRAFT BRAND MANAGER, CHOICE BRANDS, INC.

HOW IT BEGAN Terrapin Beer company began as a daydream between founders John Cocran and Spike Buckowski, who met while working for a microbrewery in Atlanta. The two recognized that they had something to contribute to the brewing industry in the southeast and began crafting recipes. In April of 2002, Rye Pale Ale made its first appearance in Athens, GA. Only a short six months later, Rye made it to Denver for the Great American Beer Festival, where John and Spike took home a Gold Medal for the beer in the American Pale Ale category. What started as two guys and a 25-barrel brewhouse has grown into what is affectionately known as the Terrapin Tribe. The Tribe starts with the brewery employees, the distributor partners, the folks that sell the beer, and of course, each and every person that has supported Terrapin’s growth as a brewery by drinking delicious beers! SUSTAINABILITY Sustainability is important to all of us. Terrapin is doing their part to protect our planet. Can I Recycle This (CIRT) is teaming up with Terrapin Beer Co. and Marine Debris Tracker (Debris Tracker) to keep valuable recyclables out of landfills and our environment. The partnership will bring CIRT’s technology, to millions of Americans, helping to inform their purchasing decisions, and answer the often-asked question, “Can I recycle this?” Through the circular materials management expertise of CIRT, the partnership will develop a sustainable, data-driven, and end-of-life focused design and supply chain for Terrapin’s 74 SEPTEMBER 2021 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

products and packaging. Debris Tracker offers the longest standing and most respected data collection tool for litter, while empowering companies, groups or individuals to collect data on what they find or clean up from our environment. Over 3 million items have been logged with Debris Tracker since its inception. The Terrapin partnership ensures that CIRT’s consumer facing waste reduction and recycling education platform reaches millions of people, tightening the circularity of their products and packaging. Terrapin Beer Co. has a strong commitment to utilizing packaging that is valuable and recyclable, namely their early adoption of infinitely recyclable aluminum cans - leading by design at the forefront of protecting our planet from waste and pollution. The partnership commenced January 2021. Terrapin dedicated the month of January to recycling awareness as a part of their Terraprint initiative in Athens and throughout their distribution footprint. Terraprint, Terrapin’s environmental sustainability and community outreach arm, aims to minimize the impact on the environment while maximizing impact on the community.

Cryosphere ABV: 5.5%, IBU: 42 Seasonal Availability in 6 Pack Cans Cryosphere IPA packs in huge amounts of hop flavor and aroma while minimizing bitterness. This is achieved by using a state-ofthe-art hop product called Cryo Hops in both the brewing and dry hopping of this beer. By highlighting the unique cryogenic process, these hops are truly the star of the show.

THE BEER Hopsecutioner ABV: 7.3%, IBU: 60 Available Year-Round in 6 Pack Cans Hopsecutioner is a killer IPA that earns its title by being brewed with six different hops to create an aggressive yet exceptionally well-balanced beer. Look for notes of pine and grapefruit balanced by caramelized malt.

Be sure to like Choice Brands on Facebook and follow us on Twitter and Instagram to keep up with new product releases. Feel free to message us for information on where to find your favorite brands. Find us at facebook.com/choicebrands, twitter.com/ choicebrandsinc, and instagram.com/choicebrands. ABV= Alcohol by Volume, IBU= International Bitterness Units

IPA Survival Kit Available Year-Round in Variety 12 Pack Cans Survival Kit contains four different IPA’s from Terrapin. Hopsecutioner (details above), Luau Crunkles, RecreationAle, and Cryophonic. Luau Crunkles (ABV: 6.5%, IBU: 38) is jampacked with tropical flavors of passion fruit, orange, and guava. RecreationAle (ABV: 4.2%, IBU: 34) is specially formulated to accompany you on all your adventures. Packing in just 99 calories so it won’t weigh you down, this full-flavored “LoCal” IPA will keep your feet moving on the trail of life. Cryophonic IPA (ABV: 5.5%, IBU: 45) hits all the notes by using four varieties of Cryo hops. These cryogenically processed beauties ensure a beer with a smooth tonal balance and wide dynamic range.

Creating a Happy and Organized Home

by ERIN SHARPLIN LOVE | erinlove@panachebyerin.com

s it just me or has this year flown by? When I think about what I have accomplished so far, I am happy, but there are still things I want to do. With that in mind, I decided to begin a refresh so that I can optimize my potential in work and in life. Then I thought you may be interested in doing the same thing and here we are. We are going to do this together! I cannot wait to see what you do! How do you want your home to feel for you and your family? Have you ever put it into words? Recently I asked myself that very question. And when I did, the answer put everything into perspective and helped me create a happy and organized home. I discovered that creating a workable environment revolves around a family’s special wants and needs. However, every “home mission statement” will not be the same. So, with that said, let’s get started on creating your “Home Mission Statement.” To help you, here is mine: The Love home will be a welcoming and friendly place for everyone who enters. There will always be a fun and happy vibe that will encourage us to make memories for ourselves and our friends. We will be tidy and organized, but not stuffy and rigid. I will create routines and habits that will help make daily tasks and appointments easy and stress-free. We will get things done in a timely and organized manner. Pets are welcomed in the Love family home. No harm will come to any that are in our care. I will teach everyone the importance of manners and etiquette so that they are able to navigate the world with ease and confidence. Finally, there must be a way for everyone to enjoy his/her own hobbies and interests. The perfect space will be created for each family member, and that space will be honored and respected. Selfcare is an important part of growing into the person you are meant to become. As moms, we play a very valuable role in our families. So valuable in fact, that our influence greatly determines the emotional and physical environments of those that live in our home. And, you know what that means – if you are disheveled, overwhelmed, and stressed, everyone else will be, too. Now, I am not saying that I can tell you exactly how to run your home, but as a professional organizer and mom, I can give you some tips that can help you to find the perfect flow for you and your family. Let’s get started. 76 SEPTEMBER 2021 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

YOU ARE A MANAGER - Think about it. You are basically a manager of your own home. You manage the property and the resources. You manage the health and nutritional needs of those in your care. You manage parties and events for special occasions. and, you manage transportation and scheduling for your little ones. Whew! Sounds overwhelming, doesn’t it? With that in mind, you need to develop a system that meets your neverending responsibilities. This system includes the categories of time, property, food, friends, finances, special events, and self. Breaking each responsibility down helps create a system that works for you and your family. My number one tip: view time in minutes instead of hours. You will be surprised at how much you can accomplish in the mere snippets of time that you have between responsibilities. In fact, I get the most done in those snippets because I work smarter and faster. I know the same is true for you. My second tip: preparation is the key to success. Do everything that you possibly can ahead of time. Try to foresee the future and plan for the upcoming day, week, and/or months activities. For instance, this is something you can do in those “snippets” of time that I mentioned earlier. You must do three things: 1. Identify your priorities. 2. Create a control center. 3. Build your time management skills. Let’s take these one by one. IDENTIFY YOUR PRIORITIES - Every manager sets guidelines and decides what is most important based on their values. The rules for managing a home are no different. You must set clear goals and boundaries per each category of time, property, food, friends, finances, special events, and self. You have already written a general mission that will set the values for your entire household, so take a cue from that to gauge your priorities. If you want things to change, today is the perfect place to start. Begin incorporating tricks and tactics into your life now. You can do it all if you prioritize, preplan, and prepare! Below are a few reminders to start you on the right track: • Relationships are more important than things. • The more “things” you have, the less “time” you have.

• There is no such thing as perfect. • You can’t do it all by yourself. • Children shouldn’t remember how clean the house was. They should remember how much fun mom was. • Disorder causes chaos. Make sense of routines and tasks. CREATE A CONTROL CENTER - Every manager has a base of operations. Whether yours is a desk, a countertop, or an entire office, it must be a place where you can organize and track your family’s schedule, make lists, check emails, and manage your daily life. This place is where you will become more efficient and create more time for you and your family. Here are some tips for creating a control center: • Choose a location that has some free counter space or a desktop. A central location is best. • Hang a family calendar • Make sure a trash can is in reach • Stock the area with pens, pencils, highlighters, and notepads. *Hint – give each family member his/her own color so that notes and appointments are easy to find. • Place family “in-boxes” in the area for mail, papers, and other documents that need to be within easy reach. BUILD YOUR TIME MANAGEMENT SKILLSSKILLS This is the final step in creating a happy and organized home. As a professional organizer and mom, I can share some time-tested tips with you. • Write it down! Do not trust your memory. I like to write things down and check them off as I go. • Do not procrastinate. If it takes one minute or less to do a task, do it now! For instance, put the toothpaste cap back on and place it back in the drawer. Or put the dirty dish in the dishwasher not in the sink or on the counter. • Start everything five minutes early because you know there will be traffic, lost shoes, misplaced keys, etc. • Know when you work best. Are you a morning person, or do you prefer to get things done in the evening? • Schedule everything! If you want to make sure it gets done, put it down on the calendar. Check out these tips for scheduling appointments: • Print and complete any paperwork before the appointment. • When possible, be the first appointment of the morning or the first one after lunch to cut down on wait time. • Schedule yearly doctor visits into one visit. For instance, take everyone to the dentist on the same day. • For the first visit, keep the address with you for quick directions. Remember when I said that preplanning is one of my top tips? I couldn’t stress it more. I truly believe I would be an out-of- control mom if I did not preplan! Here are my best tips: • On the first of each month, look at your calendar and schedule the things that need to be done. I also clean my refrigerator, make a grocery list, clean out my purse, and reorganize my car at the first of every month, too. • Lay out all outfits the night before. If it is something you have never worn, try it on first. • Menu plan. • Pack backpacks, lunch boxes, and lay out breakfast the night before school Don’t wait until morning. • Put a list of things that need to be done the next day in your purse or in the car. • Reorganize your desk before leaving the office. • Keep an extra change of clothes in the vehicle for emergencies. Also, assemble a first aid kit and toiletry bag for any spills and messes that may happen. I can go on and on with preplanning tips, but I don’t want to overload you. Follow me on social media for more tips and tricks: @erinlovedesigns and @panachebyerin As you become a better manager, you’ll begin saving hours. And every hour saved is an hour added to your life and family! WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2021 77

Style and Fashion Include Your Home Local Interior Decorator Helps Guide You

HE DICTIONARY DEFINES STYLE as “a distinctive appearance, typically determined by the principles according to which something is designed.” Often times, we think of style as clothing and items in our wardrobe but our home can reflect our style as well. From furniture to finishes, local interior decorator Jan Strickland helps her clients find their style throughout their home. “When it comes to my personal design aesthetic, I treat my home like my fashion,” explains Jan. “You have base pieces or staple pieces like a neutral sofa. Then you can swap out items like pillows and throw blankets to add pops of color.” She suggest investing in main pieces like a sofa, table or lighting and accentuating with accessories, just like you would an outfit. And you don’t have to spend a lot of money to get a different look. “You can use pieces you already have and just use them in a different way,” said Jan. “For example, you can move artwork around your house. Instead of hanging it on the wall, you can

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set it on a mantle.” She also suggests using accessories on tables and built in bookshelves. “It is a good idea to get some staple pieces for a built in bookcase that can be out year round and accentuate with seasonal decor.” Another tip she shares is using coffee tables as decor. “Coffee table books are very interesting and they have beautiful colors, designs and pictures on the front so you can use them as a design element. I have even used copies of BayouLife Magazine on coffee tables because the covers are always so beautiful!” Plants are another great way to add some style to the rooms in your house. You can place a small succulent in a windowsill, a large fiddle leaf fig in the corner of a room or the ever tenacious ZZ plant on a side table. Having greenery in your home can not only add a sense of style, but a sense of life. Some studies have even suggested that plants boost your mood, productivity, concentration and creativity, giving both a practical and aesthetic purpose.

While it may still be warm outside, it is already time to start thinking about the holidays. Now is the time to prepare your home for hosting. “In light of current events, items have had shipping delays, especially when it comes to custom orders,” explains Jan. If you are wanting to get a bigger table to fit the entire family this holiday season or just want to have updated furniture pieces when its time to trim the tree, Strickland Interiors can help! She offers Interior Decorating and Consulting Services, paint color consultations and even online decorating consulting. She can help you find your home’s style and make sure it is reflecting throughout the house!

Your Hometown Urologist Robert D. Marx, M.D., Your Hometown Urologist

ABOR DAY IS SEPTEMBER 6TH, TO make sure you’re celebrating now and not early summer 2022, it may be time to schedule your vasectomy. Vasectomy is a medical procedure in which two tubes (the vas deferens) that carry sperm from the testicles to the urinary tract are tied and sealed. This prevents sperm from passing into the seminal stream and fertilizing a woman’s egg. Although it is permanent, it is surgically reversible in most cases. Reversibility is dependent upon time elapsed since the vasectomy. When it comes to forms of permanent male birth control, a vasectomy is the ideal permanent surgical procedure available to men. The procedure carries a very low risk of complications and is available to be performed as an outpatient procedure with localized anesthesia. Dr. Marx performs a nocut technique, which is the least invasive. The patient is sedated and local anesthesia is used in order to achieve a painless procedure.

THE VASECTOMY PROCEDURE IS NEARLY 100% EFFECTIVE. Prior to a vasectomy, patients may be asked to prepare by: • Washing the scrotum to prevent infection • Not shaving the area • Bringing a pair of tight-fitting underwear or athletic support to the surgery to support the scrotum and minimize swelling • Arranging for transportation home to prevent extraneous movement • Avoiding anti-inflammatory drugs prior to and following the procedure, which thins the blood and can cause excessive bleeding AFTER THE VASECTOMY After the vasectomy is completed, patients are advised to rest for two days in order to reduce swelling and allow the vas deferens to heal. Discomfort may last for up to a week

after the procedure. If pain persists beyond one week, an anti-inflammatory may be used. This can happen, but Dr. Marx usually refers to this as being “tender and touchy up to 6 weeks.” Patients are encouraged to avoid heavy lifting, straining or squatting for 1 week. If you do any of these activities for work, you may need to take off work or arrange for light duty. Dr. Marx can give you an excuse. Patients are also advised to keep the area dry for a week in addition to other care instructions. If you are considering a vasectomy, call today to discuss your options with Dr. Marx. Robert D. Marx, M.D. is this community’s hometown urologist. He was born and raised right here in Monroe, Louisiana. He graduated from NLU, now ULM, and graduated from medical school and completed his residency at LSU Shreveport. He has been in practice for over thirty years and conveniently operates at Glenwood, Monroe Surgical and P&S.

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The Wellspring Thanks Sponsors Bowl & Bling Makes Difficult Decision to Cancel

HE WELLSPRING WOULD LIKE TO take this opportunity to extend a heartfelt THANK YOU to our Bowl & Bling 2021 sponsors. Although we made the difficult decision to cancel this year’s live event due to the recent COVID-19 surge, our sponsors have been steadfast in their support of our mission and the programs and services made possible by Bowl & Bling. The Wellspring and the individuals and businesses listed below care about your health and wellbeing and we are committed to keeping our community safe during this difficult time. Although we will miss gathering to bowl strikes, spares and gutterballs, our online raffle sales continue! We have some amazing prizes including two beach vacations, a fivenight stay at Lake Bruin, dinner and lodging at Champions Bistro and Lodge, golf packages, art by Emily Caldwell, a leather handbag from Kelly Moore Bag, a LSU package and MORE! You can purchase raffle tickets by visiting wellspringofnela.org/bowlandblingraffle. We extended tickets sales, so you now have

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until Friday, September 3 at 12 p.m. to get your tickets. The Wellspring will go live on its Facebook page for the drawings which will take place September 7-10. All proceeds benefit The Wellspring. Since 1931, The Wellspring has served as a community leader in bringing people and partners together to address some of the greatest challenges of our time: violence, homelessness, sexual assault, poverty, mental illness and children facing adversity. The Wellspring also serves as our region’s only accredited Sexual Assault Center, and the lead agency in the Family Justice Center of Ouachita Parish. Come join the FUN and partner with The Wellspring to change our community, one life at a time! Thank you to our Sponsors! The Perfect Game: • Trinity Diamonds Direct Lucky Strike: • Serv Pro/318 Construction • Thomas H. and Mayme P. Scott Foundation

Spare: • Ashley & Dom Pere’ • Entergy • Graphic Packaging • Jim Taylor Auto Group • Origin Bank • Paramount Healthcare • Vanguard Realty Split: • Copeland Electric • Cross Keys Bank • Estates by RC • Franklin Parish Sheriff’s Office • Judy & Charles Bell • JVA Trucking • Mutual of America • St. Francis Medical Center And of course we love our Lane Sponsors: Bruscato Law Firm, Creed & Creed, Eagle Bank, Floorworks, Jane and Jerry Brandon, Laura Wood State Farm Agency, Ouachita Valley Federal Credit Union, Rain The Salon + Day Spa, Reeves, Coon & Funderburg, Robertson Produce, Sango Buick and Sheriff Jay Russell. As a 501(3)(c) charitable not for profit corporation, your donation is tax deductible to the fullest extent allowed by law.

Cool Sculpting

Non-Surgical Removal of Unwanted Fat TIMOTHY J. MICKEL, MD, FACS, CERTIFIED, AMERICAN BOARD OF PLASTIC SURGERY

Go raise the banners high in air, And spread the tidings round! Let drums and trumpets boom and blare, For I have lost a pound! - Dorothy Parker F DOROTHY PARKER, THE POET laureate of witty verse were alive today she could have celebrated the loss of inches of fat not just pounds. Fat removal using liposuction has been a body-contouring mainstay for decades. In trained hands, liposuction has gotten safer, more consistent and less physically demanding on patient and surgeon than ever before. So, all things considered, my bias as a board certified plastic surgeon is that the best and most powerful option for fat removal and body contouring is liposuction with or without the surgical removal of saggy skin. However, I am also a realist, and my observation over the past decade or so is that patients want less invasive procedures, preferably done in the office, with lower cost and little or no downtime. About ten years ago, the FDA cleared a new

technique called CoolSculpting that gently chills the fat layer and has been clinically proven to reduce localize bulges of unwanted fat, without needles, without incisions and most importantly without downtime. If you think this sounds too good to be true you’re not alone. So did I – until I tried it myself. I went back to work immediately after the procedure, went to a function that evening and swam half a mile the next day! CoolSculpting uses an ingenious concept called cryolipolysis developed by researchers at Harvard Medical School. The device delivers precise, even cooling to the fat layer causing fat cells to rupture and slowly release their contents. The fatty material is picked up by the lymphatic system and processed just like a piece of cheesecake or a Krispy Kreme donut. Studies of hundreds of patients who have undergone CoolSculpting treatments have shown no significant increase in serum cholesterol or lipid levels. Improvement is gradual and progressive, peaking at three months. Patients in the initial studies experienced a 20-25% reduction in the

thickness of the fat in the area treated as measured by ultrasound. The procedure is repeated at four to six week intervals. We have found that three treatments of each area are usually needed for optimal results. With the new CoolSculpting Elite system the treatment cycle takes about 35 minutes and two areas can be treated at one time – so treating both love handles takes about 40 minutes. No sedation is needed, no compression garments are necessary after the treatments and you can literally return to your normal activities, including exercise, immediately. Of course the procedure is not for everyone. If you are morbidly obese, you need bariatric surgery. If you are moderately obese, you need a disciplined program of diet and exercise and may eventually require liposuction and surgical body contouring for an optimal result. But if you are reasonably fit, close to your ideal weight, yet in spite of Body Pump, Spin Classes and half marathons still have localized areas of unwanted fat, then CoolSculpting may be right for you. If Dorothy Parker were still here she might write: Go, raise the banners high in air, I’m happy to the bone, Let drums and trumpets boom and blare, For I have froze my pone! We were proud to be the first plastic surgery practice in the region to offer this exciting technology, and our experience with hundreds of patients has been very encouraging. It was the first – and still the best – way to non-surgically remove unwanted fat. Call Mickel Plastic Surgery at (318) 388-2050 and schedule a consultation to see if CoolSculpting is right for you.

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JOIE DE VIVRE

Sometimes a name just fits. That is certainly the case with Joy Russo Loomis. Those who know her recognize Joy’s joyful spirit, something her mother couldn’t have known when she named her infant daughter. Her mother would, however, recognize the joy in her daughter as she grew. Today Joy freely admits that she considers her joyfulness to be a blessing. Something else that is “joyful” is Joy’s unique sense of style. Her unique personal style is reflected in her personal appearance, her beautifully appointed home, and most of all in her attitude toward life. For these reasons, Joy Loomis is our Bayou Icon for September. ARTICLE BY GEORGIANN POTTS PHOTOGRAPHY BY KELLY MOORE CLARK

oy grew up in Monroe (and later Ruston) in a traditional, loving family. Her father was an executive with Bell South and a real estate investor. Her mother was a stay-at-home mom who used her spare time to be an active volunteer at the Masur Museum of Art and other groups. Both of Joy’s parents were born and grew up in Monroe. “My parents were beautiful, and had a precious loving relationship,” Joy remembers. There were four daughters born to the Russo family, with Joy being the third born. She laughs that her younger sister, Tiphanie, took the coveted “I’m the baby in the family” crown away when she was born 13 years after Joy. All three of Joy’s sisters have nursing degrees. When Joy was 14, their father moved the family to Ruston – a city all of the girls call “home.” Joy’s grandparents had a home in Monroe on South Grand, and held big family gatherings there. Joy remembers those get-togethers as being filled with love. Her grandparents’ home overflowed with her cousins’ music, food, and lots of laughter. They all got together for holidays which made the occasions feel like blessings. Joy and her friends also enjoyed playing on the levee behind the Masur Museum. A very special memory was listening to her mother play “September Song” in their music room on her baby grand piano.

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JOY HAS FOND MEMORIES of her school years. She attended Joy and her sisters, according to Joy, always had an eye local Catholic schools, Georgia Tucker, Ruston High, and for dressing in a stylish manner. In fact, she had many family graduated from Cedar Creek. She attended both Louisiana Tech members whom she has always thought of as being styleand ULM, and graduated from ULM conscious. Her Aunt Lydia Varino with a general studies degree and a and her beautiful daughter, Mary minor in psychology. Elizabeth Jacko, reminded her of Not all of her lessons were to Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis. Joy’s be learned in the schools, however. grandmother, Ann Bruscato Varino, She learned from her parents the taught Joy’s oldest sister, Marianne, lessons of faith, love, and hard to sew, and she became a talented work. From the love of her life, Al seamstress. “I remember a time Loomis, she learned the importance when she wanted a maxicoat,” Joy of persistence, dedication, and says. “Then she made one!” Both hard work. Al was an attorney who of Joy’s parents loved beautiful practiced in the Monroe area for art, and their influence helped the half a century. Known for his strong girls to develop their styles, too. work ethic, Al’s example had what Her mother was a classic beauty, Joy calls “. . . the most profound according to Joy, and her father impact on my professional career. was a tall, handsome man. “I think I learned from him that I did not that we came from a family that have to be the smartest person in believed looks were important, but the room. That, in turn, gave me the one should be natural at the same confidence to do more than I ever time.” thought I was capable of.” During Joy’s own earliest sewing their nearly 38-year-long-marriage, experience was while she was the two of them supported each taking a Home Economics class other in all ways, and adopted their at Cedar Creek. She remembers own personal family motto: Be a making a navy jacket with pockets. warrior. It was an excellent learning The two met on July 4, 1980 and experience. Later when she began it wasn’t love at first sight for Joy. designing clothes, she took an However, she concedes that Al did additional sewing class. This was have a “certain wittiness about him” FAMILY MATTERS more for her personal pleasure that she found very interesting. Not than for her business, however. “I (Clockwise From Top): Sisters Marianne, Jan and so long ago, after Al’s death, his wanted my clients to have the best Joy. Joy’s parents, Mary Louise Varino and Leonard former assistant revealed to Joy that seams so I found sewers in Dallas Joseph Russo, at their engagment party. Joy and Al Al had told her that he was “going and Atlanta for our clothes.” Loomis on their wedding day. to marry that girl” on the night that Joy’s initial start in the clothing the two first met. They married and business came in 1999 when she had two children, a son born in 1983 and a daughter born 5 years began selling clothes out of her home “as a side hustle” to achieve later. “The prettiest Al Loomis with red hair!” she says with a two goals – to grow her rental business and to get fabulous laugh. clothes. She started selling a high-end clothing brand (WORTH) for a number of years. She was so good at it that Jay Rosenburg, Dual Careers in Real Estate and Design part owner of the company, invited her to New York City because From her early years and before her marriage to Al, she tried he wanted to meet the girl whose sales figures in Monroe were several jobs as she searched for a satisfying career. Her earliest better than those in Dallas and Atlanta. Joy’s association with work experience was at Geno’s, a very popular Monroe Italian WORTH was good professionally and personally. The fashion restaurant owned by the Bruscato family. From that work she networking that she enjoyed meant that she was invited to learned the importance of both loving one’s family and doing runway shows at the Breakers in Palm Beach and in NYC. something all by oneself to make a difference. A little over a decade later, that “hobby” became a design It was while she was in college that Joy decided to follow in business when she and her daughter, Alex, formed Truly Red by her dad’s footsteps and acquire rental properties. “My ultimate Alexandra Joy and began designing their own line of dresses. goal was to be financially independent,” Joy explains. She was in Their designs featured easy-to-wear shift dresses to which they her twenties when she built her first rental home. Interest rates added interesting trims on the collars and sleeves. The brand were high, but she gained enough confidence from this small grew to include “Mother of the Bride” dresses for close friends. property to help her develop as a competent young business Joy sold the dresses out of her home, in a local boutique, and woman. “I have continued to grow this business through both online. She also offered made-to-order designs. commercial and residential properties in the Monroe and Ruston For several reasons, the mother-daughter design team area,” Joy explains. “I just recently expanded my properties into decided to halt production. Joy’s daughter wanted to continue the Hot Springs area.” her studies to become an attorney; it became increasingly

