Jewish
Dining Etiquette
For
the Jews, sacrifice is the only way to worship God. With the destruction
of the Temple in the year 70 C.E., the priests could no longer offer
sacrifices. Therefore, the Rabbis had to find symbols that could
serve as substitutes to meet the people's needs. It became the job
of every Jew to perform rituals, which reminded them of the sacrifices.
Since the sacrifices frequently involved eating, the most obvious
time for such reminders was at meals. The rabbis therefore included
rituals, which made the eating process more than just a physical
function for survival.
Hand-washing
The rabbis ordered all Jews to wash their hands ritually before
eating so as to make them remain ritually pure. This also reminded
them that the priests also washed their hands before performing
the sacrifices.
Blessing
Before Eating
Before the Jews have to say a blessing before eating. There are
specific blessings for fruit (Blessed are you Adonai, our God, Ruler
of the world, who creates the fruit of trees), vegetables (Blessed
are you, Adonai, our God, Ruler of the world, who creates the fruit
of the ground), and non-bread grain products (Blessed are You, Adonai,
Ruler of the world, who creates varieties of foods). Meat, fish,
and dairy products are all covered under a single blessing (Blessed
are you, Adonai, our God, Ruler of the world, by whose word everything
was created.)
Grain
Sacrifice
As part of the daily grain sacrifice, the priests offered bread
with salt. The Rabbis thus declared that bread was the food, which
defined a meal. The Jews can eat a lot of other foods, but until
they eat bread, they haven't eaten an official meal; they haven't
made a full sacrifice-substitute. Traditionally, the Jews begin
each meal by eating a piece of bread sprinkled with salt, a direct
reminder of the daily grain sacrifice. Before they eat bread, of
course, they say a blessing: "Blessed are You, Adonai, our
God, Ruler of the world, the Bringer of Bread from the earth."
Once they have said the blessing over bread, they don't have to
say a blessing over any other food; the Bread Blessing covers all
other foods.
The
Rabbis added another meaning to the ritual of eating bread with
salt. Salt will not spoil. It lasts forever. By using salt, they
are saying that their relationship with God will last forever. It
is another emphasis on the miracle of eating and the wonder of being
a Jew.
While
Eating
So, by first washing our hands like the priests did, saying a specific
blessing, and eating bread sprinkled with salt, they have made a
simple meal into a sacrifice-substitute. The Jews emphasize that
food is a miracle from God by not talking from the time they wash
their hands to the time they say the blessing and eat the salt-sprinkled
bread. The silence gives them an added chance to think about they
relationship with God.
Blessing
After Eating
Any meal calling for the blessing over bread traditionally ends
with a series of four blessings (originally three) praising and
thanking God. This collection of prayers is called Birkat HaMazon,
the Blessing of Sustenance. It fulfills the Torah commandment found
in Deuteronomy 8:10, "You will eat, be satisfied, and bless
to Adonai your God for the good land which He has given you."
If
bread is not eaten, there are two different forms of blessing after
eating, depending on the nature of the food consumed. For food prepared
from the five species of grain (wheat, barley, rye, oats, and spelt),
wine, or the fruits found in the land of Israel (grapes, figs, olives,
pomegranates, and dates) a short summary of the Grace after Meals
is said. This is in the form of one benediction with insertions
for the type of food eaten. This is called in the Talmud B'rachah
Me'ein Shalosh, "the blessing summarizing the three."
For any other food a short benediction is recited.
Different
Views Upon Sacrifices
On one hand, many modern Liberal Jews don't think it is very important
to remember the Temple and the sacrifices. They believe that those
"good old days" were not very good. The noise of the animals,
the smell of blood, and the idea that a special group (priests)
served as go-betweens with God, offend them. So they don't like
to perform rituals which remind them of the sacrifices.
One
the other hand, many people think that it is important to make eating
special. They are more than just animals stuffing their faces. People
often try to make meals special. Some people put flowers on the
table. Some light candles. Talented cooks put the food on the plates
in beautiful arrangements. Most families have rules about sitting
together at meals and talking.
The
Yo Yo Diet of the Jewish Calendar Year
The Jews' holidays are all linked to either eating (usually over-eating)
or fasting. Here is a list of the Jewish calendrical year as it
relates to food:
Rosh Hashanah -- Feast
Tzom Gedalia -- Fast
Yom Kippur -- More fasting
Sukkot -- Feast
Hashanah Rabbah -- More feasting
Simchat Torah -- Keep feasting
Month of Heshvan -- No feasts or fasts for a whole month. Get a
grip on themselves
Hanukkah -- Eat potato pancakes
Tenth of Tevet -- Do not eat potato pancakes
Tu B'Shevat -- Feast
Fast of Esther -- Fast
Purim -- Eat pastry
Passover -- Do not eat pastry
Shavuot -- Dairy feast (cheesecake, blintzes etc.)
17th of Tammuz -- Fast (definitely no cheesecake or blintzes)
1st of Av to the 9th of Av--Dairy products; abstain from meat.
Tisha B'Av -- Very strict fast (don't even think about cheesecake
or blintzes)
Month of Elul -- End of cycle. Enroll in Center for Eating Disorders
before the High Holidays arrive again.
|