Foreword
In1950 when the Venerable Pope Pius XII defined the dogma of Our Lady’s Assumption, there was a great deal of enthusiasm in the Catholic world. The devout faithful were jubilant; priests were vying with each other to preach more eloquently on the privileges of our heavenly Mother; and theologians were delving deeper into the writings of the Fathers to discover perhaps still further treasures of grace that Divine Providence might be holding in store for future dogmatic definitions. The titles “Co-Redemptrix” and “Mediatrix of All Grace” were on the lips of many.
Less than two decades later, after the Second Vatican Council, things had changed. When I was young, I can remember an older gentleman telling me of how, one day after the Council, a priest held up a rosary from the pulpit and said: “We don’t need this anymore!” Like so many other areas in the life of the Church, Marian devotion was entering a long, dark winter from which it has not yet recovered. And yet, three centuries ago, St Louis-Marie de Montfort wrote that, as the end of the world draws closer, devotion
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to Mary should not decrease but rather increase. So, what could possibly explain the sudden drop in devotion to Mary, especially in light of the numerous apparitions in modern times, if not an attempt by the Enemy of human nature to get us away from the one he knows all too well to be as “awesome as an army with banners” (Sg 6:10) to him and his followers?
Satan hates Mary, for what he lost through pride, she won through humility. That is why there is an eternal enmity between them which was revealed at the very dawn of history: “I will put enmities between you and the woman…; she will crush your head” (Douay-Rheims Bible, Gn 3:15). The devil knows his time is running out to take souls to Hell, and so he redoubles his efforts and attacks, giving rise to cruel persecutions and laying snares for the faithful servants and true children of Mary, because he finds them more difficult to overcome than the rest. That is why we must have greater recourse to her, for she it is who leads the servants of Christ to victory.
St Louis-Marie de Montfort also tells us that Our Lady will raise up in the end times saints greater than those of previous times, because in those days, greater saints will be needed to face greater perils to the faith. Where will Mary find those souls if not among those most devoted to her Immaculate Heart and her virtues of humility and purity?
This amazing little book by Peter Kahn encourages us all to ask Our Lady for the grace to become one of those saints.
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Let us not be afraid to take up the challenge of promoting her honour and leading souls to her. And should there be anyone infected with that unhealthy fear of taking away from Jesus by praying to Mary, let us reassure them that Jesus is no unnatural Son and that any prayer we make to Mary, any honour we give to her, does not decrease, but rather increases his own glory. Jesus and Mary are one. Let us not separate what God has united. The author quotes St Maximilian Kolbe as saying: “Never be afraid of loving the Blessed Virgin too much. You can never love her more than Jesus did.” St Bernard of Clairvaux had already said, “De Maria numquam satis”: “Of Mary we can never say enough.” All of us would do well to remember those words. As the battle for the Church, which is really a battle for souls, intensifies, let us have ever greater recourse to our Mother, the Virgo potens – “Virgin most powerful” – confident that under her immaculate mantle we will take part in the victory.
Dom Pius Mary Noonan, O.S.B.
Notre Dame Priory, Colebrook, Tasmania
12th December 2022
Feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe
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Preface
The inspiration for this book stems in part from a comment that Dom Pius Mary Noonan (see the foreword on pages 8-9) made to me many years ago during a retreat which comprised of five days of spiritual exercises. He observed that I had not said much to him about Our Lady in my reflections on my life. His remark stayed with me long after other memories of the retreat faded, influencing my ongoing relationship with Our Lady.
At a certain point I found myself exploring ideas for a possible book. The original inspiration was to write a book that recounted the life of Our Lady, but I found that my subject eluded me. During my explorations, though, I became intrigued by the varied ways that different saints experienced their relationship with Jesus’s mother. As noted below, the aim of this book is to help readers come closer to Mary, and thus to live more profoundly with Christ’s own life. The book mainly consists of stories from the lives of the saints, stories that tell of ways in which the saints were connected to Mary.
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When writing a biography, though, one of the key things an author usually does is to gather testimony from those who had personally known the subject. Mary is not a myth: she is a living person. The saints are those who have known her well. Even if the book does not directly offer a life of Our Lady, an account of the saints’ experience of Mary as their mother has a great deal to offer in biographical terms. Mary’s incredible tenderness shines through again and again, for instance, as does the utmost care she takes for all her children. She remains ever responsive to her son, Jesus.
I am grateful to all those who have made comments on previous drafts of this book. Thanks also go to my wife and sons for bearing with me while I was busy writing. I have not been able to include details of all the books that have been useful to me in my work on this book, but I am appreciative of the insights of many authors.
Peter Kahn
Palm Sunday, 2023
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Mary, the mother of Jesus, appeared to three young shepherds in Fátima, Portugal, several times during 1917. Lúcia dos Santos and her cousins Francisco and Jacinta Marto saw a vision of a woman brighter than the sun who was clothed in a white shawl edged with gold. The children quickly came to develop a natural rapport with the lady. Once when Lúcia was upset, Jacinta said to the other two, “The Lady will help us always. She’s such a good friend of ours!”1 This closeness to “the Lady”, Our Lady, spilled over into a closeness to her son. After one of the apparitions, Lúcia told Francisco that Jesus would join the final apparition. Francisco’s response was to say, “Oh, how wonderful! I’ve only seen Him twice, and I love Him so much!”2
It is as if Jesus was a new friend to the three seers. It is no surprise that Francisco and Jacinta have both been
1 Fr Louis Kondor (Ed.) Fatima in Lucia’s own words (Secretariado dos Pastorinhos, 2007) p. 50.
2 Ibid., p. 149.
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Such a good friend of ours
canonised as saints, while Lúcia’s cause is in progress. What would it be like if each of us could experience a similarly deep connection with Mary and Jesus?
