I have to remember we are all at different stages in our lives and me being 40 something, my life choices are going to be different then a 30 year old. For me it's not all about me looking like a rock star anymore…..having the best butt or having the cutest BF. I'm so much more focused on having a fulfilling life with amazing adventures, living a healthy life, being as fit as I can be without killing myself, finding and keeping GOOD friends, finding a life partner who I am happy with and…