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difficult to access the fabrics that they wanted; and their lead seamstress moved to Atlanta. But the dream hasn’t disappeared altogether. Alex is currently working on elevating the look of athletic wear – a bold multi-purpose athletic/exercise dress. Joy dipped back into the clothing sales business by private home showings when she agreed to sell a casual clothing line (CABI). She did this for about seven years, and loved the friendships that she made through it. “I loved making everyone feel and look their very best,” she says with a smile. Joy’s Personal Style It is fascinating to hear Joy speak about her own personal style. Her family was always very busy with athletic events, and Joy has always enjoyed exercise. She describes her ideal daily style as a “chic, sporty, outdoor look.” Joy is not a brand fanatic, nor has she ever been. She has some brand-name purses, jewels, and outfits in her personal collection, but she is drawn more to the feel of the fabric and the style and fit of the piece. At the top of her requirements for selecting something for herself is its versatility. “I love a stretch flair or a straight stretchy structured pant that can be worn with sneakers and then elevated for a meeting with pumps and a matching top,” she explains. She also finds herself drawn to solids more than prints. “You never tire as easily with a solid piece,” she explains. “Most of the time it looks more expensive than a wild print. I find that a solid piece can make the most memorable statement.” The “comfort factor” about clothes is important to Joy, too. She never wants her “look” to be – or appear – uncomfortable. She believes that every woman can find a sophisticated, yet relaxed style that fits her best. When that happens, Joy says you can’t help but feel your best. “And when you feel your best, you are happy,” Joy adds. “And people gravitate toward happy people.” To test her “style sense”, she was asked recently to describe what she would choose to wear for two completely different occasions – to a dinner at Buckingham Palace with Queen Elizabeth, and to a rock concert with Mick Jagger and Paul McCartney. Her answers reflect her approach to style beautifully. To dine with Queen Elizabeth, Joy envisions a “high neck” piece (she adores a top or dress that comes well over the neck). The piece could be a structured pale pink dress that comes midway up the neck with sleeves just above the elbows. It would flare out to about tea length and would be accessorized with pale pink pointed stilettos. OR, she would be equally comfortable in a pencil white pant hemmed 2 inches above the ankles. Over this would

be an exotic floor-length structured, long-sleeved top that would cut horizontally across the body. It would be accessorized with a statement belt and brooch (a subtle compliment to the Queen since the brooch is Her Majesty’s favorite type of jewelry). For the rock concert with two legends, Joy would choose something easy. A pair of stretchy leather pants, a white tee, and a cropped jacket accessorized with a pair of comfortable chunky heels and she would be all set! “This is why I love fashion,” Joy says. “I love all of the ways you can change up your look! So many are divine!” Giving Back With Love Joy’s parents were excellent mentors for her and her sisters, instilling in them the importance of giving back to their communities and to their families. Her mother volunteered at the art museum, garden clubs, at her church, and often opened her home on Friday nights for Bible Study. Her father focused his volunteer work for the town of Ruston, and joined many organizations there that gave him the opportunity to give back. Joy has volunteered through the Junior League of Monroe, the Monroe Garden Club, and the P.E.O. Sisterhood Chapter AE. She also enjoys two investment clubs and a book club, and has enjoyed leadership positions in all of them. Like her mother, Joy spends a lot of volunteer time working for her church – working in the soup kitchen, arranging flowers for Hospice, praying for others and for the community as a part of the Adoration program at her local church. She has very much enjoyed her participation in ACTS and has served in several leadership roles there including the presidency. Her faith is at the center of Joy’s life, and her volunteer efforts (formal and informal) certainly reflect that. She believes that it is important to give back the blessings that God has given you. “You always remember the kind things said or done for you, and you want others to feel that same love,” she says. One way to do that is to volunteer. “I encourage everyone to be a part of our community,” she says. “There is a spot for everyone. Just ask, and God will open a door. It’s not about your talent – it’s about reaching out and letting others feel the comfort of His love for all of us.” As for family love, nothing pleases Joy more than being able to be with her grandchildren. She has four: Elizabeth Nordstrom Barham and Lillian Joy Barham, her granddaughters; and Albert Edward Loomis V and John Leonard Loomis, her grandsons. She looks forward to traveling with them. She loves watching them experience their childhoods, and is grateful for these special blessings in her life.

FAVORITE SHIFT DRESS Lululemon or one from Joy’s collection

FAVORITE TRAVEL CLOTHES Anatomie Clothing

FAVORITE TENNIS SHOES Golden Goose

FAVORITE PERFUME Zents Ore Perfume

Below: Joy pictured with her grandchildren.

Finding Joy in Every Day Joy’s dual careers --- investing in rental properties and designing/ selling clothes – have allowed her enough personal flexibility so that she could prioritize rearing her family and caring for her mother and her late husband when they needed her. Joy has enjoyed extensive travel in her life, and is now eyeing a cruise to Alaska. She is trying to talk her sisters into a trip to Nantucket, and hopes to be enjoying a girls’ trip to NYC in December. At some point not too far away, Joy would love to return to Italy and visit with relatives there. A tennis player since she was very young, Joy also enjoys a round of golf. She was given her first set of clubs 32 years ago as a present for having their baby girl. Music of all kinds – classical to Sinatra to country – delights her, as does reading. Non-fiction books are her favorites, and studying the scripture is a beloved way of spending time for her. One of Joy’s favorite scriptures is Psalm 37:4: “Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart” --- an appropriate scripture for an exceptional lady whose faith and joyful nature have touched so many lives. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2021 87

Escape to the Backyard

Pinch A Penny Pool Patio and Spa now Serving Ouachita Parish

OTHING SAYS RELAXATION QUITE LIKE A refreshing dip in the pool or spa. With Labor Day just around the corner, West Monroe’s newest pool supply company, Pinch a Penny, is here to help keep those waters crystal clear all season long. Since opening its first store in 1975, Pinch A Penny has grown to become the largest franchised retail pool, patio, and spa company in the U.S. Amid the pandemic, West Monroe local, Aaron Phillips, a former law enforcement officer and caseworker for the Louisiana Department of Children & Family Services, began to analyze his career future. While he always loved his career working for the state, the past year had a significant impact on the Phillips family’s perspectives related to their long-term goals. “We knew from the start that franchising was the route we wanted to take because of the support and name recognition the model provides, so it was a matter of finding the right brand to grow with.” After researching franchise options, the Phillips were immediately impressed with Pinch A Penny’s family-oriented business model designed to assist franchisees every step of the way. Aaron along with his wife Elizabeth, used this juncture as the opportunity to dive into the world of business ownership. The duo opened their West Monroe location in early summer 2021 with Aaron

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serving as the day-to-day store operator, while Elizabeth continues in her current career with Lumen. The West Monroe store marks the brand’s fourth location in Louisiana. Pinch a Penny strives to provide pool and spa owners with the best in all things outdoor, offering everything from outdoor patio furniture to pool supplies such as liquid chlorine, tablets, pumps, filters, and more. In addition to providing a superior selection of pool supplies, the staff at Pinch a Penny also offers pool equipment installation, repairs, and maintenance. Pinch A Penny Pool Patio Spa of West Monroe, located at 3101 Cypress Street Suite 1 in West Monroe. Open 7 days a week to serve all of your pool and patio needs, be sure to stop by Monday-Friday from 9 a.m. to 6 p.m., Saturday from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m., and Sunday from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. For more information on the new West Monroe store, call 318-516-2244 or visit https://pinchapenny.com/stores/ westmonroe-la-264. Be sure to follow them on social media for tips and tricks from the pool, spa, and patio experts.

Clinic Welcomes Surgeon

New Orleans Native Joins the Surgery Clinic of NELA

URING HIS MEDICAL RESIDENCY, Dr. Mohamed Bakeer’s faculty named him the third-year resident with “the most kindness, compassion, intelligence, and dedication.” Now, Dr. Bakeer contributes those characteristics to the Surgery Clinic of Northeast Louisiana, joining Dr. Walter Sartor, Dr. Bart Liles, and Dr. Patrick Smith. Dr. Bakeer, born in New York and raised in New Orleans, says the recent move to northeast Louisiana has been an easy one. “Everyone is welcoming and so nice,” Dr. Bakeer said. “It has not been a tough adjustment, even though Monroe and New Orleans are quite different. I’ve enjoyed a very welcoming community, which has made the transition a lot easier.” Medicine and science are ingrained in Dr. Bakeer’s family tree. His grandfather, a medical doctor in Egypt, was the first deputy to the minister of health. He also founded and directed Egypt’s national labs for vaccines

and serum. Dr. Bakeer’s grandmother, also a medical doctor, worked in the same lab. Dr. Bakeer’s mother, a microbiology professor at LSU Health and Sciences Center, and his father, an independent engineer, work in New Orleans. Solving technical problems has always interested Dr. Bakeer. When he was a child, he built models of cars. Following his father’s footsteps, he pursued engineering; he received a B.S. in biomedical engineering and an M.S. in neuroscience from Tulane University in New Orleans. During that time, he also worked for the Army Corps of Engineers in New Orleans. However, his love for medicine remained. “I studied bioengineering, but I knew I was still interested in medicine. Engineers solve problems, and I realized that the engineering skillset could translate to medicine. As a surgeon, you discover a problem, and you definitively fix it,” Dr. Bakeer said.

So, he earned his medical degree from LSU Health and Sciences Center while working at a student-run homeless clinic. At the clinic, he provided healthcare to the underserved New Orleans community. He then completed his general surgery residency at LSU Health and Sciences Center. “Following up with patients and watching them improve is very rewarding,” he said. He is a member of the Society of Laparoscopic Surgeons, the American College of Surgeons, and the American Medical Association. Dr. Bakeer enjoys spending time with his fiancée, Monroe native Ellie Jackson, traveling, and playing basketball in his free time. He is excited about his new adventure at the Surgery Clinic of Northeast Louisiana, home of Delta Vein Care. “The breadth of surgery offered at this clinic is extremely impressive,” he said. Dr. Walter Sartor expressed his enthusiasm regarding Dr. Bakeer’s arrival. “We are thrilled to welcome Dr. Bakeer to the Surgery Clinic of Northeast Louisiana,” Dr. Sartor said. “He’s an impressive surgeon who shares the vision and values of our expanding practice. Dr. Bakeer will be a great asset, as his incredible work ethic, intelligence, and passion for patient care broadens our ability to care for the community.”

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Shop Haven Monroe Stop By and Shop New Arrivals Daily

HIS HEAT WAVE IS MAKING US want the fall season to arrive soon! Autumn scents, colors and activities are just around the corner. Haven has so many amazing new lines this fall! Those items are arriving daily, so be sure to stop by if you need a great gift or something fun for yourself. It’s time to get ready for tailgating! Haven has a new section of the shop to help you cheer on your favorite team! ULM, LA Tech, Ole Miss, and LSU are all represented. Styrofoam cups, jewelry, scarves, and fun accessories. Tiger shirts, shorts and pants are back in, as well as a fun new LSU tiger shirt. Maybe you need a new bag for this fall? Haven has a nice selection of Vegan leather hobo bags in a variety of rich colors, so you are sure to find one you love. Small clutches and crossbody bags are also in-stock and a perfect size to carry for all occasions. Haven has just restocked their NEST cabinet and they have a huge selection for all

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NEST lovers. All your favorites are there in a variety of candles, diffusers, and hand soap. Wild Mint and Eucalyptus now comes in bar soap and a room spray that should be arriving very soon. Haven also has added several new scents to their offering, including Ocean Mist and Sea Salt, and Sicilian Tangerine. Pura diffusers are also on order and should be here any day! The arrival of the much-loved NEST Pumpkin Chai candle and the new Autumn Plum scent are a signal fall is near! Velvet pumpkins and acorns are already on display and flying out the door. These pumpkins and acorns are set off by the use of real stems and acorn caps- which create a real work of art for your table. This year, Haven has added Italian Lambskin pumpkins, which provides an added interest in texture. A grouping of pumpkins, in a variety of sizes, on one of Haven’s new golden bronze platters is sure to usher in the fall season into your home.

Haven is well known for their exceptional book selection. Haven has already received multiple shipments of new books in all the hot topics! Gardening, design, inspirational and cooking, just to name a few. The kids section also has so many fun books, including childhood favorites and some new releases. Pair a book with a stuffed animal and you have a gift any child would love! New religious books and devotionals have also just arrived and always make a great gift for a friend. Shopping on-line is always an option if you don’t want to leave home. ShopHavenMonroe.com is Haven’s website and they are always adding new products. Or if you visit in store, you are sure to be greeted by one of Haven’s helpful staff, always ready to assist you in any way. Frequent shoppers know beautiful complimentary gift wrap is always available at Haven. Stop by Haven today and see their new arrivals!

The Scars We Bear at the Womans Clinic

ECENTLY, I WENT ON MY ANNUAL “girls’ trip” to the beach. We’ve seen each other through just about every imaginable triumph and heartache. We gather every year to rejuvenate our spirits and enjoy the sisterhood we’ve formed. The first day, we sat in our chairs catching up. One friend commented how she’d strategically chosen her swimsuit because it covered the stretch marks from pregnancy. Another showed us the large scar on her knee where she fell and had to have surgery. A third voiced her frustrations with acne scarring. We all had some type of scar or stretch mark to show, but we are not the type of women to sit on the sidelines of life. Those memories are etched on our hearts, do we have to have them etched on our skin too? Afterall, it’s not as if the births of our children would be any less significant without the scars or stretch marks! Fast forward to my annual visit at The

Woman’s Clinic with my OB/GYN. She, too, has seen me through some tears and joys of life. I showed her a scar that was bothering me, half expecting it to be written off as insignificant. Instead, she told me that my concern was common, and The Woman’s Clinic offers a variety of aesthetic services to treat scars like mine. After consultation with the aesthetics nurse and my doctor, we decided I should begin using a ZO product called dermal retinol in addition to following up with my plastic surgeon for recommendations. I considered my choices of a possible surgery and other alternatives but decided an inoffice procedure The Woman’s Clinic offers was right for me. The aesthetics nurse felt they could help minimize my scarring with something called Sublative RF, in addition to the dermal retinol. Although it would require a series of treatments, they were quick, inexpensive, and would be effective.

I was so thankful that my doctor heard my concerns, and I’m even more thankful that I am beginning to see improvement of my scar. I’ve shown a few of my friends and they are now considering doing the same. I can already see us on our trip next year in bikinis with nothing to hide… Okay, maybe that’s a bit too far, but a girl can dream! Thank you for allowing me to share my story. Remember that your story is yours to tell…or not! Call The Woman’s Clinic for your free consultation with the aesthetics nurse. She’ll work with you to find the best option for your areas of concern, whether that’s acne scars, surgical scars, or stretch marks. All while keeping your budget in mind.

- Nothing to Hide

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Suicide Prevention BY THE CHILDREN’S COALITION FOR NORTHEAST LOUISIANA

program Signs of Suicide (SOS). She was uicide is a “Silent Epidemic” that trained through Columbia University in claims the lives of more teenagers this program. Her passion is making sure and young adults than cancer, children in our community are not only heart disease, AIDS, birth defects, physically healthy, they are stroke, pneumonia also mentally healthy. and influenza combined. According to the American Q: What is the difference Foundation for Suicide between feeling sad and Prevention, in Louisiana, suicide is the second-leading being depressed? cause of death for ages 10-14 A: Feeling sad is often temporary while depression and the third-leading cause of lasts for at least two weeks death for ages 15-34,. In total, or longer. If you are noticing suicide was responsible for 722 that your child is having long deaths in Louisiana in 2017. periods of time that they are This figure puts the suicide feeling sad and it is not just rate in Louisiana at 15.26% per JAN DANIELS 100,000 people, which is above temporary, this is when it is important to start considering the national average of 13.26% getting help. Depression is a serious health Jan Daniels is the Youth Development condition that affect the whole person, mind Coordinator at the Children’s Coalition. and body. In addition to feelings, it can She received her Bachelor of Social Work change or affect behavior, physical health from Northeast Louisiana University. and appearance, academic performance, For the past sixteen years, Jan has been working with middle schools in northeast thinking, social activity, and the ability to Louisiana to provide the suicide prevention handle everyday decisions and pressures.

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Depression can lead someone to isolate themselves from their friends and lose interest in activities they once enjoyed doing. When you notice that your child’s “down” mood, along with other symptoms, lasts for more than a couple of weeks, these may be signs of depression. Q: Why do children/people get depressed? A: There are many possible causes for depression. Depression can happen because of a chemical change in your body. Depression can also run in families. Depression can occur in response to a recent stress or loss, such as problems at school or with the law, the death of a loved one, or relationship troubles. People/children may also experience depression and not know exactly why or what is causing it. It is so important to pay attention to our children now with so many changes happening around them. Between changes in school, summertime, and family changes, the current situation that our children are experiencing can cause a lot of stress in our children’s lives.

Q: Why is it important to talk to my child about mental health? A: It is important to just take some time to start a conversation about mental health. This can be though for families as often in our society, mental health is not discussed openly like physical health. Feelings of depression or anxiety are often hidden because youth are confused, embarrassed, or ashamed. You can help protect your children and their friends by talking to them.

“Every 4 days on average, a young person commits suicide in Louisiana.”

Q: How do I begin a conversation about mental health with my child? A: A good way to start the conversation is by asking open-ended questions. It is okay to let your child steer the conversation to what they want to talk about and what they are comfortable discussing. Remember that the solution is not going to be solved in one night, so it is important to not rush into solving their problems. Instead, ask what they think would help find a solution. While sometimes a child may not be ready to begin having this conversation, it is important to be available when they feel comfortable to have the conversation about their mental health or a friends. Q: What are warning signs you might notice on social media? A: Be on the lookout for social media posts that say such things as, “There’s no point anymore,” “I want the pain to stop,” “I don’t want to try anymore.” You may notice your child use to post all the time and suddenly disappears off all social media with no explanation. You may also notice people posting mean things about your child or a child online.

RESOURCES Crisis Text Line http://www.crisistextline.

org/ Crisis Text Line provides free emotional support and information to teens in any type of crisis, including feeling suicidal. You can text with a trained specialist 24 hours a day. Text “HOME” to 741741.

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline

1–800–273-TALK (8255) The Lifeline is a 24-hour toll-free phone line for people in suicidal crisis or emotional distress. This number is also available by calling 988. An online chat option is available at http://www. suicidepreventionlifeline.org/GetHelp/ LifelineChat.aspx

Jan Daniels, Youth Development Director at the Children’s Coalition, works with middle schools in northeast Louisiana to provide the suicide prevention program Signs of Suicide (SOS) and the abstinence-plus program Rights, Respect and Responsibility. Call Jan at (318) 323-8775 or go to www.childrenscoalition. org to learn more about how you can get these programs at your child’s school. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2021 93

The Importance of Knowing ‘Why’ ULM’s President Ron Berry Gives His University Address

RESIDENT RON BERRY’S GOAL IS TO be the “best in the world at ‘what’ we do” at the University of Louisiana Monroe. At Berry’s University Address on Aug. 9th, just days before the start of the fall 2021 semester, he energized the Warhawk Family to discover the “why” that fuels the “what.” “We’ve done a lot when it comes to, what?” Berry stated, noting enrollment for fall 2021 is in good shape, the university has the best budget in 13 years, raises are in the works for faculty and staff, and the ULM Foundation has set a $100 million goal by 2031, “… No doubt they are going to reach that mark.” “The bigger question is why? Why do we do what we do?” he said, explaining, “When you know your ‘why,’ your ‘what’ has more impact.” Identifying the university’s collective “why” is the blueprint for the “whats” of Berry’s developing strategic plan. The new plan will challenge the status quo of decades of economic depression in the northeast corner of Louisiana.

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“In the 5th Congressional District, so many people live in poverty with no hope of a better tomorrow,” Berry said. “It’s time to own who we are, where we are, and do what we must do. It’s time to raise our region up, move out of poverty, and into a better life.” Using his own story of poverty to university president as an example, Berry said it is only through education that lives change. The students’ lives are changed, and so are the lives of those around them. “Think about our students. Our kids need us to be the best in the world at what we do so that we can give them a pathway for themselves and their families,” he said. “And when we do this, guess what happens to our community? It rises up.” “So, where do we go from here? We answer our ‘why.’”

Boost Your Beauty Gain Your Confidence Back

NFORTUNATELY, THERE IS NO TRUE FOUNTAIN of youth… at least not one we have discovered yet. But DermaMedicQ offers treatments to help your skin achieve the youthful glow we all desire. DermaMediQ proudly offers a variety of services including BodyTite, Emsculpt, Instalift and Morpheus8, that helps you gain your self confidence back. Plus, the coming months are the perfect time to plan these procedures since you can cover up with leggings, sweaters and pants. INSTALIFT When it comes to someone who has lost weight and your skin has some drooping or you have used fillers and botox and you still aren’t getting the results you want, Dr. Sowma has a non-surgical treatment that uses micro-suspension technology to help you achieve the look you want. This amazing treatment is called Instalift by Silhouette. The Micro-suspension technology immediately lifts your mid-facial skin, including sagging cheeks and deeper nasolabial folds (smile lines) and boosts volume by activating your natural collagen production over time. The results are truly amazing. You get the lift without surgery, and the volume without fillers. MORPHEUS8 Morpheus8 is a novel technology that lets you discover new depths. It is the first and only full-body fractional technology adjusted for subdermal tissue remodeling, dermal treatment and epidermal resurfacing. Morpheus8 is the deepest lift technology with penetration up to 4000 microns. Morpheus8 is perfect for tightening specific problem areas on the body but also great for treating acne on the face. Some of the key benefits include minimal scarring and downtime and a good option for younger patients not yet ready for a facelift. EMSCULPT Emsculpt is intended for improvement of abdominal tone, strengthening of the abdominal muscles, development of firmer abdomen. Strengthening, toning and firming of buttocks, thighs, and calves. Improvement of muscle tone and firmness, for strengthening muscles in arms. The best part is there is no anesthesia or down time. BODYTITE Body Tire is a minimally-invasive device for body contouring delivering results previously only achieved through excisional procedures. BodyTite is powered by directional radio frequencies resulting in three-dimensional tissue remodeling through fat coagulation and volumetric heating. The coagulation of fat using radio frequency induced heat results in radio-frequency assisted lipolysis. No matter your age or issue you want to address, Dr. SowmaFakhre and the staff at DermaMediQ can help you achieve your beauty goals and truly put your best face forward. Call the helpful staff today to schedule an appointment or consultation to start your journey to becoming a more confident and better you. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2021 95

Heritage and Grace

Mother Daughter Duo Open Local Boutique

HEY SAY IF YOU DO SOMETHING YOU LOVE, YOU will never work a day in your life. And that is just what Kim Shows Porter is doing. For the last four years, she ran an online boutique out of her home as a hobby. After quitting her job, she started a Facebook group where she shared her style with friends and family. “I have always loved fashion and honestly, loved to shop,” says Kim. “I loved being able to buy clothes that a variety of women were interested in.” After years of operating out of her home, the hobby was becoming quite the business. “We were running it out of my house and it was taking over with the inventory and shipping and all the things,” she said. She searched and searched for a perfect spot throughout the Twin Cities and found it in the heart of downtown West Monroe. Heritage and Grace Boutique opened at the corner of Natchitoches and Cotton Street in December of 2020 and has been growing ever since. The significance of owning a store in West Monroe isn’t lost on Kim, whose family has deep roots in the community. While she was born in Alexandria, Kim’s family found its way throughout the state of Louisiana as her dad coached football. In 1989, he found his way to Northeast Louisiana where he remained for the rest of his career. Most people in town know him as Don Shows, but Kim knew him as dad. “It is special to be a part of this community that loved my dad and supported him over the years,” she said. And the importance of family is continuing with her own family. Kim’s own daughter, Ryan Kepper, runs the boutique along with her mom. Sometimes, Ryan’s own son, Brodie can be found at the store, as well. Kim has three other daughters, Kylee, Reece and Raleigh, who influence the style of the boutique and model the clothes that come in. Little brother Shows is supportive as well! Heritage and Grace has clothes for women of all ages from girls in middle school to moms and grandmothers. “It is really reflective of our family,” said Kim. “We have all ages and styles and we like to be able to help people like us!” Kim’s style is laidback and she focuses on closet staples like jeans, sweaters, shoes - pieces that can be your go to pieces. For fall trends, Kim says that plaid, straight leg jeans, hats, gold jewelry, and leather are all popular. Everyone loves a good t-shirt and Heritage and Grace has some fun ones! There are graphic tees with everything from local lagniappe to smiley faces to gameday and football inspired. Kim also works with a designer to create pre-order specials and will debut a shirt paying homage to the very school that her dad coached at for all those years, and where two of her daughters attend today. Since she does have kids at West Monroe High School, Kim makes sure she supports the school, as well as other local schools and non-profit organizations. Kim and Ryan plan on being a part of the community and giving back whenever they can. Given their location, they are also excited to be a part of the revitalization in downtown West Monroe and participate in events like the champagne stroll and Christmas festivities. You can find Heritage and Grace on Facebook and Instagram or just pop in their store in downtown West Monroe. Whether you are looking for a fun shirt for gameday, a closet staple or soft and cozy sweatshirt, they have it all!

