Marriage is Becoming Obsolete...Or Is It?
EmBodyPoliticThe media coverage over the last week would have one think that Americans are racing to trade in the clang of wedding bells for the sweet sound of independence… or at least cohabitation (“shacking-up”). A Pew Research study released Thursday documented the continued decline of traditional marriage and a rise in cohabitation and remaining single. The study also found that when asked ,“Some people say that the present institution of marriage is becoming obsolete—do you agree or disagree?” about 39 percent of survey respondents agreed, 58 percent disagreed, and 4 percent did not know. This statistic garnered national attention. Writers and radio and television personalities asked experts and lay persons alike what this meant for the way Americans conceptualize themselves, their goals and values, and their intimate relationships. I agree that the institution of marriage is undergoing a change in America but let’s back-up: are we are attributing too much significance to a single indicator?