SWINGER LIFESTYLE DEFINITIONS - Lifestyle words that begin with S

Swinger Definitions...Knowing the Lifestyle

S&M Sadism/Masochism. Sexual arousal through pain and/or humiliation
SAFE someone not at risk for becoming or causing pregnancy; can also designate someone purported to be free of sexually transmitted infections
SAFE SEX narrowly defined as the use of condoms for penetration
SAME ROOM denotes in a profile that the couple intend on having sex in the same room as their partner. If soft-swap it may indicate monogamous sex in parallel play
SAMS Single Awesome Males. Men in the Lifestyle that are attractive and desirable and have established a reputation as respectful and highly accomplished sexual partners. They are differentiated from Bulls and Jackrabbits in their ability to perform admirably beyond just the bedroom (See Top 21 Reasons Why Lifestyle SAMs Are So Rare and So Popular)
SBF Single Black Female
SBiF Single Bisexual Female
SBiM Single Bi Male
SBM Single Black Male
SINGLE a swinger without a partner, presumed to be single, but may be married with (or without) consent
SLUT CARD (or SOCIAL CARD) swinger business card that has your profile name from Swinger Social Network and other personal information you wish to reveal such as your real name, e-mail addresses, telephone numbers, etc.
SLUTWEAR lingerie, party clothes, stripper clothes, underwear, thongs, sarongs, wraps and other clothing that accentuates naughty bits and is easily removed. Clothing suited for swinger parties or lifestyle clubs. Often requiring a change of clothes or covering as it is often unsuitable for any public setting or venue other than a lifestyle party. It includes lingerie, underwear, thongs, sarongs, wraps and other clothing that accentuates naughty bits and is easily removed.
SNOWBALLING is the sexual act in which one person takes semen into their mouth (usually after he ejaculates the whole load into their mouth during oral sex) and then they pass it back to the mouth of the man who came or some other person either through kissing or (snow) dropping; see depiction here (read more)
SOCIAL CLUB normally a private club requiring membership that includes swinging activities. Club may be a physical brick-and-mortar location or it may be a virtual organization that meets in various impermanent public settings. Attendance is often restricted to couples and is by invitation only.
SODOMY non-coital, especially anal or oral, copulation-like act, especially between males or between male persons; anal sex
SOFT SWAP couples exchanging partners for sexual activity; normally they do not engage in coital penetration with anyone but their own partner. However they may engage in kissing, touching, massage, oral sex, and female bisexual activities. Normally done by newbies in the same room (more)
SPERM COMPETITION evolutionary adaptation by males to increase their chances of fertilizing a female; in the swing lifestyle refers to men who ejaculate copious amounts of semen long distance in conjunction with the tactical method of driving the penis harder, deeper and longer in a woman to remove another male’s sperm from the vagina, usually after a cuckold or a gangbang session
SPERM HOARDING the male sexual practice of denying oneself climax in order to avoid ejaculation; the purpose of sperm hoarding (in contrast to edging) is to ensure that one can continue to have erections later with other partners and save the semen for them
SPHINX groomed pubic hair (via waxing or shaving) of the female pubis until completely bare, thus resembling the breed of domestic hairless cat breen known as Sphinx (bald pussy); see also LANDING STRIP, BERMUDA TRIANGLE
SPIT ROAST slang term naming a threesome sexual position; term describes an individual (normally a female) who is positioned on hands and knees while sexually penetrated either vaginal or anal on one end while performing fellatio on a second male in front of her; position resembles a rotisserie skewer with two cocks on each end of woman
SQUIRTING female ejaculation; refers to the expulsion of clear fluid by women from the paraurethral ducts through and around the urethra during intense G-spot orgasms. The precise cause and composition of the fluid is debated by medical professionals.
SSN Swinger Social Network; premiere national swinger lifestyle website for finding real people who are real swingers who enjoy the lifestyle in a safe and secure network
STI (OR STD) - SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED INFECTION a modern term replacing the more narrow definition of sexually transmitted disease. STI is now preferred, as it has a broader range of meaning, e.g. a person may be infected, and may potentially infect others for years without ever showing signs of a disease. The even older term of venereal disease was a label of moral censor which often precluded needed treatment.
STR or ST8 straight, a heterosexual person, male or female; can also (rarely) refer to a person who does not use drugs; also used by some to denote those that do not engage in any alternative lifestyle sex or swinging
STRAP ON refers to a dildo designed to be worn by means of a harness
STUNT COCK refers to males who are called in (often randomly) to fulfill a specific role or function for a special sex act or sexual fantasy, e.g. second cock for a DP or one of the males for a gang bang; can also refer to males who perform far above the normal expectation simply for show or to ingratiate themselves with sex partners
SUBMISSIVE passive, wishes to be dominated, willing to receive corrective training
SUMATA term (Japanese) for a non-penetrative sex act; literally "bare crotch.” Sumata is a form of frottage, performed by rubbing the penis with hands, thighs (intercrural sex), and labia majora
SWALLOWING act of maintaining oral stimulation of the penis during fellatio by swallowing your partner’s sperm as he ejaculates during oral sex. Highly desired by most males for its sensory overload. Contact Swinger Social Network directly and ask for Johann if you’d like to practice this technique.
SWAPPING couples exchanging partners for the purposes of sex
SWF Single White Female
SWINGER one who engages in recreational sex
SWINGER'S TRIANGLE refers to the patch of skin on the coccyx shaped like a triangle that does not tan; occurs during repeated use of tanning beds, popular with swingers, due to reduced blood flow on this pressure point while tanning if one does not change position
SWINGING non-monogamous sexual behavior in which partners in a committed relationship agree to engage in sexual activities with others as recreational activity. Swinging can take place in a number of contexts, ranging from a spontaneous sexual activity at an informal social gathering of friends to a swingers' club and can involve internet-based introduction services such as Swinger Social Network (SSN). The term “wife swapping” is highly criticized as male-centric and does not accurately describing the full range of sexual activities in which couples may take part. For a more complete description see What is Swinging?
SWITCH a swinger will perform both as a Dom or a Sub
SWM Single White Male
SYBIAN refers to a large powerful vibrator mounted on a saddle that women can ride

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