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Bayou Dental Group

Improve Your Appearance, Improve Your Life BY DAVID D. FINLEY, DDS, FAACD, FAGD

NY GOOD DENTIST IS INTERESTED IN SAVING ALL of your natural teeth. But natural teeth aren’t always attractive teeth. They can be crooked individually, out of alignment with each other, and discolored. That’s where I, as a cosmetic dentist, can help you get the smile of your dreams. The latest technologies in cosmetic dentistry mean that you really can enjoy your life more fully and have the smile of your dreams. If your teeth are less-than-ideal and causing you pain, discomfort, or embarrassment, then now is the time to find a cosmetic dentist to help you solve your problems. We have seen patient after patient returned to a full and happy life no longer selfconscious about their smile, no longer hiding their mouth at any opportunity, no longer letting their teeth hold them back from the life they want to lead! And now, you can join them! WHAT WE CAN DO FOR YOU Here is what you will receive when you see a cosmetic dentist: ● Y our Dream Smile – Imagine waking up in the morning, looking in the mirror, and seeing the most beautiful smile looking right back at you! ● I mproved Self-Confidence – Flashing your gorgeous smile will make you feel incredible and more confident. ● R educed Risk of Future Problems – With a small correction to your teeth now, you could save having to deal with far more serious problems in the future. This is the time to sort out any issues that you might have, no matter how small and seemingly insignificant they may be. I take a patient’s smile very seriously and consider myself an intricate planner. I also involve the patient in the process every step of the way. On any given smile creation case, we’ll take photographs and then create a wax model to show exactly what your smile will look like after treatment. As an added bonus, you should know that I’ve been creating smiles for more than 30 years and have taken hundreds of hours in continuing education. I take pride in my work in the office and with the American Academy of Cosmetic Dentistry, where I am the 61st accredited Fellow. My office has won the annual smile competition at the American Academy of Cosmetic Dentistry several years in a row with our restorative and cosmetic dental solutions. TRUST A DENTIST WITH YOUR TEETH WHITENING Many people are tempted to try do-it-yourself teeth whitening. Professional teeth whitening will work faster and protect sensitive gums and tooth-root surfaces better than over-the-counter whitening products. Having an oral exam before you begin any whitening process is an important first step, as we want to make sure your tooth discoloration is not the result of a dental condition in need of treatment. We offer ZOOM! whitening and Professional Tray Whitening in our office. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2021 97

B AYO U P R O F I L E

Celebrating the Theatre The Strauss Little Theatre is set to celebrate its 90th season this fall. Strauss boasts the longest continuous source of live entertainment in the area. Their 90th season marks 90 years of uninterrupted commitment to serving the arts in the Twin Cities. Despite all odds, in the midst of wars, recessions, and global pandemics, Strauss has adapted because ‘the show must go on’. Since their official incorporation in 1932, the Strauss has been the artistic cornerstone of the Monroe area, advancing culture and supporting local artisans. ARTICLE BY L AUR A CASON P O R T R A I T B Y K E L LY M O O R E C L A R K

and developing talent to gain confidence in their abilities and learn skills they might not get to otherwise. Strauss has had a parade of established and talented leadership come through its doors and help train the young actors and actresses of the area. From set designers right out of Hollywood to directors and professional choreographers from NYU, the Strauss is the eginning in the 1920s when a small group premier option for young performers looking to develop their of Twin City residents formed a drama club skills and hone their craft. in order to read Shakespeare, the Strauss Beginning with Shelley Winters in the early years, Strauss became the main cultural outlet for the area has maintained a tradition of fostering and sending out young in and around Monroe. At the time of their talent into the entertainment world with the skills they need official incorporation, the group took the to succeed. In more recent memory, some of name, The Little Theatre of Monroe, Inc., these names include Chase Coleman, who set their dues at $1.00 a year per family CO M M U N I T Y T H E AT R E went on to act on-screen in HBO’s Boardwalk and in July of that same year put on their “Being a part of the theatre community has Empire and the CW’s The Originals. Another very first show, The Whole Town’s Talking. undoubtedly changed my life for the better. Strauss alum who’s succeeded on the The group spent the next few years Some of my very best friends are people national stage is Sarah Jane Nelson who performing on whatever local stage was I’ve met in the theatre. Also, it’s such an made her Broadway debut in The Green Bird, available. They put on performances at the impactful medium of storytelling, and I feel directed by Julie Taymor and went on to Grand Street Theatre, Central Grammar so lucky to have a space for it here in North star in Swing!, a musical conceived by Paul School, Georgia Tucker, Neville, Ouachita Louisiana.” ~ Aubri Skinner Kelley. Nelson also is credited for a small Parish Junior College, and Crosley role on CMT’s Nashville. Off the stage, Elementary. They even put on a special Strauss contributor Joey Joseph worked as a musical director courtroom drama in the parish courthouse itself. on Broadway for the shows Beetlejuice (2019) and Pippin (2013). During the Second World War, the Little Theatre of The Strauss stage has also showcased three Miss Louisianas Monroe gained some national attention when American over the years, including Linnea Allen, local celeb and news actress Shelley Winters graced its stage for two performances anchor for KTBS in Shreveport. at the start of her career. Her husband at the time, Captain But the Strauss is not just a place for the up and coming, Mack Paul Mayer, attended Selman Fields Air Force Navigation it is first and foremost a community theatre. Bob Chambless, School and she practiced her art with the company during President of the Board of Directors, emphasized the fact that their time in the Monroe area. Shelley Winters would go on there is a place and role for everyone at Strauss, no matter to win two Academy Awards, a Golden Globe, and an Emmy. your age, physical ability, or area of expertise. “We need After the war ended, Selman Air Force Navigation School them,” He says,“We can’t exist without them!” Whether your was closed and the City of Monroe rented The Red Cross interests lie in acting, costume design, lighting, sound, back Recreation Building on it’s campus to the Theatre, giving the crew, set design, or simply volunteering the night of, it takes group their first home stage. a community to put on these shows. Anywhere from 50-100 In 1958 Mr. Clifford Strauss, upon seeing “The Pajama volunteers are needed for each production. It takes every one Game,” one of the Theatre’s first ever musical productions, of those volunteers and every small part they play to make offered a matching donation of $50,000 through the Carolyn it possible for the show to succeed. At the end of the three Rose Strauss Foundation in order to build a new home theatre to five months that everyone has been working together, for the group. And so construction began on 1300 Lamy Lane, they report unanimously that there is an incredible sense of the current home of the Strauss Little Theatre, who changed accomplishment when it all comes together, not to mention their name in honor of the donation while remembering their the friendships, connections, and memories they have made beginnings. In 1961 construction was completed and the along the way. Strauss community member Aubri Skinner theatre group has been performing on their very own stage says, “Being a part of the theatre community has undoubtedly ever since. Over the years, the Strauss continued to grow changed my life for the better. Some of my very best friends and expand, collecting members, patrons, and donors. One are people I’ve met in the theatre. Also, it’s such an impactful notable player in this expansion was Executive Director, Chris medium of storytelling, and I feel so lucky to have a space for Ringham, who joined the group in 1967. Chris spent the next it here in North Louisiana.” 35 years improving and expanding the theatre into what it is And storytelling is what it’s all about. Strauss doesn’t just today. put on plays and musicals, they tell the story of humanity, of These days the Strauss puts on five major shows a season as what it’s like to exist in particular moments of time and how well as several dinner theatres and special events throughout no matter what circumstances or difficulties we may face, our the year. Most productions are directed by local talent. In shared experience unites us. In a time where there is so much fact, that is one of the many ways the Strauss’s presence for to mourn, Strauss is offering us something to celebrate. “There the past 90 years has impacted the community of the Twin is nothing like live theatre,” Mr. Chambless remarks, “Every Cities. Community Theatre provides opportunities for young

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performance is different because there is a kind of conversation that happens between the audience and the actors. Every night something different happens on stage, that’s the beauty of it.” One of their top priorities is to add value to the people of Twin Cities’ lives through developing and maintaining a culture of performing art. They seek to connect people to one another through our shared human experiences and to help all those who pass through their doors grow in their own personhood. On August 17th the Strauss held a Grand Re-Opening and ribbon cutting to celebrate and recognize this special occasion. The Strauss would like to invite all of the surrounding area to come out and see some family oriented live theatre this year during their 90th season. The Theatre is dedicated to maintaining a clean and safe environment for its patrons as they abide by all CDC recommendations and state mandates. The first show of the season, Disaster!, is a light-hearted musical comedy centered around the music of the 1970s, including hits like “Hot Stuff”, “Knock on Wood”, and “I Will Survive.” The production will be showing the weekends of September 16th - 19th and 23rd - 25th. It’s sure to be a fun time for all generations, but especially those with fond memories of the seventies. The other shows Strauss has planned for this season include: The Man Who Came to Dinner showing November 4th - 7th, 12th, and 13th, Nunsense showing January 13th -16th and 20th - 22nd, The Odd Couple showing March 17th - 20th, 25th, and 26th, and Company showing April 21st - 24th and 28th - 30th. Tickets will be available for purchase to non-members at the box office four weeks prior to the show dates or at the door starting after opening night. For premier access to tickets, opening night showings, and other benefits you can support Strauss Theatre Center by becoming a member online at strausstc.com/membership, in-person at the box office located at 1300 Lamy Lane, Monroe, between the hours of 10am and 4pm Monday through Friday, or over the phone by calling 318-323-6681 during the box offices hours. With 4 membership levels, there is something for everyone, from local businesses looking to advertise in playbills to casual theatre goers who just want tickets to a few of the main stage shows. For details about pricing, auditions, volunteering, and sponsorship please see the website, strausstc.com. Be sure to follow the Strauss Little theatre of Monroe on Facebook and Instagram under the handle @strausstheatre as well as the blog, which can be accessed through the website, for updates, announcements, and to learn more about special events this season!

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Small Town, Big Style

Lindsey Mullican is Southern Glam Boutique

HAT STARTED AS AN ONLINE BOUTIQUE operating out of a single bedroom in Lindsey Mullican’s home five years ago has quickly evolved to become a downtown staple in the small town of Winnsboro, Louisiana. The journey to boutique ownership was not a straight line and came after years of pursuing a career as a registered nurse, working in the emergency department and surgery. After leaving healthcare following the births of her sons, Lindsey felt she was meant for something bigger and in October of 2020 she took a leap of faith and opened the doors to Southern Glam Boutique. As a Louisiana native and self proclaimed country girl at heart, the decision to combine her love for fashion into a quaint little space in the heart of downtown Winnsboro was a no-brainer. When stepping into the boutique, you are immediately greeted with a welcoming atmosphere, complemented by Lindsey’s bubbly personality. Aiming to provide shoppers with a one of a kind shopping experience, the shop is bursting with hand-selected pieces to take you from the office, to date night, then straight into the weekend. When describing her fashion philosophy, Lindsey says, “fashion to me is so much more than just clothes - it’s a means of expression, it’s empowering, it allows you to say who you are without even speaking.” With denim from brands like KanCan, accessories from Taylor Shaye Designs, and a top notch selection of tops, you are sure to make a statement in any piece from Southern Glam Boutique. Combining her love for fashion and people, Lindsey hopes to create genuine connections with her clients, and her ultimate goal is for her shoppers to leave feeling confident, beautiful, and empowered to take the world by storm! Offering customers unique and standout pieces is a passion of Lindsey’s, so much that Southern Glam has expanded and now offers shoppers an online experience. With the help of her husband, Southern Glam Boutique launched online and since doing so, little touches of Southern Glam have been making their way all over the country. Speaking of touches of Southern Glam, be sure to check out one of our favorite fall looks featured in this month’s fashion issue. Lindsey is essentially a one-woman shop, from buyer to model to stylist, she does it all, and through it all she is incredibly grateful to her family and the town of Winnsboro for their continued support of her dream. The revitalization of the downtown area has been significant and Southern Glam is thrilled to be part of it. To shop Southern Glam be sure to stop in on your next stroll along Prairie Street in downtown Winnsboro. Can’t make the drive? Take a peek at our website and let us ship your new favorites right to your door. New fall styles are added daily! Southern Glam Boutique is located at 617 Prairie Street in downtown Winnsboro. You can also shop online at www. shopsouthernglam.com or follow along on Facebook and Instagram @shopsouthernglamboutique.

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Andi Holyfield Helps ULM Local Dietitian Shares Nutrition for Student-Athletes

LM VOLLEYBALL IS A FAST-PACED, DEMANDING SPORT that requires year-round training and conditioning. Volleyball student-athletes maintain a high muscle mass-to-fat ratio and work hard to achieve a balance between strength, speed, endurance and skill. Andi Holyfield RD, LDN developed a nutrition strategy for Chloe, ULM volleyball athlete, that maximized volleyball training and performance. Her plan included establishing a balanced and consistent 6-week core eating plan, hydration plan, grocery list, menus, recipes, travel tips, and guidance on the right choices in the ULM café. Andi designed a diet plan to increase Chloe’s muscle and decrease her body fat. “Between training, school, travel and competition, it’s hard to stay consistent with good nutrition throughout the season. During the competitive season, all the training and eating out start to take a toll that impacts my fitness, athletic, and academic performance. I asked Andi if she could create a nutrition strategy that works well at home and on the road,” says Chloe. Chloe started the Eat to Lose plan April 16th, 2021 and finished her plan 34 pounds less body fat weight, 13 pounds weight gain of muscle, and raised her basal metabolic rate from 1455 kcal up to 1652 kcal. Most women athletes desire a 15-28 percent body fat range for elite performance; Chole’s body fat dropped from 34.8% down to 16.5%! “My favorite part of the 42 day plan was eating often since I have hypoglycemic spells,” says Chloe. Chloe has won most all her tournaments now that she is 28 pounds lighter and 13 pounds stronger. Her visceral fat dropped from level 12 down to level 4; visceral fat can only be decreased by changing your diet. If the VF is above level 10 research suggest it may put one at risk of stroke, heart disease, and diabetes. PRESEASON FOUNDATION DIET: 1. Spread your calorie intake during the day. Pre-fuel and do not skip meals. 2. Calculate your carbohydrate requirements to form the foundation of your eating plan. 3. Include a variety of foods and food groups in each meal. 4. Hydrate throughout the day. Consume fluids frequently during training session, with the goal of 4-6 ounces every 15-20 minutes. 5. COMPETITION- collegiate volleyball competitions are primarily, although not exclusively, held during afternoon or evening hours. Tournament play is the exception. 6. Andi can plan out the best pregame meal and pre-event meal for any athlete. Not comfortable during the COVID pandemic? Andi coached many elite clients during the quarantine remotely. 7. During competition fueling and post-competition recovery is vital; Andi teaches how to plan to travel with the most nutrient dense foods and fluids. Coach Charlie Olson, ULM’s volleyball coach, agrees with allowing a Sports Dietitian like Andi Holyfield to coach an athlete on diet and nutrition skills if the athlete desires a body composition change. Losing weight and under fueling does not result in sustainable improvements in performance. Approaches to changing body composition must be individualized and monitored by a registered dietitian. Andi Holyfield develops nutrition strategies for athletes to maximize performance. Let Andi establish your athlete’s balanced and consistent core eating plan that promotes a positive team culture towards nutrition.

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A Healthy Smile Is Your Best Accessory

UNCHES ARE PACKED, NEW CLOTHES HAVE BEEN bought and backpacks are waiting by the front door, but is your smile ready for the school year? Routine dental cleanings and checkups are essential at every stage in life. However, cleanings and routine exams are vital in children when it comes to preparing for future dental goals in life. More than one-half of all children ages 5-9 years of age have at least one cavity or filling. Being seen by a dentist regularly can help get a child on track for orthodontics, keep plaque and build up at a low, and decrease cavity risk. Finding these issues early can help them be resolved when cost and damage is minimal. PREVENTATIVES FOR A HEALTHY SMILE Sealants: Sealants are a preventative form of dentistry. The grooves of teeth are filled with a plastic material. Having these grooves sealed prevents bacteria from accumulating and causing cavities. Fluoride: Fluoride topical is done here in the office after each dental cleaning. Fluoride reduces sensitivity and the risk of decay in adults and children, as well as repairs decay in the early stages. It can also be ingested through tablets or fluoridated water. Our local water does not contain fluoride, so fluoride treatments are a great option! Brushing and Flossing: The American Dental Association recommends replacing your toothbrush every 3-4 months or sooner if the bristles are worn down. A worn-down toothbrush cannot adequately clean the teeth and ensure proper plaque removal. Children around the age of 7 years old can begin to brush their own teeth, but usually require supervision until the age of 10-12. Flossing can be a little more difficult and is usually best if done by parents until the age of 10. Brushing 2x a day, especially before bed can help prevent plaque and tartar build up as well as dental caries. Brushing and flossing before bedtime is more important. ABOUT DR. BAGWELL AND DR. JOHNSTON Dr. Jan T. Bagwell and Dr. Jessica Johnston are the only motherdaughter dental duo in Northeast Louisiana. Their practice is located off 165 North in Monroe, right next to Sterlington High School. They offer regular hygiene checkups as well as general dentistry such as dentures, partials, extraction, and root canals. Cosmetic dentistry is also offered that includes whitening trays, veneers, porcelain crowns, and implant restorations to improve the appearance of your smile. Dr. Jan T. Bagwell and Dr. Jessica J. Johnston always work with compassion to make their patients feel as relaxed as possible and strive to give the best dental care. Make your appointment today and let us help you put your best smile forward!

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Munchkin Market Offers Options For Local Moms Local Consignment Returns for the Fall 2021 Event

ALL IS ON ITS WAY AND THAT CAN ONLY MEAN one thing... The Monroe Munchkin Market Fall 2021 Event is just around the corner! From September 28th through October 2nd, the Fall/Winter event will once again be held at Pine Grove Church Gym, located at 4300 Loop Road in Monroe. There will be new and gently used children’s clothing (girl’s: newborn to junior; boys: newborn to 18), toys, books, DVDs, baby equipment, furniture and gear, shoes and much more. Monroe Munchkin Market is a small business started by longtime friends and moms, India Gregg and Amie Smith, both of Monroe. “We are moms and know the expense of trying to keep your children clothed. At Munchkin Market, you can buy your child’s whole season wardrobe…a one-stop-shop! We help a huge number of families in our community clothe their kids for less and also donate after the sale to help out even more families!,” says India. The sale is open to the public Tuesday, September 28th, from 10:00 a.m.– 6:00 p.m., Wednesday, September 29th, from 10:00 a.m.– 4:00 p.m., Thursday, September 30th, from 12:00 p.m.– 6:00 p.m., Friday, October 1st, from 10:00 a.m.- 6:00 p.m., and Saturday, October 2nd, 8:00 a.m.- 12:00p.m. Shopping days Thursday - Saturday, everything marked in RED will be ½ price. There is no charge to shop during the public sale! Don’t want to wait? An Early Bird Presale is available for

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eager patrons from 10:00 a.m.- 3:00p.m. on Monday, September 27th for $10. Are you a new mom or mom-to-be? Or a grandparent? Simply register online at www.monroemunchkinmarket.com and you can shop at 4 p.m. on Monday, September 27th. Ever wanted to consign? There are so many perks to consigning with Munchkin Market… now is your chance! With 400+ consignors, our consignors make on average $300-$350. Also, you will make more at Munchkin Market than selling at the local children’s resale store! And last but not least, if you consign and volunteer, you get to shop FIRST! What are you waiting for? Sign up to consign NOW at www. monroemunchkinmarket.com. You don’t want to miss out on this event. Be sure to follow them on Facebook and Instagram to get in on their awesome contests and much more. Once you experience the Monroe Munchkin Market, you will keep it on your calendar for years to come. For more information about the sale visit www.monroemunchkinmarket.com, Follow Monroe Munchkin Market on Facebook and Instagram or send an email to info@monroemunchkinmarket.com.

Does a Hormone Imbalance Have You Out of Balance? Louisiana Center for Women’s Health Can Help

XPERIENCING HORMONE FLUCTUATIONS AND A general drop in estrogen, progesterone and testosterone production with age can have major consequences for your sexual health and wellness. These menopausal occurrences are also responsible for the inconvenient or downright irritating symptoms you experience as your body stops its menstrual cycle for good. Hormone replacement therapy offers a way to replenish the hormones within your body so they can better regulate certain processes. As a result, you’ll experience fewer menopausal symptoms and relief from any resulting sexual dysfunction or pain. Furthermore, hormone replacement therapy can lower your risk for bone density issues that can come as a result of a drop in hormones during menopause. The team at Louisiana Center for Women’s Health tailors your treatment to suit your needs, and uses the lowest dosage of hormones possible to achieve results safely.

bone fractures or bone density loss, vaginal dryness, vaginal itching, painful sex, insomnia, weight gain, mood changes or early menopause or an estrogen deficiency. You might still get periods as you approach menopause, but they don’t come as regularly or consistently as before. You’ll know you’ve reached menopause when you stop getting menstrual periods altogether.

WHAT ARE THE BENEFITS OF HORMONE REPLACEMENT THERAPY? Hormone replacement therapy has the potential to ease many of the symptoms and complications that arise as you approach menopause. The symptoms are so diverse that you might not even link many of them to menopause at first. The Louisiana Center for Women’s Health team might recommend hormone replacement therapy if you have moderate-tosevere symptoms of menopause like: hot flashes, night sweats, frequent

SYSTEMIC HORMONE REPLACEMENT THERAPY Systemic hormone therapy is available in several of its own forms, like skin patches, pills, or implanted pellets placed under your skin. These contain higher doses of estrogen than low-dose products and are absorbed throughout the body instead of just in the vaginal tissues. If you’re interested in learning more about hormone replacement therapy or finding out if it can relieve your symptoms, call Louisiana Center for Women’s Health for a consultation or book online today.

HOW WILL I TAKE MY HORMONES? Louisiana Center for Women’s Health works with you to decide on the best way to take your hormones. If the team has decided that taking hormones will benefit your health and wellness, they may recommend low-dose hormonal vaginal products. Low-dose products like vaginal estrogen creams or tablets can improve some vaginal or vulvar symptoms of menopause, like vaginal dryness or painful sex.

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SIMPLY LOU THOSE SPARKLING LITTLE TREASURES article and illustration by LOU DAVE NPORT

ince this month’s issue of BayouLife is the style issue, I chose to write my column about a very stylish little bird, the hummingbird. They have been called “the acrobats of the air” and the “celebrities of the bird world.” And, they are fierce little birds, too! I’ve always been fascinated by birds and I turned into an avid bird watcher when I lived in Vicksburg, Mississippi. Vicksburg was on a “fly way,” that is, migrating birds heading south flew right through there. And, I lived on a lake, so, they would often stop around my house to rest for a while on their long journeys. I’d write down the day I’d see certain birds in a Petersen Field Guide I’d bought. I also figured out many of the birds I saw arrived on the same day year after year such as prothonotory warblers, summer tanagers, Baltimore orioles, Orchard orioles, Great Crested Flycatchers and cuckoos! Yes, I did see a “yellow billed cuckoo” once! 108 SEPTEMBER 2021 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

I was lucky enough to see an Orchard oriole build a nest in an oak tree on the side of my house. Their nests are like hanging baskets! The babies that hatched were yellow and luckily, the babies made it. Those were just the birds that migrated through there. The ones that stayed year round were cardinals, blue jays, chickadees, titmouse, mockingbirds, Great Blue Herons, green herons and Kingfishers. I’m sure there were hummingbirds around but I didn’t have a feeder or any red or orange flowers that they might have used to get food! Since I live in Monroe now, I don’t get to see those birds anymore, but, I’ve come to be fascinated by hummingbirds. For the past two years, they too, have arrived in late February and left around the first of September. They are so much fun to watch buzzing around my feeder. But, what I didn’t know was how really amazing these tiny birds were! Here’s just a few of the interesting facts

I’ve learned: • They are the smallest warm blooded animal in the world. • Hummingbirds weigh less than a nickel. • Hummingbirds can only perch. They do not have the ability to hop or walk around like other birds. They also use their wings to fly differently than other birds. Their wings flap in a straight line, while other birds bend their wings to give them lift. Hummingbirds hover, other birds can’t. And the beating of their wings sound like they are buzzing. They are constant motion with their wings buzzing at about 80 beats per second. They have to constantly find nectar from flowers or feeders to keep their metabolism high because they fly all the time to find their food. They start feeding in the morning and stop around dusk. They must eat at least every 15 minutes. They consume five times their body weight every day. Their metabolism keeps their blood sugar so high, it would most likely kill a human. Some of the sugar is stored in their liver where it is converted to fat. They also need protein and get that from catching small bugs “in air.” They have been called “mini flycatchers!” When they do stop at dusk, they find a cool, safe place and get still. Their bodies go into a sort of hibernation called “torpor.” When they are in “torpor,” they cannot move so it puts them at danger of nocturnal predators. At sunrise, it takes about 30 minutes for them to warm and then, off they go on their mission to find nectar and that goes on most of the day, just perching long enough for a short rest. The flowers and hummingbirds have a symbiotic relationship in that hummingbirds help pollinate the flowers they feed from. Pollen sticks to their faces and when they move to the next flower, the pollen rubs off. Even more amazing is the hummingbirds know exactly which flowers to go to and exactly how long it takes those flowers to refill with nectar. Hummingbirds do seem to be attracted to the color red, orange, pink, even purple. They have a keen sense of where flowers with the nectar or food they need are and often return to the same gardens or feeders every year. I had three hummingbirds last year and three again this year, so I think that is true. What intelligence from a tiny bird that’s brain is the size of a kernel of rice! These tiny birds do not even stop flying when it rains or if the winds are high. They will perch on tree limbs and bath and groom themselves but not for long. Their need for “sweetness” goes on even when they do stop for a few moments. Around here, we only have “Ruby Throated Hummingbirds.” The males have a ruby red patch under its bill and on the sides

of its body is a bright emerald green. Their feathers actually sparkle and look iridescent. Their tales are notched. The females aren’t nearly as flamboyant, but, are dull green with a few white spots. Their tales aren’t notched. Their beaks and tongues have evolved for good reason. They insert their long beaks into the flowers, and then use their sticky tongues to extract the sweet flower nectar. And they are pollinators, getting pollen on their faces and then passing it along to the next flower. Plants and hummingbirds have a good relationship helping one another the way they do! Their hearts can beat about 400 beats per minute but can rise to 1200 beats at times. At that rate, they need a lot of oxygen! Hummingbirds are the only birds that can fly backward and also rotate on the spot and even fly upside down. Pretty amazing! During mating season, which happens around here, the males put on a “show” to impress the females. If the female mates, she builds a tiny nest that’s protected and lays the tiny eggs. Then, she sits on the eggs without leaving for food until the eggs hatch. The males do not help in any way. When the female finally does get to leave the nest, she is weak but still has to find nectar to get her strength back and feed her young. It’s a delicate balance, but, somehow nature takes care of the females. The Ruby Throated Hummingbird has never been on the endangered species list. The very first hummingbirds were first in South America in the Andes Mountains. The first one discovered was thought to be very large and had dull markings. Plants evolved in the cool mountains and so the hummingbirds had to as well. Those hummingbirds that live there now, have very different beaks that are used to get nectar from different flowers. There’s one called a “Woodstar” that has a booked beak. It only drinks the nectar from a tropical plant called, Heliconia. Another hummingbird that lives in the same area has large “angel trumpet” plants. The flowers are very long and tubular so the bird has an extremely long beak and tongue to reach into the plant to extract the nectar. There’s many ways to attract hummingbirds to your yard or even your patio. They really like red, tubular shaped vines like the “trumpet honey suckle.” Or any other kinds of flowers that are red or orange, even pink, especially Bee Balm. You can also provide feeders and fill with sugar water. A DIY easy recipe is use one part sugar to three parts warm water. Stir until the sugar dissolves. Some people boil theirs, but, that’s not really necessary. With our hot summers, it’s necessary to change the nectar about every two days or if it looks cloudy. Clean your feeders well with vinegar and water to stop any mildew that might begin to grow. If there’s a lot of “gunk” you can add some rice with the vinegar to act as an abrasive. Rinse at least three times, pour in the fresh homemade nectar and hang. Some people say to hang the feeders in the shade, but my hummingbirds don’t seem to mind either way. Our little ruby throated hummingbirds will be leaving us before you know it. They load up on as much nectar as they can and many fly off for the Gulf Coast. There, especially in Rockport, Texas, there might be up to 10,000 hummingbirds show up to feed once more before they begin their migration of 2500 miles across the Gulf of Mexico to Central America. Rockport residents have a yearly festival just to make sure the little hummingbirds have enough to eat before they leave. At some point, the hummingbirds start to gather at the edge of the Gulf and prepare to leave at night. Off they go and that has to be an incredible sight! Scientists still don’t know exactly how they travel so far without stopping. Doppler radar has been used but after so many miles, the birds get out of range. So, make sure to enjoy your hummingbirds while you still can. They’ll be gone soon and will not return until late February or March. I’m sure going to miss mine! There’s a legend that says if a hummingbird flies up to your face, it’s sending you positive energy, something we could all use right now. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2021 109

Back to the League “Big Top” Event The annual Back to the League event was held on August 10th at the Junior League House of Monroe. The event serves as the kick-off to the 2021-2022 year of women building better communities. Active members and incoming provisionals were in attendance of the “Come one, come all” carnival themed event that included music by Josh Love & food provided by Fieldhouse. Carnival games were played throughout the night, including a few competitions amongst members. The Traveling Chic Boutique and local Scentsy representative were also in attendance allowing members to shop with a cause as a portion of the proceeds were donated back to the league. The Junior League of Monroe looks forward to their 91st year of serving women & children in the community. This event did have Covid-19 safety protocols in place and social distancing was encouraged. Masks were required but could be removed for photographs.