Saint Thérèse of Lisieux, meanwhile, came to be close to Mary as a young girl when growing up in late-nineteenthcentury France. She once recalled a time when she had visited the church of Our Lady of Victories in Paris. Speaking of Our Lady, she said, “I realised that she watched over me, that I was her child, and so I could not give her any name but Maman, because that seemed so much more tender than ‘Mother’.”3 St Thérèse had lost her mother as a four-year-old some years earlier. Perhaps the way that St Thérèse came to see Our Lady as her mother was something exceptional –but, then again, perhaps not?
The mother of all Christians
It is, of course, the teaching of the Church that Mary is not only the mother of Jesus but also the mother of all his followers. Even still, it is one thing to hear a statement such as this, but something quite else to live in light of it. If we are to grow into a tender appreciation of Mary as our mother, in our own turn, it will help if we can appreciate that this teaching goes right back to the very beginnings of the Christian faith. This teaching is fundamental to what it means to be a follower of Christ.
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3 Fr John Saward, “St Thérèse’s Teacher: Our Lady of the Little Way”, Homiletic and Pastoral Review, 1st October 2011.
In John’s Gospel, at the crucifixion, Jesus gave the beloved disciple, St John, to Mary as her son, and he gave Mary to the disciple as his mother:
When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple whom he loved standing nearby, he said to his mother, “Woman, behold, your son!” Then he said to the disciple, “Behold, your mother!” And from that hour the disciple took her to his own home. (Jn 19:26-27)
Jesus spoke first to Mary rather than to the disciple. The effect is to suggest that it is first of all St John who is given to Mary rather than the other way around. Indeed, it is hard to imagine any widow in the entire Bible who was less in need of being consigned to the care of someone outside her family than Mary. Whenever Mary is mentioned in the Gospels, she is present in the company of other family members, whether that of her son, husband, cousin, nephews, sister-in-law or relatives in general. Something other than a desire on Jesus’s part to care for his mother must have been going on.
Jesus used the term “woman” to address his mother. Eve is the only other person in the Bible, apart from Mary, who is ever called “Woman”. Genesis indicates that Eve was given her name “because she was the mother of all living”
(3:20). St John was the first person to notice this parallel that Jesus made between his mother and Eve. It is traditionally understood that St John was the author of the Book of Revelation. We read there that a woman clothed with the
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sun appeared as a great sign in heaven and that she “gave birth to a male child, one who is to rule all the nations with a rod of iron” (Rv 12:5). The scene ends with the dragon going on to “make war on the rest of her offspring, on those who keep the commandments of God and hold to the testimony of Jesus” (Rv 12:17). John set up a parallel with Genesis, not only with the reference to a woman, but also by highlighting the enmity between the serpent and the woman and the enmity between the serpent and the offspring of the woman. St John evidently understood that Jesus regarded his mother as the Second Eve, as the mother of all who are brought to life through his redemptive suffering on Calvary.
A living person who loves us
The aim of this book is to help readers come closer to Mary, and thus to live more profoundly with Christ’s own life. The book mainly consists of stories from the lives of the saints, stories that tell of ways in which the saints experienced Mary as their mother. It is true, of course, that Mary is one of the saints as well, but she is nonetheless set apart from the rest of the saints as the Mother of God, as the mother of the one who is to rule all the nations.
The book’s chapters are framed by scriptural texts that concern Mary’s life on earth, and they also integrate within them accounts of the origins of Marian devotions. As well as filling out our understanding of what it means to take Mary as one’s mother, consideration of these texts and accounts
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will allow us to see with clarity that a relationship with Mary is an integral aspect of the Christian faith. Each of the chapters opens a window onto what is entirely possible in the life of any Christian. There is nothing that is more natural in this world than to have a close relationship with one’s own mother.
St Maximilian Kolbe was in born in Poland at the end of the nineteenth century. He became a Franciscan friar and was killed in the Auschwitz concentration camp as part of a reprisal for the escape of another inmate. As a devoted apostle of the Virgin Mary, St Maximilian was keenly aware that Our Lady is a person who is alive. He wrote that, with Mary, “one is not coping with an abstract problem to be deciphered, but with a living person who loves us”. He similarly once reminded a German official, after an initial period of being confined in an internment camp, that “the Most Holy Virgin Mary is not a fairy tale or a legend, but a living being who loves each one of us”. We will see across this book that she finds many ways to be close to all her children.
Hands and feet
In the Holy Trinity fresco, Our Lady both points out St John to the viewer and points towards Jesus on the cross. The fresco provides an invitation to reflection for the viewer, as the scene cannot be taken in all at once. For instance, if you look closely, you can see the feet of God the Father, as if he too, like Mary and John, was standing near to the
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cross. The hands of the Father support the weight of the cross. The painting is a study of hands and feet. The Spirit, meanwhile, is present between the Father and the Son in the form of a white dove. Indeed, it seems that the painting was particularly aimed at those who had come into the church to ponder on life and death. The painting is located opposite a door that opens onto a cloistered graveyard; it is what one first sees on entering the church from the cemetery. This book, in its turn, offers the reader an opportunity to reflect on this scene in which Jesus established a relationship between his mother and St John.
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