www.fgks.org   »   [go: up one dir, main page]

Oklahoma teacher names son after student killed in tornado

Sue Ogrocki / AP

Jennifer Rogers, left, and her husband Nyle Rogers, right, smile as they hold their baby Jack Nicolas Rogers, in their home in Edmond, Okla., Tuesday, Jan. 14, 2014.

OKLAHOMA CITY — The school's wall collapsed onto Jennifer Doan Rogers as she desperately tried to protect her third-grade students as a tornado ripped through their Oklahoma community. The young teacher had laid one of her hands on Nicolas McCabe, a 9-year-old with an infectious grin.

But it wasn't enough to protect him.

The monstrous tornado leveled part of Plaza Towers Elementary School in Moore, killing six of her students — including Nicolas — last spring. Rogers, who was eight weeks pregnant at the time, lay buried under the rubble with a broken back.

"He was actually the closest one to me, that I had my hand on, that didn't make it," she said.

Seven months later, Rogers gave birth to a boy. She named him after Nicolas.

Rogers, 31, said she had been thinking about it for some time. She was unsure if it would bring her more sadness to name her own son after her former student, a little boy who loved riding his go-kart and, according to his father, never met a stranger. He also was very close to his mother.

Ultimately, Rogers said, she and her husband decided on Jack Nicolas.

The new mother hoped her infant son, who was born in December, would help in her recovery from the injuries — both physical and emotional — that she suffered during the storm. The top-tier EF5 tornado, with winds exceeding 200 mph, ripped a 17-mile path of devastation through the Oklahoma City suburb on May 20. The storm killed 24 people and destroyed dozens of homes and buildings, including two elementary schools.

Nicolas' father, Scott McCabe, struggles to talk about losing his only son. But he said that Nicolas, regardless of someone's age or gender, would befriend them. He often shared his lunches with his friends.

Learning that Nicolas' teacher was naming her own son after his brought a wave of emotions, McCabe said.

"It's real hard. He was my only son. I mean I'm honored, yes, but she was the last one to touch Nicolas," McCabe said as he broke down in tears. "I don't know how to put it, she was the last one to see my little boy. And it's still kind of hard."

Rogers, too, is still recovering. She suffered a fractured spine and sternum. She refused pain medication for fear it would harm her baby, and she wore a back brace for several weeks.

"It was a lot harder than my other pregnancies, for sure," said Rogers, who also has two daughters, ages 6 and 3. "I was so limited. I couldn't do a whole lot. For a while after everything happened I was in a full brace and carrying him and it just, I mean, it was rough."

But she is determined to complete the necessary work to go back into the classroom. Though she knows it will be tough, she said she hopes to get approval to return to teaching next school year — at Plaza Towers.

The school is being rebuilt, this time with reinforced safe rooms that can withstand powerful storms.

"I just feel like there's a lot of me in there still," Rogers said. "I would think it's hard at the same time, but it'll be a new year and a new building."

Discuss this post

OKLAHOMA STRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Pray for my brothers and sisters in Moore.

You will carry on Nicolas's love of life and people through your Nicolas.

  • 5 votes
Reply#1 - Wed Jan 29, 2014 8:19 PM EST

Such a sad and happy story at the same time. Bless you Mrs. Rogers you did all that you could do.

  • 5 votes
#1.1 - Wed Jan 29, 2014 9:55 PM EST

what exactly does Oklahoma Strong mean?

    #1.3 - Thu Jan 30, 2014 8:04 PM EST
    Reply

    May God bless you all.

    • 4 votes
    Reply#2 - Wed Jan 29, 2014 8:46 PM EST

    May God bless Mrs. Rogers, and her young son, Nicholas. I pray she will find health and wholeness once again, and that she can bring love love and teaching to many more young Oklahomans.

    And, I pray for Nicholas' dad, who will suffer from a terrible grief for the rest of his life. I hope he can find some solace in knowing that his young son so touched the life of one of his teachers that she wanted to think of him always, whenever she saw her own child.

    He must have been quite a young boy! Attaboy, Dad!!! He lives on through the lives of those whom he touched. Good job!!!

    And I pray for Governor Fallon of Oklahoma, who has publicly announced her opposition to new laws that would have mandated "Safe Rooms" in every Oklahoma (aka. "the middle of Tornado Alley") school.

    Seems like a small price to pay to ensure that fewer young Nickolases are lost, or to avoid the terrible damage that his passing has brought to so many innocent lives.

    • 3 votes
    Reply#3 - Wed Jan 29, 2014 9:43 PM EST

    Oklahoma House Representative Joe Dorman's petition initiative "Take Shelter Oklahoma" hopes to remediate Fallon's neglect. He is also running for governor and everyone that is interested in ensuring Oklahoma's precious public school students are safe when another tornado hits needs to lend him their support. This need never happen again.

    • 1 vote
    Reply#4 - Wed Jan 29, 2014 10:21 PM EST

    A good story for once and one that is true. Congrats to all. What a beautiful baby!!

    • 2 votes
    Reply#5 - Thu Jan 30, 2014 12:17 AM EST

    I'd like more stories of REAL heroes - like Jennifer...May little Nicolas rest in peace...

    • 3 votes
    Reply#6 - Thu Jan 30, 2014 1:24 AM EST

    Too many people use the word "hero" too loosely to describe a famous musician or athlete, but in this case, it was well earned. My congratulations go out to the new parents, but my prayers go out to the father of Nicholas. While his son will never be replaced, he is an example of the best this world has to offer.

    • 2 votes
    Reply#7 - Thu Jan 30, 2014 1:42 AM EST

    Very nicely stated Cindy. Being a father of a young nine year old daughter myself, and at 51 years of age, this story brings tears to my eyes.

    My heart goes out to Mr. McCabe. I hope both families can find solace regarding Nicolas.

    This story also reminds me of some words, from a very wise man, whom I believe expressed it best...

    "I feel how weak and fruitless must be any word of mine which should attempt to beguile you from the grief of a loss so overwhelming." {Abraham Lincoln}

      #7.1 - Thu Jan 30, 2014 10:15 AM EST
      Reply

      Wonderful story! Now that the state legislators in the South are done praising the teachers who go above and beyond protecting their students from tornadoes (as in Oklahoma and Alabama), and staying overnight at school with them to protect them from winter storms (as in Atlanta metro area), they can go back to slashing education budgets and vilifying the teachers and the public school systems.

      • 2 votes
      Reply#8 - Thu Jan 30, 2014 2:17 AM EST

      Thank you Mrs Rogers for your heroic actions and congratulations to you and your husband for your little bundle of joy. To all the students who passed, rest in peace little angels...

      • 2 votes
      Reply#9 - Thu Jan 30, 2014 8:20 AM EST
      You're in Easy Mode. If you prefer, you can use XHTML Mode instead.
      As a new user, you may notice a few temporary content restrictions. Click here for more info.