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Neville Junior High Introduces New Principal, Ashley Ellis

NEW SCHOOL YEAR BRINGS NEW BEGINNINGS AND fresh faces and that is exactly what you will find at Neville Junior High. The school is located in the heart of Monroe and serves 7th grade and 8th grade students. This year, they are excited to introduce their new Principal, Mrs. Ashley Ellis. Mrs. Ellis has been an educator for 19 years and has worked on all levels of education from elementary, middle high school, district and state levels. For the past four years, she has served as the Assistant Principal of Neville High School. The majority of her teaching career was with the Ouachita Parish School System at Riser Middle School as an eighth-grade language arts teacher. “Junior High is truly my favorite grade level to work with,” said Mrs. Ellis. “I am happy to have come full circle back to such a wonderful season in my teaching career.” Mrs. Ellis follows in the footsteps of Dana Mullins, who was at Neville Junior High for 20 years and is honored to to carry on the tradition of excellence the school has become known for. As she embarks on this new journey, Mrs. Ellis is honored to have the opportunity to lead a school with such hardworking students, an extremely dedicated staff and a supportive school community. The school is also led by Assistant Principals Coach Carter and Mr. Pierce, who have been at the school for decades. Mrs. Ellis believes the relationships between families and the school are vital to the success of students. “I believe that students are at the center of all school-related decisions, and that is no different at Neville Junior High,” said Mrs. Ellis. She is looking forward to working with students and parents alike and encourages all parents to get involved as much as possible. “Junior high is a tough season for some students, and now more than ever, they need to know that they have a support system,” said Mrs. Ellis. When asked about her vision for Neville Junior High, Mrs. Ellis says it is really quite simple. “We want to provide a place where kids want to come to school every day, where they feel safe and welcome,” she said. “We want to create an environment where they want to be, showing them that school is enjoyable and an impactful place for their future.” Her dedication and devotion to education make work a huge part of Mrs. Ellis’ life. She has been married to her husband, Monroe Mayor Friday Ellis, for two decades and their children attend Monroe City Schools. Friday, III, is 15 and a freshman at Neville, Asher is 12 and attends Sallie Humble and Aurie Grace is 8 and is at Lexington Elementary. Mrs. Ellis was elected to the Louisiana State Board of Elementary and Secondary Education (BESE) to represent the 5th District. The Board is the administrative body for all Louisiana public elementary and secondary schools. Additionally, Mrs. Ellis serves on the planning committee for the Center for Children and Families as well as the Board of Directors for The Wellspring. The Ellis family also has a heart for fostering, fostering to adopt and are adoption advocates. Being involved in the community and serving is at the heart of the Ellis family and this new journey will be no different. “As I look back over the past eleven years as an educational leader, I see how every career choice has led me to this moment,” said Mrs. Ellis. “Becoming the principal at Neville Junior High has combined all of my passions… my work, my family and my community. I feel fortunate to be here and I look forward to not only this year, but years to come!” WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2021 111

The Nude Nomad Celebrates 5 Years in Business Q & A with Madison Guerriero, Owner of The Nude Nomad

BY B. JONES

SAT DOWN WITH MADISON GUERRIERO, THE OWNER of The Nude Nomad, to discuss her five year business anniversary and what it is like to be a successful young entrepreneur. At the age of 24, Madison opened a women’s clothing, shoe, and accessories boutique in the heart of downtown West Monroe inspired by her travels across the world. Flash forward five years, and The Nude Nomad is one of the premiere boutiques in Northeast Louisiana. How did you decide to name your women’s boutique The Nude Nomad? Back when I was living in Los Angeles, I distinctly remember feeling unfulfilled with my job and where I was in life. I prayed for God to reveal my greater purpose and guide me in my career. I unexpectedly awoke in the middle of the night and wrote down the words ‘The Nude Nomad’ and immediately fell back asleep. The next morning when I saw those words, I knew I needed to trust in God’s plan. I moved back to my hometown in Louisiana and followed my purpose to help build strength and confidence in women through fashion. I’ve always believed confidence is the most beautiful thing a woman can wear and that when you love who you are and embrace what makes you unique, you can conquer the world. What sets you apart from other boutiques? It was really important for me to cater to all ages, not just teens. Having such a

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large age demographic makes buying for the store a lot harder, but it is worth it. Growing up, I always cherished spending quality time with my mom shopping, but we had trouble finding boutiques that catered to both ages. The Nude Nomad is a one-stop-shop created specifically with mom, daughter, and grandmother in mind. Whether it’s a gorgeous blouse, comfortable pair of shoes, or a one-of-a-kind handmade necklace, The Nude Nomad has something special for everyone. What is your biggest take away after five years in business? Nothing in life is predictable. You have to be resilient. Who would have imagined we’d be facing a life-changing pandemic that essentially shut the state and world down this past year? I am fortunate to have had a family that encouraged me to not give up and a loyal customer base that supported me every step of the way. Without them, The Nude Nomad would not be what it is today. Not only did we have recordhigh Black Friday sales last year, but we also grew our online store and are now celebrating five years in business! Join @TheNudeNomad’s fashion adventures on Facebook and Instagram, shop online at www.thenudenomad.com, or shop in store at 222 Trenton St. in West Monroe, LA.

Advanced Style At Revival Design & Consign

S WE MATURE IN LIFE, SO DO our surroundings. Our dwellings become a safe haven of refuge. We gather and collect objects passed down from ancestors, tchotchkes acquired from trips and impulsive bars of those things that caught our eye and delighted us. As time goes by we manifest an array of oddities, art, and trinkets that collectively represent our personalities. Sometimes minimalists will claim this to be clutter and parallel it to that trusty junk drawer most of us have in our kitchen or laundry rooms. They will not understand that these treasures are simply a roadmap of our journey in life. They tell a story. They possess a history. They capture a moment in time. They cause us to reflect. They bring us joy. They allow us not forget. Many of these finds have more sentimental value than monetary worth. That is not always the case. Antiques in particular increase in value. Many people do not know how to

differentiate between one and a collectible. An antique must be at least 100 years old. Moving a year ago to downtown, I packed my many treasures to further establish my roots where it all began for my family more than 150 years ago in historic downtown Monroe. As forefathers, Robert and Fredrick Endom established themselves as business leaders downtown as well as the 1st judge and mayor of Monroe post civil war, it’s clearly in my DNA to carry on the a century and a half later. In the past few months I have unboxed some of these treasures. Most are more sentimental than valuable, but they hold a special place in my heart. As my style has advanced both in life and design, some of these objects deserve to be enjoyed by someone else’s life journey. At Revival, my main desire is to offer a unique retail experience transitioning those very special treasures of our consignees and ease into the homes and wives of others. As

we evolve day by day at Revival, we hope to manifest in to the most bizarre and exciting shopping experience in the south. We want to break down barriers of blight in our downtown area and continue to add to its economic growth and social development. Over the next year, me and my staff look forward to continually bringing amazing finds, unique events and impactful developments to our community. As we continue to readjust and readapt to a new variance of life, we look forward to offering you an amazing experience filled with both the past and the present. As we advance into another season and fall begins, we have many stylish new lines of furniture, gifts and accessories that we are adding to our showroom. We also have new artists and artisans joining our 10,000 Sq ft space. If you are looking to advance your style check out our showroom. Also take advantage of me and my design team to transform your home or office with our design services. Revival is located at 300 Walnut in Historic Downtown Monroe. Our hours are TuesdaySaturday 11am-5pm. We can be reached at 318-381-8191. Thank you for supporting our local business. - Clinton Downing

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WILD HORSES

These looks from local boutiques showcase the best fall has to offer. From prarie dresses to sequins, these outfits combine seasonal must-haves with fashion-foward staples. Photography by Kelly Moore Clark Hair and Makeup by Meka Bennett Reliford Model Lalaina Wood

DUSTY & COMPANY This cream-colored waffle knit top is paired with black denim distresed pants. Complete the outfit with white booties and a mixed metal cross cuff.

PALETTE HOUSE + PLUME This breezy white cotton dress is the perfect transition piece from summer to fall. Featuring a tiered look and removable tie waist, this dress is an autumn staple.

HERITAGE & GRACE This wraparound rust orange and cream cropped blouse features a high neckline and gathered sleeves. Pair it with distressed denim and accessorize with a black and gold belt and gold hoop earrings.

THE NUDE NOMAD Step out in style in this black and gold sequin mini dress with zebra print. Paired with suede wood block heels and layered gold bracelets, this outfit will make you shine.

Expansion Is Progressing

The Gardens at Georgia Tucker Phase II Opens Soon

SK MANY OF THE RESIDENTS IN The Gardens at Georgia Tucker how they feel about living in Monroe’s only assisted living facility housed in such a beautiful historic setting. You’ll hear plenty of comments expressing their pleasure for such luxuriously accommodating apartments and social gathering spaces. Many longtime residents have been part of this community since its opening in 2018, and they continue to enjoy each other’s company during activities, or just simply while visiting. The open atrium area in the center of Phase I is the favorite gathering space that’s easily accessible from their apartments, and the onsite hair salon is probably the second most favorite place to be! To enhance day-to-day living, shared endeavors can include musical entertainment, movies & games, birthday parties, themed events, church activities, shopping, and other voluntary pastimes coordinated by the Activities Director. Each month’s calendar of

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events and activities can be viewed online at georgiatucker.com. For optimal comfort, residents decorate their apartments with their own treasured momentos and furnishings, feeling right at home, while safe and secure. There are onebedroom & two-bedroom apartments in both Phase I and the soon-to-open Phase II buildings, as well as one-bedroom apartments in the Phase II Memory Care building. The Memory Care services include all the expected amenities along with an individualized plan of care to maximize quality of life for your loved one. This custom-design unit will meet the needs of residents requiring a level of dementia-related assistance that can encompass dining, bathing, and other daily routines for each resident’s comfort and wellbeing. Full accreditation and a certified staff ensure proper attention for residents in this building. Once Phase II is completed, the complex will cover one entire city block, and will have

additional walkways and a peaceful courtyard for relaxing outdoors. Visitors and relatives are welcomed and encouraged to drop by for special companionship which is always appreciated. Reservations and lease deposits are being accepted now for the Phase II assisted living and memory care apartments. All assisted living apartments include a flat-mounted cable TV, a personal refrigerator & microwave oven, WiFi connections, and a spacious bathroom. Please call 318-538-0040 to schedule a tour appointment. The administration staff couldn’t be more proud of the offerings, and will be happy to show you around, answer any questions, and provide leasing information for you or for a loved one. Meanwhile, visit GeorgiaTucker.com for more details. The unparalleled comfort, convenience, and amenities of The Gardens At Georgia Tucker assure new and long-time residents alike of an environment that can truly be called home.

COVID-19 Symptoms Can Look Different with Delta

HE ORIGINAL STRAIN OF COVID-19 upended our lives in spring 2020. The virus has continued to mutate, and the significantly more contagious Delta variant is now the dominant strain of COVID in our country and region, making up most cases. Symptoms that people infected with COVID-19 experience can be different depending on the variant, so it’s important to know what to look for if you’re experiencing any symptoms. When in doubt, get tested when you feel sick even if you are vaccinated. Symptoms of COVID-19 Delta Variant Can Look Like Allergies: • Headache • Runny nose • Sore throat • Fever Persistent cough and loss of taste and smell are not as prevalent with Delta. Doctors are seeing unvaccinated people get sicker more quickly with Delta, especially younger people. This version of the virus grows more rapidly and to much greater levels in infected respiratory tracts.

Symptoms of COVID-19 Alpha Variant: • Fever or chills • Headache • Cough • Diarrhea • Fatigue • Sore throat • Muscle or body aches • New loss of taste or smell • Congestion or runny nose • Nausea or vomiting • Shortness of breath or difficulty breathing VACCINES MAKE OUR COMMUNITY SAFER Vaccinated people who contract the Delta variant are typically either asymptomatic or have very mild symptoms like those of a common cold. When you get vaccinated, your risk of getting very sick or being hospitalized is significantly lower than someone who has not been vaccinated. You are safer than you were before you got your vaccine. KEEP MASKING AND KEEP YOUR DISTANCE The virus can still be spread by vaccinated people infected with the Delta variant, so until our local and regional vaccination rates get higher, we all need to continue to mask up and maintain physical distance as much as possible to curb its spread. BOOSTER DOSE NOW AVAILABLE. The State of Louisiana along with the

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) now recommends that people whose immune systems are moderate to severely compromised and are fully vaccinated with an mRNA (Pfizer or Moderna) COVID-19 vaccine should receive an additional dose of that same mRNA COVID-19 vaccine. The high-risk categories outlined by the CDC include: • Receiving active cancer treatment for tumors or cancers of the blood • Received an organ transplant and are currently taking medicine to suppress the immune system • Received a stem cell transplant within the last 2 years or are currently taking medicine to suppress the immune system • Moderate or severe primary immunodeficiency (such as DiGeorge syndrome) • Advanced or untreated HIV infection • Active treatment with high-dose corticosteroids (≥20 mg prednisone or equivalent per day) or other drugs that may suppress your immune response • Other conditions which cause moderate or severe immunosuppression similar to the above conditions The CDC recommends that people speak with their healthcare provider about their medical condition, and whether getting an additional dose is appropriate. The CDC does not recommend an additional dose for other populations at this time.

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Bayou Buzzworthy The City of West Monroe was recently recognized by the Louisiana Municipal Association as a winner in the annual Community Achievement Awards for the City’s efforts to revitalize Downtown West Monroe. West Monroe received the LMA Community Achievement Award in the category of Community Development for cities with a population between 10,000 and 25,000.

The City of Ruston broke ground on a new infrastructure project connected to Louisiana Tech University and funded by the U.S. Department of Transportation. The Monroe Street Corridor Project is expected to transform the downtown Ruston and LA Tech experience.

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A Professional Attire Career Closet on ULM’s Campus ULM’s First Lady, Dr. Christine Berry, is spearheading an exciting initiative alongside the Career Center to open a career closet where all students will be able to attain professional attire. The naming of the career closet, Warhawk Wardrobe, was chosen by ULM faculty, staff, and students. The closet will be stocked with gently used professional attire donated by the community. Please call 318.342.5338 or email careercenter@ulm.edu with any questions.

Louisiana Delta Ballet Company’s own, Courtney Crain, is living proof that dreams come true. Courtney recently announced that she is a Radio City Rockette. Rockettes are an American icon, with almost a century worth of historical and memorable events.

AI at Audibel is Here

Now is the Time to Try These State-of-the-Art Hearing Aids

F YOU’VE BEEN HOLDING OUT ON getting hearing aids because you were waiting for something that didn’t scream “hearing aid!” while also offering unheard of sound quality and high-tech, life-just-got-wayeasier features, well then you know how the next paragraph begins. Hold out no longer and check out Via Edge AI custom rechargeable hearing aids. Custom hearing aids have been around a long time — and Audibel has always been the undisputed leader in their manufacturing — but these are the first and only smartphone-connected rechargeable custom hearing aids. For many, the fact that there is finally a rechargeable custom hearing aid will be enough to hop off the fence. For others, that they don’t sit behind your ears like traditional hearing aids should make inquiring minds want to know more. For everyone else, here are a dozen reasons why it’s time to finally look into getting hearing aids — or to swap out your old pair for something better.

1. Because sound quality is king — and these are our best sounding hearing aids yet! 2. You can charge them while you sleep and they’re good to go all day. 3. They were named “most tech-forward hearing aids” by Healthline. 4. Your teenage grand/daughter will think they “create a vibe.” (My 19-year old daughter assures me that’s a good thing.) 5. They won’t budge when you wear or remove your mask. 6. You can listen to podcasts (and nature!) while you’re walking your dog (or going for a hike). 7. There are no batteries to worry about, fumble with or buy. 8. They are custom molded to you ear — so they’re snug, comfortable and your kids can’t “borrow” and “misplace” them (like kids are prone to do with cool gadgets). 9. If you don’t like missing out on conversations and social activities, you won’t with these.

10. No one knows they’re hearing aids — they just look like futuristic earpods. 11. You can talk on the phone with them, hands-free, without missing a beat. 12. There’s not another pair out there that’s exactly like yours! Bonus: They are made for masks. As you know, we are currently under a mask mandate, which combined with social distancing, can make hearing harder than ever. These custom hearing aids won’t tangle with or get pulled off when wearing or removing face masks. Edge Mode for Masks delivers an on-demand boost for speech audibility with just a tap of your hearing aids and they automatically optimize for social distancing and background noise. Via Edge AI gives you an edge over other hearing aids with powerful artificial intelligence in every device. Our gamechanging sound with AI technology improves speech understanding for those with significant hearing loss and helps in the most difficult listening environments.

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Jeff Leaumont State Farm Open House On Thursday July 29th, Jeff Leaumont State Farm Insurance Agent, celebrated Open House with his closest friends, family and beloved customers. This exciting day was filled with fun games, catered food and lots of fun. The Jeff Leaumont State Farm Insurance office is proud to serve Monroe, Louisiana. Located at 4161 Sterlington Road, be sure to give him a call for all of your insurance needs!

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XTND Boutique

Opens in Downtown Monroe

N RECENT YEARS, DOWNTOWN MONROE HAS SEEN a revitalization and experienced tremendous growth. There has been new restaurants, salons and stores. And now, there is one more business to add to the mix. XTND Boutique opened on June 26, 2021 and is already becoming a place for the community to shop, gather and socialize. The store is owned by a mother-daughter pair, Misty Jenkins and Chelzee Matthews. They each ran their own online clothing boutiques, selling clothes on Facebook and websites. Mom Misty catered to older, professional women while daughter Chelzee reached a younger demographic, closer to her own age. The two had the opportunity to open a brick and mortar location and combine their businesses, reaching a broader market. XTND provides luxury looks with premium fabrics and silhouettes without a luxe price tag. Chelzee’s philosophy on style and fashion is, “Confidence, not just in your clothing but how you feel is just as essential as making sure we provide a shopping experience you won’t find anywhere else.” And that is what XTND is all about. In the store you will find an array of denim from jeans, shorts and tops. The long flowy dress vibe is in and there are plenty to choose from in a variety of fabrics. XTND is quickly becoming well known for their hat collection. Wide brim hats adorn the wall, and you can choose from a number of colors, textures and details. For the younger crowd, there are some edgier pieces like cut out dresses and mid-drift tops. In the back of the boutique, Chelzee offers eyelash services, something she has been doing for four years. Katrina Gibson is on hand to do facials and waxing as well. When discussing a name for the store, Misty and Chelzee tossed around several ideas. They landed on XTND because it enveloped everything they wanted to represent. It reflects the variety of sizes the boutique offers, the eyelash extension services Chelzee offers but it means even more. It represents women’s empowerment and allowing them to reach their fullest potential. They believe that how you feel, starts with how you look. And that when you feel good, you can conquer the day. In addition to offering clothes and beauty services, XTND offers a place for the community to gather. They love being in the heart of downtown and have already hosted events. They recently held a Wine Down Wednesday event with pillars of the community - local artist Frank Kelly Jr., local chiropractor Dr. Talitha Elliott, local attorney Jasmyne McConnell and local Realtor Ashley Ambrew. The community was invited to join them as they mixed and mingled, socializing and shopping. There were charcuterie cones and cheesecake bites to munch on and a bartender on hand with libations. They are also looking forward to being able to support the community in whatever way they can. Misty has another daughter, Lauren Jenkins, who is a freshman cheerleader at Neville High School, so the boutique donated items for a recent auction. They also plan to participate in an upcoming fashion show, hosted by Robert Wright. Stop by XTND located on Desiard Street, across from Rain Salon and Standard Coffee. In addition to Misty and Chelzee, you can visit with Amber Sellers, their marketing coordinator. And if you are really into fashion, XTND is hiring so inquire about job opportunities! You can experience shopping at XTND Tuesday-Friday 10am-6pm and Saturday 10am-3pm. Visit their website at your convenience at xtndmonroe.com and Facebook page: XTND Monroe and Instagram: XTND__ WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2021 125

IN THE GARDEN VEGETABLES

As spring and summer crops play out for the season, pull up their remains and add them to the compost pile. Consider planting a cover crop if there are no plans for the space they occupied until next spring. Cover crops enrich the soil by acting as “green manures” that are turned under just before they flower. Members of the legume family make excellent cover crops or green manures because they will give weary soil a boost of nitrogen. The roots of many legumes are colonized by bacteria that have the capability to convert atmospheric nitrogen into nitrate compounds which are useable to the plants. In other words, many legumes make their own fertilizer! Suitable legumes for cover crops include clovers, field peas, and vetch. Nonlegume plants, such as oats, winter rye, annual ryegrass, wheat, or buckwheat, also make good green manures. What vegetables can be planted now? Beets, carrots, collards, mustard greens, snap beans, and turnips can be seeded directly into beds or rows. Thinning seedlings will maximize productivity. Get ahead of cabbage worms by early applications of Bt, a biological insecticide. Make sure to follow instructions on the bottle. Bulb onions can be started from seeds now through October for transplanting in February. Short-day or day-neutral onions are best suited for our region. Broccoli, Brussels sprouts, cabbages, and other cole crops should be widely available as transplants from garden centers and can be planted now. Other leaf vegetables that make good fall crops are Swiss chard and lettuce. Chard may survive the winter if adequately mulched with leaves, grass clippings, or hay. Mowing is an ongoing task this month. But, as the number of daylight hours decreases, our southern turfgrasses are gearing up to go dormant for the oncoming winter. Adjusting the lawn fertilizer regimen will help them make this transition safely. Using fertilizers that are lower in nitrogen and higher in potassium (K) will promote healthy root formation going into cool weather whereas high nitrogen fertilizers will increase above ground blade production and open lawns up to pests and cold susceptibility. Apply 1 to 2 pounds of muriate of potash (0-0-60) per 1,000 square feet of lawn.

< ‘Intenz Classic’ celosia // What a work horse! Brilliant magenta flowers attract pollinators and add a soft texture to any sunny area.

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Sorbet Viola

Cool weather plants designated as Louisiana Super Plants include the ‘Swan’ series of columbine .

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Brown patch or large patch is a fungal disease that can show up now. Yellow, circular areas increase in diameter and eventually turn brown. This fungus, Rhizoctonia solani, will be especially evident in St. Augustinegrass and centipedegrass. A variety of lawn fungicides are available from local garden centers that will help control brown patch. Look for products that have either myclobutanil, propiconazole, or triadimefon as the active ingredient and follow the manufacturer’s application recommendations. Armyworm (Pseudaletia unipuncta) is an insect pest that may affect lawns this time of year. Caterpillars are visible and easily identified by their yellow or greenish-brown stripes on a pale green body. Armyworm damage may resemble brown patch. Broad spectrum insecticides containing either carbaryl, spinosad, or malathion will control armyworm per manufacturer’s recommendations on the label.

As summer annuals play out, relegate them to the compost pile and refresh beds with finished compost. Let the beds rest until cooler temperatures allow for planting fall and winter annuals. If a soil test performed, look for a pH between 5.5 and 6.0 for most bedding plants. Some warm weather annuals will persist until frost, however. Leave them! Many times, they looks great combined with cool season annuals. For example, ‘Intenz Classic’ celosia looks good until either it’s pulled up or frost kills it. What a work horse! Brilliant magenta flowers attract pollinators and add a soft texture to any sunny area. Popular cool season bedding plants include pansies (Viola × whittrockiana), alyssum (Lobularia maritima), annual phlox (Phlox drummondii) and dusty miller (Jacobaea maritima and related species), snapdragons (Antirrhinum majus), and ornamental cabbages and kale. Cool weather plants designated as Louisiana Super Plants include the ‘Swan’ series of columbine (Aquilegia sp.), ‘Redbor’ kale (Brassica oleracea Acephala Group), the ‘Camelot’ series of foxglove (Digitalis sp. and hybrids), and the ‘Sorbet’ series of viola (Viola cornuta). In addition to fall annuals, preparations can be made now for planting bulbs in October. Louisiana iris and calla lily can be divided this month as well. Purchase varieties that are appropriate for the north region. Impulsive plant purchases, with little to no information regarding cultural requirements, is risky. Always research and know a plant’s growth habit, pest susceptibility, maintenance requirements, and preferred growing conditions before buying. September is an ideal time to order and start planting bulbs for flowers in spring. Also, divide and transplant irises now, especially Louisiana irises. Uncover the old plants and carefully remove new rhizomes. Plant the new tender rhizomes in a bed that has been wellamended with organic matter and a complete fertilizer (2 to 4 pounds per 100 square feet). Cover the roots but leave the tops of the

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rhizomes barely visible. Mulch with a 2-inch layer of well-aged bark chips or other mulch, and water in. Finally, early September is the best time for late summer rose care. Hybrid teas, floribundas, grandifloras, and shrub roses can all be pruned this month by removing approximately one third of the height and removing cans that give plants and unshapely appearance. Keep monitoring for insect pests such as aphids, spider mites, and chilli thrips. Black spot is a fungal issue that is prevalent this time of year. Susceptible varieties should be treated with either a spray or systemic fungicide according to the manufacturer’s directions. An application of a slow-release fertilizer after pruning will ensure blooms into fall. Refresh mulch, too. Pine straw is recommended.

LET’S CHECK THE CALENDAR!

Mark your calendars for Saturday, November 6th! The Northeast Louisiana Master Gardeners will hold their annual fall bulb and plant sale at the Pavilion at Seventh Square (West Monroe Farmers Market)! A huge selection of fall bulbs for spring blooms, as well as annuals and woody perennials will be available. Also mark Saturday, January 15th, 2022, as our Master Gardeners welcome keynote speaker Dr. Susan Pell for their annual January gardening seminar. Dr. Pell is Deputy Executive Director of the U.S. Botanical Garden in Washington, D.C. For both events, the Northeast Louisiana Master Gardeners will observe whatever COVID-19 restrictions are in place at the time of each event. As of this writing, there is no plan to cancel either event. Follow Northeast Louisiana Master Gardeners on Facebook.

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Be the Peacekeeper

As We Continue to Live in Unprecedented Times

article by Cindy G. Foust

nybody ever play dominoes at their house? Like the Mexican Train kind, with colored dominoes that start with the double 12 and go down to the double zero? Gosh, my family does and let me tell you… it can get heated. I don’t mean like hot versus cold, but heated like cutthroat, won’t start each other a train and name calling domino antics? Asking for a friend. We really have “enjoyed” some of these games this summer, especially while my brother was in town from Maryland. We love hanging out around my parent’s pool, cooking on the grill, making homemade ice cream and playing dominoes. Oh, and this summer, watching the Olympics. We are a sports-minded family, and I think I have written about my years as a collegiate softball player. Just kidding. I did play in high school, though, and I played basketball, too. Those were kind of the glory years of my athletic career but I could shoot a 3-pointer, you know, before they even had 3-pointers. My son followed in my footsteps (and his dads) and continues playing sports to this day. My daughter on the other hand, loves ballet. Like loves it, studies it loves it. What. 128 SEPTEMBER 2021 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

In. The. World? Whose kid is she anyway? Thank the good Lord she is mine! Back to sports though… and the Olympics. Oh, and dominoes.

Imagine the scenario, my family is gathered around the domino table in my parent’s dining room, the Olympic games are on the television and there we all were, cheering for people we didn’t even know who are playing sports we don’t even understand. Come on, now, admit it with me… you have no idea how they get the scores for ANY of those sports any more than we do. I mean, when those divers do a

handstand and then a double back hand triple tuck upside down flip over their back and land in the water with barely a splash… I would give them a 10. Primarily because even if I did a Cannon Ball into the pool from that high up, I would likely drown from all the water that rushed up my nose. But then, the scores would pop up on the bottom of the screen and they would get a 6.4. Huh? And the commentary would be like “yeah, that score should have been even lower because their head turned to the right when they hit the water.” Yeah. I saw that, too. At any rate, we had lots of fun watching the two weeks of games, cheering so loud for anything and anyone American. It was like, for a brief moment, we were cheering for our own, like our own children or our best friend’s kid. For a brief moment, it felt like the country stepped out the political, COVIDfilled, messy, unpredictable world we are living in and cheered for the same team. Our team. I totally get that people will always have differing opinions and that there will always be disagreements and discord. I mean, this great country was founded on the freedom of

being able to stand up for what you believe in. I’m truly okay with that, but don’t you think we have gone way past that respectability? Why can’t we find a way to carry this perfect harmony that we found during these two weeks, two weeks when not even spouses or family members could travel to cheer their Olympian on by the way, and bring some of that teamwork into our real lives? I mean, was anyone in America cheering for a Russian? A Romanian? Of course not, for one split second, or two-week second, we were all on the same team, cheering for the same athletes and as hard as it is to believe, the entire country agreed on one thing: we wanted the gold. As I sat around the domino table, I quietly observed our children, whose ages range from 23 to 3. First, don’t even say it, I know what you’re thinking, “Cindy was quiet?” Yes, I am capable when I have to be. Second, I watched with interest as our kids immersed themselves in this rich Olympic tradition that dates back to the 1800s, which involved cheering on their country’s Olympians. Not one time did anyone ask… ”I wonder what that gymnast thinks about masks in classrooms?” Not one time did they ask, “I wonder if that 400-meter runner

got vaccinated?” I don’t mean to hit a nerve, readers, or incite political debate…Cassie would fire me. The nerve I want to hit is how we can use moments like this to remind our children that there is indeed opportunities to step outside of disagreement and dissension and find a common ground. We have that opportunity every day, in our homes, in our work, in our politics. Our children, and I can say this because mine are old enough to be influenced by the news, need to see that opposition doesn’t always have to exist in every corner of their lives. It’s a parenting moment that lets us share the nature of teamwork, of unity and of coming together for a common purpose. We continue to live in unprecedented times and our overseas presence is being threatened at this very minute. As a result, the United States seems to have left the coherence we felt just last week and taken to the mats again for arguing and finger pointing. Quite simply: it’s a hard time to parent through. Even for our grown children and grandchildren, we are battling discord like never before. I’m just a simple columnist from small town America but I also have a vote. I have a

voice and my voice is using my platform this month to encourage our children, no matter their ages, to seek peace. As Hallmark card as that may sound, be the peacekeeper. I fail sometimes, like when my children have been hurt (probably the biggest cause of incite in a parent’s life) to seek the peace. It’s hard. And they react to how they see you react. But it’s important to keep them focused on things they can control, and at this time in our country’s history, it’s not world peace. It is however, peace in their lives, with their friends, with their family. And for us parents? It’s never been a more critical time for us to give them that peacemaking foundation, to remind them they have the tools to be the “one” who cheers for the “team,” rather than against it; even in situations where they have been hurt or wronged. Who knows? If we start a grass root effort to embrace rather than settle a score, perhaps the ones who are in charge of world peace could be influenced by those of us who just want to live in a quiet, respectable place full of peaceful times. Including when we are around the domino table. Cindy G. Foust is a wife, mom, author and blogger. You can find her blog at the alphabetmom.com for weekly columns about homelife, parenting,smallbusinessstoriesandinsightwithasmidgen of literacy. Give her a like or follow on Facebook and Instagram.

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RAISING THE OYSTER BAR

Luke Parrish, a West Monroe native, moved back home after living in East Texas to open Monroe’s newest eateries, Clawdaddy’s Crawfish and Oyster Bar. VANELIS RIVER A

About a year ago, Luke Parrish returned to his old Ouachita Parish stomping ground, to “slow down for a little while.” Still wanting to work in the restaurant business, he took his talents to Buffalo Wild Wings as their general manager, but very quickly realized it wasn’t the place for him. “I’m either going to be an entrepreneur and have my own restaurant or not be involved in restaurants.” He wasn’t sure what else to do until a building popped up that a friend thought he might be interested in. The minute he saw the patio, he knew he was back in business.

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“Obviously, the way you cook ‘em is critical.” Luke Parrish, the owner of Clawdaddy’s Crawfish And Oyster Bar, eagerly divulged his take on the few ways crawfish are prepared. “One method,” he continues, “is you boil ‘em in regular water, and then you put them in an ice chest and you put seasoning over the top of them and you close the lid.” But, that creates a problem. “What that does is it gets the seasoning on the outside of the shell. So, while you’re eating them, your hands are always caught up in the season.” Though Parrish admits that there is no right or wrong method to boiling our favorite mudbug, he prefers to use the “soak method” where the crawfish are cooked then saturated for 20 minutes in concentrated seasoned water, so the tender meat absorbs the seasoning. The careful attention Parrish and his cook staff give such a simple yet flavorful feast is why customers rave that “his team hit a home run every day they open the doors.” Parrish is very much a straightforward man. “Well, my name is Luke Parrish. I’m 41 years old and I’m from West Monroe, Louisiana.” Though he is a local boy, he moved off to East Texas to work in an IT business, which he stayed in for about 6 years until he “fell into” the restaurant industry. “I’ve always loved cooking and entertaining, mostly entertaining. And we actually were having a crawfish boil in our front yard and some people just pulled up and asked if they could buy some.” Parrish didn’t oblige, but when he did it again the following weekend he purchased “little” 5-pound bags that he did sell. When 5-pound bags turned into 400, he realized that there was a crawfish demand in a town of about 5000 people. “You got about 15 minutes each way to get crawfish,” he explains, so he found a “little spot” to rent, put up a banner, and set up shop. “But, I didn’t know the first thing about opening up a business or much less a restaurant,” admits Parrish. Regardless, he had a packed house. At one point, he remembers having about 100 people in line who were on the verge of getting testy because on opening night they hadn’t hired enough workers to cater to that magnitude. “We were kind of winging it,” he admits, but some quick thinking tempered the tension. “I knew that if I could put a drink in everybody’s hands that they wouldn’t be quite so mad.” He took the six bottles of liquor he had in stock, mixed them all together, and made his own version of a New Orleans Hurricane cocktail, which consequently was turned into a tradition. “We would do about 12 gallons a weekend of Hurricanes at that little place.” “I was very transparent with my struggles,” says Parrish about his experience in Mineola, Texas. “They saw me out there building picnic tables with my hands.” The people came together for him, reminding him about the importance of community. “I’ll never be a part of a restaurant that doesn’t have community built into it,” he says,

fondly recalling an unexpected kindness. One time, he had a cashbox of about $400 that was stolen. He posted the event online hoping to receive information and that resulted in some neighborhood kids building a lemonade stand in front of his restaurant, later giving the proceeds to Parrish. “That’s the same kind of place that I want to build [in Monroe],” he says. About a year ago, he returned to his old Ouachita Parish stomping ground, to “slow down for a little while.” Still wanting to work in the restaurant business, he took his talents to Buffalo Wild Wings as their general manager, but very quickly realized it wasn’t the place for him. “I’m either going to be an entrepreneur and have my own restaurant or not be involved in restaurants.” He wasn’t sure what else to do until a building popped up that a friend thought he might be interested in. The minute he saw the patio, he knew he was back in business. Initially, he was drawn to the wood framing and the 12-foot 132 SEPTEMBER 2021 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

window that connects to the bar, allowing patrons to order drinks while still outside. “It also opens up the whole restaurant.” Also, he loves that if he ever wanted to adjoin additional patio space, it could easily wrap around the restaurant. “The menu is simple,” Parrish reveals. “You can’t do thirty things really well, right? You can do eight things really well. You can do thirty things just pretty good.” Pleased with his eight menu items, Parrish attests that the one thing you should “absolutely get” is the Debris Po-Boy. “This is a must-have at Clawdaddy’s,” reads the menu: sliced roast beef and ham, topped with debris (shredded roast beef simmered in the drippings), and dressed in mayo, light Cajun mustard, cabbage “for crunch,” tomatoes, and pickles. The one other Louisiana sandwich listed on the menu is the Oyster Po-Boy which features their cornmeal battered and fried oysters “piled high” and dressed in mayo, Remoulade, cabbage (“Please don’t hold the cabbage; that’s what makes it!”),

FOOD Eight menu items from raw oysters to po-boys, and a specialty cocktail list. Kid’s menu available.

PRICE Affordable family dining. Fryer entrées starting at $12.95 and weekly specials.

DEBRIS PO-BOY Sliced roast beef and sliced ham topped with debris (shredded roast beef simmered in the drippings). Dressed with mayo, light Cajun mustard, cabbage, tomato and pickles.

for you,” he recalls, adding that one of his favorite oyster establishments, Drago’s Seafood Restaurant, has an 18-foot grill. “I’m sitting there, watching the guys shuck ‘em from scratch, and then put them on the grill, flame them, and I’m thinking, ‘This is the kind of place that would work for Monroe.’” n oyster grill is a pricey item, even for an established restaurant, but Parrish was confident in the “crave volume” his grilled oysters would produce. While he waited for the grill to arrive, which took about two months, he added raw oysters to the menu but was a bit skeptical of their pull. “I didn’t think anybody was even gonna come or not.” Initially, he wanted to get 15 cases, which is about 1500 oysters, but a friend talked him down into purchasing 10 cases, considering that not many people were going to rush in for raw oysters. “We sold [all] ten on opening night,” laughs Parrish. His father ended up having to drive to the coast at two in the morning to purchase 30 more cases, which sold out that Saturday afternoon. “Our salespeople were like, ‘We’ve never seen anything like that before,’” he recalls, clearly mythbusting the low demand of raw oysters in the area. When 10 cases grew to 60 (about 6000 oysters), the restaurant team had to learn the art of quick shucking. Recently, the restaurant celebrated shucking their

tomatoes, and pickles. This classic creole seafood dive also serves a selection of “From the Fryer” items like fish (“Crispiest in town!”), shrimp, oysters, and chicken strips. Of course, come February to midMay, it’s prime time for fresh, live crawfish, which is when the restaurant’s appellation comes into play. While the eatery uses a standard seasoning mix, Parrish adds his personal combination of cayenne and garlic, a “winner” pairing that customers have been loving. Be sure to add sausage or mushrooms to the three pounds you’ll be getting with one piece of corn and two potatoes. Other items on the “From the Boiler” section include shrimp and snow crab, which is served with drawn butter, one piece of corn, and two potatoes. It goes without saying that anytime crawfish are on a menu, they are the 134 SEPTEMBER 2021 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

craveable item, but when they’re not in season, there has to be another menu item that steps up to the plate. That menu item at Clawdaddy’s is Gulf oysters. Receiving about four shipments a week, the restaurant prides itself in having the “coldest and cleanest oysters,” claiming that you can taste the “freshness.” Parrish’s dedication to the saltwater delicacies arises from his personal experiences going to oyster bars. “There’s a certain feeling, a certain atmosphere,” says Parrish about restaurants that specialize in char-grilled oysters. Specifically, he refers to the visible oyster grill that usually is placed “right in the middle of the restaurant,” so that when you order your dozen oysters, you see them go into a 3 to 4-foot flame. “You see a guy taking off, plating them up for you, and the waitress bringing them up

CLAWDADDY’S HURRICANE Born from a previous restaurant experience, Parrish’s special cocktail creation is a favorite at the restaurant. This New Orleansinspired drink is a must-have while visiting Clawdaddy’s.

80,000th oyster in only their tenth week in business. So, whether you like them raw, right out of the shell, like Parrish, or grilled to perfection, an order of oysters from Clawdaddy’s is sure to hook you into coming back for more. Though a relatively new business, Parrish has already established an atmosphere of community, one which has ties to his own childhood. “When I was a kid playing baseball, we’d always go eat afterward. We didn’t want to sit with [just] our families,” he laughs. Remembering the feeling of wanting to eat at a separate table with friends, Parrish created a room with a long table that seats about 28 people. “We call it the dugout.” The walls are decorated with jerseys from each of the local high schools, further cementing the importance of reveling in local unity. As part of what can be considered the crawfish belt of the United States, Northeast Louisiana always has a distinct culinary advantage, and now, thanks to dedicated restaurant owners like Parrish, our area is getting more than just good southern eating. We’re getting care, community, and crazy good seafood! Clawdaddy’s Crawfish And Oyster Bar is located 7601 Hwy 165 N, Suite 101, Monroe, LA 71203 and is open Monday, Thursday, and Friday between 4 to 9 PM and Saturday and Sunday between 11 AM to 9 PM. Follow them on Facebook to learn more about weekly specials. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2021 135

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A R T D I R EC T I O N BY TAY LO R B EN N E T T

Mother Knows Looking for fall inspiration? Mother/daughter duo Sara Brewer and Lindsay Jones show us fashionable finds from area boutiques. From color-block dresses to floral suits, these looks rock through the ages.

HAIR & MAKEUP BY MEKA BENNETT | SPECIAL THANKS THE GORDONS

HERRINGSTONES Sara wears a colorblock dress with a Lack of Color hat, block heel bootie and gold chain bracelet. Lindsay is wearing a super cute dress billowing tentsilhouette style with a chic design and allover gold dot print. Pair it with these beige sock booties and gold butterfly bow earrings.

XTND BOUTIQUE This comfy three-piece set is as cozy chic as it gets. For cooler weather, snuggle up in this oatmeal cardi or wear it with the crop top and lounge pant for bedtime..

ELEVEN 26 BOUTIQUE Looking for a fall outfit that can go from work to play? This tie neck blouse features a subtle snakeprint and is paired with skinny black jeans and these rich faux leather booties with a pointed toe and low-cut vamp. Finish the outfit with an off-white boater hat.

SOUTHERN GLAM BOUTIQUE These animal print palazzo pants are definition of style meets comfort. Pair it with a v-neck longsleeve crop top with gathered waist and cuffs. Accessorize with simple chic large gold hoop earrings.

HEMLINE MONROE Lindsay is wearing a crisp linen blazer with a tropical floral motif complete with a bright mix of colors, and matching shorts. Complete the look with a mid-ankle bootie with a hint of western meets contemporary. Sara is wearing a satin cowl-neck cami in chartreuse paired with a white bell-sleeve blazer. For a more casual look, pair with skinny jeans, silk scarf and suede sock ankle boots.

CFCF Seeks Master’s Level Helpers and Healers The CFCF Offers Innovative Treatment Programs for Fractured Family Relationships

HE CENTER FOR CHILDREN AND FAMILIES IS SEEKING family therapists in our Northeast Louisiana location. The positions are available in several of our evidenced-based programs including Functional Family Therapy (FFT,) Functional Family Therapy - Child Welfare (FFT-CW,) and Multisystemic Therapy (MST.) Each of these programs provide evidenced-based counseling services for youth and their families. Our mission is to promote safe, healthy environments for children and families through advocacy, counseling, education, and prevention. The Center for Children and Families has developed and implemented innovative treatment programs that specifically target fractured family relationships. Our agency is highly respected throughout the community for our excellent standard of service to both providers and clients. At the Center, we are guided by the principles of servant leadership, where the driving force of our actions is not status or power, but serving others as we pursue a common mission. Therapeutic Services has a reputation for terrific outcomes, not just because of the people that choose to work with us, but also because of the support we receive from the community. When a family feels like giving up, we seek to provide them with the tools and encouragement they need to keep going. When a positive outcome feels impossible, we are able to find a way. We meet families where they are, reminding them that they are not alone. Likewise, when discouragement comes knocking at the door, we remind ourselves of the countless families who are now thriving because our staff and clinicians

have invested in them. When you join The Center for Children and Families, you belong to something bigger. You are a part of a family. At the Center, we believe that personal growth is just as valuable as the job that we have been hired to do. Through our Huddle series, we explore how we relate to each other and those around us. By developing community through shared meals or taking time out to play, we find that being a part of this agency is more like being a part of a family. Our Core Values of Community, Respect, Integrity, Service, Teamwork, Empowerment, and Excellence are the guiding principles of our organization. We believe that these values are the very foundation for our philosophy, culture, and practices. Candidates for these positions must hold a Master’s degree in Counseling, Marriage & Family Therapy, or Psychology. Preference is given to candidates who are fully licensed as an LPC or LMFT or provisionally licensed as a PLPC or PLMFT in Louisiana. These are fulltime independent contractor positions. The agency is a National Health Services Corp Approved site, with a federal student loan repayment program available for potentially qualified licensed practitioners. We are looking for individuals with a passion to serve children and families in our communities. Someone who doesn’t want to do this life-changing work alone. If you’re a qualified applicant who wants to be the hope for families in Northeast Louisiana, learn how to submit your resume at www.standforhope.org/apply.

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Fishing With Kenny THE ELEMENT OF LUCK article by KE NNY COVI NGTON

’m sure you have heard the saying, “I would rather be lucky than good.” No matter if you are talking ping-pong, horseshoes or bass fishing, a lot of people not only believe in “luck” but they depend on it for their successes and blame a lack of it on their failures. I am not one of those people. I have always believed that fishing, like any other sport, can be studied, learned and executed at a high level. You can learn techniques, casting abilities, how to read the water, deal with weather and attempt to master the mental aspect of a sport that is equivalent to trying to hit a major league fastball. There are too many variables, controlled and uncontrolled, that come into play when measuring success on the water and luck is usually at the bottom of the list. Luck is a two-headed monster. The people I know who have bad luck usually have this happen to them consistently. I also find it interesting the anglers who live by the “good luck factor” are productive anglers. This is not a coincidence and it happens for a reason. Good luck is usually a product of preparation and bad luck, a lack thereof. Early on, I took pride in my preparation 144 SEPTEMBER 2021 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

for a tournament or a day on the water. I would change line, sharpen hooks, or whatever else I had to do to make sure I put the odds of doing well in my favor. My father thought I would go overboard sometimes with my attention to detail but over time I found him asking me why I did this or why did I do that more than he would ridicule me for doing it. When I would study my angling heroes such as Rick Clunn, Larry Nixon and Gary Klein, they always seemed like they were a step ahead of their competition due to their attention to detail. It was Clunn who intrigued me the most because he was the first angler I ever heard put the element of luck at the bottom of the list when it came to being a successful angler. Clunn said, “If you are ever going to get into bass fishing seriously you have to forget one thing, and that is luck which has very little, if anything to do with it.” His words have stayed with me ever since. Now, let’s look at some aspects of fishing that often go overlooked by all anglers, beginners and tournament fishermen alike. I have always believed the more prepared I am, the better my chances at being successful. I am not saying my way of doing things is

what works best, I am simply saying this is what works for me. Here are a few things I believe will help you create more good luck while on the water: Match your technique to the rod/reel you are using. Just like a golfer who has a complete set of clubs, it is important that an angler has enough rod/reel combinations to effectively fish a variety of techniques. After fishing a tournament, while standing around the weigh-in, I often hear the stories of lost fish or the lunker that got away. Many times these fish are lost due to fisherman error. The following is an example of what I am talking about: “The fish exploded on the topwater lure right at the end of a long cast. The hooks were the ones that were put on by the factory, and the line was 12 lb. monofilament. I got him half way to the boat and he just comes off.” There are three things in this scenario that can be fixed. First, if you are throwing a topwater lure long distances, using a longer rod with braided line, due to its lack of stretch, is an important detail. Also, unless you hand sharpened the factory hooks, often times they aren’t going to penetrate no matter what type of equipment you are

using. Bad luck? Some would say so. To me, the Game and 90% of my fishing would be covered. bad luck was created due to not paying attention I use 50 lb. braided line on my frogs, to detail. buzzbaits, and larger moving topwaters such Make sure your choice of hook matches as a Spook or a Whopper Plopper. In all of the your technique. When I purchase a topwater instances I just spoke of, it is very important to lure or a crankbait the first thing I look at are match the rod you are using with the line style the hooks. Some I will sharpen on my own, and technique. most I will change out. I also look to see if it is Does color really matter? Someone once possible to put a bigger hook on the lure without said the best lure you have in your tackle box can changing the action of it. This simple change be found sitting between your ears. Confidence is -Legendary Angler can make all the difference in the world in your that all important variable that plays a significant hook-up to catch ratio. role in an angler’s success. Your choice of lures, Burma Thomas When changing out hooks, one lure that colors, areas to fish and decisions you make on comes to mind and that is the popular Whopper the water, based on self created confidence will Plopper. The larger versions have a #2 treble make you a better angler. There are no magic hooks and they are about as sharp as a factory installed treble hook colors, lures or secret spots. With confidence you will be able to find can be. However, through trial and error, I have upgraded my hooks each of your own. to a 1/0 treble. The bait still runs fine and the bigger hooks have Figure out and then understand why you weren’t successful. allowed me to have more success landing larger bass the lure is I have never fished a tournament or spent a day on the water when known for attracting. someone didn’t catch fish. Someone always catches them. On the Line type and size can mean all the difference in the world. days when I am not successful, I take an honest assessment of what Personally, I do not use fluorocarbon line. I know a lot of people I did even though what I did obviously didn’t work. Did I fish too use it and that’s fine but I have heard more horror stories about fast? Did I choose the wrong area of the lake? There will be a lot line breakage due to the use of fluorocarbon than I have any other of questions and there are no easy answers but with practice and line style. It’s going to break your heart, especially if you fish preparation the least of your factors in your fishing decisions will be competitively. luck. I use P-line CXX, Berkley Big Game monofilaments and various Well it looks like we have run out of space and time again for braided lines. The monofilaments are used when flipping/pitching another month. I sure hope we were able to share some information or any other soft plastic techniques. I also use it on some of my with you that will make your next fishing trip a bit better. One last topwaters such as a Pop-R, for spinnerbaits and crankbaits. If I could thing to keep in mind, in fishing there are no absolutes. Experiment only choose one size line it would be 15 lb. in both P-line CXX and Big and never ever stop learning! Catch one for me! See you next month

“Bass fishing is 95% skill and 5% luck. The skill is getting the fish to bite, the luck is putting them in the boat.”

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NIGHTSTANDS & COFFEE TABLES “Bastard Out of Carolina” by Dorothy Allison REVIEW BY MEREDITH MCKINNIE

“I made my life, the same way it looks like you’re gonna make yours—out of pride and stubbornness and too much anger. You better think hard, Ruth Anne, about what you want and who you’re mad at. You better think hard.” The Boatwrights are a poverty-stricken, yet proud family in rural South Carolina, lost in the cycle of violence, hunger, and constant relocation. Ruth Anne, who the family calls Bone, is smart, intuitive, and rebellious, fiercely ashamed of how she is perceived as trash, yet determined to perpetuate the stereotypes of those society looks down upon. Bone lives with her mother and half-sister, but meanders between the houses of aunts, cousins, and extended family. The women in the novel bear children while still children themselves, never being allowed the time or space to get to know themselves. The men relish in their guns and their affairs, considering a teenage arrest a right of passage, and resist morality as a sign of weakness. They believe in family, but not enough to avoid torturing each other.

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This heartbreaking semi-autobiographical novel by Dorothy Allison is a difficult read, but also dripping with southern twang and familiarity. You don’t have to grow up poor to recognize this coming-of-age story buried in unimaginable hardships. I read this story through gritted teeth, alternating between fits of laughter. Allison writes pain as melody, not shying away from the cruelty, but almost identifying pain as a matter-of-fact growing up in this family. Bone is caught in this tugof-war between fighting for her family and hating them for what she knows they are. She dreams of escape, any means of becoming someone, anything else, far away from the only horrible world she knows. She struggles with friendships, authority, and a stepfather who won’t forgive for not being his own blood.

Bone loves cautiously and punishes earnestly, a teenage warrior of sorts righting the wrongs in her world, one mistake at a time. As readers, we root for Bone, both to get out of this cycle and still to find the love in it that she so desires and deserves. I became interested in Dorothy Allison after watching an interview about her writings, all centered on rural, poor families, the only world the author knew growing up. She speaks and writes frankly about lives of struggle, dripping with language so saturated that the words have their own voices. I paused often reading passages over again, marveling at the combination of phrases and depictions of the environment that brought the narrative alive. Written in the early 90s, Bastard Out of Carolina reminds us that the astonishing to us, is the reality for far too many.

First Annual Angel’s Gala

Caring Cradles were Donated to Local Hospitals BY KIRSTIE MARTIN

N JUNE 26, 2021, THE FIRST Annual Angel’s Gala was held at the HUB music hall in downtown Monroe. The gala was hosted by I Will Carry You: birth and bereavement doula services and the Zoey Renee Project. The purpose of the Angel’s Gala was to raise awareness for pregnancy and infant loss and improve bereavement care in Northeast Louisiana. Both of the organizations began after their founders experienced the heartbreak of the loss of a child. Founders, Kila Gonzalez with I Will Carry You and Maranda Salter with Zoey Renee Project, each using their loss to provide assistance and support for other local families experiencing similar pain. The primary goal of this year’s gala was to raise funds to provide the area with multiple caring cradles. Louisiana currently ranks in the top 5 states for pregnancy/infant loss; the organizations hope that these cradles will enrich our local hospitals as well as our community. A Caring Cradle is a device that cools a baby’s body and offers a more

dignified, comfortable way for parents and families to spend time with a baby who has passed away. By cooling the precious body of a baby, the natural changes that occur in death are slowed, therefore allowing families to take their time making memories, bonding, taking photos, etc. The efforts of the two organizations yielded cradles that have since been donated and dedicated to local hospitals. Caring cradles were donated to Morehouse General Hospital, St. Francis Medical Center, Ochsner LSU Shreveport-Monroe Medical Center, and Glenwood Regional Medical Center in hopes of providing comfort to parents and families experiencing the unimaginable. In addition to the donation of the carrying cradles, the organizations also donated bereavement gowns to each of the hospitals in which the cradles were placed, to provide an additional means of comfort to families affected by loss.

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YUCATAN LAKE ARTICLE BY DAN CHASON

hen you cross the levee just north of Newellton, Louisiana it is as if you have left modern times and gone back to days of long ago. There are few signs to direct you and getting misdirected is not uncommon. Where the asphalt meets dirt and then gravel and rock leads you down a long road to the legendary place called Yucatan Lake. I was first introduced to Yucatan about 15 years ago by a friend and regularly return there in hopes of “catching it right.” You see, the Yucatan is a river lake off of the Mississippi River that straddles the state lines of Mississippi and Louisiana. The shape of it is deceiving as both ends show the same backdrop. The Grand Gulf nuclear plant stack is in clear view on both ends as the lake nearly makes a circle. Here you will find deep water, tons of structure and when the Mighty Mississippi is falling, some of the

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best fishing you can find anywhere. The lake is full of crappie, largemouth bass, white bass and trophy catfish. Yucatan is famous for the “knee bream”...those so big you cannot put your hand around them so you put them between your knees to unhook them. Not to ignore the millions of gar that call this place home as well but this lake is not the place for water sports. Notwithstanding the huge population of alligators, for years there are abandoned web nets, trot lines and set hooks that the river took and gave back when the water receded. To fish Yucatan is a whole different experience, especially for anglers who are used to reservoirs or lakes not affected by a drastic daily change in water. Yucatan anglers watch the river levels quite closely. The two ways to know when to go is to make a phone call to the landing there or follow Yucatan Landing on Facebook. When you see the parking lot full, the river is

right. The most accurate predictor of when to plan a trip is to log in to the Corp of Engineer website which shows a very accurate level and future levels. I always check this site before going and look for a couple of things depending on the time of year. My favorite level is when the river is at 26 feet and falling slowly. This pulls the fish to the outside of the tree line and makes fishing for crappie and bass easier. Another hot spot is the many points where the falling water and current attract bait which attracts game fish. My best months there are May for the bream, June through August for crappie and bass and year round for white bass. If you have never fished for white bass, you are missing the boat. And this lake is loaded with them. There are a couple of lures that are on top of my list to catch both sand and largemouth bass at Yucatan. First, is the spatter backed Bandit crank bait. I also like

a Little George or Wing Ding which mimics the bait fish the bass are eating. It is not uncommon to catch limits of sand bass when they bunch up. Some folks will tell you they aren’t good to eat but the smart angler knows a simple extra trimming of the red line and you have some outstanding filets. I have never fished Yucatan in the fall or winter. The main reason I haven’t is that at that time of year I am chasing white tails and ducks. I am told the fall is extremely good but again, it depends on the river levels. You cannot talk about Yucatan Lake without saying the name Lachney. James Lachney had the Yucatan Landing for years and recently sold it to his nephew, Gene. Gene is a full time soldier and with the help of his dad, perry and mom, Juanita, they run that campground and landing like a well-oiled machine. Perry may be the machine, but rest assured Ms. Juanita is the oil. Juanita Lachney retired from teaching school and has been a part of the Yucatan community for years. She and Perry talk about their deep roots there as they relate how they spent their honeymoon on the property over 57 years ago. Ms. Juanita will remind you of your favorite aunt and always greets everyone by name and with a welcoming smile. The Lachney’s are always helpful to their guests in any way you can imagine. I’ve seen them give up their own groceries and condiments to guests who left something at home and refuse to allow them to pay for it. They keep the shiner well full and the cricket box is always loaded. You can get

fresh ice and always a good story and these stories are ones you will long remember. Probably one of my favorites is the first time I met Mr. Perry and he introduced me to Hank, his yellow mouth cur. Mr. Perry told me that Hank was his “tiger dog.” After seeing my perplexed look, he asked me “Dan, do you see any tigers around? Well, old Hank is doing a good job.” The Landing has a fully functional campground and even rents trailers on a nightly basis. The roots of the family run deep as often you will see children, grandchildren, nieces, nephews and adopted “family members” pitching in to make the place run. Recently they have started converting their power underground to prevent high water issues with power lines. Water, sewage and graveled pads make the camping experience one to remember as this little know get away can compete with the best that other lakes have to offer. To find Yucatan, I recommend traveling Highway 65 down past Somerset and turn left on Highway 603. Turn left at the Y intersection and right on the first main road to the right which leads over the levee. Call ahead and pick the right day and you won’t regret it. The great thing about the Lachneys is at some lakes the owners will tell you what you want to hear about the fishing to increase business. Ms. Juanita tells it like it is and fishermen respect the honesty. So if you are looking to step back in time, try the Yucatan. Just leave your tiger at the levee out of respect to Hank.

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Blend of the Bayou Returns with the Fall Edition

HE BLEND OF THE BAYOU IS BACK! THE ARTS COUNCIL of Northeast Louisiana presents the 24th annual Blend of the Bayou – Fall Edition from 5-7pm September 26, 2021, at 2110 Island Drive, Monroe. The block party over the bayou will feature local men who cook in addition to area artists. Ticket proceeds benefit the Arts Council of Northeast Louisiana and its programs and services. This year’s event will feature a wide array of delicious food prepared and served by prominent area professionals and businessmen who generously volunteer their time and talents in support of the Arts Council. Blend of the Bayou debuted in 1997 and is the granddaddy of arts fundraising events of its type in north Louisiana. Several of the original 16 volunteer cooks that first year are still part of the now over 25 men who cook and they aren’t ready to lay their utensils down just yet. Over the years several younger men have joined the ranks and are carrying on the tradition. Providing attendees an opportunity to view and bid on original artwork are some of our leading area visual artists. The Bayou Gallery silent auction is hugely popular with attendees and affords them the chance to bid and win unique original artwork to take home that evening. Continuing the tradition, beverages of your choice will be available including soft drinks and water to complement the great food that will be served. Good food, drinks, music, friends, and art…what more could you ask for? All coming together at Blend of the Bayou. Confirmed sponsors at press time include, Origin Bank, Progressive Bank, BayouLife Magazine, Marsala Beverage, O’Nealgas, Bare Necessities, Stephens Media, Monroe Coca-Cola Bottling Co., UNITED, and Southern Glazers. Due to the ongoing COVID situation, attendees are asked to take appropriate precautions. BLEND OF THE BAYOU – FALL EDITION FACTS DATE: Sunday, September 26, 2021 LOCATION: 2110 Island Drive, Monroe TIME: 5:00-7:00PM TICKETS: • $ 55 per person, $100 per couple. Purchase tickets at https://nelaarts.org/ • Children under 10, Free • Must have picture ID, wristbands issued to consume alcoholic beverages • Tickets Non-Refundable

RESERVED TABLES FOR 8: $500 (limited number available) (perfect for entertaining friends or special business clients) SPONSORSHIPS AVAILABLE: Call for more information DRESS: It’s outdoors in September. Come comfortable. Block party casual. SILENT AUCTION: All artists donate a portion of the proceeds from their works to the Arts Council. The higher the bid, the more the artist makes and the more the Arts Council can put toward their programs and services WHY ATTEND AND SUPPORT BLEND OF THE BAYOU? Support of arts organizations fundraising events by the public is critical to sustaining those organizations’ efforts. 150 SEPTEMBER 2021 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

Julie Vandenberg Receives Prestigious Scholarship LA Tech Student Awarded by the Public Company Accounting Oversight Board

ULIE VANDENBERG HAS BEEN AWARDED A $10,000 scholarship by the Public Company Accounting Oversight Board (PCAOB) intended to encourage outstanding accounting students to pursue careers in audit. An accounting major in Louisiana Tech University’s College of Business, Vandenberg was one of only 253 students selected to receive the scholarship Since 2011, the PCAOB has given this merit-based award to select students who exhibit excellence in an accounting degree program and have been nominated by a professor. “I am honored to receive this scholarship, and grateful to Dr. David Herda for giving me the opportunity to receive it,” said Vandenberg. “I will use this opportunity to learn as much as I can and turn this knowledge into a good career.” Vandenberg plans to pursue a Master of Accountancy (MAcc) at Louisiana Tech following her undergraduate graduation. In addition to completing a liquids asset accounting internship with Enterprise Products Partners this summer, Vandenberg has been selected to intern with EY starting in January. “The College of Business has prepared me for my next steps by providing opportunities to interview with the Big Four as well as guiding me in the right direction with many career events,” she said.

“My professors have given me the tools needed to study for the CPA exam and to succeed in the business world.” The PCAOB is a nonprofit corporation established by Congress to oversee the audits of public companies to protect investors and further the public interest in the preparation of informative, accurate, and independent audit reports. The PCAOB also oversees the audits of brokers and dealers, including compliance reports filed pursuant to federal securities laws. “Julie is an outstanding representative of the School of Accountancy and our College,” said Dr. Chris Martin, Dean of the College of Business. “We’re grateful to the PCAOB for providing this support for students looking to pursue accounting or auditing careers. Our School of Accountancy consistently produces students and graduates who excel in the profession. I have no doubt Julie will continue that tradition of excellence.” For more information about the PCAOB scholarship, visit pcaobus.org.

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atie Jessica Edwards, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Joey Edwards Jr. of West Monroe and Kade Allen Brandon, son of Mr. and Mrs. Tim Brandon of West Monroe exchanged marriage vows on Saturday, July 3rd, 2021, at White Oak in Ruston, LA. Katie along with her bridesmaids spent the morning in White Oaks bridal room in Ruston with the amazingly talented makeup artist Meka Bennett Reliford, who styled the brides hair in a softly sophisticated side bun with softs side bangs along the face. Angela Groce Shoemaker with Unveiled Radiance Photography was there to capture the perfect shot and every moment in-between and Andy Chason with Unplugged Creative videography spent the entire day gathering the sweetest of moments to the grand highlights of the night. Attending the bride, were her sisters, Kayla Murry, matron of honor and Karoline Edwards, maid of honor. Bridesmaids were Olivia Adams, Kiley Brandon, Molly Edwards, Bella Mayo, Kaylea Mayo, and Summer Otwell. Kaleigh Cain served as a junior bridesmaid. Bridesmaids wore champagne satin floor length dresses. Bridesmaids carried Dijon and white Ohara garden roses along with white Limonium gathered in an ivory modern satin wrap. Mattie Jane Davis and Eliana Scanlan served as flower girls. The flower girl dresses complimented the brides dress with a decolletage laced overlay sweetheart neckline. The back was accented with a laced corset style ribbon, and a princess sweep 152 SEPTEMBER 2021 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

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train adorned with embroidered lace at the hem. They carried a laced overlay satin basket filled with various color rose petals. Escorted by her father, the bride wore an Essence of Australia ivory wedding dress, her something new. The intricacy of the dress boasted artfully placed scrolling patterns of graphic lace inlaid delicately on English netting over the satin fitted silhouette appliqued with hand beaded and embroidered lace cascading to the slim trumpet flared hem. A decolletage neckline with sheer beaded lace, a keyhole opening in back, and a linear design lace accenting the trumpet shape added to the dresses interest. Organic lace straps lay lightly over the shoulders. Floating straps at the back clasp shown either side with a sheer netting. The sides featured delicate cut outs with a lace overlay. The chapel length train was teardrop shaped, lace embellished, and with elongated lace detail. The cathedral length veil of illusion added a scalloped lace embossed edging framing the train. The bride’s veil was accented at the crown by an antique clustered pearl hair comb worn by the bride’s maternal grandmother, her something old. The bride wore her mother’s wedding garter accented with blue ribbon, her something blue. A classically pronounced pair of teardrop earrings from the bride’s sister were her something borrowed. Katie carried a modern styled ivory satin wrapped bouquet consisting of white Ohara garden roses, blush and Dijon roses, zinnias, and phalaenopsis orchids accented with pampas grass.

Kohl Brandon, brother to the groom, served as best man. Danny Duke, Allen Fontenot, Jordan McNeely, Jordan Miller, Logan Murry, Jake Norris, and Dylan Snowden served as groomsmen. Minor Davis served as sign bearer. Carson Allen served as ring bearer. Thomas Allen, Cameron Cain, Carter Cash, Cooper Cash, and Cory Edwards served as ushers. The groom and his attendants wore Calvin Klein Charcoal gray suits with zinnias and lisianthus boutonnieres filled with white Limonium foliage. Rev. Tom Lowe officiated as an arched display of Ohara garden roses, lush greens, palms and phalaenopsis orchids framed the minister and couple. The center aisle was lined with whimsical zinnias and gomphrena accented with sweetheart roses, palm fronds and pampas grass. The amazingly talented Meghan Awalt Wedding Florist created dreamy florals and awe-inspiring arrangements. The processional and bridal entrance was accompanied by instrumental music from the pianist and violinist. Special moments during the ceremony included a family prayer and unity candle lighting as “With You” played. The recessional of the wedding party exited as “September” played. Upon entering the reception area, pictures of weddings past with loved ones near to the couple’s heart surrounded two “In Memory of” floral arrangements in honor of the bride’s maternal grandmother, Ann Langley, and the bride’s paternal grandfather, Joey Edwards Sr., as well as the groom’s maternal grandmother, Frankie Rodes, and the groom’s maternal grandfather, Monty Rodes. Varying heights of peach and white Ohara, white ranunculus, lisianthus, and dripping white phalaenopsis orchids and garden roses displayed on gold modern squared pedestals centered the tables atop crinkled ivory tablecloths circled by gold chevalier chairs. Ivory organza tie backs provided a subtle highlight for high tables. Bayou Landing catered a variety of Louisiana inspired dishes including a three-tiered shrimp fountain accented with wedding florals and a tiered lemonade fountain surrounded by fruits and wedding florals as well. Social Bites Bakery designed the sevenlayer bohemian inspired wedding cake accented by 24 karat gold leaf and buttercream leaf stencil creating a delicate embroidered pattern across the cake. Blush and coral shades of florals cascaded down in a waterfall display. The cake consisted of alternating layers of almond cake paired with almond buttercream filling, lemon blueberry paired with lemon cream cheese filling, and carrot cake paired with cream cheese filling. A gold embossed squared pedestal stand displayed the cake as florals puddled at the base. The groom’s cake was a tone on tone scrolled design two-tiered red velvet cake with cream cheese and chocolate cupcakes paired with buttercream nestled in a hunting motif display.

Adrienne Steele with Sage Events was there to make sure the evening went beautifully and it absolutely did! The Fabulous Equinox Orchestra provided entertainment as guests danced the night away. Bash Booth served as a fun take home memory photo op for guests. Sweetport Ice Cream cart was on site as a sweet treat for guests as well. Upon exit, Pyromania Fireworks lit up the night sky with an awe-inspiring display of fireworks which served as a perfect back drop for the couples exit, as did the sparkler lined pathway leading to an Olde English White Rolls Royce awaiting them. The couple honeymooned in Jamaica and will make their home in West Monroe. The bride is a graduate of Louisiana Tech University and is currently pursuing her master’s in counseling through Regent University. The groom is a graduate of Louisiana Tech University. He is employed by TBA. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2021 153

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TREASURE HUNTER

It’s not uncommon to find Jackie Murphy scouring the displays at estate sales and perusing antique and thrift store aisles in search of timeless pieces that catch her eye. Just like all secondhand shoppers, Murphy is searching for treasure, but unlike the other faces she meets at the local Goodwill or neighborhood garage sale, she’s not just picking up pieces to add to her personal collection, though she does have a special relationship with fashion herself. ARTICLE BY STARLA GATSON PHOTOGRAPHY BY KELLY MOORE CLARK

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not uncommon to find Jackie Murphy scouring the displays at estate sales and perusing antique and thrift store aisles in search of timeless pieces that catch her eye. “I’m very much drawn to pieces that I associate with Americana,” she explains. “They’re really classic pieces that never go out of style, which means you’re paying for it now, and you’ll be able to wear it forever. Denim, high-quality t-shirts that aren’t going to dissipate in two years, military fatigues — these pieces are just touchpoints of our culture, really, at this point.” Just like all secondhand shoppers, Murphy is searching for treasure, but unlike the other faces she meets at the local Goodwill or neighborhood garage sale, she’s not just picking up pieces to add to her personal collection, though she does have a special relationship with fashion herself. “I have never been embarrassed to stand out,” she says of the role clothing and style play in her life. “I’ve always used clothing, I think, as an outlet. I’m not very outspoken. I’m not extroverted, so when I come into a room, I’m not as likely to be the loudest or to verbally be making friends, so maybe what I wear is my way of doing that. It’s my way of stepping into a room and being seen and heard.” Despite this personal approach to clothing, most of her secondhand shopping is done for business purposes, as the brand strategist, web designer, and photographer has added one more thing to her resume: curator of vintage and secondhand clothing and goods. It may seem like an unusual endeavor, especially for one who has already established themselves in a completely different industry, but for Murphy, it just makes sense, as she has loved all things vintage for as long as she can remember. And with that love of yesteryear’s goods came a dream of one day owning a shop dedicated to selling vintage and secondhand gear. Rather than chasing that dream right away, however, Murphy sent it to the back burner, hoping to return to it when the time was right. “I am what people call multi-passionate, and I think most creatives are,” she explains. “We get something in our heads, and you have to sit on it because what you get in your head goes away. But for me, that’s how I know I should move on it — if I think about it, and I sit on it, and it stays. This has stayed for years.” And move on it she has. In July 2020, Murphy launched Vintage General, an Instagram-based vintage and secondhand store on which she sells her unique finds to her followers. She began, of course, by sourcing pieces a wide range of people would be impressed with and interested in purchasing. Then, she posted photos of them on her account, and from there, the sales started rolling in. Later, the vintage-lover would take Vintage General’s sales away from the screen by bringing her items to farmers’ markets, local festivals, and pop-up shops, too. Though Murphy runs one of the only one of its kind in the Monroe-West Monroe area, the concept of using Instagram to conduct business with avid secondhand and vintage shoppers isn’t a new one. There are plenty of other Instagrammers buying and selling vintage gear on their accounts, just as Murphy does. It’s a trend that’s continuing to grow in popularity, and Murphy fully understands the appeal. 156 SEPTEMBER 2021 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

“It’s sustainable fashion, and more and more of us are trying to steer away from damaging our Earth,” she says of accounts that specialize in selling used clothing, accessories, and home goods. “When you shop vintage clothing and secondhand clothing, it is a way of reusing old resources and not creating more damage. I think that’s a big part of it.” Another reason these businesses are gaining traction, according to Murphy, is a bit lighter and is a tale as old as time: “What’s old is new. It’s all cyclical. Every generation wants to look back and pick what they think was the best about their parents’ generation and make it theirs.” No matter the reason one has for choosing secondhand style, there’s a chance they’ll find it at Vintage General, and so far, many members of the community have responded well to Murphy’s business. The supportive responses she has received have made her passion project, which began purely for the enjoyment of it, an even more gratifying experience. “I was finding so much joy in doing this thing, and the community was interested in it on top of it and saying, ‘I’ve been wanting something like this for years. We need this in our city.’ The joy mixed with the feedback is what pushed me to say, ‘You know what, you always wanted a vintage store. You’re only getting older every year. Why don’t you just do it?’” Murphy’s vintage store dreams don’t end with Vintage General. In fact, her Instagram sales were just the first step. Now, she’s on to the next one: a rebrand and a storefront. As of August 2021, Vintage General operates under a new name and Murphy has plans to sell the types of items she typically posts on her account from a physical location, hopefully in downtown Monroe. Add a few items crafted by local artisans — “movers, doers, and shakers,” as Murphy affectionately calls them — to the mix, and you’ve got Mercantile Monroe, the next phase of the vintage lover’s retail endeavors. Including the work of local artists and makers in her shop makes perfect sense to Murphy, as vintage goods and handcrafted items are actually more similar than one might think, starting with the fact that they both give customers a chance to find something totally one-of-a-kind. Just like a piece made by a local craftsman, vintage gear stands out, Murphy explains. “When you’re going through a place that’s filled with vintage items, every piece is different from the next. It’s not like when you’re in a big box store and everything’s the same and all your friends have the same shirt or the same lamp. I notice that when you start picking vintage pieces, those are the things people notice about you and that they compliment you on.” Quality is the second parallel drawn between the two categories of merchandise, Murphy says, adding, “Just to hold a vintage piece in your hand is different. What is made today is made to be disposable. If you pick up a vintage piece, it’s heavier, it’s a higher quality, there’s more attention to detail. The same with when you pick up a piece that’s made by a local craftsman; those pieces are made to last, they’re made to be special, and they’re made to stand out.” Everyone who walks into the store will find the unique, high-quality pieces they’re looking for, plus a warm and welcoming environment that meets the needs Murphy noticed within the community when she and her husband first made their way to Monroe from Alabama years ago. “I noticed that there wasn’t a true vintage shop,” she says. “And then beyond that, spending seven years here and immersing myself and trying to become a part of the community as a creative, I noticed that there is an abundance of talent in our

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“When you shop vintage clothing and secondhand clothing, it is a way of reusing old resources and not creating more damage. I think that’s a big part of it. What’s old is new. It’s all cyclical. Every generation wants to look back and pick what they think was the best about their parents’ generation and make it theirs.”

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community.” Despite being filled to the brim with gifted creatives, however, Murphy says she didn’t see a consistent space dedicated to supporting them and selling their work. “I noticed there are night spots for these folks, but when it comes to shopping and merchandising, it was lacking; I see that hole.” And apparently, others saw the hole, too, and after reaching out to the connections she’s established in the area, she discovered many of them felt the same way she did. That was how she knew it was the right time for her to work toward a solution. Mercantile Monroe won’t be a typical store, its determined founder declares. Though customers can still expect to get their vintage and secondhand clothing fix there, the space will also be a place for connection and cultivating community. “I want this to be a place where we can all come together and feel welcome,” she says. “I want to host events. I don’t just want to have a shop; I want to have pop-ups for our local craftsmen that don’t make a product and make more of an experience. I want to have our musicians come and perform. I want it to be a real space where the creatives can get together, and everyone else can come and enjoy that.” More than making a home for her carefully curated vintage finds and the items local creatives make, Murphy hopes Mercantile Monroe will help to “grow the ‘roe” and give the Twin Cities another new business to be excited about. At this article’s time of writing, Murphy is still searching for the perfect space for her shop to occupy, thus, opening dates haven’t been set. But when she lands on a location, Murphy hopes the little vintage shop of her dreams will further establish her position in the city she’s grown to appreciate. “What I’m doing is taking this moment to set my roots in Monroe,” Murphy says. “I’m not from Monroe, but I have grown to be a part of Monroe, and I want to do my part and plant my roots in the community.” To stay up-to-date on all things Mercantile Monroe, to find out more about Murphy and the goods she sells, or to purchase a few vintage and secondhand goodies of your own, follow her on Instagram @ mercantilemonroe. 158 SEPTEMBER 2021 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

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THIS YEAR’S GROUP OF YOUNG PROFESSIONALS IS HELPING TO SHAPE THE FUTURE OF NORTHEAST LOUISIANA PHOTOGRAPHY BY KELLY MOORE CLARK

he Monroe Chamber of Commerce, the Northeast Louisiana Young Professionals and BayouLife Magazine are pleased to announce the 57 nominations for the 2021 Top 20 Twenty Under 40 Young Professional Awards. The Reception will be held Thursday, August 26th at 5:30 pm at The Hub Music Hall. The “Top 20” will be announced that evening. These individuals are advancing in their careers, active in the community and dedicated to making Northeast Louisiana a better place to live and work. Those nominated are: Jessica Brady, ULM; Joseph Beard, JPMorgan Chase; Reggie Carroll Jr, Guaranty Bank; Jaela Casey, Casey Academy; Bryan Creekmore, Campbell and House; Randy Diffy, Coast Professional; Marissa Dorris, IBM; Erin Etheridge, Homefinity; Sarah Mouton Floyd, ALSAC/ St. Jude’s Research Hospital; DJ Fortenberry, City of Monroe; Taylor Gaines, High Klass Hair; Maggie Generoso, Monroe City Schools; Kelli Green, Centric Federal Credit Union; Chris Hall, Easter Seals Louisiana; K’Shana Hall-Davis, HSA Office of Prevention & Wellness; Kacie Hobson, MedCamps of Louisiana; Gary “Scooter” Howell, Parish Purchase; Dr. Luke Hunter, The Foot & Ankle Clinic; Billy Joiner, Centric Federal Credit Union; Landon Joiner, Cross Keys Bank; Susie Lefebvre, Sit, Stay, Play; Desmund Lighten, Fit4Life; Brittany Liner, Origin Bank; Ryan Lloyd, Gordon McKernan Injury Attorney; David Loyless, Drax; Kristen Mardis, Monroe City Schools; Michelli

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Martin, City of Monroe; Wade Matthews, Cross Keys Bank; Jon McCartney, 318 Construction; Mary McDaniels, Chase; Alexis McKnight, Alexis McKnight Wellness Spa; Brittany McNamara, KTVE/KARD; Christopher McNeal, JPMorgan Chase; Melanie Moffett, Centric Federal Credit Union; Tyler Neal, Specialty Management Services of Ouachita; Lena Ormond, Summit Financial Wealth Advisors; Janssen Peck, Sleepy Hollow Furniture; Dominique Penton, Law Firm of Eddie Clark; Dr. Laura Petty, The Woman’s Clinic; Hank Pipes, Guaranty Bank; Lincoln Powell, Jr., Center for Children & Families; Gregory Pritchard, Green Qube; Tiffany Rigal, Blooming Potential; Meghan Risinger, City of Monroe; Anna Little Robinson, Small Cakes; Richard Royal, Louisiana National Bank; Anne Marie Sisk, ULM; Dawn Stanfield, Ouachita Parish; Jacob Stephens, City of West Monroe Fire Department; Patience Talley, City of Monroe; Tiffany Terra, Geaux Family Health; Jessica Tico, Goodwill; Desirae Trappey, Desirae Gooding Photography; Nicholas Trappey, Pelican Wealth Management; Lorenzo Treadway, Pelican Wealth Management; Jared Walker, InterMountain Renovations; Matthew Wilson, City of West Monroe. Presenting sponsors are Origin Bank, Thomas & Farr, Reeves, Coon & Funderburg and BayouLife Magazine. Additional sponsors are City of Monroe, Heard, McElroy and Vestal, NAI Faulk and Foster, KTVE, Stephens Media Group, and The Radio People.

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Joseph Beard grew up in Vicksburg, MS and moved to Monroe, LA to attend ULM in the fall of 2005. He graduated with a Bachelor of Science Degree in the spring of 2009. After college, Beard went to work in the mortgage industry and has been there for the last 12 years. He currently works for JPMorgan Chase as a Client Support Manager in the Correspondent Division and has been with Chase for 4 Years. He enjoys giving back to his community whether it is through sharing his love for Jesus or helping make our Monroe Community a better place. He is currently involved in the ULM Alumni Association as the VP of Membership, ULM Warhawk Club, Pi Kappa Alpha Chapter Advisor and his family attends North Monroe Baptist Church. He is married to Betsy Beard and together they have four children (Bailey – 8, Josie – 7, Lottie -5 and Jack -4).

JOSEPH BEARD

Client Support Manager JPMorgan Chase

BL: What do you hope to accomplish by 50? Joseph.: I always say that if you don’t dream big, then you are not going to accomplish much in life. We have to dream in order to make those dreams come true. A lot of things can change in the next 16 years, but I pray that I will still have my health and my determination to continue to make the world

Reggie Carroll, Jr. was born and raised in Delhi, LA. He is the son of Angela and Reggie Carroll. Reggie is a graduate of Delhi Charter School where he served as a member of the Board of Directors for 2 years. He graduated from the University of Louisiana at Monroe with a Bachelor of Science degree in Business Management. Reggie currently works at Guaranty Bank & Trust as the Real Estate In-House Evaluator. He truly enjoys the opportunities his job provides, especially being able to help people and work directly with properties. During the past year, he began purchasing investment properties to provide better housing opportunities for lowincome families.

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BL: What was your first job? Reggie: My first job was a summer custodial position. We assisted with cleaning and property repairs in preparation for the upcoming school year. Skills I learned from this job has aided greatly in my renovation investment properties. BL: What do you do to ensure your growth and development as a leader? Reggie: To ensure my growth and development as a leader I listen more than I speak! I thoroughly listen to what others have to say

a better place. I would love to be in a very high management job in the Correspondent Industry leading a very successful team. I also hope that I can accomplish more things that make the community better and be remembered for the things that helped the next generation. As Steve Job’s says” The people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world are the ones who do!” BL: What is your advice to recent graduates? Joseph: Do not get discouraged. Once you start your career, even if it is not where you saw yourself at first, work hard and learn from the people that have gone before you. Always remember: you may not know everything in the crowded meeting table, but make sure you are the one that works the hardest. Someone will notice you and appreciate that work. BL: What is your motivation? Joseph: My motivations comes from my family. Every time that I look at my wife and kids… I want to make sure that I am at least trying to give my best self. I want my kids to know the meaning of hard work. I also want them to know that when they are at work they need to show their best selves and need to model Jesus.

and I absorb as much information as possible. Sometimes it is easy for us to believe we know certain information or have the resolutions to problems. There are several paths to obtain information and there are several resolutions to problems, so it is important to be willing to actively listen to others. BL: What do you do to give back to your community? Reggie: I give back housing opportunities to my community. I renovate homes in low-income communities in Ouachita and Richland Parish to provide better living accommodations. The renovations are complete renovations consisting of new paint, flooring, roof replacement, and modern appliances. This housing opportunity is even greater, because it offers rent-to-own options for tenants who may have thought home ownership wasn’t impossible. BL: What professional accomplishment are you most proud of? Reggie: The professional accomplishment I am most proud of is becoming Vice-President of Guaranty Bank & Trust at the age of 27.

BRYAN CREEKMORE Bankruptcy Lawyer at Campbell, House & Company

Bryan Creekmore was born and raised in West Monroe, Louisiana. Bryan attended Cedar Creek High School in Ruston and attended ULM majoring in Psychology. He was also a member of Delta Sigma Phi fraternity, Psi Chi Honors Psychology Fraternity, and 31 Ambassadors. He began working on his alternative teaching certification while getting his Masters of Arts in Teaching from ULM and taught for 4 years. In 2013, Bryan made a career change and went to law school at Southern University. He became a certified NFL agent and helped his father-in-law, Jeff Guerriero, with his sports agency, ProSource Sports, negotiating NFL contracts and marketing opportunities. Bryan graduated from Southern University Law Center with honors in 2016 and moved back to Monroe to begin working as an attorney specializing in Personal Injury and Medical Malpractice law. He recently began working to serve the needs of our citizens by practicing bankruptcy law at Campbell, House & Company. He is married to Lauren Creekmore and they have two beautiful children, a 4-year-old daughter, Emorie and 2-year-old son, Camden. BL: How do you balance being a successful young professional and having a family?

Sarah Mouton Floyd was born and raised in Lafayette, LA and moved to the twin cities in 2016. She graduated from LSU with a Bachelor of Science in Marketing and has spent her entire career in the nonprofit sector. She currently works for ALSAC/ St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital as a Dream Home Specialist, where she oversees the marketing and construction of 5 homes nationwide which raise $5.3 million annually. Her passion has always been helping others – in her free time, she serves as a Commissioner for Volunteer Louisiana and is a member of the Junior League of Monroe. Sarah enjoys golfing with her husband, Jarod Floyd. She is a proud stepmother and is the daughter of Marc & Mona Mouton of Lafayette, LA.

SARAH MOUTON FLOYD

Dream Home Specialist ALSAC/St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

BL: Tell us something about you most people don’t know. Sarah: I’m a first generation college graduate and my parents are incredibly proud of that. I graduated from LSU with honors and had a full time job so that I could graduate without any student debt. BL: What is your advice to recent graduates? Sarah: Network any time you can! Put yourself out there and don’t be afraid to be told no.

Bryan: It can be difficult. To be relatively new in my career and in a place in the community that I have the opportunity to help it grow means burning the candle at both ends sometimes. However, I always remember that I am doing everything for my family. My wife and children need me but not half as much as I need them. I love what I do and I love serving people but Lauren, Emorie, and Camden are my “why.” They are my joy in life so it isn’t hard to FIND balance so much as it would be hard to operate without it. BL: What professional accomplishment are you most proud of? Bryan: I have been blessed to work with so many amazing professionals and work with so many amazing people. But I would say passing the Louisiana State Bar Exam is one of my proudest moments. For me, it was more than passing a test. It was confirmation that I had made the right decision when I switched careers. It was a big leap of faith for many people. My wife placed a lot of faith in me and uprooted her career for us to move to Baton Rouge for 3 years. So to pass the exam and be admitted to the practice of law was a confirmation that I had repaid her trust and faith in me.

BL: What was your first job? Sarah: I was a party hostess at Chuck-ECheese, and yes I had to dress up as the mouse a time or two! BL: What advice would you give someone in a new leadership position? Sarah: Listen to others, but create a space where innovation is not only allowed but encouraged. Be true to who you are and others will want to follow. BL: What can Northeast Louisiana do to retain young talent? Sarah: Northeast Louisiana can continue to celebrate the diverse talent and culture that resides here now. I’m a firm believer that you can lead from any seat and staying open to new ideas is key. BL: What do you hope to accomplish by age 50? Sarah: My main goal in life is to make a difference in the world. By the age of 50 I hope to have helped raise $50 million for various nonprofits, including ALSAC/St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

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Maggie Sims Generoso is kicking off her 13th year as an educator for Monroe City Schools. She graduated from ULM in 2009 with a Bachelor’s of Science in Elementary Education and in 2013 with a Master’s in Educational Leadership. She currently serves as a Math Content Leader for Monroe City Schools, as well as a Teacher Mentor for the state of Louisiana. Maggie and her family attend First Methodist Monroe, and she is currently serving a 2nd term as the President of the Louisiana Purchase Zoological Society. Maggie is participating in Leadership Ouachita 2021 and will graduate in November. She has been married to her husband, Ken, for 11 years and they have 2 boys- Max (8) and Reed (4). They also have a Boston Terrier named Lola Bunny!

MAGGIE SIMS GENEROSO Educator for Monroe City Schools

KELLI GREEN

VP Marketing & Engagement at Centric Federal Credit Union

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BL: How do you balance being a successful young professional and having a family? Maggie: Balance can be very difficult. I have an amazing support system in my husband, family, and friends that has allowed me to be successful in every role that I play a part in. Having the right people on the LPZS Board has helped with this balance as well, allowing all to be involved in the growth and reducing my personal weight load.

BL: What professional accomplishment are you most proud of? Maggie: I am most proud of being named Teacher of the Year for the 2021-2022 school year at Cypress Point Elementary. Being nominated and chosen for Top 20 Under 40 runs a close tie to Teacher of the Year! BL: What do you do to ensure your growth and development as a leader? Maggie: I am constantly looking for opportunities to be better than I was yesterday! Both in my professional and personal life, I’m always finding ways to be the best version of myself. I love to read books, attend trainings, and speak with like-minded individuals with similar goals. I never want to stop learning! BL: What can Northeast Louisiana do to retain young talent? Maggie: NELA has so much to offer! Monroe has that “big city” feel but is small enough that commuting isn’t a serious issue. Monroe is on the cusp of something HUGE with our new local government, as well as plans for growth and expansion! There is a place for everyone to plug-in and job opportunities are available all over NELA.

Kelli Green is a Mississippi native, graduate of the University of Southern Mississippi and a fun-loving wife and mom of two little girls. She loves all things outdoors, especially camping! You can almost always find her with either a book in her hand, dancing with her daughters or kayaking in a lake! Kelli is inspired by doing the little things in life that make a huge impact in the lives of others. Celebrating and serving others is what makes her the happiest. She is a faithful follower of Christ who lives with this in mind ‘today is a gift or it wouldn’t be called the present!’

establish and grow the program into our everyday culture at Centric. Additionally, I serve as PTO Vice President of my children’s school and I am an avid volunteer at Christ Church in both women and connect ministries.

BL: What do you do to give back to your community? Kelli: My community means the world to me. In fact, I’m a transplant to North Louisiana and consider this place my home. In finance, it’s my desire to offer financial wellness services and access to financial products and service to people, all people regardless of economical status, background, etc. Everyone deserves a fair shot at becoming a homeowner, owning their own transportation and to earn a living wage to provide for their family. At Centric, I’m afforded the opportunity to educate the community and members alike through a program, Live Better. I had the privilege to

BL: What is your motivation? Kelli: My motivation is the little feet I hear running down our hallway; it’s the man I call my husband; it’s my Savior who created a life for me to never take for granted. After all, today is a gift or it wouldn’t be called the present.

BL: What was your first job? Kelli: My first job was working for my aunt at her fruit stand in Laurel, Mississippi. The little 8-year old girl learned more valuable lessons in that summer than ever imagined. I especially developed a love for serving others. Among the other skillsets learned were the value of a dollar and managing time.

BL: How do you balance being a successful young professional and having a family? Kelli: The age old saying of ‘it takes a village’ is a true testament to making The Green House thrive daily! I owe all I am to my husband who shares every role under the sun with me.

K’Shana Hall-Davis is a social service counselor for the Louisiana Delta Human Services Authority, a professional artist and photographer and vice president of the non-profit Black Creatives Circle of North Louisiana. BCCNL was this year’s recipient of the artist of the year award for their public art work. Prior to her arrival at LDHSA, she spent several years at a social service counselor for the Office of Juvenile Justice. K’Shana is an ULM alumni and originally from Chicago. BL: What do you hope to accomplish by age 50? K’Shana: My hope is to make a positive impact by continuing to provide effective services for my community. I hope to combine my passions for the arts and mental health to make a significant progress in breaking down the stigma of mental health care. My overall goal is just to be happy and healthy.

K’SHANA HALL-DAVIS

Social Service Counselor for the Louisiana Delta Human Services Authority

BL: What do you do to give back to your community? K’Shana: The sole purpose of every title I hold is to give back to the community in some way. As service counselor for the Louisiana Delta Human Services Authority, I am the manager of three coalitions within

Susie Sparks Lefebvre is the daughter of the late Susan and Tommy Sparks. She is a lifelong resident of Monroe and a graduate of Saint Fredrick High School and the University of Louisiana Monroe. Susie, along with her husband Richard, now own and operate Sit, Stay and Play a local doggie daycare, grooming and boarding facility. Sit, Stay and Play is a luxury, one of a kind facility located in Monroe. It is a one stop shop for pups! The most important thing to Susie is her family, friends (who are also family) and her village that motivates and is there for her daily. Susie is married to best friend and soul mate, Richard Lefebvre, Jr. and they have a son, Tommy who is six.

SUSIE SPARKS LEFEBVRE Owner of Sit, Stay and Play

BL: How do you balance being a successful young professional and having a family? Susie: Family to me is everything so balancing owning your own business and family, at times can get tricky. Without my parents and my sisters Elizabeth McQueen and Jennifer Sparks, this business would have never been possible. I’m forever thankful for their support and encouragement. I feel that no matter what career path one chooses, their family should always come first. I try daily

Ouachita and Franklin Parish. The mission of these coalitions is to fight to prevent underage drinking by changing social norms, providing positive alternative activities in form of hosting/creating community events and in school programs, educate community members and implement evidence based programs within the community. This position has blessed me to be able to directly work with youth through our student ambassador program and Students Against Destructive Decisions program. As VP of BCCNL, I work alongside our board members to carve out a space for black creatives (painters, writers, dancers, photographer musicians, scultpters ect.) in north Louisiana. We work together to help create opportunities for their work to be seen, recognized and valued. We also host free virtual workshops and provide free art kits to our local youth. I am also on the board of the Twin City Arts Foundation which works to keep art in our community by working with the Masur Museum to host art shows, workshops and other art related community events. .

to not bring work home and to make the most of the hours that I spend at my office. My goal is to finish everything during working hours so that I do not miss any event of my son Tommy’s or my nieces, Sarah and Meme. BL: What professional accomplishment are you most proud of? Susie: I would say I am most proud of being able to actually open the doors to our new business during the midst of an unprecedented global pandemic. We were not eligible for any kind of financial assistance because we had not been open for a year. Originally, Sit, Stay and Play was supposed to open March of 2020 but with the shutdown we were not able to open until June 16, 2020. It was probably the scariest thing I have done, but the community and their PUPS truly rallied around Sit, Stay and we are extremely grateful for their support. BL: What advice would you give someone in a new leadership position? Susie: You are only as good and as strong as your team. No matter what you do, make sure to surround yourself by a great team and together you all will accomplish amazing things. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2021 167

DESMUND LIGHTEN Co-owner of Fit4Life Nutrition

DAVID LOYLESS

Large Capital Project Manager at Drax Biomass

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Desmund Lighten is the co-owner of Fit4Life Nutrition. He graduated from Ouachita High School earning both football and academic scholarships to attend McNeese State University. There he went on to graduate while breaking multiple school records and was voted an AP All American along the way. This is also where he met his wife and business partnerm, Tea Tvrtkovic. After a brief stint playing professional football in the CFL, Desmund and Tea went into business together as Herbalife Nutrition Distributors. What started as a part time business grew to become Fit4Life Nutrition. Desmund has served as a mentor for many families in his organization providing a template allowing them to go into business for themselves serving a healthy alternative to fast food and energy drinks in their communities spread across multiple states. Desmund’s passions include helping people lead a healthier lifestyle, doing the Ouachita football radio broadcast and working on his private pilots license. BL: Tell me something about you most people don’t know? Desmund: I’m naturally introverted, I actually joined a fraternity to get me out of my dorm

room as I am happy just being at home to myself, but once I’m forced into a social environment I can relate and learn from any and everyone iI come into contact with. It’s an oxymoron I don’t like going to social gatherings but i have a blast and make friends at social gatherings. BL: What do I hope to accomplish by age 50? Desmund: Well I honestly hadn’t thought that far ahead. Normally when I think that far into the future I’m thinking and envisioning what activities will I still be able to do, so I’d say securing my health and the health of my family. I consider being healthy and active a major accomplishment and of course it’s a lot easier to be healthy if you are not worried about keeping the lights on so securing financial freedom by providing value to the community is wrapped into that goal. BL: What is your motivation? Desmund: My motivation comes from a desire to be of service and value to others, to do this I must evolve into the best human I can be while being able to enjoy my time on this earth with the people I love most.

David Loyless is a a large capital project manager at Drax Biomass. He is currently managing an approximately $30 million plant expansion at the LaSalle BioEnergy facility in Urania, Louisiana. David is married to his wife (Emma) and they have three kids (Adelaide - 6, Henry - 4, and Levi - 1). He grew up in Beekman, Louisiana, attended Bastrop High School, and graduated from ULM with a bachelor’s in Psychology and from LA Tech with a bachelor’s in Construction Engineering Technology.

local real estate developments. I also hope to establish an educational trust to provide needbased assistance to local families for K-12 education costs.

BL: What can Northeast Louisiana do to retain young talent? David: Development of local industry is key, but we also need to make strides in retail and entertainment offerings. We cannot offer a lot of the attractions of major metropolitan areas; therefore, it is important for us to foster positive attitudes about our area, play to our strengths, and promote a strong sense of community.

BL: What advice would you give someone in a new leadership position? David: Remember that every single person you meet can teach you something you didn’t know, even those you might least expect. Don’t ever stop learning. If you are the smartest person in the room, you are in the wrong room. And don’t ever sacrifice relationships for the sake of your career.

BL: What do you hope to accomplish by age 50? David: I plan to continue to grow along with Drax Biomass, a leader in renewable energy, as we continue to work toward a carbon-neutral energy future. I have plans to pursue some

BL: What is your advice to recent graduates? David: Start investing on day one. Even if it’s just a little bit, it adds up over time. Grow where you are planted and if you see something that needs doing, don’t wait for someone else to step up. It’s a perfect opportunity for you to make a mark.

BL: What was your first job? David: Throughout high school, I worked as a mechanic’s helper at Larco, Inc. in Crossett, Arkansas.

Jon McCartney has lived his entire life 1 mile south of I-20 off Cheniere Exit. He went to Drew School, West Monroe Junior High, graduated from West Monroe High School in 2000, ULM in 2005, and New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary in 2015. For 16 years, Jon’s vocation was full-time ministry. In 2016, he became a contractor and began Vertical Builders. In 2019, Jon closed that chapter, and helped start 318 Construction, an insurance reconstruction company. Jon has been married for close to 20 years to Erica and they have three amazing teenagers Hunter, Abby, and Maggie. They love their family at North Hills Church in West Monroe where Jon serves as one of the pastors.

JON MCCARTNEY General Manager at 318 Construction

BL: What professional accomplishment are you most proud of? Jon: It has been most exciting to grow and develop a highly competent team who has propelled 318 Construction to become the premiere insurance reconstruction company in our community. Since our inception in 2019 we have grown in employees, volume and service in leaps and bounds. 318 Construction exists to serve others in their time of need. I am proud to be a part of that.

An alumna of Louisiana State University in Baton Rouge, Mary McDaniels is proud to call Monroe home. She and her husband, Raymond, have three children- Arayna, Christian, and Kennedy McDaniels. She is a member of Allen Chapel African Methodist Episcopal Church where she serves as a youth advisor. Serving has always been a passion of hers. It was instilled in her at an early age that true joy is found in how we help others. Her role as a Branch Manager at Chase Bank allows her to do just that. She’s worked in the Banking/Financial Industry for over 17 years and she is passionate about promoting financial literacy. As a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated, Mary is afforded the opportunity to partner with various community organizations and participate in sorority initiatives that engage the community.

MARY MCDANIELS Branch Manager at Chase Bank

BL: What do you do to give back to your community? Mary: I believe that financial literacy is a subject that should be taught in school. For many adults, what they know about money and how they manage money, they learned from what they saw or didn’t see growing up. My career at Chase enables me to give back through financial literacy seminars

BL: If you could go back in time, what would you tell your college self? Jon: After I convinced myself to find a way to invest in Bitcoin, I would tell myself not to look for and take the easy way out of things. Do the hard work, slow down and enjoy the journey. BL: What do you do to ensure your growth and development as a leader? Jon: There are numerous ways in which I strive to grow and develop as a leader. There have been a handful of books that have helped me grow in business and leadership. Early on it was Jim Collins’ “Good to Great.” Most recently I am learning a lot from “Traction” by Gino Wickman. This year I joined a business coaching cohort of like minded key business men. I work for a successful and growing company which is full of leaders worth emulating. I have also failed miserably in business. Failure taught me more than I could have imagined. However, I owe who I am as a leader to being a student of the Bible. Jesus, the greatest leader to ever walk the Earth, says that He did not come to be served but to serve. This is the fundamental job of any leader…to serve others.

and presentations to students and adults in an effort to increase their awareness so that more families can live comfortably and have enough saved to withstand an emergency. BL: What was your first job? Mary: I started working as a photographer at JCPenney Portrait Studios my senior year in high school. BL: What do you do to ensure your growth and development as a leader? Mary: As leaders, it’s easy to forget about ourselves and our growth and to focus on company goals and developing our teams. While that is important, it’s also equally important to set goals and to challenge ourselves so that we don’t become complacent. I love to read articles that challenge me to step out of my comfort zone and challenge my way of thinking. BL: What do you hope to accomplish by age 50? Mary: By age 50, I hope to still be on my journey of arming families and communities with the tools to achieve financial independence and wealth. It is my aspiration to be a catalyst in integrating financial literacy as a part of the core curriculum in middle and high schools. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2021 169

BRITTANY MCNAMARA Digital Marketing Strategist for KTVE/KARD

Brittany McNamara is the Digital Marketing Strategist for KTVE/KARD, in West Monroe, LA. After working in various roles in the advertising industry, Brittany decided to return to the University of Louisiana Monroe in 2018, taking online classes to earn her Bachelor of Business Administration degree in Marketing, and is expecting to graduate in spring, 2022. Brittany serves on the Board of Directors for SOS Pets of Ouachita as the Marketing Director and is a committed United Way of NELA volunteer, serving as a mentor to children through Read. Learn. Succeed. She is a proud member of the Louisiana LunaChicks, an all-women’s dance team that is dedicated to giving back to the community through dance and volunteer efforts. In the past, she has served on the Board of Directors for the Advertising Club of Northeast Louisiana and the Downtown Monroe Alliance. Her passions are local community, volunteering and promoting the good things that happen here! BL: What do you do to ensure your growth and development as a leader? Brittany: I stay actively involved and try new things when opportunities arise. I love

William Tyler Neal was born and raised in Rayville, LA, and attended college at ULM where he majored in Healthcare Management and Marketing. During his last semester of college, he was able to intern at P&S Surgical Hospital/Specialty Management Services of Ouachita, LLC (SMSO). After graduating college, Tyler began working at P&S Surgical Hospital in 2017. In 2018, he transitioned over into HR at SMSO. Tyler has recently accepted a position at St Francis Medical Center in Human Resources as a Business Partner. His hobbies include: spending time with family and friends, watching LSU Sports, hunting, reading, and going to church. BL: Tell us something about you most people don’t know. Tyler: I’m a huge Star Wars fan (the original trilogy is my favorite). I also have a fraternal twin sister who is older than me by 7 minutes.

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BL: What is your motivation? Tyler: The fear of failure. “ I’ve come to believe that all my past failure and frustrations were actually laying the foundation for the understandings that have created the new level of living I now enjoy.” - Tony Robbins

to network and meet new people, as well as embrace the opportunity to learn from them. BL: What professional accomplishment are you most proud of? Brittany: In addition to my career, I’m also enrolled in ULM Online to get my degree in Marketing and this year I was named the 2021 Women’s Symposium Empowering Student Leader scholarship recipient. This meant so much because it is a challenge to juggle both a professional career and college courses! BL: What do you do to give back to your community? Brittany: I have a passion for volunteering and feel that in addition to donations, volunteer activism helps make a real difference in the lives of our community members. BL: What is your motivation? Brittany: My daughter—every choice I make is with her in mind and to set an example for her to know that women can do anything they put their minds to.

BL: What advice would you give someone in a new leadership position? Tyler: Never ask for someone to do something that you wouldn’t do yourself. BL: What do you do to give back to your community? Tyler: I’ve been blessed and fortunate to be able to teach bible study at Delhi Church of Christ on Wednesday/Sunday evenings. BL: What was your first job? Tyler: My first job was working at Wendy’s in Rayville, LA. I was 15-years old. It was a great experience that taught me the value of a dollar as well as being held accountable at a young age. BL: What do you hope to accomplish by age 50? Tyler: I hope that I am married with children and that I am Vice President of HR.

Laura Petty has been a physician at The Woman’s Clinic for almost 7 years. She is a board certified OB/GYN who grew up in Oakdale, LA. She received her undergraduate degree in Biological Sciences from LSU. After college, Laura attended medical school at LSU Health Sciences Center in Shreveport. Upon finishing medical school, she moved to Jackson, MS and completed her OB/GYN residency at UMMC. She then moved to Monroe and started private practice. Laura is married to Dr. Paul Michael Petty. They have two daughters Caroline and Christine and an angel baby, Chapman. In her spare time, Laura enjoys spending quality time with her friends and family as well as reading, gardening, snow skiing and traveling.

LAURA PETTY, MD Physician at The Woman’s Clinic

BL: Tell us something about you most people don’t know. Laura: My husband and I lost our son at birth in 2018. It was a heartbreaking experience and I didn’t know if I would be able to go back to work again. My patients have played a big role in helping me through this difficult time. After his death, I wanted to do something to keep his memory alive. I decided to give a book to each baby I deliver. The book changes each year and is a wonderful way to remember

Lincoln Powell, Jr is a graduate of the University of Louisiana at Monroe. He has a master’s degree in Mental Health Counseling. Lincoln is currently employed as a Family Therapist at the Center for Children and Families, providing therapy services to at risk youth in rural areas. He has worked at the Center for Children and Families for five years. In 2012, Lincoln started a clothing brand named Preppy Poindexter. Preppy Poindexter is a premium brand motivated to inspire self-love and spread positivity through the production of timeless pieces of clothing and goods.

LINCOLN POWELL, JR

Family Therapist at Center for Children and Families and Owner of Preppy Poindexter

BL: What do you hope to accomplish by age 50? Lincoln: By the age of f50 I hope to have built a successful brand (Preppy Poindexter) that sustains itself financially and is well known all over the globe. It is also a goal of mine to have a non-profit organization that provides therapeutic services for young males that are at risk or without strong male figures. BL: What was your first job? Lincoln: I worked as a barista at a local coffee shop in my hometown. It was named Jehovah Java.

him. Through my experience, I hope I am able to help other women who experience a similar unexpected loss. BL: What professional accomplishment are you most proud of? Laura: I get to be a part of bringing new life into the world almost daily. A safe, healthy delivery is an important accomplishment. Seeing a baby take his/her first breath is amazing and something I will never take for granted. BL: What was your first job? Laura: I was a substitute teacher at the elementary school in my hometown. I have so much respect for teachers because those kids ruled me. BL: What is your advice to recent graduates? Laura: The medical profession is a difficult place to work right now. It is demanding and the challenges we face today with COVID are like none that we have seen. I would tell recent graduates that even though your job may be tough, it will be rewarding. You are important, and we need your help to get through this time.

BL: What is your motivation? Lincoln: I am driven by the motivation to be a good human. I like to think of it as my way of doing my part to restore faith in humanity that good people do exist. BL: What do you do to give back to your community? Lincoln: I donate clothing from Preppy Poindexter, purchase school uniforms for children in the community, and donate school supplies. I also volunteer at different events in the community. BL: Tell us something about you most people don’t know. Lincoln: I am highly motivated to help other’s improve the quality of their lives and reach their full potential, whatever it may be. Therapy, for me, is more than just a career. BL: What can Northeast Louisiana do to retain young talent? Lincoln: I think that making the youth aware of the different opportunities locally would be a great place to start. They aren’t aware of the opportunities or projects that they could potentially spearhead to further assist with improving Northeast Louisiana and retaining talent. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2021 171

Richard Royal is a lifelong resident of Union Parish, Louisiana. He grew up in Farmerville and went to Farmerville High School. Richard attended Louisiana Tech University and studied economics and finance and graduated with a Bachelor’s in Business Economics and a Master’s in Business Administration. Richard started banking as a part-time teller to work his way through college. He is currently a Senior Portfolio Review Specialist at Business Alliance Financial Services in Monroe.

RICHARD ROYAL

Senior Portfolio Review Specialist at Business Alliance Financial Services

PATIENCE TALLEY

Director of Community Centers and Programs for the City of Monroe

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BL: Tell us something about you most people don’t know Richard: One of my favorite pastimes is studying history. The reason for this is that history reminds us of how far we have come. Future generations are built on the foundations of the past. Sometimes the foundations are good and sometimes the foundations are bad. However, it is our responsibility to learn from the past so that we can make the future a better place. BL: What do you hope to accomplish by age 50? Richard: I want to have influenced the lives of other young professionals the way that I was

Patience was born and raised in Monroe, Louisiana, and is the daughter of Foster and Dr. Martha Phillips. She graduated from Ouachita Parish High School, where she found her love for cheerleading. Patience received her bachelor’s degree in Kinesiology from Louisiana State University, where she also had the amazing opportunity to cheer on the LSU Tigers. She is a recent graduate of the Master’s of Science program from the University of Louisiana Monroe. Patience is the proud wife of Pastor DeRon L. Talley and enjoys serving at the St. Joseph Missionary Baptist Church of West Monroe through ministry and song. She also teaches Sunday School and leads the Young Empowered Servants (YES) Ministry at their church. She is the mother of Demi Lee and loves serving her community. She and her husband are the co-owners of Key Marketing Solutions, a digital marketing company. Together they serve on the Children’s Coalition board, where they are dedicated to creating communities where children and families thrive. Patience is currently a part of the 2021 Leadership Ouachita Class and serves as the Chair of the Chamber of Commerce Young Professionals. Patience is also very passionate about empowering women and minorities to reach their full potential and seek leadership in their communities. She serves as Chair of

influenced and mentored. I am here today because others invested their time and energy into me. Without them, I would not be here. I want to have an influence on others, even if I never see the end result. BL: What professional accomplishment are you most proud of? Richard: I am proud of becoming a Notary Public. While it may not appear to be a large accomplishment to some, it took a lot of time and effort to prepare for and pass the State Notary Exam. I am proud of this accomplishment because I learned much about Louisiana law. While it may appear to be a burden to have a document notarized, it is done to protect people and their property. BL: What is your motivation? Richard: My motivation is improvement. There are many obstacles and tough situations in life that cannot be made perfect. However, you can always make them better. My motivation is to make situations better for those that I work with and those that come behind me.

the Education and Training Committee for the Junior League of Monroe, she is on the Board for the Women’s Symposium, serves as a Louisiana Delegate for the Vision 2020 – Women’s 100 Organization, and is the advisor for ULM’s Rotaract Club. BL: Tell us something about you most people don’t know. Patience: Most people don’t know that I traveled on a 15-hour flight to Shanghai, China, on behalf of the Universal Cheerleading Association with the LSU Cheerleading Team. While in China, we taught cheer clinics, met some amazing people, and made unforgettable memories. BL: What professional accomplishment are you most proud of? Patience: Professionally, I am most proud of being able to create awareness, initiatives, and programs that I feel very passionate about. Whether it’s bringing free swim lessons and art classes to our local youth, leading health initiatives, or teaching the community about the importance of preserving and protecting our planet, being able to provide those resources has been the highlight of my career.

Tiffany Terra was born and raised in Monroe, LA. She is married to Bryan Terra and they have 2 children, Brayden (18) and Briley (11). Tffany attended St. Frederick High School and graduated in 2000. She attended the University of Louisiana at Monroe and majored in nursing. She completed her BSN in Nursing in 2009 and Masters in Nursing from Northwestern State Louisiana in 2013. Upon graduation, Tiffany opened Geaux Family Health in July of 2013. The most recent addition to her career is the opening of a new medispa, Spa Terra. Tiffany says she loves her job and patients and truly can’t imagine doing anything else with her life.

TIFFANY TERRA

Owner of Geaux Family Health and Spa Terra

JARED WALKER

President of InterMountain Renovations

BL: What professional accomplishment are you most proud of? Tiffany: As a young nurse practitioner just out of school, I have an immense ambition to run my own clinic. I knew it would entail risks and would involve many hurdles, however, I stuck to those goals and went on to open my own clinic. BL: What do you hope to accomplish by age 50? Tiffany: I hope to accomplish full achievement in owning my own private facility. I would

BL: What do you hope to accomplish by age 50? Jared: Professionally, InterMountain has been in this community longer than most people probably realize, and our goal is to continue growing our newer platforms. My teams are responsible for interior design, procurement and renovation project management. Those three teams evolved and grew over the last ten years or so, and we want to see the current foundation allow us to continue serving more clients as well as provide more opportunities and exposure for existing and new associates. Personally, our third daughter arrived a few weeks ago, and I want to continue investing in my family as well. Other than a relationship with Jesus, my family is next most important thing in the world, and investing in our kids and my wife is priority number one. By the time I’m 50, I hope my girls and wife will say, “As great as our business is, and even with all the growth we’ve seen, our dad was even better at home than he ever was at the office.” BL: What was your first job? Jared: Working in flower beds and lawns were the first thing I did to earn money, but my first ‘job’ was working for Pat and Dick Ethridge at Village Sports.

like to build my own facility from the ground up, allowing for the best possible care for my patients. BL: What is your motivation? Tiffany: My main motivation is my family. Their love and support makes me want to work even harder to ensure a successful future. My second motivation is our community and patients. I came to work eager to help our patients feel comfortable by assisting with their health needs. BL: What was your first job? Tiffany: My first job was in a family owned small business, similar to Geaux Family Health . When I was younger, I loved the feel of a privately owned mom and pop shop. The owner truly loved what he did and inspired me to achieve my goal of owning my own business like he did. He gave me the advice, “if you love what you do, you’ll never work a day in your life.” My employees and patients feel like family. I truly love what I do. .

BL: What is your advice to recent graduates? Jared: Get to work. Graduating is likely the first major transition period in your life, and I would say to jump on something and start working… hard. Going the extra mile is an old parable I learned early on, and if you apply that concept your gifts and talents make a place for you. BL: What do you do to ensure your growth and development as a leader? Jared: I may be a little old school, but I enjoy reading. From there, I try to listen and learn from the people around me both those I report to, and the team that reports to me. BL: What advice would you give someone in a new leadership position? Jared: Lead your team so they will go farther than you ever did. I tell my team I want to impart everything I learned through the years so my ceiling is their floor. I don’t say that to say I arrived, but I want them to stand on my shoulders and be better than I ever was and go farther than I did. If they start where I finished, it’s a lot easier for them to take us to better places.

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It’s a Joint Effort Meet Jeffrey Pearson, MD

ORN AND RAISED IN SHREVEPORT, DR. PEARSON IS excited to come home to the Ark-La-Tex to begin practice at Orthopedic Specialists of Louisiana. Dr. Pearson completed his medical school training at LSUHS-Shreveport; his orthopedic surgery residency at the University of Alabama-Birmingham; and his hip and knee arthroplasty fellowship at Southern Joint Replacement Institute in Nashville, Tennessee. We recently asked Dr. Pearson some key questions about medicine/orthopedics, coming home and going into practice… here’s what he had to say… OSL - Did you always have an interest in medicine? Did you know you wanted to be a doctor early in life? After medical school, what prompted you to choose an orthopedic residency? You chose a total joint- knee and hip… why? JP - I have had an interest in medicine and orthopedics since high school. Like so many others, high school sports injuries introduced me to the field and to medicine in general. I was actually introduced to several of my partners at OSL 10-20 years ago through family friends and this being such a small town. I loved orthopedics and specifically total joint replacement because of the immediate way you can change someone’s life. There is an instant, dramatic change in a patient’s quality of life after a joint replacement. This is a life changing event for them, and I find it very satisfying to be a part of a team that can help these patients in such a big way. OSL - You and your wife are both from Shreveport and have two small children and a baby on the way? JP - Correct. My wife, Laura, and I were both born and raised in Shreveport. We have been dating since high school; we both went to C.E. Byrd High School. We dated 6 years long-distance before I proposed, then moved to Birmingham shortly after we got married. We have a 2-year-old son, a 1-year-old son, and our third baby is due in September.” OSL-Why did you decide to return to Shreveport? JP - So many things come to mind. It’s home. It’s where family is. I have always loved Shreveport. To have friends and family around you to help raise your family is a wonderful thing. I love walking into Superior Grill and seeing someone I know, bumping into someone at Franks or Brookshires. I grew up water skiing on the Red River and 174 SEPTEMBER 2021 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

Lake Bisteneau. Having had the opportunity to live in other cities, you realize what is important, it’s family. OSL-What is your patient care philosophy? What do you want your patients to walk away knowing? JP - My philosophy is to put the patient first. Take care of them. My main objective when I meet and talk with patients is to educate them, to give them the knowledge. Total joint replacement is a huge decision, and a decision that patients are becoming more and more selective about. Patients are doing their research on doctors and hospitals and making an informed decision. It’s my job to educate patients on their disease process, on their options and on what to expect from a surgery should they decide to have one. Once the patient has the information, the decision is theirs. It’s my job to teach… that’s what doctor means after all. OSL-What do you consider to be the greatest evolution in orthopedics/ adult reconstruction/knee and hip in the last 5-10 years? JP - Great question. In hip/knee reconstruction in the last 10 years, it is the peri-operative care. The surgery itself hasn’t changed tons. Our implants and materials have improved some, but not drastically. The biggest change has been the way we care for the patients before and after surgery. Techniques for pain control, post-op physical therapy protocols, how we handle and improve blood loss, all these things have dramatically changed total joint arthroplasty compared to 15-20 years ago. OSL-What are your hobbies? Do you enjoy any sports? JP - Before residency I would have said tailgating, duck hunting, fly fishing, tennis, cooking. Having kids changes that. Now I love spending time with my boys. I try to take care of myself, so my body will let me stay active when I’m older. I jog and cycle fairly frequently. I love the mountains and will always enjoy fly fishing in the mountains with my brother. I love to cook as well. I’m a LSU football fan and love seeing the Tigers play on Saturday nights. Jeffrey Pearson, MD is an orthopedic surgeon specializing in reconstructive hip and knee surgery and utilizes the Direct Anterior Hip Approach. He is currently accepting new patients and accepts most insurance plans. To schedule an appointment with Dr. Pearson, please contact Orthopedic Specialists of Louisiana at (866)759.9679 or orthopedicspecialistsla.com

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Calendar of Events For a full list of event happenings in Northeast Louisiana, see our website at www.bayoulifemag.com September 3 Back to the 90's Now this is a story all about how 2Dudes Brew & Que brought back the 90's with live music from Matressi! Matressi takes you back to the glorious days of chino shorts and plaid clothing. For one night only the band is playing famous songs from bands such as Nirvana, Green Day, Blink-182, Weezer, and more! Location: 2Dudes Brew & Que 436 Desiard St, Monroe Hours: 7:00 PM - 9:00 PM Cost: Free Phone: 318-855-5808 September 4, 11, 18, 25 Ruston Farmers Market Shop, eat and support local at the Ruston Farmers Market. Choose from a wide selection of seasonal fruits and vegetables, meat, eggs, honey, jams, salsa, and other locally produced goods. Hours: 9 AM – 1 PM Cost: Free to attend Venue: Ruston Farmers Market, 220 E Mississippi Ave, Ruston Phone: (318) 957-1305 September 4 Louisiana State Games 5K & 10K Come challenge your running skills in a hilly road race. Start and finish is a Kiroli Park in West Monroe, LA. Participants all receive a Louisiana State Games t-shirt. Awards given to the top 3 finishers in each 5-year age group as well as overall Male/Female, overall Masters Male & Female, and overall Grand Masters Male & Female. Participate in 5K/10K and Duathlon and receive $5 discount on each race. All profits benefit Ouachita Green. Location: Kiroli Park, 820 Kiroli Road, West Monroe Hours: 7:30 AM Cost: $35 Phone: 318-87-5691 September 5 Flying Heart Live with Josh Madden Join Flying Heart in the Beer Garden for Flying Heart Live with

Josh Madden! Location: Flying Heart Brewing & Pub, 204 Commerce St, West Monroe Hours: 5:00 PM - 8:00 PM Phone: (318) 367-0888

Location: Biedenharn Museum and Gardens, 2006 Riverside Drive, Monroe Hours: 10:00 am - 12:00 pm Cost: $5 per child; Adults enter free Phone: 318-387-5281

West Monroe Local Music Festival A truly local music festival, created and curated by NELA music people, for people who love NELA music. Don't miss out this Labor Day for a day filled with live local music, prizes, a live DJ, bounce house, and more! Location: Flying Heart Brewing & Pub, 204 Commerce St, West Monroe Hours: 11:00 AM - 9:30 PM Phone: (318) 367-0888

Landry Vineyards Concert - Mike McKenzie & Red Grape Stomp Celebration The Grape Stomp Celebration is back for the weekend! Enjoy this fun event while listening to live performances by Mike McKenzie Band. They play rock, country, and great dance music. Ladies can stomp shortly after the music starts. Do not forget to get yourself some Landry Vineyards wine! Location: Landry Vineyards, 5699 New Natchitoches Road, West Monroe Hours: 4:00 pm - 7:30 pm Cost: Adults: $10.00 Young Adults (13-18): $5.00 Children Under 12: Free Phone: 318-557-9051

September 10-12 Big Creek Trade Days Big Creek Trade Days are held monthly on the weekend before the second Monday with over 100 indoor and outdoor vendors, food trucks, and fun for all ages! Hours: Friday & Saturday 9 AM-5 PM, Sunday 10 AM-4 PM Cost: $5 per vehicle for the weekend Venue: 327 California Plant Rd, Dubach, LA Phone- (318) 680-1304 September 10-12 Loyal Blue Weekends: LA Tech vs. Southeastern Celebrate the LA Tech home football game with a weekend full of activities featuring a Friday night event downtown, tailgating, bulldog brunch, and more football fun! Phone- (318) 225-2031 September 11 Children's Fundays Don't miss out on this month's Children's Fundays at the Biedenharn from 10 AM-12 PM. There will be crafts and fun for ages 3-16, so bring the kids and come enjoy the gardens! Tickets can be purchased in the Museum Store on the morning of the event!

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The Rev Weekly Racing The Rev is bringing a weekend filled with fast racing cars! Get ready as The Rev hosts their weekly racing events! Location: Revolution Park Racetrack, 8850 Frontage Rd, Monroe Hours: 7:00 pm Phone: 318-812-7223 September 16 Bless Your Art Bless Your Art is back! Tracy Britt will be hosting the event at the Hub Music Hall. There will be 4 different types of boards to choose from to bring a Spring and Summer look to your front door! For your reservations contact: Christy 318331-5879. Walk ins welcome. Location: The Hub 201 Washington St., Monroe Dates: 09/16/2021 - 09/16/2021 Sip N Sew Are you interested in pursuing your next sewing DIY but feel like a

class isn't quite your speed? Then bring your projects or pick out supplies to start a new one while joining Material Things for sip at their monthly Sip N Sew event! This come and go event happens every third Thursday of every month. Location: Material Things 2305 Forsythe Ave, Monroe Hours: 4:00 PM - 7:00 PM Cost: Free Phone: (318) 699-8964 Celebrity Lip Sync Battle of Northeast Louisiana: Charity Edition Get ready for the glitz, the glam, and a red-carpet entrance at this year's Celebrity Lip Sync Battle of Northeast Louisiana: Charity Edition. Dress to impress and enter on a red carpet complete with a "celebrity" write-up and photos. The curtains open at 7pm, as local businesses and groups battle it out for their charity of choice. General Admission tickets are $40 and Reserved Tables are $500, available for purchase on Square. Location: Monroe Civic Center, 401 Lea Joyner Memorial Expressway, Monroe Hours: 6:00 PM - 9:00 PM Cost: General Admission: $40 Reserved Tables: $500 Phone: 318-732-9704 September 17-19 Loyal Blue Weekends: LA Tech vs. SMU Celebrate the LA Tech home football game with a weekend full of activities featuring a Friday night event downtown, tailgating, bulldog brunch, and more football fun! Phone- (318) 225-2031 September 18 ULM Football vs Jackson State ULM Football is back, and they are ready to play! Come support the ULM Football team as they take on Jackson State! Location: ULM Malone Stadium, 514 Warhawk Way, Monroe Phone: 318-342-1000

Driven Desires Car, Truck and Bike Show The 11th Annual Driven Desires Car, Truck and Bike Show will be held at the Monroe Civic Center On September 18th. There will be food, a lot of fun for the kids, all while 100% of the funds raised go to helping the Muscular Dystrophy Association. Location: Monroe Civic Center, 401 Lea Joyner Memorial Expressway, Monroe Hours: 10:00 AM - 4:00 PM Phone: 318-329-2225 September 24-25 World of Outlaw Late Models The Rev is bringing a weekend filled with fast racing cars! Get ready as the World of Outlaw Late Models compete on the track! Location: Revolution Park Racetrack, 8850 Frontage Rd, Monroe Cost: Ticket prices vary Phone: 318-812-7223

Louisiana Chicken Festival Join the community of Dubach for the 32nd Annual Louisiana Chicken Festival! With a wide range of events, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Cost- Free Venue: Downtown Dubach, Dubach Phone- (318) 777-1964 Loyal Blue Weekends: LA Tech vs. North Texas Celebrate the LA Tech home football game with a weekend full of activities featuring a Friday night event downtown, tailgating, bulldog brunch, and more football fun! Phone- (318) 225-2031 September 25 Baiting on Bussey Big Bass Tournament Come out and support the Morehouse Healthcare Foundation with a bass tournament at Bussey Brake, awarding more than $10,000 in prizes. Contact Brandy Jones for additional information. Cost:$100 registration fee Venue: Bussey Brake Phone: (318) 283-3616

what our community of makers, hobbyists, community organizations, and artisans have to offer Hours: 11 AM-4PM Cost: Free to attend Venue: 419 East Union, Minden ULM Football vs Troy Cheer on the ULM Football team as they tackle Troy this weekend! Location: ULM Malone Stadium 514 Warhawk Way, Monroe Phone: 318-342-1000 Landry Vineyards Concert - Flashback 5 Landry Vineyards is proud to host a live performance by Flashback 5! They play Top 40 Covers, classic rock & great dance music. There will be food trucks available for food purchases. Do not forget to bring lawn chairs or a blanket so you can have a place to sit. Spend your afternoon with your family while listening to local music, eating food, and drinking Landry Vineyards wine! Location: Landry Vineyards, 5699 New Natchitoches Road, West Monroe Hours: 3:30 pm - 7:00 pm Cost: Adults: $10.00 Young Adults (13-18): $5.00 Children Under 12: Free Phone: 318-557-9051

Cost: $55 each or two for $100

September 26 Blend of the Bayou The Arts Council is thrilled to announce the return of Blend of the Bayou. This block party on the bayou will feature local men who cook, live music, and a silent auction of area artists' works. Ticket proceeds benefit the Arts Council of Northeast Louisiana's programs and services. This year’s popular event will feature a wide array of delicious food served by prominent area professionals and businessmen who generously volunteer their time and talents. Location: Blend of the Bayou 2110 Island Drive, Monroe Hours: 5:00 PM - 7:00 PM

Minden Makers Fair Our mission is to "unite all people through the arts" and with this event we plan to do just that. We invite the public to experience WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2021 177

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TOP 20 UNDER 40

TREASURE HUNTER

MOTHER KNOWS

RAISING THE OYSTER BAR

CREAM OF THE CROP

DENIM DREAMIN’

CELEBRATING LITTLE THEATRE

WILD HORSES

JOIE DE VIVRE

EAR CANDY

PLUM PROSECCO SPLASH

MAKING THE MARK